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Hey im an high school graduate and live in New Jersey where i give advice to all my friends and other people. I give great advice and i wiling to hlp all of you in your time of need. so if you need help remeber: Jazzy Got Da Answer

Jazzy**

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I have a car but only my permit. My boyfriend has had his license for awhile, but no car! This whole situation gets frustrating because it'd be easier to get around if one of us was driving. My mom is strict but she likes my boyfriend. How could I convince her to let my boyfriend drive us around in my car sometimes? He's trustworthy and a great driver.

buy telling her the same thing you just told us that hes trustworthy and a great driver and if she think so maybe she will let him drive

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i don't really think this is in the right category, but anyways,
when i put soap or acne wash on my face, should i wash it off as soon as i put it on, or leave it on for a little while to get into my skin?

thanks in advance.

i think some of them say leave on for like 30seconds u know what to be sure read the directions.

Jazzy**

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hi im 15 years old and i've been with m boyfriend for 6 month.

I made a mistake I tap kiss with my ex so I decided to tell my boyfriend he forgive me but hes been talking to me in a ruid way that really makes me feel bad and cry. im so depressed. When i ask him why hes treating me like this he said is because he can stop thinking of what I did with my ex he says he treats me like that because of what hes always thinking.. What should I do should i just leave him since he wants to treat me in a ruid way.. can you please give me some advice on what I can do on my situation?

thank you

you know what you made an mistake and you apologied for it and he saud he forgave you so that no reason for him to be so damn rude so tell him he was foing to act like this why didnt he just break up with you. and say to him if he dont start treating you with some repspect than your leaving and he;s going to miss you


Jazzy**

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I met a guy (steven) through my cousin when i visited him last week...they are friends and he was over there when i came over. Well it obvious that he was into me..he was overly nice..always complemented me..and we hit it off. Well my cousin was mad when he found he out we were kind of into eachother. I guess he was being overprotective. But this guy lives an hr away and i miss him already..i really started to like him. And that was the first guy i liked in years! i dont have his number but he has a myspace. Should i forget about him or what?

NO NO NO if you like him go for it find him on myspace and traden number i pretty sure he's thinkin about you to. and for your cousin he cant live your life for you. you can only live your life


GOOD LUCK'Jazzy

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Ok,I'm 18/F and the other day I caught my brother he's 16 dressed in my clothes,I mean everything bra,panties,mini-skirt the works when he saw me he started crying,,,,too make a long story short he told me he has been wearing my clothes for a while and that he wants to be a girl. He said that he's sick of pretending and asked if I would help him shop and teach him about makeup,I love my brother an told him I would but I find this very weird. What should I do ?????

whoaaa, i think you need to tell your parent yall need to have a SERIOUS family disscussion because your brother is not satified of his sex and he may need professional help not just yours. all of you should be there for him because he's going through a crisis

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My boyfriend asked me out 6/17/06. Well now everyone hates me. Kristen, Kelsey, Torie, Katelynn, Kaitlyn, Victoria, Jasmine, and more people. I meen I love Nick and all but he liked Kelsey, and he asked her out and she said no. Me and him became friends, he asked me out, and now we are going out. Kelsey started to freek out and tell all of my friends bad stuff about me. I can not take it anymore. I meen like they are being SO meen. I have to go back to school with them, and they are going to treat me like dirt. I cannot make new friends because the rest of the people in my grade are like goth? or like wayy nerdy. I dont know i have a freekish school. aha. thankss. =[

there mad because you have the guy and you have to live your life for you so just let them be mad dont pay them any attention and they'll get over it

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okay, So I know I talk about this stuff alot, but I really *like this guy I've known for years Im only 18 and he is 22. He is best friends with my best friends brother. first of all is he to old for me? Second of all How do I tell him I like him because he is always at my best friends house and we'd see eachother all the time, the other thing im worried about is I think my friend likes him but she knows I have liked him for years, but she won't confess??? What should I do to get what I want?

She's never gonna confess it so you cam forget about it. but 18 and 22 is not to bad i have heard worst plus your grown and i pretty sure your mature. so if it's ok with your friend go for it.

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so i'll start by telling you a bit about myself.

i am 15 f. i don't want to sound arrogant but yes, i am popular which is why i don't get what is going on. I am vasrity cheerleader as a sophmore and have no trouble w/ guys and have alot of girl friends. so this is my question...

i got into a figth with this girl and it got bad, but girls are catty. she tried to ruin my reputation, but i ruined her life =] i got her kicked off of class vice president and her friends hate her. but to be fair, she really deserved it im not kidding. she posted pictures of me that were like edited and crap to make it look like i was naked, like photocopying my head onto the pic or w/e. and posted it on alot of the lockers. idk why she did it, shes just jealous b/c im dating her ex bf. seems to me like SHES the sociopath not me...

so after this i got in trouble, the school sent me to a therapist to talk about why i act the way i do. he diagnosed me a sociopath. But um... sociopaths are psycho anti-socials and im the center of attention. Im not a freak, i love shopping and guys and they say just b/c im a little decieving and like it my way, makes me a sociopath???

can somebody please explain to me how a popular varsity cheerleader can be a sociopath because i am way not antisocial.

whoa first of all what she did was wrong. and i think i would of got a little crazy to. but a sciopath is a liitle far out there. But i think you really do nned to go take along look in the mirror and figure out how you can make 4 girls transfer ( i want to be like you when I grow up)lol but seriously remeber what goes around comes around

Jazzy**

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13/f by the way. Okay, so, there's this guy I like and I never told him how I felt about him after graduation. I moved to a different school so that was the last time I ever saw him. My new school has this holiday coming up so there'll be no classes. But in my previous school, there's no holiday. So I plan to visit on that day. Not only do I wanna see my friends...but I wanna find the courage to tell this guy how I feel about him...and how can I get him and I alone when he seems like he's always busy hanging out with his friends...I don't even know if I have enough nerve to tell him how I feel. But if I don't, it'll fill up inside me and I'll keep thinking about it...whaT shouLd I do???

you should prep yourself before you go. what i mean is say what you want to say to him but say it to yourself a few times than to get him alone tell him you need to talk to him and when it come time to tell him just think your saying it to yourself. trust it would work if you do it right.


Jazzy
hope it works

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a couple days ago i hooked up with a guy.. were like friends with benifets and all but i have hooked up with him many times before and i dont know because now im kinda starting to like him. i know i shouldnt like him and i dont know how to stop?? can someone please help me out..

why shouldnt you like him and i cant really give you to many ways to stop liking him because you cant help it all i can say is prevent anymore hooking up with him and maybe stop seeing in so much keep your distance

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16/f
Thanks to anyone who answers or even reads this. I'll rate you

I think I'm a pretty good person, but I still want to be better/smarter. When it comes to everyday life, dating and guys, sex, friendship, pretty much anything. Can you give me some tips
or words of wisdom or anything basic or important to keep in mind when it comes to the above listed topics. Please try ... share your experiences or knowledge. It can be anything. Thank you!

im going to tell you the two mottos i live my life with and i think im a pretty decent person



1. You have to make scrafices to prosper in life.



2. Live for you and no one else cause in the end you have to live with the choices you make.

hope they work for you

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okay soon i will have to go to my moms work for a month to help her from 7am - 8pm.. everyday from monday-saturday .. i dont know what to do cause i dont want to lose any of my friends and no one likes to hang out on a saturday.. and i cant just skip a day cause my mom will FLIP.. you dont understand.. and its like a month not seeing my friends.. what can i do?!

all i can say is sometime you have to make scarfices to prosper in life.
now it's your choice what you do

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I am 5 months pregnant and I was wondering if it is ok for me to have sex ? is there and consequences to having sex while pregnant or any advantages to having sex .

actually the doctor says its good to do it but maybe until like seven months.


congradulations on your new baby

JAzzy**

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Me and this girl have been best friends since the first grade. And we haven't talked to each other in two years. Now we have reunited and started talking on the phone. I sent her an e-mail and asked her if we were still best friends, she said no, maybe, maybe not. Then she said she had 3 best friends. And she is acting so careless about it. Like she doesn't care about how I feel about the situation. What should I do?

with people like her you have to act like you dont care like her. you know what people change and the 1st grade yall was young and now yall older so just live your life for you.

Jazzy**

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I am a bisexual female. A little over a year ago, I came out to my best friend and she came out to me that she was bisexual also, and we started a relationship. We are still best friends, and none of our other friends know about us but two people. My ex boyfriend and her boyfriend. Sometimes I feel like I'm left to the side because of her boyfriend, but she doesn't know what to do either to make both of us happy? I'm very lost and confused. I love this girl and would spend every moment with her if I could, but somehow I just feel like I'm left out because he ALWAYS goes out with us when we go out, but I'm never with them when they go out, and most of the time it's him inviting himself... what should I do?

communication is the key to ever great relationship so tell her how you feel if she dont know then she cant fix it. so talk to her and see how that works.

if it dont work email me ill give you another idea

Allaboutjazzy06@yahoo.com

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i am 15 and i am thinking about getting a job, for most jobs i need a work permit from my school but since school is over do i still need to get one? & does anyone know anygood jobs for a 15 year old?

a job you can get with no work permit and is good moneya babysiting job make flyers everyone need som one to watch there child in the summer

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i dont know what to say to my mother when she calls me a stupid lesbian, a worthless faggot, and other demeaning things. it doesnt hurt me like it used to (everyone knows my mom's a bitch, and that she's the epitome of insanity) but it makes me pretty mad. i really dont know what a can say back to her to get her to shut up and back off. bitch doesnt phaze her b/c people call her that everyday. i know i sound like i'm putting her down, but that's what she's always done to me since i was about 5 (i'm 16 now). anyway, i'd appreciate some suggestions on what i could do or say to make the situation better. i really cant take it anymore.

and please dont leave me an immature comment saying 'oh well why don't you just quit being bi' or somthing like that. it's just not that simple.

i would tell you to have a talk with your mom but you said she's a bitch so that wouldnt work.
so all i can say is tell someone because thats what you call emotional abuse.

and this can cause serious damage in the future
Jazzy**

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It has recently come to my attention, that my cousin has been taking 5-10 tylenol a day. He has started acting really weird, and complains of his foot being numb. Is it possible that by taking 5-10 tylenol, he could be overdosing? If he is, what should i do?

your cousin may be mad but tell some one thats not a good sign 5-10 is to much

how old is your cousin]


JazzY**

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eh wat do guys think are attractive? not just how they look, but what about how they act? please help. i really want some guys to like me!! my friends r gettin all the guys!! its hard to explain but just pls help me.

you cant make a guy like you. guys usually like girls who be there self no matter who there around. JUST BE YOU


Jazzy**

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Hi, this is embarassing. umm I've had my period for 2 years now and I'm going on a trip and I can't carry much luggage. I know I will get my period while I'm away, (it lasts for about 5 days) and I want to know about how many tampons I need to bring. (I can't remember) Thanks.

okay five days and you need to use one at least three times a day (when you wake up, during the day and bed time) now you do the math. i dont know if you use it 3 times a day but i do


Jazzy**

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