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Okay well im a christian and everything....but i have tried weed a couple of times. see my sister was the one who got me high all those times and itsz SO0 hard to say no to her because i always feel ret@rded when i say no. well i guess whut im trying to say is, am i going to go to hell because i did it???? ANd i wanna stop doing it but i dont kno how to tell my sister.. and dont say just tell her no because you dont understand how hard it is. Because i NEVER see her and all that.. ijust dont kno whut to do...
plz help i rate high!
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One who knows who's goin to hell, who are we to say who is right and who is wrong, but i highly doubt you'll go to hell ( if there is one) for that.
second turn sayin no into a joke like
"Nah sis, I don't do that naymore, i just take the other ppl's wallets when they do" then wink at her, she'll either laugh or stop doin weed around you, or both
GoodLuck
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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no, you are not going to hell b/c you did weed. umm, i dont know what donomination you are though...if you're catholic, you need to go to confession. i dont know about if you are protestant though....and you should tell you're priest/pastor/parent/gaurdian that this is happening. and dont just say some person, make sure they know this is your sister doing this to you. this is serious, so, again, tell your pries/pasto/parent/gaurdian that this is happening(or any trustworthy adult).
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hi! i know exactly how you feel except my friends were the ones who gave me weed.
it iz soooo hard to say no i wish i would of but one time when i did i felt out and not cool and everyone thought i was a retard but i know and you know you shouldnt do it .. no you arent going to hell for doing it if you still live for god and beleive in .... well everything god tels you...but whenever you see your sister just tell her that you dont want to do it or you cant do it and just try to talk to her alone and tell her how you feel about it all i know you dont want to hear "just say no" youve heard it a million times before but just tell her how you feel
from Tearzofblood
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you should confess your sins to god and just tell your sister no I'm going clean
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Not if you can get your act together, and repent if you sort of know what I'm saying. We're not born perfect and God will forgive us as long as we genually mean it and ask him for strength. Maybe try praying for the willpower to say no, since it's obviously beyond you and near impossible. When it comes right down, even though marijuana is one of the less "harmful" drugs... it's still illegal, and what you do while your high can get you hurt. Making bad decisions like running in the middle of the road and getting hit, or doing something with a guy you don't want to, stuff like that. It's not smart, and it's a waste of money. Maybe you'll feel stupid saying no, but atleast you'll spare yourself an eternity of regret, and you won't SOUND stupid because you'll be looking out for your health. Maybe you can get an adult to intervene, I don't know if you have the willpower for that, but it's worth a try and it's your sister!! If your sister was drowning, wouldn't you try to go and save her? It's kind of like the same thing. Not doing anything to help her or even your own self is letting her drown. Just think of it in those terms.
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