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Age: 17
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MY question is just basically what age do most teenagers have their first kiss? And what age do they get their first boyfriend? I'm fom a respectable family and I don't want to spoil my fam's name..but I really want to have a boyfriend BTW i'm 15/f.

My mum had her first bf like 18 or 19! And this is kinda weird...but I don't think I can't wait that long cause I mean most people i know have haad a bf and a first kiss! Please answer!!



Distressed! (link)
hi well i am 15 my birthday is and well i just had my first kiss like about 2 months ago im not a geek or anything its just that i have been having family problems so that kept me from having a boyfriend but my boyfriend that i had my first kiss with turned out to me a total jerk and alls he wanted was sex and i am still a virgin so i dumped him its all good now though so don't worrie your time will come mine came unexpected


Do you think if A guy had sex with you [and used you]
must have liked you at one point?
Or thought you were pretty at least??

this didnt happen to me, i was wondering because it happend to my friend. (link)
this sounds alitttle like my friend well one night my friend had no where to stay so she went to my other friends house to stay there (my mom wouldn't let her stay with me) anyways the other fridends mom wouldn't let her stay there either so she just cried because her mom would kill her if she went home at 2:00 a.m. well then my other friends brother came out (who she had a big crush on) well he was like come to this abanded trailor and i will stay with you there until morning so she went with him and when they got there he was like what are we going to do for 5 hours then he started to talk about when he lost his virginty she didn't have a story because she was still a virgin then he was like do you want to still be a virgin then she was like no not really then he was like i don't leave the girls i have sex with so then he said when you are ready to have sex just tap my shoulder 2 times and i will have sex with you well she thought about it for about 10 minutes then she finally tapped his shoulder 2 times and he took all of his clothes off and he began so they did it she said she about blacked out when he finally got it in because it hurt so bad but anyways then he said after they had already had sex lets wait until we have proper equitment a condom so then she said ok they got dressed and he said he will be right back he was going to check the time but guess what he never came back and then the next day she asked him why he never showed up and she started crying he denied the whole thing
he did like her once
she liked him once
but he used her i guess sex was more important then feelings
I hoped i helped
jessica


Hi,

I'm thinking about going on the Pill. What is actually involved? When you go to the doctor what do they do? Do you have to get tested and stuff? I've heard something about you have to get your blood pressure taken - what's that? Do you have to get an injection? Sorry I'm asking so much but I'm a bit worried coz I obviously haven't done this before. I'd appreciate advice from someone who's actually gone or is on the Pill and had experience. Thanks in advance! (link)
ok what the doctors do is if you are getting on the pill they give you a prgnancy test just in case and they take your blood the worst part is they give you a pap smear
a pap smear is where the doctor girl or boy well take a tube and insert it inside you you know what im talking about then he/she will take a big Q Tip and stick it throght he tube and swab you down there this is to see if you have any desises or if everything is going well then they talk to you about the pill the one that is right for you so yeah thats it
I hope I helped
Jessica


hey i'm having a HUGE guy problem. and i just need opinions on what you all think so is their anyone out there with a heart that would help me by just giving me their email adress or IM or anything so i can tell you the story because the guy its about goes on this site. thanks soo much. please help im desperate. (link)
yeah i will help you i am having guy problems myself so maybe you can help me with mine as i help you with yours
i got Msn IM me any time at
JessicaBusick@hotmail.com
I hope I can Help you


ok, me and my girlfriend have decided we want to have sex, the only probleam is i am not sure how i am going to get my hands on a condom, i am 13, and don't give me stuff saying im too young or anything cause we have made up are mind, im just not sure how i can get my hand on some condoms. can i just buy them? what? and also what kind should i get? (link)
um go to walmart and get trogon or it doesn't matter what kind hey atleat ur using then and then go to a self check out and buy them there so people don't have to say anything to you 0k well hope i helped oh and for all the people saying you are to young hey you think your ready so go have fun

Jessica


Well, this is a bit embarassing as it would be for any other guy. I feel a bit insecure about my size. I dont think Im bad at all at 6 inches, but I would like to be bigger. Is there any proven (by experience) methods to increase size? any known Pills? exersices? except of course surgery (cant afford it).

Thanks!
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ok well 6 inches i good enough girls don't like them to big because then it will be uncomfortable but there is pills for it just watch tv and you will see the comericals i don't no the name for them right now but good luck

hope i helped
jessica


everytime i go to the bathroom, there is this clear... like gooop. its clear and gooey. and its in my undies=( what is it? how can i get rid of it?



p.s. i have not had period.






hellppp=[ (link)
this white goop is called discharge and every girl has it before and after they start there period this is a sign that you will be starting your period soon


There's this guy who says he likes me (on this site) and I have no idea how to talk to him. Because I don't know who he is...he sent me a personal question about a girl named milly, me thinking it was a quincedent answered and when he gave me feed-back he said i like YOU (my name is milly)...so what do?
I don't get in a relationship with someone I don't know and I don't meet with someone somewhere who I talked to over the Internet...I want to ask him why and a bunch of questions...
please help if you know what I'm talking about and trying to say...
help! (link)
um mabey it is someone that you do know and do talk to and doesn't know any other way how to talk to you but to send you a private question just ask him some questions

hope i helped


If you try one cigarrete do you automatically get addicted to smoking? (link)
no you won't get addicted the first time i have tried cigarretes for ever and i never have got addicted to them and i tri them all the time when someone offers them to me but i don't do that anymore because it makes your teeth look nasty even if you brush them
i hope i helped


I`m supposed to be the advice GIVER, not RECEIVER. . .right? Then why am i so confused? School is about to start and i am in a class called "Publications" which means i write the school newspaper and do the yearbook. I am NOT a dork . . . i am actually pretty popular. But a lot of people think it`s a pathetic class. should i drop out and be in study hall, or stay in? I`m so confused.

thank you in advance. (link)
ok if you really like the class then stay in it and if someone says somethin to you about it be like would you rather have a dork do the newpaper and the yearbook or someone that is creative and knows what htere doing and i like the class

hope i helped


I feel like i have lost my self respect and my rights of my own body. Last night, i had a really bad experience, me and my 2 best friends got drunk. One of my friends was sober, and me and my other friend were very drunk. Late last night, me and the drunk friend decided to go outside, and when we passed by the bus stop, 2 men told pulled us to a field and they started doing things to us, no one was around to help us or to get them away from us. After about 20 minutes, my sober friend who was inside and not looking after us, came running outside to find the 2 men and me and my friend in the field. She yelled at the men, called me and my friend sluts and stuff, and then the men ran away. I dont know how to gain some self confidence back, i am hurt and tromautized by those men who took advatage of me and my best friend. I need something to make me feel better, but i don't trust anyone to tell them what happened. Even my sober friend does not know what they did to us. Advice please! (link)
maybe you can talk to your friend that was drunk to about it and think together of what you guys want to do this will help you relize that it wasn't your fault and maybe your friend is feeling the same way and needs someone to talk to like you do

hope i helped
Jessica


I heard sme feedback from my friends that although in porn girls like crazy 11 inch dicks, in real life the girls I talked to say that all they feel is pain when guys with 7 to 8 inch dicks have sex with them.They can't really feel pleasure but just a painful feeling and it also is harder for them to blow, and it's a disadvantage for the guy as well because he won't get to have his whole dick covered.

While some girls in my class said that guys with relatively small, maybe 4 to 5 inch dicks are good because they hit the g-spot which happens to be where the head of the dick goes to, so in other words, it's like a joystick.So which is it?I'm confused. (link)
ok i am 15/f and i think that the girls in the porno's like them big because they are lose and the girls at your school arn't they are tight and when you are tight you like them smaller like 4in 5in mabey sometimes 6in but anything bigger then that girls at your school will think hurt i perfer the smaller side ok
hope i helped
jessica


I was making out with my boyfriend last night and we decided to take the relationship to the level. Well as we were talking of our clothes I noticed that he doesnt have a penis O.O instead he has a vagina. Does that mean hes a girl? I'm really worried and I ran out of the bedroom and down the street half naked and now I dont know what to do please help! (link)
the first question u need to ask yourself is do you love him if you do then it shouldn't matter what he is i can't help you love him but i can help you get over what he is and just love who he is i think you should talk to him about what is going on and ask him why he didn't tell you and why you had to find out that way ok


My life pretty much sucks all thanks to this one girl Linda. This is why ; In 3rd grade she took my #1 best friend away from me. Soon, I got over it. Now all thanks to her I met this guy Paul. I can hardly even stand him. Because May 30, we went out, and then he broke up with me 5 days later. I was crushed. July 21, he fell back inlove with me. [Again], 5 days later he broke up with me

Here is the worst part. Today was Linda's party. I tried and tried to loose weight, but my stupid body is to fat. Anyways I went to her party. Amy was there. Amy is really pretty. I really dislike Amy. She was like "ooh, i hate fat people, thats discusting" infront of my face. Paul was there. Paul did not speak to me at all, but he kept starring at me. He is really cute.

Linda's away message [on aim] said she`s going to the movies with Amy and Paul. They were making fun of Paul before.

Sometimes I feel like there is noone to talk to but god. I don`t know why that whatever I say everybody thinks it`s pointless. It has a meaning to me.

Anyways my mom doesnt seem to care about me, at all. But im fine i guess. My father passed away about 5 months ago.

I woke up today at 1. By 2, my day was ruined. Well, I imed Paul, and he blocked me. I was talking to Tyler & Tyler was like now he knows your fat.

Well guess what the 1st day of school, [Aug. 15] I am going to wow everyone. They are going to wish they never made fun of me. Nobody knows how bad I feel. It seems like nobody on this planet loves me. Also, I feel like I cannot trust anyone. Anyways, I fouund out Paul & Amy made out in the movies for 30 minuetes. Oh, how I wish i was Amy. Kyle said Linda was hot. I have to agree with him. Everyone is hot, but me. I am deffently going on a diet. =]



Right now, I don`t know how I feel. All I know is like I hate Amy. Yesterday and today were the worst days of my life. Right know it seem as if my mom hates me. Whats new? I really need to improve my life. One day im going to snap.


Right now im pretty cheered up. Guess what! Paul hates Amy! After she made out with Paul she made out with other guys. Paul apologized to me.


THIS WAS IN MY JORNAL EVERYTHING UP THERE.

Now this is just me typing. Everything seems to be so confusing. I feel unloved by everyone. Please do not recommend conseling. [sp?]

Sorry it was so long. ! (link)
hey don't worrie if you need anyone to talk to then just im me at JessicaBusick@hotmail.com ok i will help you because i think that know one should make front of peoples phisical apperence well im k


ok-
I'm f/13 and almost everyone aroungd where I live isn't virgin from age 11/up My friends and I are witch includes 2 boys- I was wondering, since alot of people(except parents) think we are wierd, Do you think it's wrong to be virgin? (link)
it is not wrong to be a virgin at 13 i am a 15/f and i am still a virgin i have had plenty of chances to have sex but i didn't and you know what i havent even made out with a guy yet i think that is wrong lol i mean come on it is good you are a virgin right now and i am planning on losing my virginity soon i mean i am 15 and i think i am ready but not for a few months you are 13 and probley not fully grown i mean you probley just started pubirty or just got into talking alot about sex well if you need anymore advice on sex just ask me i will be here to answer well
i hope i helped
jessica


i have this cousin who is 15 and im 13 and he is so hot and he has been checking me out and i was wondering (we are blood related) what would happen if we made out or worse. (link)
well nothings wrong with it i mean we are all related if you look at it right if you want to have sex with your cousin have sex with your cousin i mean and for all the people who keep on saying if you got pregnant your baby will be deformed are wack because i have seen alot of cousins that have had babys together and they turned out perfectly fine so go ahead if you want to go ahead and it is not illegal ok its not


i gave head on july 11th. and now i have 3 canker sores in my mouthhh...do i have herpes? or is that a sign...should i get it checked oout.... (link)
ok i think that you have sphilis or i don't know i i spelt it right but um this is a std and it can lead to aids but you can go to the doctor and get a shot but you need to go right away don't wait anylonger and ask your parents to wait in the waith=ing room and tell the doctor what is going on ok

i hope i helped

jessica


im 13 and i dont know if this is normal or not you see my penis kinda leans to the right but i dont know if its normal or not and if it is wont a gurl think its wierd (link)
im 15/f and well i don't think it is weird and i bet alot of guys have that problem and don't worrie about youir penis because i mean if you were to have sex trust me girls worrie about there boobs being weird looken lol so don't worrie the girl will probley always be more worried about there body and your penis is normal
i hope i helped you out
jessica


im 16/f and this guy is 14 i know age difference but i dont care..

i started to kinda like this guy before he got a girlfriend. we always flirted and he would touch me and we would wrestle and i would get on top of him but then when i find out he asked this girl out that he liked i was kinda..heartbroken (link)
ok well i know how you feel because i have the same problem but the thing is what you should do is write out a speech that would really get to him but say it don't red it off a paper to him that is lame let him think that you just said that speech right there that yiu made it up right there but you have to make it really good and it must touich his heart if yoiu know what i mean well i am going to try to do the same thing well i hope this is good advice but well good luck
jessica


14/f. ok i dont normaly get tounge tied or anything around guys, even if i like them. but there is one guy i like sooooo much. im different around him, its like when he smiles at me, my face instantly goes red and i forget how to speak. my problem is that i cant ask him out, or even flirt with him for that matter, i get to shy. and trust me, im NOT a naturaly shy person. I dont know what to do. i just cant figure this guy out.

oh did i mention, he is like drop dead gorgous, hes like the hottest guy in my school, in my opinion. [not all the girls like him, some even say he has a big nose, i dont think so] (link)
um jsut try saying what you want to say to him infront of a mirrior first then do the real speaking




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