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love line? or love tree?


Question Posted Friday September 2 2005, 8:48 pm

i have big boobs for my age.all the guys stare at them, especially when i lean over to get something off the floor.
one of my friends that i've known for like, 8 years is starting to like, pay attention to me, alot. he plays with my hair, lets me copy his work, and is always like, hanging all over me. at first i thought it was him just being cute, but then he and i were playing around in the hall after school and he (i think accidentally)tripped me, and i grabbed his arm, accidentally pulling him down on top of me on the floor, when he said "um.. sorry", looked me in the eyes, and got up and helped me up.
what makes matters worse, i have a boyfriend that lives a couple states away. i love him with all my heart and i think he may just be the one,but hey i'm still under 18..
anyway, my boyfriend thinks this guy is a creap and wants me,for my protection, to stay away from him. my boyfriend(let's call him jonathan)thinks that this guy is perverted, at least a little, and either wants me for my personality, or for my boobs.
but jonathan is positive that the dude wants me... like.. sexually, i dont know what to do..
i am not interested in anybody but jonathan at all whatsoever.
i have no idea what to do. i want jonathan, like.. bad. and jonathan wants me just as bad back. but the other guy, just keeps popping up.
how can i stop being so friendly with this guy,without being mean, so he'll go away???
\:/:\:/:\:/
i rate high for good answers

sorry this was so long.


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XoUkrainianBabeXo answered Saturday September 3 2005, 6:47 pm:
If you don't want to take the direct approach of just telling him to back off. Then you can try mentioning your boyfriend a lot. For example if he plays with your hair say "I miss my boyfriend he would always smell my hair and pretend he didn't but he would always play with it" Even if that’s not true just so that he gets the idea. Say thing while around this kid that would make him think that you are devoted to 'Jonathan' and would never mess that up.
Hope I helped. If you need anymore help or what me to clear something up just ask.

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FireFairy141 answered Friday September 2 2005, 10:22 pm:
Well, you should confront him and tell him that your not comfortable with how he is treating you. Tell him that you like him as a friend, but dont like him like THAT. Hopefully he will understand and not be hurt!


Hope I Helped!


~Melissa~

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