I dont really know what to say about myself. But, I guess I'll just say some stuff about me.
I'm 15, and my name is Melissa.
I'm 5,4 and 105 pounds!
I have brown hair, green/gray/gold eyes, LONG legs, and freckles! But not alot of freckles...more like a bandit mask of them. Lol, like in the shape of a raccoon mask.
I go to CAT pickering, and while there i take Culinary Arts. Then after that, I go back to Downingtown East High School for the rest of the day. I LOVE IT!! I only take like, THREE classes a day and i'm in tenth grade!
I love all music, except for creepy country, (no offense to all you country lovers out there!) and I love to draw!!
I'm not really punk, preppy, goth, or anything like that...i'm more like....me? lol, ANYWAY,
That's all I have to say!
If you need help, feel free to ask me. I dont mind answering your ?'s! Or if you just want to talk, my AIM name is Samarawntstoast. IM me if you want to!
Peace!
~Melissa~
E-mail: tdrod4@comcast.net
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Age: 15
AIM: samarawntstoast
MSN: firefairy141@hotmail.com
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ok..well..i love my boyfriend A LOT hes like my worl and i am definately ready to move to step 2,3 and so on u kno but m only doubt is that i have white discharge all the time in my underwear..like wats wrong w/ me:(..help please (link)
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Dont worry about the white discharge, you get that all the time after you start getting your period. Its not suppossed to go away until menapause. But if your really worried about it then i think you should see a doctor. Tell your mom your worried about it and that you just want to make sure. Make sure you dont mention the whole 2,3 base thing...lol...but anyway,
I hope I helped you out!!
~Melissa~
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my mom thinks i have too much clothes. the thing is, i don't really. i mean it's not that i have only 5 shirts or 5 pants or anything...not that little but i swear i've worn every shirt, skirt, and pants at least 100 times, dead serious. it's not that we're poor or anything, we're not. we could definitely afford more clothes. and no i cannot do chores around the house, we have a housekeeper. how can i get my mom to get over the fact that i DON'T have too many clothes??? i probably only have like 15 shirts and 10 pants and skirts...that's supposed to last me??? sorry but please help i will rate (link)
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Well, If you really are bored with your cloths, you could show that you are responsible and donate some of your cloths to a charity like the salvation army. That way you would be helping out other people, and you wouldn't have enough cloths anymore, so your mom would have to buy you more cloths! Tell your mom that you really want to help kids that need it, and that you know they need those cloths more than you!
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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i have this really good friend, but she's way to thin. i mean, she's like 75 pounds, and we're in 9th grade. she wears xs & 0s, and can fit into kids clothes. i think this makes her less attractive, and everyone says shes anorexic. but she eats at lunch, and whenever we hang out she eats. i dont think shes bulimic(sp?) and she doesnt look sickly. i think its just genetics, but she doesnt think shes all that skinny, though she is, sometimes she'll make remarks like shes gaining weight or whatever, and the truth is she could gain about 20 pounds and still be considered very tiny. she needs to gain weight because it looks unhealthy, almost like you could break her in half, but i dont know how to help her, and i dont want to offend her. maybe its not my place to tell her she needs to gain weight? but everyone always talks about how skinny she is, and guys arent interested in her because shes like a stick. what should i do? or should i do anything?
ill rate high :) (link)
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I have a friend just like that and it can be really scary. You should tell her that she should gain weight because its not natural for someone to be that thin. She might need to see a diet-trician (SP?. Or she just might need for you to really give her a good talking too. Tell her she's not fat and that she needs to gain weight like RIGHT now, or she could have a heart-attack. It happend to my one friend and she still wont gain weight! Please confront your friend before it gets too out of hand.
I really hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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i have big boobs for my age.all the guys stare at them, especially when i lean over to get something off the floor.
one of my friends that i've known for like, 8 years is starting to like, pay attention to me, alot. he plays with my hair, lets me copy his work, and is always like, hanging all over me. at first i thought it was him just being cute, but then he and i were playing around in the hall after school and he (i think accidentally)tripped me, and i grabbed his arm, accidentally pulling him down on top of me on the floor, when he said "um.. sorry", looked me in the eyes, and got up and helped me up.
what makes matters worse, i have a boyfriend that lives a couple states away. i love him with all my heart and i think he may just be the one,but hey i'm still under 18..
anyway, my boyfriend thinks this guy is a creap and wants me,for my protection, to stay away from him. my boyfriend(let's call him jonathan)thinks that this guy is perverted, at least a little, and either wants me for my personality, or for my boobs.
but jonathan is positive that the dude wants me... like.. sexually, i dont know what to do..
i am not interested in anybody but jonathan at all whatsoever.
i have no idea what to do. i want jonathan, like.. bad. and jonathan wants me just as bad back. but the other guy, just keeps popping up.
how can i stop being so friendly with this guy,without being mean, so he'll go away???
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i rate high for good answers
sorry this was so long. (link)
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Well, you should confront him and tell him that your not comfortable with how he is treating you. Tell him that you like him as a friend, but dont like him like THAT. Hopefully he will understand and not be hurt!
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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Okay heres where ill start. I'm a pretty girl whos fun to be around and nice to everyone. I asked about a guy named A who was new. So him and me are always looking at each other and I can sense chemistry between and attraction. The thing is today i had straightened my hair and it was getting frizzy so I put it up and than took it down and he smiled and said I like it better down and I just giggled and aww thanx. Than my friends were like ask him out but i didnt. soo he starts talking to this pretty girl named Ceci and I was like confussed.
Does this means he likes her or does he like me or should I hang out with him or what?
And the popular tough pretty girls at my school like him so I'm scared of getting beat up too.
What do I do about that (link)
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pu-sha! ^_^ Why care what they think! Lol, If they try to beat you up, just punch them in the throat! anyway, if he complimented your hair, he probably likes you. ^__^ Everyone know's hair is a girl's weak point. And he may have been talking to the girl just to get you jealous. So Good Luck!
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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i REALLY need help on this 1!!! im new at this advice thingy and i want to give great advice! how do i give good/great advice????
PLZ help me!!!! *i will rate high on good answers! :)*
from,
stuck in it! (link)
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Just answer people from your heart. If you connect with a quistion and an answer comes to you almost instantly then you'll problably give good advice. ^_^ It gets really easy after practice! Dont worry, you'll do great!
Hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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I have a problem, i have a huge crush on this one boy that I've known for a long time. He always flirts with me and tells me his secrets, but im afraid that I'm going to be the best friend. What are some things i could do to be more than a friend. I'm also araid that he is just a big flirt. Does anyone know how you can tell if he may be one?
Sorry if you think im pathetic.
If your not a smartass to me i might be nice. Or if your a smartass and you made me laugh i might be nice and rate you.
That's it.
Thank You. (link)
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Wow, you and I have so much in common it's not even funny. I'm going through the same thing right now and I've liked this guy forever!! He even tells me his secrets and flirts with me all the time. But ANYWAY, a way to tell if he likes you is have a good friend go up and ask him "Why have you been hitting on (insert your name here) so much? If he's a huge flirt he'll probably just blow it off, but if he really likes you he'll get all red and stuttery. (its kinda funny to watch) Or you could ask around and find out if he flirts with alot of other girls. Like if you find out he made out with a girl at summer camp after flirting with you the whole time *clenchs and unclenchs fists* then he's a flirt. But if everyone says he's a nice guy he probably likes you. Or you could just ask him, which will save you alot of trouble. But its all up to you! Tell me how it turns out!! My AIM is Samarawntstoast
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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I have to go on a diet of strictly about 10 apples(or more) and 6 water bottles(and more) per day for 3 days. Do NOT ask why; but I'm a HUGE eater, so ive been having really really bad urges to eat other food. I mean i will stand there and stare at cooler ranch doritoes qiestioning my will power, i just want to eat good food so bad! Soo bad! What is the world can i do to resist these urges to eat good food??!
Thanks for anyone who tries to help(and fives).
xxAnixX (link)
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Lol, well, just to let you know, apples and water are MUCH better foods then doritos! But maybe you could try to distance yourself from these foods for those three days. If you have any in your kitchen ask your parents/guardians to hide them from you. And at school just pack your "lunch" and stay out of the lunch line. It will make things easier!
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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Hey.I love food, i cant get enough of it. But, my question is...how do i stop eating every second, and only eat during meal times.
XOX,
FOOD-LOVER (link)
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It's all about self control. Or you can snack on really healthy things! Like fruit salad or carrots or somthing!! It may sound gross, but a peach really does taste better than a tastykake or somthing of that nature! I would suggest for super snack-age peaches, plums, apples with low-fat yogurt, carrots, celery with peanut butter (yum), or anything else that is super healthy! It's not bad to snack during the day, but you should try to snack well.
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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ok like, i have this boyfriend and we've been going out for around 5 months(a long time) and now every thing about him is starting to bug me! its like i just dont want to be around him anymore but i've felt this way for a few weeks but like last week we went like.. way further that we had been. and he's always talking about how he couldnt live without me and like how he would kill himself, and he is serious. what should i do? (link)
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Okay, this guy seems kinda creepy. If you dont like him you should never have gone "alot farther" than you did. But anyway, you have to sit him down and tell him that you dont like it when he talks like that, and that you dont like him as much as you did when you first got togeather, and that people change over time. Hopefully he'll understand, and it wont be your fault if he does somthing, because thats his choice.
Hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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Hi..Before I put my poem in I have to say, it's disappointing that there isnt an Arts & Literature section.
Secondly, heres my poem.(It's about loseing friends..like not deathwise but friendships ending.)
Memories
I remember how we used to laugh together
We barely ever fought, we got along just fine
We always said we'd be friends forever..
But now you say the fault of our friendships ending is mine
I dont understand what I ever did to you to make you hate me
You wont even hear me out
I was always there as a shoulder to cry on
To help you when you were in doubt
Sure, I had problems with my other friends
I worked things out with them
That's when you decided our friendship had to end.
So what it seems to me is that you cant accept who else I'm friends with
Do you really think its fair?
I accepted everyone else you hung out with
If I didnt like your friends, I shrugged it off and didnt care
But now I've learned that I dont need you
I have other great friends whom I know are true.
So what I'm trying to say is sorry for your loss.
I figured out that friendships dont always last.
I see you have moved on and so have I.
I need to stop living in the past,
And continue living my life..
Please let me know what you think! All answers are appriciated! (link)
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^_^ that sounds really good!! It sounded like it came from your heart, which is really awesome!! I liked it, and I related to it really well. Keep posting your poems. I'd like to read more!
~Melissa~
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Ok, there is this guy and everyday when I get on the bus he constantly stares at me. when I get to skool in the morings he stares at me! He used to like me I think. But I want to know if he still does. i think he has a girlfriend. Whats something I could just talk about right out of the blue and not sound stupied? (link)
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Find out what he likes OR, whats even more fun, is go right up to him on the bus, sit next to him, and say "why are you always staring at me, its kinda weird." And then just sit there and wait till he answers. He may just get emabarressd and if he does he probably still likes you, if he doesn't and just says somthing stupid...he probably likes you. lol.
Hope I Helped! Please Rate!
~Melissa~
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okay what does is mean if someone calls you invalid or physically handicapped? (link)
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Um....well, physically handicapped is if you cant do certain things, like if you dont have an arm, or if you can't walk. And invalid is someone who can't do things for themselves, like if they have to stay in bed, or need help at school or somthing.
Hope I Helped! Please Rate!
~Melissa~
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ok i want to be a movie director i always have. ive always loved making movies and being behind teh camera. but now i want to make a movie to send in to some director/movie company. but i have two problems. What should it be about? and who do i send it in too?
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I can only help you with half of your quistion, and i hope thats all right....
Well, right now you could go for the ever popular Horror flick! You know, werewolves, demons, vampires, even somthing like constintine, with heaven vs. Hell.....or you could go for the craze of *dramatic music* FANTASY! A whole movie of unicorns and elves and magic and all that fun stuff! I would pay to see that! Just make sure you put some cool fight scenes in there. Like it could be a war between normal people and gifted people or somthing! Just go with what you think you'll have fun directing and producing!
Hope I Helped! Please Rate!
~Melissa~
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anyone have any ideas how to say no if someone asks you out and you really want too but are afraid,or you just dont like em. and dont want to hurt their feelings.
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You just have to be straight-forward and explain to them that you dont like them in that way, and that you would much rather be friends. It may seem hard but you'll feel way better after-words!
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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My husband and I have a pretty normal marriage. We live in a vacation area in Washington State where the real estate values have skyrocketed. Six years ago my husband wanted to buy some property for $200,000, I thought it was way too much for us at the time and didn't think we could afford that kind of payment. Needless to say, that peice of property today is worth one million!!! We had no idea this would happen. Now my husband blames me for us now not being rich! I feel so guilty I can hardly stand it. How can I get over this. It is over nad done now, but he is upset by it. I just don't know what to do. We are doing pretty good.
We own the cabin we live in, own a 3 acre peice of land and one rental cabin. I think it is good but he can't get over me not going along with the purchase years back.
Thank you for any advice to help me get over my feelings of guilt and regret and move on.
We are 41 and 47 years old (link)
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First off you should sit your hubbie down and tell him that everytime he brings that up, it hurts your feelings. You should also tell him that when you told him no, you were thinking for you and your husbands well being. Its not fair for him to hold this against you, considering it can happen to anyone. Not everything turns out the way it could have, and whats done is done. Tell him to put the past behind him.
Hope I helped!
~Melissa
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have any of you or your moms had a mamagram, then had to go back to take more pictures? if so, what happened? thank you soo much!! (link)
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That happend to my mom once, they thought she had a tumor, but she really didn't. I hope thats not the case with your mom! Good Luck!
~Melissa~
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i went out with this kid we will call him C, well we broke up because he accused me of cheating because some one told him i was, but thats a lie i gave my best friend a hug. well we recently went back out and broke up because he cheated on me this time with my best friend, he doesnt get the picture i dont want to date him he calls me 24/7 and he tells me he loves me if i got an away soccer game he shows up when the bus gets back and nos what way i go home and waits for me and really annoying i dont know what to so please help! (link)
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Well, you should explain to this friend C that you dont like him anymore and that its really creeping you out that he's pretty much stalking you, cause thats what it sounds like to me. If you just tell him he should start to leave you alone.
Hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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ok this is gonna sound gross but i get REALLY bad pit stains and they are so embarassing! does any1 know any deoterant that gets rid of them besides secret b/c im alergic to that and dove b/c it doesnt work either...!
i'll rate all 5's to good answers! (link)
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Adida's anti-persperant is really awesome!!
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a month, and i have been on holiday for 2 weeks. He has been dropping hints that he might be telling me he loves me soon, but he has chickened out. But this is good, because i dont love him. If he tells me he loves me what should i say back, because i dont love him. 16/f if that helps, hes 19 (link)
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Tell him you care about him alot, but your just not ready or comfortable telling him you love him. If he does love you, he should understand, and be willing to wait.
Hope I Helped!
~Melissa~
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