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what is the best non painful way to commit suicide?

There is no non-painful way w/ suicide because you'd also be hurting the ones who are close to you.

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Hi,
I am a 17/f. I live in a tiny town, full of older people... and in my pre.k to 12 school, there aren't a whole lot of good friends. I am not saying that there aren't people,there are.. there just aren't very many that don't smoke, aren't jerks, won't stab you in the back, wreck havoc, and so on. I have never had any (what I consider) real friends that a person can rely on. Until.. I met this one new girl, several years ago, we were best friends for several years, then she dumped me for my brother Whom she dates, sucks faces with, sleeps with, and excetera excetera. My mom who I live with (my parents are divorced) doesnt seem to care about what I think/do no matter how many times I confront her. She has a boyfriend now (he seems sort of decent) that she spends almost every spare minute with alongside my little sister (who is twelve, but acts like a baby and has my mother on the end of her pinky).
Anyhow, I really need someone I can just hang out with, be myself with, who will make me laugh, and help me smile more. I really wish I could meet some different people, get out there, find a boyfriend maybe, and yeah.. theres not much to do in a little town.
Sometimes I want to go to the city, but I want someone close to my own age to go with me. I am not a very depressed person. I draw,bake,crochet,sew,design,bike ride,play sports,play with my dog, and listen to music. I am very artistic. I just need something more exciting in my life. All these simple things are getting boring. And no, there aren't any clubs or sports that I can be involved in. What to do what to do...

First of all, i'd totally hang out with you if we lived close haha :] & second, I know what it's like to live in a small town. I live in a small town and sometimes i'm ready to rip my hair out. I have always loved the city too, so it's hard sometimes. I'm getting my license soon, so I can travel around then. I agree with that other person when they say try & get a job. Just keep your hopes up, girl, it'll get better :]

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15/f

There are these two guys, whom i am kinda close with. I don't understand why they keep going back to this other girl who is fake and rude, but gorgeous. They seem to rather talk to her then me. There's nothing wrong me, I'm pretty and everything too. But they seem to go to her always because shes really pretty (lots of makeup). It hurts me because I'm bring a good friend and shes not, yet shes still getting the attention. What can I do to be the one they choose to go to instead of her? I understand that i am strictly on a friend's basis, and she is probably on a relationship basis. I dont know, any advice?

Okay, first of all, you shouldn't ever change yourself for a guy to like you. I know this sounds corny, but you want someone who will like you for who you are. Sadly, most guys want anything they know they can touch. If they don't see who the better person is, well, move on, girl :] Good Luck!

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What are some cool online stores that sell cute clothes? Stuff along the lines of Forever21, Delias, or whatever...

You can find anything you could probably imagine on Ebay, but I would recommend Victoria's Secret online catalog. They have incredibly adorable clothing :] They have a loungewear/casual section called "Pink", also.

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Hi! okay so on friday it will be me and my boyfriend's one year together:), we decided to make presents for each other so thats not my question my question is is there anything i can do to make our day a little more special? any suggestions would be apreciated. and please do not give me sex advice, i'm o my period so it kida sucks but theres not much i can do in that area.
Thanks a Million

H.

I would suggest a candlelit dinner w/ soft music :] During the dinner, exchange the gifts. That should really make it special. Also, for the gifts, make it something meaningful. Good Luck!

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when people say that something is "overated" what do they mean by that???

Many people have already answered this, but i'll answer, anyway haha :] Overrated means that something is too talked about. Like, there's too much extended excitement over something. For example, Myspace: Thousands of people use Myspace & hundreds of people mention it daily.

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i jack off to feel like someone loves me, and get rid of the wanting of sex...temporarily.

I can't seem to get any lately and its bothering me.

it sucks.

male-17

No answer.

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