Question Posted Saturday January 12 2008, 12:30 pm
ok so im the only girl on our schools basketball team and im the biggest tomboy in our whole school actualy im the only one anyway my friend (who is a boy all of my friends are boys except one) and i were shopping for school suplies and he asked me out i was so nervise i said that i would think about it i dont really like him for more as a friend he is cute but i wouldnt date him i just want to know what to do can you guys help thanks
MissKhalili answered Saturday January 12 2008, 2:01 pm: well if you dont really like him then you shouldnt go out with him. the next time you talk to him just say "your really nice and everything but i just only think of you as a friend"
there isnt really anything else you can do. just say how you feel. dont force yourself into a relationship you dont want to be in.
orphans answered Saturday January 12 2008, 1:29 pm: If you want to stay just friends, keep it simple, tell him that you rather be friends without dating becasue your not ready for a relationship or that you don't want that to ruin or interfere with the friendship you guys have now. It probably won't hurt his feelings or e-go if you put it in a nice and friendly way, just don't stop talking to him afterwards, you might give him the wrong impression that you don't want any sort of relationship with him.
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