I'm not very into making an elaborate profile. So that's why my profiles nothing :)
Well my names Matt, im 15 live in US. (My now ex) girlfriend always talked about going on advicenators and i thought id check it out and from my feed back i seem good at it =)
So just drop me a question whenever you want I'll answer it to the best of my ability.
I specialize in relationship problems, weather it's your bf/gf, best friend, argue with parents ect..
I'm also pretty knowledgeable about girl issues (ex gf lol) so I can answer those too.
Gender: Male
Location: Ohio
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
Member Since: June 27, 2008
Answers: 79
Last Update: September 15, 2009
Visitors: 6990
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I want to finger my girlfriend but I dont know what to do. Like Idk what feels good. Do you have a girlfriend what do you do? (link)
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Practice is the only advice i can give. Some girls like diffrent techniques. Ask her how she likes it (if she has done it before or she masturbates) If not just ask her if she likes what your doing if not change it up
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I recently cheated on my girlfriend. I feel really bad. Have you ever cheated. Do you know what I feel like. Should i break up with her, should i be honest be with her? (link)
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Be honest with her. Tell her what you did. Tell her how sorry you are and that youll never do it again (only if you wont do it again) If you love her you won't do it and you WILL be sorry
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So my bestfriend has this boyfriend and hes sooooooo hot. I cant control My Hormones around HIm. Hes sooo amazingly hot. The only ad thing about him is he NEVER hangs out with me any more. And it gets me mad. :) But hes still Hot. So what exactly do you think I should Do. By the way Im really Pretty So i Kinda feel bad for her, I mean who wouldnt want me. SO yeah What do you think I should do? THANKS.
I LOVE YOU. :) (link)
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Tell him how you feel. Tell him that you feel left out, but dont try to break him and his gf just because of your hormones ;) youll deff find a guy if your as hot as you say you are
~InsaneChildz~
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I haven't really 'fit in' since the 6th grade when I was a cheerleader and hung out with their crowd.
Ever since then, I've had one or two friends.For the most part I'm just a helping hand when a random person needs it.
I just need a little advice as to finding a group or a few more friends to have a good time with. I'm in several clubs and sports teams, but I always seem to be the odd one out. (link)
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Ive felt that way pretty much my whole life. Ive had only a few good friends i hang out with. And everyone else pretty much ignores me.
But just be yourself try to get to know some of the people in cheerleading and try to hang out with the friends you do have, and get to know there other friends.
Don't worry if your not in a group though. Its better to have 1 or 2 true friends then 20 friends who don't care about you.
Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
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Okay. My first boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks now. We are both 14. While on the phone one day he told me he loved me. He's told me that a few times already now. The last time I felt guilty so I said "I love you too." But I've been thinking and while I think he's very amazing and I couldn't be happier going out with him, love is a strong emotion and I want to be sure it's love. There's nothing wrong with him or our realtionship I just don't know if I'm ready yet. Do you think it's love and I should tell him I love him? (link)
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Well seeing as that your only 14 you can't truly know what true love is. Not even most adults know. Its a strong and tricky emotion love is. Love can be different for everyone really. Some feel it easier the others. Also people have their own ideas of what love is.
But if you don't feel comfortable saying it sit him down and tell him.
Tell him you really care for him and your very happy with him, but your not sure what love is and of you truly feel it.
I belive love is when you care about someone so much that you would be happy just sitting in the same room with the person not doing anything. Just caring for someone so much that you'd do anything to see them happy.
Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
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What jobs hire at age 15?
please dont give me bull crap answers like ["my son worked for his uncle at age 15"] -- that doesnt answer my question! thanks (:
- i already know of a couple of places
. mcdonalds
. dairy queen
. chick-fill-a
. burger king
please dont repeat those. just list some more for me please (: thanks (link)
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Not even big chains.
You can do simple jobs like babysitting for friends and family. (you can charge more for more kids/the more troublesome they are)
Walk dogs of friends. (the more dogs at once the more $$)
Mow lawns in the summer.
Rack leaves in fall.
shoveling snow in winter. All jobs people hate.
Get homemade fliers and put them around the neighborhood.
For old people give them the fliers. They are old and can't go far =].
Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
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hey so i'm sixteen and I am living at my beach house all summer with my older brother. I have a bunch of friends who live here too. One of these friends is named drew. I've known him forever and I used to like him, for like two years. He liked me on and off but he lived an hour away. So we never did anything except cuddle when we were together. He was always really touchy feely with me too. I haven't liked him for about a year and a half. I've only been at the beach for two weeks, he got here a week before me. I was really excited because we were hanging being chill, no sexual tension whatsoever, so i was thinking this summer would be good cause we would be friends. Then last night it got weird. We both were off work and our friends were working, so we went to the boardwalk to see our friends at work. We hung out there for like an hour till everything closed. Then we went back to his house and went inside. We were watching Harold and kumar and just chilling on the couch. Then he got all touchy feely, and tried giving me a hicky but I told him to get off of me. I wasn't feeling it at all. So I got off the couch and sat on the floor. Then he got on top of me and was all like lets wrestle! And i just layed there cause i figured that would make him get off me. So then he picked me up and layed me on the couch and started kissing my neck and then he was kissing me and trying to make out with me. And i was just like drew stop i have to go. Cause i have a drivng curfew. I really dont know what to be thinking. I dont like him and apparently he likes some other girl who is at the beach for a week. I really dont want to be that girl who he thinks he can hook up with whenever he wants to. I dont know what to do... (link)
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It seems really simple.
Sit him down and say If your going to get all sexual when we are hanging out i don't want to hang out with you.
If your willing to respect my boundaries then id love to hang out with you, but i refuse to be that girl you hook up with here.
Don't be afraid of losing this "friend" he wouldn't pressure you into something you don't want if he was a true friend.
Hope it helped.
~InsaneChildz~
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I have known my ex boyfriend since we were 13 years old (I'm now 22). We dated for 5 years off and on and we were very much in love. We broke up due to the fact that we have always lived very far from each other. Throughout college we kept in touch. I recently just graduated and he came to my graduation (his cousin graduated from the same college as me so he was there really for him). After seeing me at graduation he started to come back in my life more and more. He has been calling me and speaking to me everyday. He just got out of a serious relationship so he would mainly be calling me for advice on his recent ex girlfriend. I am currently in a serious relationship and although I am extermely happy I still have feelings for my ex. He claims he still has feelings for me too but he keeps going back and forth on whether or not to get back with his ex or not. I feel lost and I don't want to hurt my current boyfriend. I recently told my ex that I couldn't talk to him about his ex anymore because I knew I wouldn't be able to give him advice when I feel like my own feelings for him would get in the way. He said he wouldn't bother me about it anymore. What should I do? Should I stop talking to him altogether? I have already told him how I feel but I feel like it hasn't accomplished anything. My current boyfriend and I are very close and I try to be as honest with him as possible. Lately I know I have been distant with him and that I run the risk of losing my current relationship for someone who might not even want to be in a relationship with me.
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When you get very close to some one and then you break up for reasons of living to far away, you still harbor feelings for that person. When the ex gets back in the picture its hard because all those old feelings you felt with him are still there, and rush back to you.
You should see weather your ex actually wants to get back with you, or if he really just wants to get back with his recent ex.
If he doesn't want you theres nothing you can do even if you like him more then your current boy friend.
But if he wants you back then my advice would be to make 2 lists.
One of pros of both your ex and current bf. One of cons of both your ex and current bf.
This will help you see whom you like better, try to think future wise also. Will this guy be good with kids (if you want any) Is he marriage material? Steady job?
Hope it helped
!InsaneChildz~
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P.S. I know im only 15 what do i know anyway =]
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you guys always say to get a new razor everytime.. and i have to shave every week.. and a new razor every week would get pricey! i want to use nair down there but it might burn so.. what should i do (link)
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You don't need a new razor every time.
Just get a quality one to start with.
http://gillettevenus.com/us/?utm_source=ola&utm_medium=banner&utm_campaign=260Launch&utm_content=brand for girls
http://www.gillette.com/en-US/#/home/
for guys
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I have been going through bra's like nothing.
Im 14 and obviously a female and in December my Mom baught me like 4 A size bras. Well I started getting to big so my Mom got me a B, and that was in April. I started getting growing pains a lot lately and now Im too big for a B and my Moms talking about going into a C.
Is it normal to be growing so fast, and It's weird because Ive always been the tom-boy and now I dont feel as comfortable around my friends.
I went to a pool party and me and Nikki were the only girls there and... things got weird. But I just wanna know if they'll stop soon, because I hate them, and I cant talk to my friends because there like Katie! Im an A and completely jealous!! I dont know why though I mean I cant wear a shirt without some kind of clevage.
Anything will rock (link)
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Yes its completely normal for this to happen. Everyone grows at different rates, and people start at different times.
It seems like your big growth spurt.
It will stop eventually. But for now your going to have to keep going up sizes.
Your friends don't understand that once you get bigger boobs that thats all guys look at. They will learn that in time though.
For now try to wear more covered clothings around your friends so you feel more comfy and so that nothings weird.
Although i am a guy i hope it helped.
~InsaneChildz~
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okay this may sound stupid... but when you finger a girl what is that like large ball shaped part you feel when you first go in? i can always feel it with the side of my finger. haha thanks. (link)
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From what your describing that my son would be a clit.
Give it some attention too
~InsaneChildz~
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I can't really find anything online about this. But is it possible for the penis to keep getting bigger around age 17? I've had sex a lot with him and for the past six months, it feels like he's going in a lot deeper and it hurts to get it in [even if we have foreplay/lube] I get sore after sex and I walk a little funky now.. I thought it was because of bloating [due to periods] but it's been months and I'm no longer bloated. So is it just me? (link)
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Well it could be that he just wasn't going in fully to begin with, and he just recently tried going all the way in. But if thats not the case then yes it is possible for him to naturally get bigger. The general rule is it can keep growing till approx. 18.
My advice is ask him about it and if hes just getting bigger tell him he needs to not go in as far because it is hurting you.
~InsaneChildz~
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I used to fancy some guy. I then found my boyfriend, and we're happy together, etc etc. The "Some Guy" was our mutual friend. I even wrote a bizarre story about me, him, and some other of our friends... That stayed a secret, only my boyfriend knows. I keep getting hints that the "Some Guy" (SG) fancied me. I encouraged him, not seriously, but I do flirt with quite a lot of people. Only just now I found out he doesn't like me in that way at all.
And I'm devastated.
Even if he did, I wouldn't date him. But I'd be pleased. My self confidence is poor. I need to know what's wrong with me.
I feel like burning the story... I just hurt in a strange place.... I feel like im going to cry.
Doesn't help that everyone was telling me he did, and... I'm selfish, and I wanted him to, I wanted to know me flirting with him could make him happy.
... I sound like I'm really lame.
(Im female and in my mid teens.)
I do love him. A lot. But as a friend.... sigh, maybe there's something there.
He can be so cruel. I said i was disappointed, and he laughed. I.... help... help.... (link)
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I understand excately what your saying. Your 100% happy with you and your boyfriend and you wouldn't break up with him for the (SG) but it still makes you feel good inside knowing that somebody (besides your bf/gf) likes you in that special way. It makes you feel amazing and that your special, because everyone likes being liked. But then when that (SG) moves on to someone else, or turns out he doesn't like you then it hurts. That great feeling you felt inside is gone and replaced with sadness.
Theres nothing you can really do about it though. Try not to let this get in the way of your friendship, you will need some time away from him, but don't make it too long.
In the end you still have your boy friend whom your happy with. Good Luck!
Good Luck
Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
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well i've done everything but sex and when my boyfriend does anything to me i reach a point where i cant handle it anymore and i tell him to stop, i dont orgasm but then like a few hours later i will. sometimes when he fingers me i randomly do but it doesnt even feel good or anything, i think i have a medical problem but i dont know what to do!! help please (link)
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Why can't you "handle" it? would be helpful.
But from what i have to go on here i goes.
You might not be orgasming because he either isn't good/hitting the right spots.
It is normal for a girl not to orgasm all the time, some girls it takes a long time to achieve an orgasm, or the you need a special spot stimulated or you get nothing.
Just try to explore all the different things with him, and even by yourself.
Try masturbating and see what you like.
Hope it helps
~InsaneChildz~
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alot of people ask how they can lose weight but i wanna know how i can GAIN weight. im 17 years old and i weigh 98 pounds and i have a small frame. i used weight gain pills and those didnt seem to work. and i would like to gain atleast 10 pounds. any help wold work (link)
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If weight gain pills don't work then you will need to eat foods that make you gain weight (while still getting all your needed nutritions.
Go to your local vitamin store and see what foods can make you gain weight.
or Simply google it. Google knows all =]
~InsaneChildz~
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i am 14 years old, and about two months ago i lost my verginity to my 17 year old boyfriend. we werent even going out for 2 months yet, and we didnt even know eachother for 3 months. but we were both vergins and i know he really wanted to lose his verginity. and it was prom night, so it was kind of expected. i wanted to have sex with him, but i never wanted to become who my friends are who lost their verginities at 12 and 13. there is something seriously wrong with my town where girls thing its okay to have sex in junior high, and i know its not wrong. i dont feel like i was pressured into sex but i feel like i wanted to wait and now theres no turning back. and me and my boyfriend are incredibly close and i know we'll be together for the rest of my high school and i honestly want to grow with him into a family when we get older but i just dont know if i feel right about this.. like when im a parent, and my kids ask me when i first had it, im going to have to say 14 and im going to have to live forever knowing that i was a little slut. and im so worried that im going to like emotionally break down because i worry too much about this.. i dont know what to do, should iu stop having sex with him? even though theres no turning back, and i do enjoy it.? i just dont know. and i absolutly cannot talk to my mom about it. she believes in sex after marriage and expects me to stick with it. and she would deffinitely dig a hole and burry me in it if she found out.. please help (link)
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If you feel like you will be with your boyfriend for a long time and you enjoy it then do it. If you are afraid of people giving you trouble about it calling you a slut just keep it personal. Tell your boyfriend that you would prefer if he didn't tell anyone about your sex life.
And do not feel bad about having sex with your boyfriend your not a slut for having sex with him. You are just expressing your love for him and willingness to give yourself to him.
And lastly about the "what will i tell my kids?!"
Simply tell them the truth. You were in love and you expressed it with your boyfriend.
They wont give it a second thought =]
Hope i helped
~InsaneChildz~
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what are some of adam sandlers songs?/
preferably famous one (link)
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http://www.lyricsandsongs.com/lyrics/ADAM_SANDLER.html
has all of them on there.
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my boyfriend and i have been dating for about a year, and we just started having sex at the begining of the year.
he doesnt really last that long, and its understandable because i was his first.
normally we have a quickie first and then wait a while and the 2nd time he always lasts longer...but sometimes it's difficult for him to get hard and stay that way....how long should we be waiting...and any other tips? (link)
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Some guys just do not have the capability to go two rounds.
But if that isn't the case with your boyfriend then it is just because your his first. Just give him time and he will last longer. The more you have sex the longer each time will go.
Practice makes perfect.
And lastly "other tips" would be to google how to last longer during sex the first link gives great tips
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so me and my guy friend are best friends. he liked me in 7th grade and then again earlier this year. i liked him too but we never told each other. he has this on again off again girlfriend who he went out with and broke up with nine times. so him and his girl had been broken up for about 2 months, she had another boyfriend so i finally decided to tell my guy that i liked him once again and i had heard through a mutual friend that he liked me again. so i told him and he informed me that his ex girlfriend had called him the day before to let him know that she was breaking up with her current boyfriend and wanted to give their relationship another shot....(as if the first 9 times didnt make it clear that it doesnt work out). so he said "i know you would make an amazing girlfriend and i like you but i want to try it with her one more time". so he's currently going out with his ex....AGAIN. who only causes him misery and since im the best friend i get to hear him complain about her all the time. now i really really REALLY like him and his parents think i "fit in the family" which means a lot to me. now we all know that this relationship isnt going to last and hes going to break up with his girlfriend for the thousandth time and he's already called me saying "i cant believe i went out with her again when i had a much better option" and then in the middle of that phone conversation his girlfriend called. i got put on hold and then when he answered the phone again him and his girlfriend had stopped fighting and everything was good again. he says he wants to be with me but he doesnt want me to wait around for him because he would feel guilty and greedy for wanting me to do that. basically hes the most amazing friend and i know that he would be an amazing, caring boyfriend.
ok that was part one of my problem.
part two.
so he says not to wait around for him...so maybe i wont. ok so my uncle's girlfriend and my mom are really good friends. my uncle's girlfriend has been trying to set me up with her grandson all my life. he's the same age as me, tall dark and handsome, smart, oh yeah..and his dad owns an island. we had a playdate once when we were about six years old where we had an accident with a hammock and i ended up with a black eye...casued by him but he felt really bad. other than that i havent seen or talked to him except for today...when i saw him in the dentist's office and i have to say i was impressed. it would make both our families incredibly happy if we got together but i've never really had a conversation with him. i added him on facebook but im not sure that he knows who i am but i have thousands of connections to this kid.
so do i sit around and wait for a guy who has loved me for years(this could take anywhere from 2 weeks to 5 months) or do i try and start something new with this kid??
sorry this turned out so long. (link)
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Well it is all up to you.
Your friend seems to be caught up in a loop of break ups which could keep going on again and again for a long time. But eventually they will stay broken up for good.
If it is true what you say about 2 weeks - 5 months then i say wait for him. But while waiting get to know this new kid. Try to hang out with this kid and get to know him better. You might even end up liking him more then your childhood friend. If that isn't the case then just go out with your childhood friend when he and is girl friend eventually break up
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