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well ive liked this guy for like 5 months now, and so much has been hapening, now i like other guys 2, but its like i dont know like i still have some feelings about that guy i liked for 5 months, i still care for him. but now i like this other guy and he just broke up with my friend and today i walked up to him and he was like "hey sexie, and put his arm around me and said ur my gurlfriend now" but he was joking probably, well i really like him too, but that other guy i still have feelings for him too, and its like i like him too. but he flirts with every gurl and i just dont know what to do about it.
plz help me.
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well its kinda ur choice but if i was you then i woudlnt go out wid him because he is a player! i kno these types of guys they are bad for you and they hurt you sooo much i only kno because this happened to me and i felt really bad afterwards like i was used i felt cheated

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i have this friend thats not very cool and no one really knows her...but she cuts herself..she showed me today and i started wondering why she would do that...i told my friend about it cause were in office aid together and she was feeling bad for her..she also smokes pot...do u think i should still be friends with her or not? (link)
no because she might try to push you into doing pot and that will be bad

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I like this guy at my school. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's a senior and I'm a freshman. We are friends, and his best friend is my brother. I want to become more than friends, but I'm not sure if he does. My parents and my siblings don't think I should date or anything of that sort. This guy is not like any other guy I know. He's special, I just don't know how to tell him that. I'm also not sure if he likes me. Whenever he's doing something, he always persuades me to go. And if I'm not going to do something, he then says, "well then I'm not going." I don't want to say anything because that would be awkward at school and church. I'm not sure what to do, should I go for it and ask him or not!?!?! Sorry its so long! (link)
dont ask him girls should NEVER ask a boy out there not surposed to!!!!! if a boy really likes you he will ask you out or ask a friend of his to ask you ?s about him if you notice any signs of that he likes you but if not dont do anything just let mature take its coarse!!

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Ok, There is this one guy that I know and I've known that he has liked me for a while. The day I was finally going to say yea I found out that he had a girlfriend now. And I didn't really care. I still talk to him and everything and I can tell that he still really likes me. He always says how awesome I am and everything, and I don't know what to do. Because he is like flirting with me but he has a girlfriend. What do you think I should do? Help soon plz (link)
i had the same problem earlier this year and this is what it told him... you have to pick one girl to like i dont kare who it is i just dont want any girl to get hurt it worked like a charm let me kno how it goes on my feeback

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Ok, I wrote in earlier about the guy that hates me and everything. Well now he said that he is going to ask out this really discuting guy for me tomorrow in 1st period and I know he will. What can I do because I dont want to go out with this guy but I know that he will ask him. Someone please help me and plz hurry (link)
just tell this guy that the guy who asked you for me is lying because he just plain out hates me and tell him im sorry if i hurt you in any way but i just dont feel a connection or chemistry go easy on him dont hurt him!

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Across the street from me, an elderly couple sold their house and the people that bought it have two young boys, ages 4 and 7 I believe. They have asked me if I'd like to babysit for them and that's fine with me. I've babysat before but normally I'd do it free of charge. It's come the time where I'm getting older and I need to get money. I'll be driving in a year and my parents aren't going to be paying for my gas and car insurance. What would be a good amout of money to ask for? I don't want to be asking for too much. I'm 15/ female. (link)
i babysit and i ask for 10 dollars and SOMETIMES 15 dollars depending on if the people who are going to pay you could use the extra money or not

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I am in middle school, 13 years old, and there are some pretty cute boys there. Some boys only have one class with me and each class is about an hour long. Also I can't talk to them between classes (weird issues won't get into it). How do I attract their attention or flirt with them without getting in trouble? Just so you know I am a shy girl so try to answer with something that I might be willing to do. (link)
you can try to i.m them on aol and start by saying like "hey sexy" or something like that and get all flirty with him and the next day in skool if he didnt like it just say sorry that was my cousin lol

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ok well what if theres a guy you like but hes a grade younger than you like your in 9th grade and hes in 8th grade....does it make a big difference? i mean i want to tell him i like him but we are like best friends...its really hard (link)
it doesnt matter only love does if you love him and he loves you there shoudlnt be a problem

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14/F. Next time my dad goes to the movie store I get to pick a few movies. I prefer scary movies rated pg-13 or R. Movies I like were Saw and the Ring. I personally thought the Grudge was stupid. Any ideas? (I will take suggestions other then scary movies if they are good) (link)
hmmm... 5 good movies i liked were it,halloween,white noise,the lost,and gothika
try them and tell me what you think on my feeback

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I've seen in previous people asking questions about making out and kissing.. but i'm wondering something. What is the differance, if there is any, between "making out" and "french kissing"

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there is no difference they just call them different things

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I really like this guy but I cant tell if he likes me. Can a guy or someone tell me how to know if some one likes you!PLZ. hes always flirting with me and stuff but i cant tell!!!! (link)
have a close friend of you and him (girl or boy dont matter)call him on 3 way and you will pretend not to be there even tho you will (hit the mute button if you have one) if you dont then just be quiet and tell he or she to ask him who he likes

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I want to hang out with this guy that I like over vacation but i dont know how to ask him. Were like best friends but he has a girlfriend (but hes thinking of dumping her). I think he might like me, my friend thinks he has a "thing" for me but i cant tell. We dont talk on the phone much or hang out out of school. So how can I ask him to hang out? -Sandy S./13/f (link)
have a close friend of you and him (girl or boy dont matter)call him on 3 way and you will pretend not to be there even tho you will (hit the mute button if you have one) if you dont then just be quiet and tell her to tell him that you wanna hang out wid him

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wats the quickest way to get over a guy that you were with...wen you see him every day, and he still talks to u. But wat makes it worse is he has a new chic that hangs alll over him now...ya i dont no how to get him off my mind..wat du i do?? (link)
have a friend introduce you to some og his or her guy friends maybe you like one of them better then this guy who knos!!!

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So there is this guy that i like and that he tells me he likes me but yet he never talks to me and he is always with other girls and the other girls say that he says he likes them!! i really like this guy so what should i do? How can i find out who he really likes? (link)
ok this always works for me all you gotta do is ask a good friend (girl or boy doesnt matter) to call this guy on 3 way and your really gunna be there but he wont kno that (you pretend not to be there) if you have a mite button great use it if you dont then jsut really be really quiet and before you call plan out what your gunna have your friend ask him ****MAKE SURE THE PERSON YOU HAVE CALL THIS GUY IS A CLOSE FRIEND OF HIS****

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Hey guyz, I'm on the swim team, and I think I'm pretty good. I do great at practice, but then at swim meets I get so scared and I shake the whole way there. I LOVE swimming and it's my favorite sport and hobby. But how do I overcome my fear.

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just realize that your a great swimmer and everyone loves you! you should also go to like the ymca and swim alot and get used to it!

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ok my ex-best friend keeps non-stop talking behind my back and saying how bitchy i am ( even though i'm not) and she keeps telling this guy i like bad things about me, some are true and some aren't and she is getting on my nerves and i just don't know what to do because she was my best friend until christmas break ( which was when i found out when she told all this crap about me) i can't ignore her because she's in my group of friends... what should i do??? by the way we're both 14 and female... (link)
you can tell that she is jealous of you and the way you are because the only reason why some one would talk bad about you was because they are jealous and you should also tell her you found out about her talking stuff about you if she doesnt already kno

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Ok, this summer my best friend and I had a fight and it ended out friendship. (it was a bitter ending, we havent spoken to eachother since) Anyways, everyday at school, she doesnt talk to me and her friend told me that she hated me. The thing is, I dont hate her back, and I wish she wouldnt hate me. I want her to know that I still care about her even though we aren't friends, and I want to see how she is doing. So I found her livejournal link and do you think i should leave a comment? What should I say? (link)
yes leave a comment i mean one little comment could dave a friendship anyways just write this:

hello *her name*

i know this may seem weird to you but even tho we arent friends anymore i still do in fact care about you and other people are saying you hate me but i dont hate you back and i wish we never had that fight in the summer do you maybe think we could like start over our friendship?

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Hi guys,
Me and my husband have just moved into a new house...well, I say new, but it's actually ANCIENT. So ancient that we have no heating whatsoever!! The place was so expensive though that we can't afford to install heating for at least another year. The windows and doorways are all draughty too. So, my question is, as it is so cold at the moment, any tips of keeping warm other than the obvious 'put on another jumper'? (link)
yes there is another way buy those little electric heaters that you plug in the wall there price range is between 20-30$ at target you should buy one for your bedroom or even some other rooms that you spend alot of time in (i have these in my home and they work great)

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Okay so here is the deal, I think I like this kid in my class but I have been trying to make him say that he likes me because I am like way to shy just to ask him because this is my first ever true crush and I am like really sure he likes me back but I am not quite sure.So how do I either ask him if he likes me or figure out if he likes me before telling him I like him?And do not say ask a friend to ask him because I am the shy and mean bad girl type that has trouble making friends!Any help will be greatly appreciated and I will rate fives to anyone who will give me a helpful answer! (link)
well the way that always works for me is to call your friend have her 3 way this guy and ask him if he likes you or who he likes even tho you will be there just pretend your not (a good suggestion of a friend that will call this guy is a boy that is friends with this guy)

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theres this thing on my leg and its like 20 purpleish pinkish dots. i dont know wat it is. does any one know wat it is or how to get rid of it? thanx (link)
my grandmother had one of those before on her chest she went to the doctors to get it checked out and it was cancer she had to get it removed so i would go get it checked out before it turns into something worse if you know what i mean

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