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Hey guys,
I was wondering if anyone on here has gotten a tattoo around their bellybutton before. I really really want to get one there, but my older sis is telling me I have to be able to make my stomach tight or something like that? Is that true? Or does she not know what shes talking about? If anyone has it done, please let me know how much it hurt and if my sister's comment is even true or not. By the way, I already have one tattoo. It's on my lower back. I'm very good with pain. Thank you so much. If anyone has pics of nice tattoos for around your bellybutton, you can show them if you want.

http://www.radish-spirit.com/Mell_tattoo_04.jpg

Thats just a picture off of google lol.I cant answer your question, but I can tell you this; Im not trying to sound like your mother, but a tattoo is there forever and one on your stomach is gonna be kinda noticeable and will be there till youre 93!lol just telling you..

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okay i dont really like to read but i am going to give it a try do any of you recommand a good book i was reading some book today it was "A Child Called It" and i loved that book so do you know any more books like that and if you havent read that its about a child being abused plz help i rate 5s

This has nothing to do with the subject you're looking for, but there's this series that I abosoloutely LOVE! Some people think its weird, but me and my friends love it..we used to read them during class and at lunch lol. Its "A Series of Unfortunate Events" by Lemony Snicket and there's 12 out but the last one hasn't some out yet. They're really good books,kinda depressing but Reallly good. They get bigger and bigger as you go. I hope I helped ♥

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my mother is abussive she curse me and i dont like even comming home becuase she is like that her husband is a crack head and is lways in and out of jail please tell me what to do i just turned 16 and i live in georgia plese help

That has to be tough.. you should maybe go to a counselor or someone who can help and ask them to give you advice, or maybe you could live with a close relative?Im sorry i really don't know what you can do, but my heart goes out to you. I'll pray for you..One thing you can do is seek God. Pray about it. God is the only parent who will never let you down, and will always be there for you.. whenever.. If you're lonely, need somebody to talk to..anything. He listens..

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i have a laptop and i have aim and when ever i leave an away up and close my laptop not shut it down but put the top down it signs me off aim does anyone know how to fix it so my away stays out ill give all 5's

no i dont..sorry


haha lol jp
make sure ur not clicking the esc button or clicking anything..maybe you should not all the way close your laptop

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i really like this guy. and i know he likes me. The thing is he is black and some are my friends are acting weird about that. i mean i don't see anything wrong with it. Is there something wrong with a white female dating a black male??

No!!Not at all!!!!You should not let what other people think about you two keep you from dating him..

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ok well i asked the question about were ic an get layouts well thanks for evryone who answered but now i found the layout i want and it doesnt work. it isnt only that on i have tryed it form other sites but the layout doesnt work can someone help me out.

Make sure you copy and paste the whole code.(sometimes the code goes farther down that you see, or you dont see the scroll arrows or something)Make sure you paste it in the 'About Me' section.If it still dosen't work then reply

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i'm looking for some hair styling tips. i want to get a somewhat wavy look, but some what straight. i don't know what products to use, and i think i need a step by step instruction of how to style it liket his. i don't know how to explain it, so i will include some links to pictures:

http://www.tvsquad.com/images/2005/06/olsens.jpg
(on the left)

http://www.hissandpop.com/celebrities/l/lindsaylohan/photos/lindsay-lohan-004.jpg

http://www.marykateonline.com/picture/mary_kate_and_Ashley_olsen0007.jpg
(on the left)

http://www.andpop.com/images/emmaroberts2euwfynplr.jpg

if it helps i have somewhat wavy hair (but it's loose and not nice, so i ususally straighten it) and it's on the thicker side

If this, http://www.makeup411.com/images/beauty_breakdown/Jessica_Simpson.jpg is what you mean,then all you have to do is go to your local drugstore and buy any teen magazine that shows you how to do your hair like that. They always show you differnt ways to do your hair, and most of the time they show you what to use and how to make your hair wave like that..I've never tried it before, so good luck!





how rude!thats not fair you gave me a stinkin 2!!!!Sorry but you'll never get it to look like those pics because professionals do them..the best you can get it is how they are in magazines.Dont be so picky

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k this summer i was slightly anorexic and now i keep getting really moody when i have to eat fattening food

also i get hungry at ten in the morning, 4 in the afternoon, and ten at night, even though i have to eat every mori=ning at 6:30, 11:50 for lunch, and 7 ish for dinner.

how can i fix this? i dont really eat that much at meals and then snack or go hungry between.

please any help at all?

You should definetley start eating healthy and eat when you're supposed to. Eventually you'll get used to it. Even if you dont want to eat then at least have something healthy to keep your body the way its supposed to be and it will make you feel good too. Take care of yourself, do yourself a favor and give your body the nutrients it needs!

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I have this really annoying neighbour that lives in my appartment complex.
I feel that she is just trying to use me. This is what happened. I ran into her when I went to check my mail. She asked me if I knew anyone who would want her budgie(a bird in a cage). I said I couldnt think of anyone and that she should put an add in the paper. She told me that would be too expensive. Then she asked me if I could give her and her bird a ride to the SPCA. She doesnt have a car. I really didnt want to and told her it would have to be another day. She told me she would try another person who had a car.
Well she just knocked on my door. She said she couldnt get a hold of this other person and needed a ride tomorrow afternoon. I told her I couldnt and that I would be working (which is true). I thought she would leave me alone but then she had the nerve to say, "Well WHEN CAN YOU GIVE ME A RIDE TOMORROW"? AND WHAT TIME DO YOU START WORKING"? I wanted to tell her off but I live in a small building and didnt want people to bad mouth me. So I caved in and now I have to drive her and her stupid bird to the SPCA tomorow at 11. She didnt even offer to give me any gas money!! I don't even like her, she's a nosy old bag and always asks my when I'm going back to finsih my college degree and should move back in with my parents. I also heard on the weather channel that we are getting freezing rain tomorrow, and it's a bad road up there. Am I overreacting or is this lady just using me?

Well, I know thats a pain in the neck, but why not do a favor for her. I know you don't want to but you already said you would, and it can't be that bad. It was really rude of her to say that, but she's older and I think it would be really nice of you to give her a ride. Maybe she's messed up in her life or something bad happened in the past and she's trying to help you out in a grouchy mean way. Just maybe!
I hope I helped

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well i'm pretty sure that i have a yeast infection, my vagina feels irritated and swolen. i am not sexually active, so i know it isn't an std. if anyone has had a yeast infectoion before can you tell me what kind of medicine or treatments you had? i'm really worried i will have to use some gross cream or something. thank you so much if you can help me!

Well make sure you tell your mom, and I would go to the doctor if I started to get worried about it. I've had one before and I used Vagisil. Its gross but it works. Hope i helped

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christmas is 6 days away.. im sher everyone knows that and i am makin a scrapbook for my bf of 22 months this year.. i hve pictures together and stuff but i want like each page to be like something diff u know? like im havin a couple pages just be of pictures.. and i hve a special page for a note that im goin to write him in it. and i also have a page of all the reasons i love him.. does anyone hve any ideas for other pages that kind of go with this.. please please hurry though bc im plannin on puttin it all together tomorrow!!!!

tosha

aw thats cute.umm you could do a page of inside jokes/memories,all about him,all about you,ect. sorry theyre not too great

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if anger sin, why do we have a "wrathful god"
if jealousy is a sin, why do we have a "jealous god"

hipocracy on the churches part?

what about the crusades?
the witch hunt?

is this the basis of a good religon?

if anger sin, why do we have a "wrathful god"
--anger is not sin!its okay to be angry its just an emotion.Why cant God be angry too?

if jealousy is a sin, why do we have a "jealous god"
--God is jealous when we dont give him the praise he deserves. God wants all of us not half.He dosent want us to serve other gods is what it means.


what about the crusades?
the witch hunt?

is this the basis of a good religon?
--Ive never heard of any of that..

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is god there? where is he, how do i know...

YES!God exists!He's in heaven!

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I don't think I have an eating disorder but some people say I am on my way onto being annorexic. I mean I am 93lbs and 15 years old. I am always watching my weight making sure I am not over 95lbs. I know it may sound crazy but I don't know.. if I get at 95 or above not usually to 98 though I quit eating till I am back to 93lbs. I don't know why I do this but it is just how I am. I do not eat Breakfast or Lunch but always Supper. So please help me and give me some reasonable advice other than "you need to eat breakfast and lunch cuz its not healty" cuz that is all people seem to say, I mean my boyfriend is worried but to me this is the only way to control MY life.

First of all, its a proven fact that students who eat their breakfast do better in school. Breakfast is a really important meal. 93, even 98 pounds is underweight for a 15 year old. Please stay healthy and stop starving yourself! Obviously, if your boyfriend and other people have noticed this, its become an issue. To start, start eating healthy breakfast and lunches. They keep you healthy and make you feel good. 98 lbs. is NOT fat at all!! Take care of yourself and eat 3 supplement meals a day..thats what people normally eat, and its healthy you won't get fat. I hope you gain some weight and decide to start eating healthy!

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This is going to sound dumb. But every once and a while i get this really sharp pain right under my left boob like behind the rib cage. and it hurts so bad i cant breath. it knocks the wind out of me n i can't move, but this literally 15 seconds later its fine. it use to happen like every couple of months. but its been happening a lot this week.
wtf is this? lol i never bothered to ask anyone cause it didnt happen a lot. but now its becoming more frequent. any one else get this?

tell your parents and go see the doctor!I have had that a couple times but not as frequent as you so i think you should tell your doctor..

&hearts

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My boyfriend had some acne problems at the beginning of the year, like most 16 year old guys do, but then he started to take some medicine for it. It's starting to look 100% better already! Is it wrong for me to comment that it's looking better? would it offend him?

absoloutley not.I think it would really make him happy to hear that from you.Be carefuul though, you should know him enough if he's a sensitive guy where he wouldnt like to hear thuat or is he optimistic and happy to hear comments even if theyre a little ambarrasin.You tell me if that would be okay =D
hope i helped hun!! &hearts

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Hey, just wondering but what are some differences in the sypmtoms of being pregant and getting your period..I have most of the symtoms i usualy get when i get my period, and im close to when i should be getting my period but they are similiar to the ones as pregnancy (cramps, tenderness, some headaches)..is it probable that i'm getting my period soon, or not?

umm..dont worry about it.Some girls when theyre on their period get headaches, and everyone has cramps so its probably just you're period.If you're worried about it you should ask your doctor.

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Ok well in exactly a week from now I have to run a mile and a half in P.E, and I'm really out of shape. It's a race and my teacher says I must be one of the first people to finish. Does anybody have advice on how to run faster? Any food that could give me energy to run faster? Please help me.

One word...treadmills!Yeah, they're hard at first but push yourself (not too much) and you will get better and better at it. Take it from someone who was the same way as you!It's not the energy you need its the endurance.How long you will be able to run.Treadmills also make you faster =)

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A friend of mine is avoiding talking to me. She says that she isn't talking to anybody who needs help/advice or anyone whos going through things because she has her own stuff to deal with. So, yeah, we're having problems because I should be able to count on her but I just can't. We're both in theatre, and both doing Costumes for this next show. So basically, i'm stuck with her. Plus i've been sick and i've missed some of the crew calls. Should I just quit costumes?? I would do the show after this, but I don't feel like being on her crew. I enjoy sewing and making costumes but.....

xoObriianax3--thats not true, everyone makes mistakes. She's obviously going thru tough times and it may be hard, but try to be there 4 her 2 comfort her.

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So I have olivish golden skin and I want to buy like a beigish(sp?) lip gloss like tha stuff that Jessica Simpson wears.. It's really cute but I dont want stuff that is super thick
Okay so my boyfriend doesnt like glossy lips because when he kisses me it gets on his lips... soo is there anyway that I can lighty add color to my lips while making them soft and kissable?

ummm..the lightest lip stuff that i can think of right now would probably be chapstick, like the glossy kind. I have lip smackers bubblegum and its like a shiny thin gloss.
i hope i helped!
&hearts

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