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Hey everyone. I was wondering what YOU think is cute to paint or re-arrange your room, because my room has no windows and its always so dark and depressing down there and i was just wondering if you had any ideas to spice it up a bit at low costs? i will rate for effort.

get bright-colored sheets at a cheaper store like Ross or TJ maxx. also paint some pictures or draw and hang the drawings/paintings on your walls! and get some cheap movie posters or something to put on ur walls. anything thats colorful will make ur room less depresseing

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ok...for the last day of school, before break, i wore white pants...because they were white, i work a thong...im not a slut, so i dont let it hang out, and i usually wear a belt with my pants, but these were nice pants that i didnt need a belt for...well during lunch, i was walking up to my friend and my guy friend wanted to hug me from behind, but ended up steping on my pants adn everyone saw i was wearing a thong. he didnt pants me, but some people saw the string...i know its not bad to wear thongs, but that was a pretty embarassing situation, and i didnt want everyone knowing. tommorow i go back to school, and i dont want everyone laughing at me...what do i do?

they wont laugh at you. and if they are taht immature that they will laugh then just laugh with them. its not rlly that bad what happened to you anyway.

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my hair is REALLY wavy and frizzy and cruly to a point were it looks horrible when i let it dry or blow dry it. so i bought a chi iron- if you dont know what that is it's supposedly "the best" stragitener- but when i straighten my hair with it after about ten minutes it starts looking bad! i've had it for about 2 years- so is it just dying? but it happened when i first used it 2! am i just not doing it right or should i use hair spray and how much hair spray? does anyone also know any other syle besides scruncing that might look good w/ my kind of hair? help is really appreciated! thanx!

get a different straightener! the new ones they sell as places like CVS are really good. i have the same hair type as u have and i had the exact same problem where my straightener didnt work either. the newer straighteners r ALOT better then the old ones.

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Hi, right off the bat if you know nothing about the looks of classic cars from the early 70's and back dont even respond, if your going to respond just to say a color and dont know what a valiant looks like, go to google and type in 1968 valaint and look for one you lazy bum, but onto the question. Does anyone know of any good colors to paint a 1968 Valiant100 4 door sedan. i do ont want two tone, nor do i want metallica, also i do not want strips just one straight color that you think looks good on a valiant, you can also look at my profile picture and you will see my car.

i like it alot in a really bright red! hope i helped. ~jj~

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m/16 Hi, ive been dating my girlfriend for 5 months and a few weeks and her parents are, sorry to say, PISSING ME THE **** OFF. They wont EVER let her see me but maybe 1 every two weeks or so, and it kills me cause i never get ANY alone time with her, and the time we do get to spend together is with friends cause her parents wont let her over to my house alone. Anyone know of anything I can do to get their parents to let her do somthing, or anything i can tell my girl to say? help please!

just try to get her parents to like you. dont make it too obvious what your doing but just be extremely polite. ask your gf ways for her parents to like you better and if that all works out theyll trust you more n let her see you more! hope i helped! ~jj~

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I need a little advice here. The guy I like seems to always be too busy. I try to talk to him as much as i can, but I'm not sure if i get the point across that I like him. I have a suspision that he likes me back, but the one time I asked him if he liked me online, he wouldn't answer because he said we had to talk in person. Is this a good thing? And how do I tell him that I like him? Am i supposed to wait for him to make the first move?
Thanks to you if you answer..

nah u should make the first move if u want to n no its not a bad thing that he wants to talk with you in person about it. actually i think its a good thing. hope i helped! ~jj~

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i've been with my boyfriend for 19 months and i love him more than anything. the other day i had a dream i was making out with this hot kid at school. does this mean anything? by the way, this is like the 3rd or 4th dream i've had of this kid.

nah not really. u cant really help what you dream. my dreams usually have something to do with what ive been thinking about that day just all mixed together. like maybe that day u mite have been thinking about that kid and thinking about making out with your bf. ssomethin like that maybe. hope i helped!
~jj~

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Just yesterday i was playing on my computer trying to zone out from my problems and my sisters. Well anyways i'm juast asking for tips to help me out because i cant use my computer anymore and i need to zone out instead of remaining depressed like i have been for a while. I would tell people about my depression but i am very shy and i dont really like to talk. I need any tips to zone out and i will rate high for them............................. please help me out im going crazy!!!

just get out of the house and take a walk and think about other stuff. or meet up with your friends someplace and just hangout away from your house like ride your bikes somewhere or hang out at their house or go shopping!

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my dog died...and i am having trouble getting over her death...what should i do?

get a puppy. ull still feel sad sometimes but the puppy will DEFINETLY distract u

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Ok I have this really kewl guy friend and I like him. It's like part of me wants to tell him, but part of me doesnt want to. He's one of the best friends that I have. He's talked my outta doin some pretty shitty stuff. He knows stuff about me that NO-BODY does. I've met both of his parents, and he tells me that his parents like me. And sometimes it seems like he likes me too, but then when this girl(shes my friend and she likes him too,but I liked him first)comes around us, he doesnt act like he likes me. I've like him since August, he knew I liked him then, but then he thought I got over him, but I didn't and I still like him A LOT! and I dont know what to do. Do I tell him or not? And what do I tell him if I do tell him?

u should definetly tell him! i dunno what to tell you on what to say to him sorry but i still think u should tell him because if you like him that much then you should just take a chance

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hey, i am a 16 year old female and im really upset and i dont know where else to go. my mother has Fibromyalgia and borderline Lopus. ok thas not the thing tho. she has always told me that children coudlnt get it and that it wasnt something that she could pass onto me. ive been really sick over the last 2 years and they havent been able to figure out what with. i have been to it seems every dr. possible. well then today i went to a rheumatologist and he told me that i need to go see a specialist who specializes in Fibromyalgia cause he thinks that i have it or that i could have lopus. OMG im just like freaking out now. im soo upset cause ive seen how its taken over my mom's life. and with me- i have had to give up cheerleading, work, driving and socializing in general. i am in the 11th grade and its an important year.. the problem is that i only make it to school once a week if im lucky. i just want to get better. now ive heard that if they find it early enough they can prevent me from having it all my life. does anyone know if thats true? or have any thing that they can tell me about it or anything for support? im just so upset and i want to get better!

add some more info about what lopus and fibromyalgia is n then maybe ill be able to help! please dont rate this because i havent given u any advice yet!

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Well, My parents bicker and fight about things that they shouldn't. My dad is being a real prick and my step mom ends up in tears. It pisses me off why he has to be a real ass, but I am always told to "mind my own business" or to "shut-up". I get very stressed out and I hate it! It pisses me the F*** off and I have no say in anything that goes on. So, this is the part where you throw advice my way :-/

go see your school counselor and then shell probly get the three of you together to talk abou it! hope i helped!
~jj~

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the guy i have a crush on is really shy around grls and isnt into grls alot or my friends told my and i dont want to sound obsessed with him so how do i get the nerve to go up and talk to him without sounding like a freak?

just go up and talk to him about something just random. like if he goes to your skool then go up to him in the hall and be like omg i hate that teacher! she gave us so much homework or something like that and if your lucky itll start a conversation! just be yourself and talk to him as if your talking to one of your own friend. hope i helped!
~jj

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OMG! i dont knoe why..but my teeth are yellow!! i brush 3 times a day..and i dont smoke!!..whats wrong?!

some peoples teeth are just naturally yellow. if u want them whiter then u can get them dyed!

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my hamster is 2 years old and i feed her salad every 3rd or 4th day, i noticed yesterday that she has a small bald spot on her back, it seems as if shes losing fur. whats happening to her?

shes probly getting old. i dont want to upset u but hamsters only live for about 2 and a half years. i hav a rat thats really old and she probly going to die soon and shes losing hair too. or she mite not be getting enough vitamins. chech out some hamster books and see if shes getting enough in her diet

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i've known my best friend for almost two and a half years now, and i have some hilarious pictures and memories from the past bit. also some serious ones and all that. anyway, i want to somehow incorporate everything he and i have been through into some sort of gift to be able to give him at the end of high school (we're juniors right now). but i'm kind of blanking on good ideas. i want to make sure it can have all of our inside jokes and all that, and be something he can keep forever, you know? any help would be greatly appreciated!

make him a scrapbook with all of the good memories and pictures that you hav in it. write under the pictures inside jokes that u associate with them. fill up most of the book

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Ok, me and my boyfriend had sex only twice this month, both times we used a condom and I'm not on the pill or anything. The condoms didnt break, rip or tear. But however, my period tomorrow will be a week late. I don't know if I'm just over reacting because we did have sex and I haven't gotten it yet. But theres no way poissible right if the condom didnt break for me to be pregnant is there? What should I do just siot around and wait for my period to come?
Thank you all sooo much

get a pregnancy test just to make sure

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Ok this is really weird. I had a dream about almost doing it w/ a guy I liked and so I told my friend about it... and I've never had one of those dreams before and so she told me that in her dream she actually did it w/ some movie star guy and so then later we were talking and I was talking about the movie Alexander and how thered be eye candy for all the girls and she's like what is the matter with you? Your obsessed w/ cussing and sex!! And Im not!! Just because I had one dream about that... does that mean I am? Im really confused!

your not. your friend is just bein a little phycho. she mite not be mature enough to handle that kind of thing. i have had the same problems with some of my friends

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Hey um im having some super makeup problems .. ive got wicked long eye lashes .. super green eyes .. and kinda small eye brows .. theyre skinny hah .. but yeah anyway .. i need some ideas for new eye makeup .. im so getting bored with the black eyeliner in the top of my eyelid and the bottom .. gets boring .. i wanna go to school and wow people .. i rate high!! thanks

get a dark green eyeliner to kinda compliment ur eyes and put it on the very outside of your eyelashes and smudge it on the top and a little on the bottom. if u do it rite itll look rlly kool!

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How do you get rid of freckles?

you cant rlly entirely get rid of them unless u gwt like ur skin dyed or sumtin but u can use concealer or foundation at a drugstore

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