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Heyy I'm HurleyGurley and i'm here to help you with your problems and questions! If you ever ask me a question i'll be sure to answer you back right away! Much love :) xoxo

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what do yall think of the livestrong bracelets? everyone has them? do u have one?
thanx makayla

i'm sorry i must be stupid but i've never heard of those...could you tell me? :) xoxo

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I am inbetween of thickness and thingess of my hair and does anyone know how to(w/o a perm) how to get it like those wavy things like marykate and ashley type things and how do i get my hair straight like a avrial lavigne type w/o having to use a straightner everyday?

*i rate * -HaIr

ok if you want your hair wavy you can put hair gel or hair mousse and your hair in braids after you take a shower then in the morning take them out and you got wavy hair! and if you want straight hair you could get it permanetly straightend or you could use a straightener i dnno what else you could do! :) xoxo

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i am a swimmer, i want to be on the high school team but i am nervous!!! about that i am not going to make state quals.
please help me!!
-ginger

dont worry! i know exactly what your going through, i used to be a swimmer aswell and trust me you should try out even if you think your not good, you are, just do it! dont stress! you'll do great :) xoxo

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Well,i have a problem.

Me n this boy started going out. He was so sweet to me, and so damn nice, i really loved him. Then he started to get a lil more being a jerk. Thats just him, i let it pass, because he was just being a guy. He said a few things that bothered me, i told him, he told me he was sorry millions of times. You know. i let it all pass. Then he broke up with me, cause " He didnt want a gf" We've been going out for 3 months and he was my first boyfriend and i really loved him alot, he seemed like he really loved me to. I was heartbroken. Then about 4 days after we broke up, he went online and i was talking to him. He told me " God i cant take it anymore, I love you more then anything, will you be my GF again?" and just because im stupid, i said yes. Should i stay with him and risk getting hurt again.. or break up with him.. IDK what to do, cause i really love him..He even told me if i broke up with him he'd practically kill himself because he couldnt live without me.. please help!

i know how boys are and they can be mean at times.. a lot of times, i know what your going through and i know i dont know you or your man but when he says- "God i cant take it anymore, I love you more then anything, will you be my GF again?" that sounds soo sweet, you guys sound so cute together and i really hope you still want to be with him...you should stay with him but just confront him and tell him that he needs to stop being a jerk to you..i hope all works out! :) xoxo

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muh lil sister , is always tellin me what 2 do and i've tryed almost everything to let her no that im older and that im not always gonna listen 2 her but she still finds wys 2 push me around can sum 1 give me advice im out of option?

tell your sister that your job is to be the older one and that she needs to stop bossing you around and that she should mind her own business when it comes to who pushes who around, cause that's your job :) xoxo

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I went to the website for Planned Parenthood (Thanks to Druidx) and found one very close by. The only reason I wanted to go was to get birth control and tested for STD's without my parents knowing, but you still have to get a parent consent form filled out unless you live by yourself or dont have parents. Is there anyway to swindle out of it? I cant tell my parents, the whole idea of me going was to not let them know..

ok since you hate my answer, go ahead ask one of those people who told you to get a form that you dont have parents and lie to them, is that what you wanted to hear?

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I have had a couple of boyfriends and i really liked all of them. but none of them last for a long time because when i really like someone just all of a sudden i wake up one morning saying, ok well i dont really like this person anymore or i like someone else. Do u think that i should wait to have a boyfriend for awhile? or if i start to like a guy i should be his friend for awhile and then see what happens?? please answer my question!! i need some advise!! thanks!
(Im 14)

ok you should definitly wait awhile before you have a boyfriend and if you do start liking someone i think you should be friends first, i have the same problem sometimes...its hard but you'll start liking people longer in no time! :) xoxo

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About two months ago, my boyfriend of 8 months bought me a beautiful diamond promise ring and about a week ago, I lost it... I just woke up one morning and found it missing from my finger. I searched my entire house, top to bottom. I even rented a metal detector to try and find it. I feel terrible about losing it. I know it must have cost him a fortune. I haven't told him that I've lost it yet. He just noticed I wasn't wearing it yesterday and asked me where it was. I didn't know how to tell him so I said I was cleaning it. My question for you guys is: how should I go about telling him that I lost it? I know he'll be upset with me no matter how I word it but any advice/suggestions would be helpful.

just tell him the truth, that you lost it, he should understand, but you should still tell him that it mean't a lot to you and that your devasted that its gone :) xoxo

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i have really thick hair its about 4 inches below my shoulders...does anyone have any ideas about how to get it either curly or wavy?

i have the same type of hair and what i do is if you want it curley you just put some hair gel or hair mousse in yor hair after you take a shower then you put curlers in them overnight and in the morning take them out or if you want it wavy you just put in braids after you take a shower than in the morning take em' out and they're wavy! :) xoxo

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does anybody know a good website for QUOTES????


thanks

well i know this website and i'm pretty sure you can get some good quotes from there, i haven't check in awhile! www.awaymessages.com :) xoxo

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I Love You!

I love you too!! :) xoxo

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i cut myself a lot just to make the pain go away and i told one person and they told me to tell my parent but i dont want to i wanna stop but i cant its just hard i need help can someone tell me wat to do please

stop cutting yourself! doing that can seriosly hurt you and result in killing yourself! thats the most resonable and helpful thing i can say! :) xoxo

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i was hanging out in my back yard today without my shirt on (im a guy), and i got pretty burnt on my chest and stomach and arms. will this turn into a tan after the sun burn heals?

yes whenever i get sun burned my burn turns into a tan but, it could be different for you since your different but usually if you get burnt and it just goes away then obviously then it woun't turn to a tan if thats you :) xoxo

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how can u tell if ur a good kisser or do sumin bout it if u r kuz i dont want my bf sayin stuff now or after we brake^((i kno this sounds really gay but...))

well you can't really tell unless you ask your boyfriend! making out comes naturally, i mean for someone to be really that bad and terrible is kinda not that possible so your safe! :) xoxo

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Does anyone know anything that would be a good morning workout for me to do at least every other day to get my body awake and ready for the rest of the day?

you could run/jog every morning, crunches, some excersizes like that help a lot! :) xoxo

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what do u put in potatoe salad and how do u make it?

potatoes, lettuce, onions, tomatoes, salad dressing...stuff liek that?? :) xoxo

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how do you lose love handles?? i mean like mine arent HUGE but they are kinda big and they bug me. please help me i dont like them and they're starting to bring my self esteem down fast
xoxo loves ya!

all i have to say babe is to do crunches! that would help and eat healthy thats all you can do! :) xoxo

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what whole does the tampon go in?? is it better to sleep with a pad than a tampon and how do you not stain the bed?

the tampon goes in the middle hole between the pee hole and the poop hole lol well it doesnt really matter if you use a pad or a tampon when you sleep i mean they're both good, and if you dont wanna stain the bed than use a pad or tampon big enough for your flow :) xoxo

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wen i have my period im not really aloud to take a pill but my stomach always hurts alot wut can i do?!?! wif school n everything i dont wunna go wif muh stomach hurtin!!

ok first of all why arnt you allowd to take a pills? well ask if your not sure and well take them, that makes the pain go away! and if not them run around...move! just stay active that helps best! :) xoxo

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what culd/can you use around the house to practice kissing(like if havent kissed eny1/few and you just want to make sure or something)...??

well you could practice with your hand or a pillow anything basically! but i just wanna say that kissing comes naturally and i wouldnt be worried about it if your afraid your a bad kisser! :) xoxo

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