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my firend has never had sex but she took 3 tests then 2 were positive is she pregnant??? Im 15/f (link)
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if the tests were the ones you buy from the store, those are not very accurate.
i suggest letting the doctor test her.
if she's still positive, she most likely lied to you or somehow got sperm in her vagina another way.
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my best friend zach, and now x-boyfriend, got locked up october 1, 2006. we had been writing for a long time untill it was time for his court date and that was the last letter i got. after that, they sentinced him for a longer time and also said he was not aloud to write me. durring that period that he wrote me, and when i found out that he couldnt write anymore, i cried every night. he ment so much to me. we told eachother everything and then it was like he fell off the earth. its hurt me ever since.
BUT since then, ive gotten a new boyfriend jordan. but i keep having dreams about zach. it used to be just silly dreams like him comming back and how happy i was to see him and what i did when i saw him. usually somewhat of the same dream. but once in a while, i get a wierd dream, and last night i woke up wanting to cry because in this dream i called zachs parents and told them to let him call me because if he didnt i was going to forget about him. he called me that night, and was like "please dont forget about me, dont leave me. i love you, you love me. please dont." and i just said "im sorry i cant, i cant do this i love jordan." he was just begging me and that hurt me so much eventually in my dream i was like "im sorry zach, i have to go..." and hung up the phone. the wierd part was i was like watching it from above. and it upset me all day...
so i guess im asking if anyone wants//could interprate my dream for me because im so lost. its just hurting me inside so bad. thank you. (link)
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i'm not someone who studies dreams particularly well, but i'll try for the sake of you.
it looks like you miss zach [a given] and that you might still love him but are forcing yourself to get over him because you're with jordan now and you feel you have an obligation to him as a girlfriend. [sorry for the run-on sentence.]
if you don't still love him, you might just miss him as a really good friend who you could tell every to, but its been a while and you don't want to be awkward when you finally get into contact with him again.
do not hold it against me if i'm wrong, but i really hope i helped. :3
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I have this best friend. We have been together since we were in day care (before we were in school) Recently she has been really mean. She tells me to shut up constantly. I'm not the smartest person (common sense wise) and I think she gets annoyed with how dumb I am. I really can't help it. I'm not one of those girls who is really dumb because they make themselves be dumb. I don't get things but I don't say I don't get them it's just that she has known me so long she knows when I don't get things. Anywho...she bosses me around all the time. She tells me I'm dumb. She corrects everything I say. When I try to talk to her you can tell she is annoyed if I even say hi. I'm not soooo dumb all the time. I really am book smart. I have all A's and I'm sitting 4th in my class of 561. What do you think it is? How can I talk to her? (link)
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tell her how you feel and don't let her boss you around.
if you want to maintain the friendship with her i would suggest other friends to go to so that she doesn't always get annoyed at you for even talking to you.
maybe give her some time to cool off from whatever happened to her.
maybe she's pmsing?
and don't let her tell you you're dumb, friends don't put you down like that.
hope i helped. =D
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I'm 16/f, my best friend is 16/m. I used to be very clingy like and we fought a lot, and I'd always call him like 50 times a day to talk about it, and it was like everyday of every week because we fought so much. For the 2 weeks or so, I just decided to not care. If he wants to call to solve the problem, he can, I don't want to anymore. Thing is, now he WANTS to talk to me. He calls so much more, asks to hang out, everything. Why is this? Right when I stop giving him all my attention he wants it back? (link)
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guys are complicated.
but as the saying goes, "you never know what you want till its gone."
from what i can figure i think as soon as you stopped, he was so used to hearing his phone ring that he now misses the sound of the phone ringing plus your voice.
he probably misses the familiar about you calling him a lot and talking to you.
i suggest since calling him a lot was sort of the problem, cutting back on the calls but not stopping them completely.
i really hope fifty times a day was an overstatement, so i'll say maybe one or two times a day or week, your choice.
power to you for making the decision to stop being the one to always solve the problem.
but a friendship is two-way, both of you should know that, especially if you want to keep the friendship.
i think i rambled a little bit, but i hope i helped. :3
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Ok well a while back my sister (who is 14 and i'm thirteen) was looking through her old school pictures and she found one of third grade and so she decided to go on myspace and see if anyone had one and she only found one so she started talking to him and then she left her messenger on one day so i got on and told him i'm jessicas(mysister) sister and so then we started talking for a few months and we started to like each other and we promised each other that when either of us get a car we would drive out to see each other cause he lives in new hamshire and i live in wisconsin so we stopped talking for like a couple months then he messaged me saying he's sorry if it felt like he pushed me away but he got grounded and that he missed talking to me and what not so i really like him even though the last time we saw each other in person was when i was in 2nd grade n he was in 3rd so bascially does he like me i mean by reading this well i mean he says he does but i dont know someone help basically whats your opinion on this situation thanks in advance and please dont judge (link)
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this kinda sorta happened to me.
i think he likes you, but he might not want to admit it.
i also think that his [and probably yours too] will change within the next two to three years.
long distance relationships are really hard to maintain, but i suggest to keep talking to him, just don't get romantically involved.
what happened to me was there was this guy in a different city [one year older than me] and it was my friend's exboyfriend. we started talking to each other on the messenger until he liked me and i liked him but he didn't tell me is 'cause i "was too weird." i only reason i know now 'cause he told me a few monthes ago that he liked me, and that he still likes me. but now, its all different and he doesn't like me anymore.
so yeah.
hope i helped. x3
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=/ sorry this tured out loner then i thought it would be.
Me and my [ex]bestfriend have known eachother for a 2 years now. A few months ago she started lieing alot and about things and i caught her in many of them. I hate fighting so i just let it go. On top of that she relys on all her boyfriend. She goes from one guy to the next to the next hanging out with them everyday never carring about me or anyone else. I was so agravated with her i would come home everyday and complain ahout how much i dont like her and all these things. So i relized then why be here friendd[even if that kinda harsh]. Cause im kinda being a bad friend to talking about her behind her back. So i stopped talking to her for a while. about 2 weeks she called me and we kinda had a talk and i basically told her what was happening and she asked if she changed then could we be friends still. I said maybe but i didnt want her to change just for me and i didnt think she would[she didnt]. Well now she is still all buddy budyy with me but i still dont like her. What should i do. I started writing a note to her to tell her about what i was thinking and what was happeneing cause she clearly didnt undterstand but is that stupid to do? Should i call her and tell her? or should i do something else. (link)
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you came to the right place. i just hope i can help you.
first of all, i would call her again to talk to her and tell her that i still feel the same because she didn't change. but i would also include the fact that i don't want her to change on account of me.
second of all, i'd just be a friendly stranger to her. which means, not talking to her more than neccesary and not creating opportunity for any conversation that would bring out what you dislike about her. [ex. more lies]
to me it looks kinda like she doesn't need you. and the way she acts you really don't need her.
i really hope i helped.
please give me feedback?
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sex:female
ok so yesterday was my first time makeing out. The kid i madeout with is more experienced. and it all just happened so fast. It was SUCH a blur. like i only remember the tongue and i dont remember where I put my hands! i know he put his around my waist! Do you think he thought i was bad?! can boys tell?! could he tell that it was my first time?
and to top that off. 3 of my friends madeout with him the SAME day and didnt tell me. i wouldnt of cared if they told me. should i be slightly mad?
Please help! thanks.
love, Briiiii (link)
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okay, so the first question i'm not an expert on.
but i'm pretty sure you did fine as long as no one got hurt.
the second question is more my territory.
okay, so i can't tell you what to feel, but if i really liked this guy and told those same three friends, then yes, i would be a bit pissed off.
especially about the fact that none of them told me afterwards.
but again, i can't tell you what to feel and it really depends on the details of the situation.
ps. i think it might be good that you don't really care 'cause then there would be no fighting on account of your anger and you can think more clearly if there are [any fights] because you don't have any anger to blur your thoughts.
i really hope i helped.
give some feedback?
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I keep getting these really bad charlie horses in my legs. Like, sometimes it'll even wake me up. And then I can barely walk the next day because the muscles ache so bad. Does anyone have any advice on how to ease the pain or even help prevent them? Anything at all would be a great help. Thanks!! (link)
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i don't know how to prevent them, but i used to get them all the time too.
what i used to do is wrap my leg in a heating pad turned onto the most comfortable temperature that eases the pain.
so what i would think, is anything like that wrapped around the leg the the charlie horse.
hope i helped. :3
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I am so shy and really nice to everyone at school. i go out of my way to makes others happy everyday. The other day i found out that people were calling me a slut and saying that i flaunt myself too much. I have 38Ds and i am 14. it's not that easy to hide them!!!! It doesn't make it any better that in gym we have to swim. I don't get how people can call me a slut when i haven't had one boyfriend or had my actual first kiss (link)
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reality check: you are not a slut.
people get jealous, its natural fact of life.
they're jealous because of how nice you are, not to mention your big breasts.
they are judging you based on your appearence, don't sink to their level by believing them.
hope i helped. :]
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ok so my friends ex boyfriend likes me. and i like him. we never met. its along story not going into detail. well were meeting sometime this week. and well i was just wondering what do i do? like what should we talk about? where should we go? and i hope my friend doesnt leave. because im gonna be so lost. what do i do? and my friend is cool with me going out with him because well i mean just in case we get to that point. so dont say i shouldnt. (link)
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i have a some what similar situation.
i'm going to have to assume that you have spoken online or on the phone to have gotten to like each other, like i have.
if you've talked to each other online or on the phone, you must know something about each other like what they like and/or dislike.
go from there to make conversation.
and remember that people love to talk about themselves, and use that to your advantage as well.
hope i helped. :]
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I am 14 and i have never had a Boyfriend or my first kiss!!! i want one so bad, but no one likes me!!! (link)
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don't worry, i'm fourteen and haven't had a boyfriend or a first kiss either.
just put yourself out there, flirt a little.
and most likely someone likes you, but usually they're too shy to say it.
a lot of the people that like me are like that, and i've found out through their friends, etc.
don't rush it though, 'cause if you want it to be special and mean something it'll come when you're ready for it.
hope i helped. :]
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i am 14/f and a Christian.
i am so scared right now. i believe in god and i love going to church and it makes me want to be a much better person, but when i hear people talk about their doubts of god, i get scared. i mean, what if they are right? i cry when i think what if he doesnt exist because i am just so unsure, but i love god and i want to believe that he cares about us all. i am so so scared and i could never be an atheist or whatever.. can someone please give me advice? (link)
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i'm christian myself, and sometimes i catch myself wondering the same thing.
but the most important part of being christian is believing, trusting, having faith in God and whatever he has in store for all of us.
maybe you could pray for some direction if you need to.
but remember God is always there for you whether you know it or not.
hope i helped.
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Hi. My name is Whitney.
I need to know of a FREE DOWNLOADABLE photo editor that blurs or smears only certain sections of photos.
Any come to mind? (link)
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photofiltre.
my friend recommended it to be because she made my whore code on myspace.
anyway its at: http://www.photofiltre.com
you can download it in french or english, and that site also has some tutorials on it that have helped me bunches.
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heyy odes anyone know how to send the same comment to everyone on your friends list on myspace at once?. i cant figure it out =[
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if there was a way to do that, it would kinda defeat the purpose of a bulletin. since its supposed to be a message to all your friends. though most abuse it with worthless spam.
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ok so tomorrow i HAVE to talk to the guy i like. because i do have a chance if I talk to him. so like were not friends. he knows i like him. so what can i say to him? i see him at lunch. (link)
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okay, so if your outgoing that's great and all, but if you're asking this question i'm guessing you're normally shy like me.
golden rule: don't act. be. be friendly, be casual, be natural.
i have a few cute friends at lunch that i normally don't talk to. but when i want to flirt or something i just ask for food. but that's just me, you could try the same thing since you have lunch with him or you could go, hey! i like your shirt. gimme. but of course with your personality.
this might not have made sense but i hope it helped nonetheless. :]
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If you have a myspace, can you read who's viewed it? (link)
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Well, I'm on myspace myself and have been wondering the same thing. Some of the people on my friend list post bullitens (sp?) that say that if you open it you will be able to do this, but I haven't tried and they haven't told me if it actually worked for them yet. So ... *shrug*
Hope I helped!
~DoesHeCare?
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Just making sure. When using a conjunction like "and" or "but" you put the comma after it correct? Say if i said "She likes eggs but, he doesn't." Was that right? Im just making sure for my report :] thank you (link)
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When using a conjunction like "and" or "but" you put the comma before.
Example: "She likes eggs, but he doesn't."
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I know that knitting isn't really home decorating, but it's the closest I can find.
How can you learn to knit faster? I'm a slow knitter, but with all my work, the time I save for knitting is sparse. Therefore, I can never finish a project in time. Are there any other knitters on this site? (link)
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Well, I'm sorry to tell you this but "Practice, Practice, Practice!" will make you better and probably faster. I'm a fellow knitter, and have the same problem. But I saw knitting machines at Walmart, I think the only thing you have to do for them is watch is so that something doesn't go wrong. So you have a choice, for what I've just told you, practice, or get a machine to do it for you.
Hope I helped!
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I just got out of a breakup after a year and a half with my boyfriend that I am absolutely in love with but it just cant work out. I'm 17. Any ideas of getting over him?!?! (link)
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Well, don't avoid him. Think of him as just some ordinary person.
But seriously, think happy thoughts. If you ever find yourself thinking of what you had with him or something along those lines, think of other things. Like some other guy, like some really hott celebrity or and new guy that you feel attracted to. If you can't just have some song, that will not get you thinking of him, in your head all the time. It works for me.
I hope I helped!
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Is there anything I can find around the house to make my hands softer, besides soap? (link)
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Well, lotion. Practically any kind! I used it for my skin, hands, and feet, and it made them really soft!
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