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Bras.


Question Posted Saturday June 28 2008, 7:17 pm

I have been going through bra's like nothing.
Im 14 and obviously a female and in December my Mom baught me like 4 A size bras. Well I started getting to big so my Mom got me a B, and that was in April. I started getting growing pains a lot lately and now Im too big for a B and my Moms talking about going into a C.
Is it normal to be growing so fast, and It's weird because Ive always been the tom-boy and now I dont feel as comfortable around my friends.
I went to a pool party and me and Nikki were the only girls there and... things got weird. But I just wanna know if they'll stop soon, because I hate them, and I cant talk to my friends because there like Katie! Im an A and completely jealous!! I dont know why though I mean I cant wear a shirt without some kind of clevage.
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TMZheartsJDMS022108 answered Tuesday July 1 2008, 4:46 pm:
This is normal. You grew fast at your age but hardly anything to be ashamed about. As for growing, you cant determine that nothing can. You could stop growing for years and then continue or you could just stop all together. Dont feel weird that your a C and your friends are A's or that your a tomboy. Its something you cant control and you shouldnt be worried about them. As for the cleavage i know that it might not fit your body type but maybe buy bigger shirts. And if your okay with the cleavage then dont change how you dress. Hope that helps

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vermillion26 answered Sunday June 29 2008, 8:32 pm:
This is normal. Everyone grows at different rates. I know a girl who was a practically flat at the beginning of Grade 9 and by the start of grade 10 she was a DD. I'm not saying that this is necessarily what will happen to you, but keep in mind that everyone is different - they grow at different rates and to different sizes. If you need a C cup then get it. Do not try to fit into a small bra - it will only hurt you.
You can try wearing more modest clothing if you are very self-concious, but I would say that you should try not to see your breasts as a curse. You should be proud of your body and the fact is if you had small breasts, you would want them bigger. Try to be happy with yourself and remember that you are not the only one who is developing. Having bigger breasts does not change who you are and it shouldn't change how your friends see you.
If it gets to be too much, tell your friends in a firm yet polite way that them talking about your breasts makes you very uncomfortable and that you would like them to stop. If they are good friends, they will respect your wishes.
I hope I helped.

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InsaneChildz answered Sunday June 29 2008, 3:27 pm:
Yes its completely normal for this to happen. Everyone grows at different rates, and people start at different times.
It seems like your big growth spurt.
It will stop eventually. But for now your going to have to keep going up sizes.
Your friends don't understand that once you get bigger boobs that thats all guys look at. They will learn that in time though.

For now try to wear more covered clothings around your friends so you feel more comfy and so that nothings weird.

Although i am a guy i hope it helped.
~InsaneChildz~
15/m

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