Backhand springs..me and my mom has been practicin and practicin...i have now built up the strength and speed to do one.. the only problem is i dont jump back...im scared to...but what i do is clap an step 2 times back then dip and do a backbend and mom helps flip me over..i can do it realy fast its just tha i cant jump back,cause im scared..can u please help me...im on a cheerleading squad..
Hey,my name is em231 and I think I can help It's
ok if your scared to jump backword s you'll get it
keep practicing than one day you'll just take
a chance and you'll be able to do it! just be careful because i'am typing her with abroken
arm !hee hee
i hope I helped
Em231
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I do not have a cell phone but it will be good if i can talk to you.
We seem to betting along alrite and i sat him down and explained to him that he has got a problem and i told him what he done to me and i said this is not your last chance because you get no chances..and what do you have to say...
He said that he didnt nottice till the other day that he was doing this and he said he needs help and he made a appointment to go get assessed for this monday....
I said well either you are going to go and show improvement or im out..
Today doing the research on the net all day, i definintly seem to know alot more about this as i just figured out he was doing this and i seem have made the dissision that one more time ever i am out with no explinatin.
i can go to a shelter and get a room somewhere ..SO I GOT A PLAN if this does not work,
and i am more phocused on the moving out plan so i will be ready for it "full thrittle"
we have got along this evening well and I also said that if he wanted i would go to his appointments and i think we should go to councelling together aswell as he has messed with me so bad.
I also know what makes him madder"witch i would be his pray and we no loner have been fighting.
And suggestions from you that would help me through these next two days and i will see if he goes to the doctors or not. I asked him to go and i am not going to mention it again. Its up to him or im out i dont give a fuck pardon me but i know i can do better and have done my entire life until him.
I moght have wrote more that 2000 characters by now lol and you may never get this but if you do heres my email and thank you for your support- you alone have changed my feaqr into i might just wanna go!!!!thanks
hi, this is em231 how are you all i can say isTHAT
YOU HAVE BEEN DOING EVERY THING RIGHT !
rELAX AND STAY CALM
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I met my boyfriend about a year and 5 months ago.
I needed a place to stay as my family is 5000 km's away from me and i have no friends or family here.
So i moved in as a roomate.Then we started to have sex and after a while we were a couple.
Lasy year in Novembe i was raped, and at this time i was such a mess from the rape and still am.
My boyfriend, was careing and helped me do everything as i was to afraid to even let my dogs out for the longest time.
Now that i am getting better as this rape happend 11 1/2 months ago, I have cleared my head AND I CAN NOT BELIVE THAT I WAS So STUOID TO HAVE NOT HAVE SEEN WHAT HE WAS AND IS DOING TO ME.
Before he used to tell me nice things hug me.
Now all he does is call the cops on my form no reason and themn calls them back and says he was trying to call 411 and they come here.
YESTERDAY we moved and cops came to our door the first night we moved here. And if i try to leave my house when he is like this, he blocks me and pushes me or slams my to the ground pulls the phone out of the wall, so i cant use it, And then calls 911 on me.
He yells at me in walmart because he think i do not need conditioner and i shouldnt by it with my own money.
When he figtsh with me he hurts me and then when move at all he cowards down and pretends to shake like i am going to hit him.
He does not ever touch me or talk to me, but i have to do everthing for him dirve him to work pick him up. And if i say no he will get so angry and repetativly for up to 7 houser he will yell at me threaten, push me and i am forced to drive him or i will go crazy and i am scared i am going to kill myself.
Nothing psitive comes out of his mouth towards me.
HE HAS made me so empty inside that i didnt think this kind of coldnes could live in any soul.
The other day i broke down as he forced me to drive him into town. I told him he has been making me scared and crazy since i met him.
He said he was sorry and he didnt see it, But he called the cops lasnihgt and threw me around.
He now says that i deserved to have been raped.
And because i live so far from my family and i have no friends here and am off work from this rape problem. I HAVE NO WHERE TO TURN OR GO.
As dumb as this sounds I LOVE MY DOG TO DEATH and if i went to a shealter i can only stay there from a month and then i would be homless.
I am 26 and he is 21.
Hey,my name is em231 and I think I can help you
you need to talk to somebody about him if it goes
any further you will have to leave him I don't want
to scare you but he might hurt you to bad if you no what I mean!You have to leave at sometime your older
and smarter you can face him!Do you have a cell phone? when he is mean to you and it gets real bad
call 911 when you have a chance and when he don't
realize it or do it when you go to the shower run water so he thinks you are taking one and call 911!
I hopeI helped
em231
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I have been hanging out with this guy. The first night we hung out it made the moves on me and we hooked up. I didn't plan on that happening cuz that is kind of whoreish but whatever.. anyway we kept hanging out and it seems like every time we hang out we have sex. He says that he really likes me i had a feeling he was just using me but he says that he really likes me so whatever. He said that we would date but I'm too young.. we are like 7 years apart. I really like him but if we cant date for 3 years idk if i should stop messing around with him and just be friends i've tried that but i can never stick it out. I get jealous when he talks to other girls like he talks to a lot of girls he lives in a college town and goes to parties. He has pictures of him and hot chicks all over his walls. I don't know what i should do.. what do you think?
Hey,my name is Em231 and I think I can help ok if
he is 7 years older than you I don't want to make
you mad but I know he is messing with other girls
that are a few years older than you or his age!
Thats what I think if he has pictures of hot girls
on his walls! If you don't think he is and you realy
love him It's ok age doesn't matter !
I hope I helped em231
If you want one on one advice please email me
at ethom@Wildblue.net
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My dad`s been saying since he decided he was going to divorce my mom as soon as I graduated that we are poor. First of all, we live in one of the most expensive neighborhood to live in out of the whole county so that`s not true. Plus, my dad`s job has an extremely high payment. Half of the time, he`s yelling about money or cussing at us or telling us how stupid we are. The other half of the time, he`s not even home or is off with something with his work somewhere. He won`t EVER buy me ANYTHING rather I really need it or not. Anytime I want something, I have to take money out of MY savings account to get it. I was thinking earlier and I finally understand why he`s freaking out about how we supposedly have no money. In one year, the place where my dad works is moving to Indiana or Louisiana or something. Apparently, he thinks it`s an easy way for him & my mom to separate? Anyways, knowing how selfish he is, he`s not going to even bother looking for a closer job & he has his mind set on leaving us to go live in Indiana. Well, obviously he would need a house, so he`s been putting thousands away each month that my family needs for things & cutting us short on everything, which is extremely unfair to all of us. He won`t admit it, but I know that`s he`s putting all of that money away so that he can afford a house when he leaves. I don`t understand it though. He told us all a few months ago that he`s leaving us & we`ll have to sell the house & while he`s off in Indiana somewhere, we`ll have to live in a tent here. But, how can someone do that? I mean, how can he lie about it & how can he just treat us like this? My mom has no job because she`s been devoted to us all these years, so I don`t know what`s going to happen. Is there some legal thing that says he HAS to send us money or something to take care of us when he leaves?
Hey, my name is Em231 and I think I can help
your dad seems realy stressed out thats why he might
be acting this way!There is something that is legal
when you have a divorce who ever has custody of you
it would probaly be your mom. Your dad has to pay
so 'n ' so a month so don't worry!Everything will go
ok God Bless you !!!!!!!!!
Em231
by the way if you just want one on one advice email
me at ethom@Wildblue.net
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15/f
Lately I've been noticing big changes in my attitude and in the way I act. And I'm not the only one who's been noticing it my friends all tell me that they"re noticing it also . I use to be a happy person outgoing who loved meeting new people and making friends who rarely ever got mad or was ever in a bad mood but now I'm noticing myself having an attitude and getting pissed off over small things and not outgoing anymore I'm noticing myself giving attitude to everyone and making them feel bad with it. I'M NOT LIKE THAT AT ALL! I WOULD NEVER HURT ANYONES FEELINGS ! I don't know what to do I don't want to be this person I've grown to be does anyone know what I could do??
Hey, my name is Em231 and I think I can help .
I think your going threw a moody stage no offence
my brother went threw that and he got over it I have 3 things you can do!
1.relax
2. try not to get angry that quick.
3. talk to your mom and dad nothings better than
talking to some one that went threw it!
I hope I helped!
Em231
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I'm not sure if this is the right category, sorry. Anyway, my problem is that I tend to get very attatched to people, and i scare myself sometimes because I begin to wonder, what would I do if that person didn't want to be my friend anymore or something? Some people say it's a good thing to get attatched, but I feel like I'm being kind of clingy. What's your opinion, and, is there any advice on how to not feel so dependent on people? I guess I'm just kind of lonely. Thanks
Hey, my name is Em231 and I think I can help you
it is ok to feel attacheted to a good friend but you
can let go and talk to other people ! If you think
you are lonely do things you like to do for an hour
thats what I do !I hope i helped
Em231
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Ok well i have curly, poofy-ish hair.
it's golden brown, and long-ish.
i'm getting kind of bored with it, and i have a round-ish, heart-sh shaped face. it's kind of skinny an my eyebrows are thick-ish but not like bushy ha.
how should i get my hair cut?
layers?
idk!
help?
thnks.
xx
Hello, my name is Em231 and I hope I can help I
think you should get your a straightened that would
look nice and ask your butician if that would look good on ya! I hope I helped Em231
p.s. If you want just one on one advice email me at
ethom@Wildblue.net
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Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months anda half and all we've done is hug and i want us to hold hands and kiss but his really shy and so ami it sucks lol =[ any ideas and i don't want to make the first move
Hey, my name is Em231 and I think i can help ya
so you want to hold hands and kiss thats fine I know
that you been together for a while and you praboly
want it to go a step higher huh so this what I say
talk to him tell him you want to hold his hand the kiss will happen when it happens!
I hope I helped!
Em231
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If you were to get your bedroom done what would you do? what color would you paint your walls? what kindof furniture, etc.
and also, I'm 14 and I like the colors pink & black and I love music, punk stuff...I don't know what else. So how would you do my room if you had to. I'm just wondering!
Thanks to anyone who answers!
HI, my name is Em231 If I would do your room I would
paint my whole room pink then I would try to get a ribbion stencil and color it black that would look
pretty cool I hope you have a nice time doing your
room!
Em231
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15/f
I can't do this anymore. I go to a boarding school and I can't sleep at all at night because my roommate goes to bed at 1 am and her alarm goes off at 6 am. And she keeps walking in and out all throughout the night. It's annoying as hell.
Plus people are yelling and screaming in the hallways.
WHAT CAN I DO TO GET SOME FREAKING SLEEP?
please don't say "just talk to your roommate".
thanx.
Hey, my name is Em231 I think I can help you talk
to your principle about a new dorm I know what you
mean some people can be ediots like your room mate and people outside . When you go to the principle
to talk about the dorm tell him/ or her about the
people outsid inthe hall. I hope i helped you
Em231.
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hey there me and my boyfriend were kissing and one thing led to another and he slipped his dick into me! nothing more happen i made him move away as he was wearing no protection! im scared tho! could i be pregnant from this or am i worrying about nothing?
xx
Hello, my name is Em231 and I hope I can help you
first make sure you tell your mother then if she tells you to do something do it . If you choose not
to then get a pregnancy test at the store make sure
Its a very good one don't get one at the dollor store . You should get one either at a drug store
or Wal Mart. If you want to get a real accurte
test go to the doctor . I hope I helped you
..... thanks for asking me a queston .
I wish you good luck if every thing goes ok you can
write me back and tell me .... acourse if you want me to!
Em231
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Okay so I had to go swimming with my period yesterday. I never tried a tampon before. I wasn't scared when trying to put it in. I just don't get how!! I read the directions and stuff but I just don't get it. Does it like, slide in? I kept pushing in all different spots but it's like it wouldn't go in. I want to start using tampons but I'm just not sure. When I thought I had it in, like 1/4 of a cm of it was hanging out along with the string, but it took soo long to do that, so I just left it in there and went swimming. It felt SO weird swimming, maybe cause it was my first time with a tampon, or it wasn't in right. When I took it out about 3-3 1/2 hours later, it sort of unfolded at the top, and there was like a very very tiny amount of blood on my underwear. I just need help in how to put it in the right way!!
Hi, my name is Em231 and I think I can help you I
have 3 things you should do here they are I think you should do them ( acourse if you want to
I'don't want you to do anything you donb't want to do. 1. Ask your mother I know you don't prabaly want
to but you now she had her period way before you now.
2. Make sure you be very carefull when you put them in.
3. If you can't get It just stick with your pads
and if you want to go swimming i heard there ids a pill that lets you not have as long period .
Every thing will go ok .
Em231
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i washed my face with clensing pads that i just bought today. and one i used it, it started to burn, so when i took it off.. my skin looked swollen up. especially my cheeks. my cheeks you can see that it looks swollen and part of my face is red. i can't see the doctor cause my family doesn't have that much money. so help?!
Hey, my name is Em231 I think I can help you
ok if that burns and it's red and swollen stop using it at once! You might be allergic to it so get
a soap cleaser .That works for me but if you can't
get something else just use a bar of soap it's still
good but not as affecttive . So chill everythings ok
I hope I helped
Em231
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f/16. I got myself into a bit of trouble..
Theres this guy at school who is completely head over heels in love with me, I don't feel the same way about him. He asked me out a few weeks back and I told him to wait until i know what I want, He put a lot of pressure on me and he made me feel really sorry for him and he tells me beautiful things but I just don't feel anything for him apart from lust. Anyway, 2 days ago he asked me to please be his girlfriend and I don't know what the hell I was thinking but I said yes. He's so unbelieveably happy and he said I'm the best and most beautiful thing that has ever happened to him. When people at school found out today I got a really hard time and I got teased by a few people (I knew I was in for that) and I really don't know what to do. One of my friends said I have to dump him. And that I can';t let it go on any further if I don't love him. I have told him that I loved him back but I just wish I didn't ... What am I going to do?! I feel horrible, I just don't know if I should dump him... he feels so much for me. And if I do I think he would cut himself or worse. Possibly suicide. I don't know how I have gotten myself into this situation. I wish more than anything I didn't say yes. And if I should dump him how do I do it? Please someone help me.
Hey, myname is Em231 I think I can help you ok
I have a few things you have to do to break with him
but first your friend is right if you don't love him thats a sucky realationship . Here is some tips read them and I say do them( no pressure).
1.first breath chill out hoeny everything will ok .
2. Don't act mean when you tell him then he will freak out.
3.If you are nevous breath in and out twice It will help.
4. Then tell him this "his name I'am sorry I told
you I can be your girlfriend but i don't have the same feelings for you that you have for me I'am very sorry.
5. This you might not want to do but he willlike this give him a big hug and say but we can be best friends .I hope I helped
Em231
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There is a boy in my class that i like but he doesn't i like me i don't think well i know that he likes my best friend but she doesn't like him and he is always hitting on her and feeling on her and i am starting 2 get jealous bcuz she knows that i like him and she hasn't told him that i like him.we have only had a couple conversations and that was only bcuz i wear sex bracelets a lot and he said he will break one i mean i know i am not the prettiest girl in the world but i know i look better than her so why doesn't he like me. If anybody has any advice on how 2 make him like me pleez let me know.14/f. Sorry its so long,thanx
Hi my name is Em231 I think I can help you but one number one thing don't stop your friendship with
your best friend . I had something like what's happining to you and I ruind my friendship with my
friendship and she won't forgive me for anything.
The first thing you should do is find out more about what he likes in agirl when you find out
act a little like that but not a lot because you don't wa nt to change your selfe do yay? Just be yourselve and talk to him and copliment him and
maybe give him something out of your lunchbox or
tray don't worry if he is not for you theres alot
of fish in the sea .
I hope I helped
Em231
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my hair just naturally flips out at the ends, and its really annoying me. are there any ways i can get rid of it?
i have a straightener and i know i can use that, but it takes so long because my hair is so stubborn and i can never really tell if i did it right.
thanks♥
Hey, my name is Em231 I think I can help why don't you wash your hair with a shampoo that say's for
straight hair that might straighten it out. Then dry
your hair with a towel come it threw 2 times and put
gel on the end's of your hair . If that don't work's
go get your hair straighten at a bueticion ok I hope I helped ok don't worry about your hair look's
don't matter.
I hope I helped .
Emily
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well, i got my braces off the other day :]]], ive had them on for like 6 years. and my teeth are pretty discolored. to fix it, should i use teeth whitener? because ive heard it ruins the enemal in your teeth and such. so is it worth it? and dont say things like, "do lazer whitening" cause i think thats expensive isnt it? and if i do use teeth whitener, should i buy it in strips? or by a tube? THANKSS
hey, my name is Em231 and I think I can help.
I'am sorry to say this but the only thing that can help you is the lazor whitening because my
mom tryied tewhitnig strips and tube's and it didn't do anything . I'am very sorry ask your dentist or orthodontist they may know somethig more than me . I hope I helpe you a bit .
Em231
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Hey. What are some websites where I can get pants with really cute stuff written on the butt?
Do people still wear stuff like that?
Hey, my name is Em231 and i think i can help
i see lot's of STARS wearing things like that
I thinkI saw some of those at wal mart
hope I helped
Em231
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So I have a boyfriend whom I've been with for a little over 4 months.I adore and love him with everything I got.He's such a good boyfriend.I don't know what I'm in for though.I know it will be hard going to highschool and him going to college 2nd semester and he will be working more and stuff.I'm not sure if me being in highschool will effect our relationship, Because I've been told I don't realize I flirt.I don't want to hurt him or him hurt me.So far this is my longest relationship.I'm pretty sure this is the best boyfriend I've been with..ever.He actually cares about me.Seems like I don't know what I want sometimes.Anyone have any input or suggestions on what I should do...this is complicated.
hey,my name is Em231 I have some advice ok .
If he likes you that much like you said he won't worry about you cheating or anything. I know he won't flirt with any one but you trust me . That's how my boyfriend is he totalty loves me and
I'am not worrying at all if he is cheating on me.
I'am sorry I'am talking about me .Lol
Don't worry be happy.
I hope I helped.
Em231.
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