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ok jessica my friend to me nick liked me and ect. then she asked if he asked for my number should she give it to him. i said no, but then the next day jessica and her boyfriend andrew called me (3-wayed) the andrew to jessica to leave the phone for a minute and he started askin if i would have a 3- some wit him and jessica since jessica isn't good in bed(me and jessica play like we go out but we are 2 gurls and we arent that way) then he asked if i would have sex with him, then he asked if i would ahve sex with him and nick, and then askd if i would have sex with nick. for like teh whole time he was askin where he stands with him and nick ect. well after a while andrew and jessica wanted to chat on the phone together. like 20minutes passed and nick calls sayin he got the number from jessica but says she mixed the last four numbers. at school the next day i was messin with andrew cause i promised i would (the day before he said he got jealous cause nick had his arm around me). nick tried to mess wit me to after andrew tried to undo my bra with his hand again and nick tried to do it and i wouldnt let him adn he got mad i think cause he left. andrew grab my hand and walked me near nick and like pushed me on him and nick like gave andrew a dirty look. well this is really confusin but like wuts goin i dont like either and andrew has a gurl but always ask me if i want a 3-some with him and his gurl andi yelled at jessica the other day cause of it and now i dont know wut to do i left he a message sayin sry but i dunno if she will forgive me. and grrrr... it just suxs so thanks for readin and hope you have an answer i can use (ALL NAMES HAVE BEEN CHANGED) (link)
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Wow. You need to breathe. First, make it clear you don't want anything to do with either of the guys. If they keep bothering you about this it's called sexual harrasment. Report it and that'll be that. As far as your friend goes make sure she knows you're upset about what she did. If you still want her as a friend tell her she can't do anything like that anymore. If you don't want her as a friend anymore tell her, don't just ignore her. It makes things worse. You might also want to flirt a little less. Dont let guys hang on you all the time and promising to "mess" with them. It'll only get you in trouble.
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I know this guy lets call him CTW and i told me friend to call him she did and she told him i liked him... i do. and i don't know him that well but i'm in 7th grade and he rode my bus in 5th grade he's been at a couple partys and i think he's really nice. There is only one thing, i think he has some brain problems cause my friend said he is dangerous and he spazes out and hurts people while he spazes like on purpose but uncontolably he is going to sit at our lunch table when he is unsuspended for punching this kid but He would never purposly hurt someone. I know he will go out with me i just am not sure. can someone help me? (link)
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Unless you're talking about a married couple you're better off not getting involved with someone who could potentially hurt you badly. Also since you don't know him all that well you won't have any emotional attachment. You may like him but in this case it just isn't worth the risk.
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Not to be rude or anything, but I'm not trying to follow the trend, I just like it, and If i like it, then I should do it right? Im not trying to be cool, or popular. . I just wanna be what suits me best. I happen to liek the clothing gothic people wear, and I sometimes act as if i were gothic. So I guess you misunderstood. . well bye (link)
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I didn't misunderstand. I was stating to everyone the uselessness of following trends. If this is what suits you then I say go for it. As long as you like it you'll look and feel great!
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I feel very sick lately.
after walking up the stairs or standing or walking for a bit i feel like i might vomit.
it hurts to breath in deep and i cough alot and it hurts my sides. alot. today after standing in the hall way, going downstairs and walking down the block i almost threw up, kept gaging and coughing which hurt so much i was doubled over, and it hurt to move.
what could this be?
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It could be any of a number of things ranging from simple lack of fitness to serious respiritory problems. I would suggest you see a doctor A.S.A.P.
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I have a friend that is a boy. His name is Marco and he is really nice. We e-mail each other, and I sit in back of him in language arts and social studies. I really would like to hang out with him, but I don't want to tell him that. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????
desprate 4 help (link)
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Why shouldn't you tell him you'd like to hang out sometime? If he's your friend it shouldn't be much of a problem. He'll probably enjoy spending more time with you. Go ahead and ask him.
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My oldest daughter's biological father lives in a different country and we haven't spoken to each other since I was 19. I am now 30 years old. I let my daughter use my maiden name in her birth certificate but have indicated there who her real dad is. I've been married for 8 years now and my husband has been great to my oldest daughter. My dilema right now is should my husband legaly adopt my daughter so she could have his last name. My daughter sometimes says she is the only one in the family that has a different last name and that she doesn't look like her brother and sister. She already knows that her father is different from her brother and sister and I told her that it is not important that she uses a different name but what's important is how much her dad and her siblings loves her very much. I just wanted to get opinion if it would matter if she changes her last name or not. (link)
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If she wants her name to be changed and the rest of the family is comfortable with it I see no reason for you not to go through with this. It can only help.
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What do I do if a boy likes me who I don't like back? He wrote me notes in math class...had his friend give me one and he gave me one himself.
I keep complaining about this but its just annoying. I feel nothing...its feels like somethings missing whenever he looks at me...like somethings not right. I have NO feelings for him.
Everyone either tells me to stop complaining or
give him a chance but it's not that great when someone likes you and you DONT like then back. I don't really feel something when a boy likes me unless I like him the same way....so it's not that great. He still comes up to me and waves and says Hi *******! and I just wave and he like giggles or some weird thing. I mean...he's a really nice kid but nothings there...I feel like i want to cry...I have no clue why. Is this normal? I don't like him and I'm absoulutely sure about this...100%. I like someone else...and I don't know, whenever I see him my stomach twists and turns because I dont want him to give me another note or actually come up to me and ask me out...so I avoid him. I just don't want to deal with this...I don't want to turn him down...every girl turns him down and I feel so bad. But then again if I did go out with him nothing would be there anyway so there would be no point to that. I like another kid so much but i just have to get up the courage to at least smile at the boy.
errg! I'm so frustrated! I DON'T WANT ANY MORE NOTES! what do i do? And I'm NOT going to give him a chance because he has admitted to liking a whole bunch of girls just last week and even if I did like him it wouldn't be real if we went out...and last I heard he was going out with some girl named Ashley or something...ERGGG! what do I do...HE'S EXPECTING AN ANSWER SOON AND IT'S JUST ANNOYING! please help! (link)
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Well you can't avoid him forever that's for sure. If you don't want to "reject" him try to do it in a nice way. Tell him he's a nice guy but you don't feel that way towards him. If he persists you may need some intervention starting with his parents and yours, as well as school administrators. If he still bothers you after this it can become a serious problem possibly calling for police intervention.
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hey, this guy in my math class keeps lookin at me and i think he likes me, but how do i get him to ask me out? (link)
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Make it clear that you're interested first. If he likes you he will probably make a move. If he doesn't and you still think he likes you don't be afraid to ask him first. Risk nothing, gain nothing.
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ok now wht makes popular people so popular i mean what is it about them? i mean theres like a bunch of popular kids at my school and i dont see how they r so great i mean all they do is talk behind eachothjers backi mean im not in the popular group but in like the semi-popular i guess is what its called and we never do that top eachother i mean i cant stand these popular kids and i wann know how they become so popular and why? (link)
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Popularity is linked directly to your insecurity. If all you want is to be popular you will never be happy. Just be yourself and be confident. You'll get much farther that way.
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how can you tell when a guy likes you? (link)
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With most guys you will know. They have a habit of showing off and flirting. If a guy is shy you may catch him looking at you sometimes. If you do SMILE! If he smiles back try talking to him. It's simple and it works!
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...I have my very *first* job interview coming up! And since it's my first one, I am very nervous. :) I want the job mostly because I need to raise some money- but I know that's not the answer that the manager will want to hear. Any suggestions about what to do for the interview, other than dressing up? ;)
Much Love!
-Turc (link)
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Be professional. Make sure you're neat and tidy, speak clearly, smile, and be enthusiastic. It doesn't matter WHY you want the job as long as you want it more than the other applicants, provided you're qualified enough. Also make sure to NOT say "thank you for your time" at the end of it. My experience (and I have ALOT of it) shows most employers do not like this. It's become too common. If possible say something else to express your gratitude. No need to be nervous either. You'll do fine! ; )
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okay. one of my best guy firends...yeah...i think im falling for him. ive been thinking about this for the past 3 months. we're really close and i really love spending time with him. my school's semi formal is coming up and id really REALLY like to ask him.
but i have some issues.
a) i dont want to ruin a quality friendship by throwing "love" into the mix
b) I dont know how to "ask" guys out. im just not really "into" the whole guy thing...WHTA THE HELL DO I DO????
c) how do i even know if he likes me? what are some hints that he would drop? because my friends are pretty sure that he feels the same way about me as i do about him. but im just not sure!!
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First, make sure you're ready to ask him. Then simply do it. Not only will it surprise him, but if he doesn't seem interested you can always say you were just kidding with him. If he's smart he'll say yes and if not, his loss right?
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My friend asked me if I was goth, I didnt know what to tell her. . I mean goths dont usually go right out and yell IM GOTH! But she asked and I always tell the truth, I said ya. She said ew ur weird. . . She asked me this online, she hasnt seen me for weeks. . and I have maracuously changed, not because this lifestyle has become popular, but because I found it deep down in my heart. She got mad at me and everything .. she gave me a necklas and now she wants it back, she said she'd call the cops if i did anything to it, which i didnt and anyways its mine she gave it to me, is being gothic worth it, i rlly ant to be and i like being this. . but should I give up our friendsship and go gothic, or forget gothic and be ehr frined, I think I should forget her, but please tell me if Im right! (link)
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First off, STOP FOLLOWING TRENDS. Now listen good, ok? Don't dress "goth" or "thug" or "preppie" or any of that crap. Doing that just makes you less of an individual and more of an advertisement. Now, if your so-called friend doesn't want to be friends anymore because of how you dress then that's too bad for her. The necklace isn't worth the trouble either, especially since she sounds like the kind of person who got it for 5 dollars from some roadside stand. She's probably just as cheap as the necklace. So start fresh and dress however you feel comfortable and don't listen to what anyone else says 'cause it's only your opinion that matters.
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i think is is totally gross and disgusting to be a gay guy or a lesbian is it wrong to think that i dont think it is (link)
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Would it matter if I told you it was "wrong"? If that's how you feel I don't think anything can change that except your own decisions. I personally see nothing wrong with the way other people live their lives as far as sexual orientation. If they're not hitting on you then what's the big deal?
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