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first makeout
age:13
sex:female
ok so yesterday was my first time makeing out. The kid i madeout with is more experienced. and it all just happened so fast. It was SUCH a blur. like i only remember the tongue and i dont remember where I put my hands! i know he put his around my waist! Do you think he thought i was bad?! can boys tell?! could he tell that it was my first time?
and to top that off. 3 of my friends madeout with him the SAME day and didnt tell me. i wouldnt of cared if they told me. should i be slightly mad?
Please help! thanks.
love, Briiiii
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you never really know, but of course, HES A FREAKIN PLAYER! omg, 3 girls? for all you know your friends didn't know he did that either! omg, soo get revenge on that guy! anyways, he might have known. first time should be the hardest, as long as nothing went wrong you're fine. Oh, and some ideas to put your hands - sholders, hair(only if hes you boyfriend & you know he likes that) , waist,belt hook (on jeans). it depends on how much the boy was paying attension. you should kill that jerk. anyways, good luck && i hope i helpedd,
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i wouldnt be mad at your friends about it, i would be mad at the guy he seems like a pretty big player. and dont be the girl he plays. its never fun (: oh and dont worry about what he thinks. guys only think about whats going to happen next. and what they can tell there friends. i dont think he really cares.
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It sounds like this guy is developing into a real player and not a really smart one either. How could he kiss you and your friends all in the same day and not expect them to figure it all out?
The important thing is that you experienced your first kiss and it went well and now you can relax about it and be more selective about the kind of person you kiss next time or become involved with.
The best thing for you at this time is to figure out what you want in a guy and set some standards a guy must meet before you let down your guard again and let them make out with you. This makes it so you avoid guys like him and don't get hurt.
Did he think you were bad? Unfortunately only he can answer that question. While guys can usually tell if a girl has no experience some cannot.
Instinct and nature showed you how to react, move etc, kiss in this regard and obviously he thought you did well or he would have said something and stopped you and told you that you weren't doing it right. I'm sure you did fine and will get better in the future anyway.
I would be upset with your friends and ask why they hid this from you? Beyond that you are okay all on all levels but need to be choosy with guys and start asking girls you know about who is playing the field and not worthy of being dated and feel free as it's your right to tell girlfriends in confidence how this guy played you, and your two friends for fools on the same day.
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Most first kisses (or makeouts, whatever) go by quickly and you can't remember. I'm sure it was fine, but even if it wasn't there's no way anything here can tell you if you were good or not. And yes, guys who've done it before can tell if you're bad. As long as you weren't too wet/sloppy or rough, you should be fine.
As for the second question, if this is just some random guy, there's no reason to be mad at your friends. If this guy was your BOYFRIEND, then you have a right to be mad at them for not telling you. But another thing is that it takes two people to tango. If this guy is your boyfriend, it's just as much his fault as it is theirs. He sounds like somewhat of a slut if you ask me. No one I'd want kissing me.
But it sounds like he's not your boyfriend. If you have a crush on him and your friends know, then it's not the nicest thing for them to do to make out with him. But like I said, if he's just some guy that you all made out with, there's no reason/point to be mad.
The only thing that concerns me is that 13 year olds are just making out with random people in any given day. There are more important things in life than kissing every guy you get your hands on, trust me.
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okay, so the first question i'm not an expert on.
but i'm pretty sure you did fine as long as no one got hurt.
the second question is more my territory.
okay, so i can't tell you what to feel, but if i really liked this guy and told those same three friends, then yes, i would be a bit pissed off.
especially about the fact that none of them told me afterwards.
but again, i can't tell you what to feel and it really depends on the details of the situation.
ps. i think it might be good that you don't really care 'cause then there would be no fighting on account of your anger and you can think more clearly if there are [any fights] because you don't have any anger to blur your thoughts.
i really hope i helped.
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