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my best friend who i love like a sister ran away today to MY house! i told her to go back. but she wouldnt. finally i got her to call her dad and then a police officer came to pick her up and bring her home. now her mom and dad hate me because they think i told her to come to my house. i wasnt expecting her at all!! one minute i was talking to her on AIM then her away message said out. wont be back any time soon. then i heard a knock. but how can i get *especially her mom* to like me again? HELP! any useless answers will recieve a 1. any good answers will recieve a 5.

Write her parents a note. Tell her that you tried to convince her that she should go back, but she wouldn't listen. Tell them that you really care about your friend and that you tried to get her to do the right thing. Good luck!
♥ Brooke

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i had my period for about 3 months. i never told my mom because she died.. so now i have a step mom and we were never close. i was planning to wait until she asks me if i have it and then say yeah. but im afraid she'll never ask. if ur wondering how i get my pads i get them from my step sister. should i wait?? please help ASAP!!

If you don't want to tell her about it, then you don't have to. I think if you talked to her about this, it will bring you two closer together because, she went through the same thing.
♥ Brooke

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ok !i am having a really bad problem. well me and my boyfriend got into a serious arrgument today. he got mad at me cause he said that i was smiling at his friend. i am like omfg cant i even look at anyone.and on the bus today he broke up with me. then he called me and asked me if i would go back out with him. he apoligized and i said ok. well he called me and talked to me a while ago and i dont even think his sister likes me. so what should i do brake up with him or not? srry for this bein so long.
i will rate all 5's and give feedback for helpful answers only.

Your boyfriend is just jealous, but atleast he was nice enough to apologize. But jealousy sometimes means that one person doesn't trust the other. Without trust, there is no love. And the sister issue..who cares? You aren't dating her, so she doesn't necessarily have to like you. If you're not sure about the relationship..Maybe you should just take a break.
♥ Brooke

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I'm trying to lose some weight, and I haven't noticed any results. I havent been eating much and I've been exercising everyday for a while now. Is there any way to increase my metabolism? Good diets? Exercises? Anything helpful! Thanks~~~ :D

Eat more meals in smaller proportions. As for exercising, cardio is the best way to go. Try running or swimming.
♥ Brooke

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Ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 8 months. We havent really done n e thing but kissed except for once but i didnt finish so she didnt enjoy it as much as i think she could have. She says she wants to but i dont know if she really wants to do n e thing else and i really do. What should i do?

Talk to her, but don't pressure her into doing something she doesn't want to do. Respect her wishes.
♥ Brooke

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alright well there is this guy jeff who i used to date. after a bad break up we became really close friends, we told eachother everything and always laughed and had fun together. well he started talkin to my like everyday about a differant girl he liked, and honestly i didn't mind that much. i even gave him advice on rlationships, good advice. but if i said one word about a guy he always got mad and aggrivated. then one day he told me he liked me alot and would love to be my gf, so later on i asked him out. he said "i love you so much i can't stand a break up so friends with benefits???" well that was lame so i said no, just friends. then he got mad because he said i told him i liked him then asked to be just friends.... even though he did the exact same thing. well we forgave and forgot and he started talking about another girl and he asked who i would probably date because he heard that i liked some guy from my friend. i told him that i liked josh and he asked me out and i said yes.... jeff got mad and started calling me all these names and being so rude! i told him he was a selfish emotional loser... harsh but i was mad. then we forgave eachother and he said i love you i am sorry. now he is being really mean to me, always getting mad over nothing and if i get mad back he sucks up to me. so i told him that i was done with him, and we should just never talk again. after hearing him sob for a while i am beginning to think that i am the bitch? am i the mean one, or is he out of line?

p.s. im 14 f

This guy is totally out of line. Friends with benefits? You guys are 14 years old! If he's a true friend, he'll support you in your relationships just like you support him in his. He's just being a selfish jerk.
♥ Brooke

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14/f well once u stop getting discarge in ur underwear does that mean your going to get your period soon???

i rate high

Mmhm. :)
♥ Brooke

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I was wondering...what stores sell good sunglasses for teens at good prices. If you could tell me the price ranges that would be really helpful too. Thanks!

-PacSun = 17.50
-Wet Seal = 15.00
-Claires = 5-10.00
-Target = 5-12.00
-Wal*Mart
-Nordstroms
-After Thoughts
-Ice
-Hollister
-Aeropostale

Almost any store sells sunglasses.
♥ Brooke

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really weird problem - really need help. been with my bf for about 10 weeks.. everything is fine except the kissing. ever since we started going out hes know i've got a problem with it - i don't even know what it is myself but I just hate it! im really nervous and want to kiss him but... don't... at the same time! i get really worked up over it... once he got annoyed but he tries to be understanding... i really want to talk about it but what is there to say? what should i do??

Its natural to be scared of kissing. Wait until you're comfortable with it. If you don't want to wait, just keep doing it. Maybe you'll learn to love it and won't feel so weird about it.
♥ Brooke

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how long does it usually take for something ordered off the grattan website to get to you? because i ordered some clothes and i would like to get the before i go on holiday (on the 14th august).

It will usually arrive within 5-7 days, the day after you ordered it.
♥ Brooke

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okay i have this boyfriend & we have been going out for a long time. People have been trying to break us up but untill now it has never worked. My friend told me that my boyfriend wanted to break up with me, some people agree with her, few people agree with me. i LOVE my boyfriend & i never wanted anything to come between us. Now I dont know what to do.

Please help me. :(

If you love him, screw what everyone else think!
♥ Brooke

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my dad i really care for him but he dosnt no my b-day or anything about me he left when i was i was three have not seen in a year or two i relly care for and i still love even tho he has a alcolo probmelm and drugs and many more my mom has a oder of precettion and i can only see him when someone else is there what should i do i relly miss him and i dont no if him loves me please help me
xoxxo
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♥ Brooke

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What are the physical advantages of having medium/dark brown? Do you think that it brings out features such as your eyes, skin, etc?

I have dark brown hair. I think it brings out your eyes, especially if your eyes are light brown/hazel. If you're tan, your apperance will look 10x greater. P.S. - Brunettes have more fun. ;)
♥ Brooke

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i go to a school where sports mean alot..i have tried a bunch of differnet sports..but none of them work for me..i am tring to stay in shape..but i havent as much since i quit my last sport..i really want to try out for a sport this year..any ideas of which one i should pick..i'm not to good at sports ..but i'm detirmned to do this!

You should find out your strong points, athletically. Here's a few:
-Track/Cross Country
-Soccer
-Tennis
-Softball
-Basketball
-Cheerleading
-Volleyball
-Dance
I hope you find your sport!
&heart; Brooke

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14/f. I've read on the internet the signs of having depression. I fit many of them. Though I do not ALWAYS feel depressed and hopeless, it comes often. Certain things in my life have caused me pain, and then there's other times where I just feel horribly down, yet I can't point it to any certain cause at all. I don't feel close enough to either of my parents or anybody..come to think of it that I could tell about me having this problem. Yet, I do think that me getting help is a good idea, because I've become very close to doing something drastic more than once. Is there reason to suspect that I really do have a depression problem, or is it just teenage hormones? Is there a way for me to get help?

Try talking to a doctor to find out whats going on. Its most likely hormones.
♥ Brooke

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HEYY i was wondering how do you delete a myspace..i really need to delete mine!! thanks a lot i rate high

Log on, click "My Account Settings" and then click "Cancel My Account". Try logging on again to make sure it canceled it.
♥ Brooke

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i hvae one of those huge whitehead pimples on my cheek, and is it easier to put make-up on it if i pop it, or if i let it stay big? and what can i do to make it go away faster? i don't need any products, just should i pop it or wash it or leave it alone?

If you put make up on it, it could irritate it and make it even larger and more noticable. Just make sure you don't put make up on it and scrub your face every night. You should get something like AcneFree or something to help it go away.
♥ Brooke

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Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird?

I think it would be totally adorable. Depending on the girl, most would find it cute and sweet, but others would find it just plain weird. It shows that you thought about what you wanted to do and you thought about if she would want it or not, or if she would like it or not.
♥ Brooke

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I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 15. I know that it's ok and that I don't need a boyfriend to make me happy, but I really want one. I see how happy my friends are with their relationships and I just want to feel that special feeling, you know? I don't wanna sound conceited but i don't think looks are the main problem. My friends tell me that I'm not flirtatious and outgoing like them. Its just that I feel awkward being flirtatious and always question myself like omg he doesnt like me and stuff. How do I become more flirtatious and outgoing to get a boyfriend? thanks so much

I'm the exact same way! I don't think you should change your personality just to get a guy to look at you. Its completely stupid. I mean, you want a guy to like you for you right? So how can he like you for you when you're prentending to be like someone else? Just be youself and one day he'll find you.
♥ Brooke

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I just got a new dog and it is about 2 and i wanted to train it cuz its kinda hard with its jumping and stuff to be on my family all the time can anybody give me some free dog training tips sites plz and thanx

I don't know any sites but..With my dog, I used treats to get him to do what I wanted - sit, shake, high five, speak..That sort of stuff. You have to have a strict tone and be in total control. Hopefully I helped you out.
♥ Brooke

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