A friend of mine is avoiding talking to me. She says that she isn't talking to anybody who needs help/advice or anyone whos going through things because she has her own stuff to deal with. So, yeah, we're having problems because I should be able to count on her but I just can't. We're both in theatre, and both doing Costumes for this next show. So basically, i'm stuck with her. Plus i've been sick and i've missed some of the crew calls. Should I just quit costumes?? I would do the show after this, but I don't feel like being on her crew. I enjoy sewing and making costumes but.....
happy-helper answered Saturday November 12 2005, 1:48 pm: Why should you stop doing something just because some girl wants to be self-obsessed and selfish? You do what you want to do and maybe he civil to this girl. It's a shame that she wasn't a good friend by listening to you and trying to help you. If you enjoy sewing and making costumes, then you do it, girl! :)
x Steph x [ happy-helper's advice column | Ask happy-helper A Question ]
xoObriianax3 answered Friday November 11 2005, 10:39 pm: ok, first of all, she's not a real friend if she doesnt wanna talk to someone who needs advice or help. don't quit makinq costumes if u like it. just iqnore her and find friends who are much nicer to you ! my ex best friend just decided she didnt like me and lied to my other best friend about me, so im not friends with them anymore. i've moved on and im fine now. [ xoObriianax3's advice column | Ask xoObriianax3 A Question ]
sunnyville answered Friday November 11 2005, 9:42 pm: Don't quit it if you love doing costumes just try not to get too close to her,pretend like she's not there even though she really is,and also you should stop talking to her because a real friend would always be there to talk with his/her friend when they need help it's not just someone to hang with that's what friends out for she will one day regret for being such a mean,uncaring person as well as a lousy friend.Hang out with real friends it goes to show you that when troubling times happen,you are in need of help it could show you who are your real friends. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
Achange2Thought answered Friday November 11 2005, 9:27 pm: ok well first off it doesnt really sound liek you want to be her friend anymore that she does but the fact that ur writing about this kinda make me feel liek you so basicly if u care about try and work things out and if you dont then just leave it at that and dont quit costumes bc if its something you like doing noone should stop you just be casual lead your life as if you woudl any otehr day [ Achange2Thought's advice column | Ask Achange2Thought A Question ]
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