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Hey my homies my name is Jazmine and i am 13-about to be 14 in July so ya. I live in Texas where its hotter than hades so take pity on me... my AC broke im soo hot... but n-e-ways, i am great friends with xMisplacd_heartX , so if i cant help you with your problems maybe she can. Im here for you if your here for me!!! I'm willing to answer most questions as long as theyre not sick or demented. I hope ya'll like my advice... Byze.
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Ok well our last day of school was last thursday and i told my b/f to come to school b/c that was the last day i would be able to see him b/c he was going to another school.well he didn't come so i didn't get to say goodbye or get a pic of him so i could remember him!i don't have his phone number or anything so i can't call him! what should i do so i can get over this?

i rate high! (link)
Dont worry about it. Get over him. Its summer you can get lots more guys go to the mall and forget that last year loser!!! hope it works out.



~CrzyLatinaChc~


i am having a problem i am goin out with a boy but sometimes i really like him then sometimes i dnt i dnt no wat to do pleez help me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
Think of his good qualities and his Bad qualities. Measure 'em up and make your choice. you gotsta make up your mind. Hope i can help.


~CrzyLatinaChc~


ok i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 weeks but every1 says he is playing me so i am goin to break up with him. i dont know what to say to him though. i dont wanna break his heart! he says that he really like me! but he never calls me and he acts like he doesnt wanna be around me. what should i say to him when i break up with him?? please help me out!! (link)
Dont listen to what other people say. Maybe you should call him. Dont let other people be the judge of him. Ask him if he's playing you or not. Make him tell the truth. Just trying to give the advice.

~CrzyLatinaChc~




I have a friend named Felicia and she's 16/F...all she likes to talk about is beer, boys, parties, people she hates..i don't know..she tries to act like she's all grown up now or whatever...well this morning i wanted to go for a scooter run with my other friend hannah...she was like, "umm no, that's ok i don't wanna smell like sh*t" so hannah and me went for the scooter run anyway..we had tons of fun! we came in and felicia was like "eeww you guys smell get away from me.." and she avoided us the rest of the night..(but at least we had fun! all she did was stay in and watch court tv with the judges and stuff..grrr..it's like she's trying to impress people by acting that she's not 10 anymore..(this is just an example of how she acts *all that* and *grownup*...trust me, there's tons more! she always acts like she's better than us and i really don't know what to do..please help! (link)
I know you said you can't avoid her but you can. Just ignore all the crap she is saying. Blow her off. Dont talk to her. Give her a taste of her own medicine maybe then she wont be so EVIL. But you also haveto understand she is 16 and there is nothing you can really do about that. Just leave her alone and dont talk to her for a little while. You dont haveto care about what she thinks just because shes older.


Ok latly my boyfriend has been coming over to the house im 13 and he is 14. But the point is... my brothers 8 and everytime where around him or he follows us and he sees us kiss he like starts to choke my boyfriend until he stops! its so annoying and when we try to get away from him he just follows us help!!!! (link)
Get locks on your door that way or go to the park or somewhere 8 yr olds cant go alone. Buy him a cool new toy he can play with that will occupy him while your b/f is over. hope i was a little help.


~CrzyLatinaChc~


hey all i asked a question about my arm before and i don't know what to do about when i try to turn my shoudler hurts and my arm is shaking thanks :( (link)
Go to the doctors office you may have sprained it or it could be somthing a little more serious. Just ask your mom if you could go to the doctor. Hope it gets better.



~CrzyLatinaChc~


I have tried to eat exactly 3 meals a day iwthout anny snakcs, but I'm having trouble. As soon as I come from school I NEED a snack. How can I keep myself occupied while I'm doin homewrok so I don't snack?! (link)
Take your mind off food we live in America where its everywhere. But try doing a sport or somthing. Try going to run or jog or walk your dog and if you dont have a dog just walk around your block or somthing. Do your homework closer to dinner time. Hope i could help.


~CrzyLatinaChc


yesterday when i went to school i got my period and it leaked though the pad and then i went to the nurse and she wanted to know what happened so i told her and she gave me a diper type thingy and it was like 6 inches thick all over and i was wearing really tight jeans today and everyone saw me and they were calling me diper butt and then i went to the nurse again and she gave me another one and she put 2 on me and it was like thick like 12 inches or sumthing and everyone was making fun of me and then she put this thing on me and it make me have a huge but and like i couldnt get it off and when i did she took me back and gave me 3 and then i couldnt like move but she said oh well and everyone was really making fun of me and i dont know what to do it make me look so fat and like since they were tight jeans it made me look huge everywhere like the frong between my legs and my but and i dont know what to do. help me! (link)
Okay well they have solutions for that type of stuff...Like You might try using tampons or you might get maxi-pads or try carring your own to school. It will blow over summer is almost here no big thang dont worry about it. You real friends will stick by your side no doubt about it dont worry things will work out.


~CrzyLatinaChc~


one of my best friends ever is friends w/ my enemy ((lets call her sam))! no one in our skewl likes sam except for my friend because she lies, shes a slut nd a bitch!! its one thing when youre excluded w/ yur bbf! its another when the person who took yur place is your enemy! wut can i do? how can i make her understand? (link)
This has happened to me just recently except for the whole(no one in our skewl likes sam except for my friend because she lies, shes a slut nd a b!%(# ) part. But I dont really know a way to catch her unless you catch her in the moment of being a total Horr-able person. Im sorry i couldnt be more helpful.


~CrzyLatinaChc~


Does anyone else think that Anikan Skywalker from starwars (episode 3) is hott? I do and so do a couple of other ppl i kno. But some of my friends think im weird i tell them that if they saw him they would think hes hott too.

Im just curious.

I rate high! (link)
Never really saw the movies and i wasnt a big fan to begin with but maybe you shouldnt care what your friends. If think you think he's hott keep thinking that way. Maybe you just have different taste than your friends in guys!!!


CrzyLatinaChc~


Ok, my girlfriend is pregnant and she's really worried about it. We're both 19 and this wasn't planned or anything. We talked about it for a long time and we both agreed that we want to keep it. Her parents disowned her when she was 18 becasue she started to see me, because she was raised catholic and I'm not catholic. I felt that was rediculous because I have nothing against catholics and I was willing to join the church if it meant I could be with her but she decided that she didn't want that...anyway her parents won't be helping us with her pregnancy and with the baby so we're on our own. (my mother is dead and I've never met my father) I know that she's going to be going through a lot with her pregnancy and I was wondering if anyone knew how I could help her get through with a little more ease. I'm working two jobs one full time and the other part time so I'm not around that much. But is there anything that I can do to be of any help to her or is there anything that I should look out for? I was also wondering about taking care of baby. If anyone has any tips about taking care of baby that would be a big help as well. Thank you for the advice and I will rate a five for any help.

Tim (link)
Well the best advice anyone can really give you is to just stay by her side. She is going to have mood swings and cravings and many other things that she is going to want you to help her with and with 2 jobs it may be a little hard but you have to make time just like she is going to have to make time for the baby. You two are really young and that gives you some advantages and disadvantages. You are young which means that you have alot of energy for the baby and the job. You are young which means you dont have that much experience on with children. It will work out just dont give up. As for her parents... try writing them letters every once in a while and tell them how you feel and what youre willing to do to get back in their good graces. As for family... try going to them for support, I'm sorry i couldnt give you any advice on Babies but i dont have one.

~CrzyLatinaChc~


my bf nd i have been going out 4 3 weeks. he is all cute but not that different than when we were friends. he never hugs me, holds my hand, etc. i m the type of person to make a first move but. . .o idk. please help me to get him more "huggyholdyish". ((i rate high)) (link)
Well what can i say that will help you... lets see. You could try holding his hand maybe he is nervous or maybe he just doesnt notice. Well make him notice. And for hugging its better for girls to do it. Just do it one armed the first time and then when you and him get more comfortable with it maybe he will be the one giving you the hugs. Hope i could help.

~CrzyLatinaChc~


i went to the beach last weekend..and i used sunscreen but i only applied it once..and im pretty pale....and i got burned really badly it hurt for like 3 days soo bad...well now my ENTIRE back is peeling as well as my shoulders..it is sooo effing grose...and ive been picking it...&& it itches and stuff..ive put lotion on but is there anything that will make it stop!? (link)
Aloe Vera Works really well It normally comes in a gel pack. Hope that stops the itching!!!

~CrzyLatinaChc


Okay...i went out with this guy (lets call him fred)we went out for about 3 months.. he broke up with me with the excuse "i deont want a girlfriend" but i kept in touch with him i called him every night. he ended up dating one of my best friends and he told me he was still interested in me but he dont want a girlfriend we still go on "dates" but im not interested in just being friends. im in love head over heels with this guy. hes all i ever talk about and hes the only guy im interested in i still cry over him about every night and i have dreams about him ALL the time! I wanna be dating people but when i try to it makes him sooo mad so i stop but it seems that im only there for him to fall back on like he uses me..what should i do i dont wanna keep waiting on him and i dont wanna b used but im sooo in love with him and ive tried letting go of him but i cant help myself hes just so amazing. should i keep waiting untill he wants a g/f or should i move on? PLEASE HELP! (link)
OH Honey, i would break up with him. He wants you to be there for him, but he doesnt care about you he is using you. You seem really into commitement but take it slow. Screw him, go out with other guys. If he gets mad blow him off you dont need him. You need to take your mind off this loser and get out there in the dating world you'll make it. As for the guy if he's not ready for a g/f he might be GAY!!! Hope it works out

~CrzyLatinaChc


kay i thkn my whoel family hates me > my mom is acting like she doesnt want me she makes me do all the work in the house. if she could she could probly put me up for adoption. but i kno my dad wont let her. i kno my dad loves me. i want ot run but i ahve no where to go. the rest of my family livies 2 hours away. she acts like she has to take me places > she does it because she has to not because she loves me. i have no clue what to do??? pleaz help me!!!

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Okay... I would tell my mom about this and let her know how you feel. Ask her if she hates you and if she does say yes ask her why. Ask her what you did to deserve this kind of treatment. You have to do this. It will help. As for your dad, try talking him into letting you stay the summer over at your relatives house. No one should get this kind of treatment from their family. I hope it works out for you.

~CrzyLatinaChc


I have a girlfriend, and we've been going out for about 4 months now. Note: I'm also a girl. I think my parents are starting to catch on bc I've spent every single Friday at her house for the last 3 months or so, since we've been going out. I've stopped spending time with a lot of my other friends, and it seems I only have time for her. I try to tell myself that I need to start seeing my friends more, but every weekend I just can't bare not being with her. Especially because she has a rough past, and she is on house arrest and can't come up to me. She was also thrown out of my school and goes to a school far away where I cant be with her. She's a grade ahead to. Anyway, the point of this is because I don't know wether or not I should tell my parents about me and her. They've seen me come home with hickies, and almost stopped letting me see her. I think I'm falling really hard for her, and I think it could be love. Every second not spent with her I feel so lonely. I'm afraid of what the outcome will be if I tell my family about my relationship. I think they know that I'm gay, because my mom makes fun of me for it all the time. I'm not asking for anyone to solve my problem, because I know that no one can, but I'm looking for advice (link)
Okay... you shouldnt have to hide the fact that your gay from your parents, if they love you they will understand in time, and it does take time. I don't really know what to say for your girlfriend other than you might want to take it slow, take your own advice and spend more time with your friends. You may miss her but let the fact that you're around your friends cheer you up. It may be love but, your still young and have time to find other loves. This girl doesnt seem like the type for commitment and she doesnt seem to know where shes going in life just give it time and tell your parents because sooner or later they will find out about you. I wish you the best of luck. And hope you find more love cause you are still young

~CrzyLatinaChc~




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