Why do I seem to laugh at ppls problems. Yes I know the category is wrong, if you get flipped out by that go do something else. I was reading over this and I would laugh at these ppls problems, is it because I am a massicist?
Haha... i don't know. Maybe its just because you're not much of a sentimental person. I guess that can be understandable though.
- LIVEY
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hey guys! does anyone have any really cute unique babie names for (both boy and girl) that you like/kno of?! i need help thinkin of some very cute ones for my sister-in-law! i'm going to be a aunt! please answer quick.. ill rate high! :)
I'm not sure if they're really unique or cute but here...
GIRLS:
Natalie
Skyler
April
Abigail
Ivy
Brook
Ariel
Blyss
Adrian
Haley
Beth
Tracey
Crystal
Blair
Claire
Addison
Madison
Leia
Taylor
Kendal
Sabrina
Olivia
Kelly
Rebecca
Jeanette
Alexis
Kacey
Robin
BOYS:
Ace
Omar
Lee
Corey
Taylor
Derick
Kevin
Carson
Allen
Cody
Collin
Hope I helped :-D
- LIVEY
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y do i get mean questions in my inbox from people on this site...why are people so mean?
Yeah I do too sometimes. And sometimes I give advice and people don't like it so they act like a$$ holes. I wouldn't worry about it though. :-D
- LIVEY
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I need an idea for a date. I don't know they guy real well, we've only talked 2 times. So i want to get to know him, and i'm kinda nervous that going to a movie would me akward. Please give me ideas.
I think bowling, miniture golf, or even going out to eat and afterwards going to the park would be nice.
- LIVEY
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what kind of blanket do you use to masturbate with, mine is fuzzy but it gets caught and it absorbs a lot of my juices. it is 100% cotton but i think wool or silk would work better. what do you prefer?
i rate high so give some advice
Well bascially I've just usually used cotton. So I guess thats what I'd prefer. But yeah you may be right about maybe using something else that'd work better. I'll try it out.
- LIVEY
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Does anybody know where I could get a icon that says my name?Plz help.thanks!my names tasha.thx bye (i'll rate)
I'd say iconator.com is the best place. Then go under "Search Iconator" and type in your name.
- LIVEY
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what are you guys opion of christians and other sprital stuff???>??
I'm a christian. God definitely exists. But I don't like when people say "Oh, god makes bad things happen" or any $hit like that. God lets us make our own decisions. Thats why bad things happen because its our own damn fault. But yeah, my dad's a catholic and my mom's babtist. Church can be boring sometimes but its all good.
- LIVEY
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OK I REALLY NEED HELP. i am a girl and i have questions i will rate 5s no matter wat. ok well here goes: when i masturbate i usually rub it with something like a pillow or blanket. i don't really like to finger, i don't find a lot of pleasure in that. is that weird? please be honest. second thing: i don't know if i orgasm or not. it feels really good and i know that i'm "done" but i don't know if i actually Orgasmed or not. what's the feeling? does a bunch of stuff come out? more than the wetness before? how do i tell
Nah I don't think its wierd that you don't like to use your finger. Personally I prefer the same way as you and with the rubbing. As for the orgasm i don't know.
- LIVEY
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I'm having a really big problem with a certain advicenator that gives horrible advice, puts people down, and makes fun of the questions that people can't answer... I know it's not my place to say something but this person is VERY rude and makes people feel like crud, I would know. I really want to say something.. This one girl said "Im 150 lbs and I need help losing weight" and the advicenator said "Who cares you're the f**king fat a** not me im only 112 and taller than u, fat a**" thats just rude so help me please... thanks alot
Yeah, thats pretty mean. What you should do is put his username down and get everyone on him. So everyone hates him. I mean really, what an a$$. And you should try to talk to that girl I'm sure that made her feel like $hit.
- LIVEY
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I am a 14 year old guy and I like a 10 year old girl, is this ok??
Sure, its okay.... its just kinda creepy. Its not the fact thats its a 4 year difference but shes 10 and you're 14. And I know that most people are saying well a lot of guys date younger girls and I know that but like 4 years difference even in the teen range would be okay, but not 10 and 14... theres a big difference. You've already hit puberty and been through so much and she prolly hasn't even been through it yet. And you have a much more mature mind than her, you understand life so much better and i mean shes only 10. But yeah I wouldn't go out with her, thats all... Her parents prolly wouldn't like the idea of that anyway, lol.
- LIVEY
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Theres this one inparticular guy (16) that i REALLY like a lot. Ive known him for 2 years and we've been great friends and more. ne wayz, he has problems stayin commited and keeping to one girl. Every time we make out i find out from someone else that he has a girlfriend and I feel like Im helping him cheat. my sister says forget about him, but its not that easy. what do i do?
Well yeah the best thing to do would be to forget about him, it won't be easy. But yeah. And plus a guy thats not loyal to his girlfriend right now won't be loyal to you if you're ever with him in the future... just remember that. Hes not worth your time. You can get someone better than that I'm sure.
- LIVEY
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One of my friends said that her parents thought people who attempted suicide or thought about killing them selves were crazy- and i said that i thought that to, and then my friend said that when people have depression they cant help it so they just kill them selves..i didnt believe it..but is it true that you cannot control ur self when ur depressed? i mean isnt there something u can do about it --HelP * i RaTe hIgH
I mean sure, you can help it or get help. I mean its your choice to kill yourself. But if you have like chronic depression it really is hard for people and the hell they go through. Life starts to get so down you just dont wanna live because the easiest thing you can do to get away from it is committing suicide. You can get help from a therapist or somethin though and like some medications like Zoloft can help. But what some people don't realize is that it can give some severe side affects sometimes. But yeah. Hope I helped.
- LIVEY
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i really like this guy, chris, and i have for the whole summer, but the thing is, my dad doesnt like him, he says things about him that really make me mad, i know that my dad just cares and doesnt want me to get hurt or anything, but there really isnt anything wrong with chris, like the things that my dad says are completely ridiculous! just this morning i asked my dad if I could have my phone back because chris might call me from out of town, but as soon as I mentioned his name, my dad said no, its really beginning to annoy me that my dad can't trust my good judgement, I'm a smart girl and I know what I'm doing, someone please help me here! i rate (btw 14f)
You should sit down and talk with him about Chris and tell him all the good things about him and why you like him so much. And like if you got a chance to, you could even have your dad ask Chris some questions and stuff to earn more trust or somethin.
- LIVEY
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do guys prefer blondes or brunettes?
Blonde, Brunette? Who really cares. And I think it goes the same way for us girls which do we prefer?... I mean the answer is, It doesn't matter. If anything it matters if they have nice hair, not the color. What kind of guy would prefer a type of hair color in a girl anyway?... obviously a shallow one. lol
- LIVEY
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hey...this is gonna be pretty long im guessing so ill rate 5's to whoever takes the time to answer this..thanks.
Okay..so i met this guy who i fell totaly inlove for and cared about him sooo much. he knew that i was moving to a different country soon, and it started affecting our relationship badly. one night we got in a fight and were on the verge of a break up after i found out he told people he dindt like me anymore. i called him up and told him im comming to him as a source of it all and i need to know if he still likes me or not, and that i dont want him to lie to me , or fuck with me, just tell me the truth. well that night he never gave me a straight out answer if he still liked me or not, he was really quiet, and every time id cuss he would ask me to stop cussing. but i jsut kept on yellin and crying and tellin him i cared a lot, and i just need the truth, then ill leave him alone if thats what he wants. well he said he had a lot to say but he needs to figure it out nad he'll call me back. i said okay. this was around 11 at night or so. but he dindt call for like 2 hours, and i got worn out and tired so i went to bed. he called around 5, but i dindt pick up cuase i was sleepin and my phone was on silent so i missed it. i keep thinking to waht if that was the call that would fix my relationship with him. the next day, i called him back but he wasnt home. I called my "bst friend" and aksed her what she was up 2, and if she wasnt busy i needed to talk to her (i wanted to tell her hwat happened) and she goes "oh actually im just with ur boyfriend right now nad we're just chillin with some other people" I had NO problem with that whatsoever caust i trusted her completely with everything i had..and it takes a long time to gain trust with me cuase i been backstabbed way too many times..so this gurl had my trust completely, and i trusted my boyfriend and i understood that maybe he needded some time to think things over and stuff..well my best friend, all the guys think shes one of the hottest girls ever, and pretty and perfect and eveyrthing..blah. anyways, my boyfriend calls me from my best friends cellphone later on that night and i pick up and he talks to me and hes like "hey....im really sorry but i dont think we shuld be together anymore..u cna hate me if u want, u hvae every right to, but i still wanna be friends. i really dont want to..i just think this is comming to end.." and i was just like "alright, bye" cause i was really upset!! i mean i loved this boi!! and he broke my heart in thousand pieces!! and so i knew hed be with my best friend for the next few hours, so i called him around 12 am, and i was like "hey..i think i deserve to know why" and he was like "know why i broke up with u" and i said yes so he tells me all this crap about hwo he thought i was somebody else who i wasnt and how he met someone special who is so perfect and amazing and how i deserve better than him and it ended and that he has unrealistic expections of ppl. basically a bunch of BS and he never gave me a real answer. so w/e. it NEVER evven crossed my mind that my best friend was his new special someone!!!!! I found out that she hooked up with him the night we broke up! she gave him head, he fingered her, and ate her out and she gave him a hand job!! ON the FREAKING night we broke up1!!!!!!!! i was like omg r u kidding me.. but when i told her i was hurt she freaked out on me and told my ex that she cant like him cause of me! and so my ex freaked out on me and got pissed cuase supposebly hes in love with my slutty ex best friend..and i still cared a lot about my ex, like damn i care so much for him.so i told her she can do whatever she wants, and to not involve me in it..but i couldnt really get mad at her and let her know how much anger i have, and how betrayed i felt and how i would never trust her again..so i reminaed silent, which was a mistake. now them two are fucking going out, and she lost her VIRGINITY to him. i dunno what to do. i cdant say anything now, but i feel so betrayed bt here. should i still let her know that im realy hurt and i have a lot of anger! cuase when she has problems with my ex and is sad she comes to me and tells me about them and i dont wnt to hear it, he was MY ex!! and when he does cute stuff she tells me and im like how much more unsensitive cna u be? but i just sit there and listen..i dunno. shulld i tell her off and break friendship off completely? cuase i have no trust for her. and baout him, what do i do. cuase even after it all i still love this boi like no other and care os much and really dont want to lose him..even as a friend..i hookked up with him one time after we broke up..and i was crying cause i was drunk and i told him evertthing i felt and we stood infront of the mirror and my make up was completly smirred and we were huggin really tightly and he goes look at us, look at the mirror and we both look, and then he turns his head away, kisses my forhead and he syas i cant look at u this way i cant look at us cuase then its gonna hurt more..and i was way drunk and i dindt say anythin just kept crying. and we just stood there..so i duno cuas ei still care lots about him and i duunno if i shold just act like i dont care anymore and eventually stop..or should i still care for him and talk to him and be friends..cause being friends with him hurts me somuch cuase i see him with her and it makes my heart crash to a thousand more pieces evry time. and also his birthday is comming up soon, and i dunno if i should get him something or not? and if i should..what? hes a bab boi skater type..so u cant really get nice things, and i dont want to get it over done to make him think im obsessed with him.
I AM sorry this is soo long!! but i really needed to elt it all out! thanks for whoever replys! ill rate 5!! xoxoxoxoxo thnaks!
Omgsh, I think I felt a little tear runnin down my cheek during that. That must of hurt so bad. Well, I wouldn't get him a gift or anything. And I wouldn't even be friends with her anymore. I'd tell her how you really felt and just break off the friendship. I know it sounds forward but look what she did and you know that she knows how much you cared about him and how much that hurt you... I mean then why did she do it? True friends could control theirselves in a situation like that and be there for them. (No need for 2nd chances there.) And for him, I would try to stay away from him as much as possible. I know this isnt easy because you still love him so much. But maybe you could go to the mall or somewhere and try to meet some guys. It might make you feel a bit better. I really hope you feel so much better. I'm sure it hurts but try to be strong. Love ya.
- LIVEY
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I'm starting to get scared. Every time I pray a voice starts talking back to me and telling me to do things I consider bad. When I ask the voice why its telling me to do it, it says this is God's word. Is it really? I don't want to do bad things unless God really wants me to...
Well this is mind boggling. I don't think god would tell you to do things that weren't moral. Even if it said it was god's word... I'm not too sure about that. So yeah if its bad don't listen... I'm sure its not god. Maybe its just satan trying to get in between your relationship with god. Try to listen to your conscience. Hope I helped.
- LIVEY
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I talked to my parents, and they don't support me for being gay. I kept trying to tell them it wasn't their fault that I'm gay, but they constantly think it is. I keep trying to convince them that I was born gay, because I've always felt gay like this. Why won't they believe me that I was born gay, Olivia? What is your advice for that situation?
Aw well sorry to hear that. Well, they dont have solid evidence that people are born gay. But here is something that may lead to homosexuality that wasn't "fully proved"...
The study had at least three glaring weaknesses:
1. It was based on a small group of 41 male cadavers, including 19 homosexual males. All of the homosexual men had died of AIDS, something that many researchers believe could very well account for or contribute to the differences (in the brain stem).
2. There is no way to determine if the smaller hypothalamuses were the cause or the result of homosexual behavior.
3. The area of the brain LeVay was measuring (the INAH3) was quite small — smaller than snowflakes, according to scientists interviewed. His peers in the neuroscientific community couldn’t agree on whether the INAH3 should be measured by its size and volume, or by its number of neurons.
Of course if your parents are christians though, most likely they don't believe that people are born gay and you can't really do anything to convice them that. The Bible declares it is sin over and over... sorry ;-/ and I don't mean that in an insulting way. But they should still support you. If I was in your position I would tell them its not their fault and that you love them very much, but that is how you're going to be and if they can do one thing to help you out with the situation the least they could do is support you.
This was a very tough one. But I really hope I helped. I wish you luck.
- LIVEY
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I'm gay and my parents don't agree with my sexual preference. What should I do Olivia?
You should plan sometime to talk with them about it. And try to explain to them how you feel and even though they may not agree with it, they will most likely accept it. And if this is something you've told them recently they may just be shocked by it, and give them some time.
- LIVEY
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