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Gender: Female
Location: PA
Occupation: HS Student
Age: 14
Member Since: May 29, 2005
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Last Update: July 26, 2005
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Okay, well I really want to give my boyfriend head to please him sexually. We are too young to have sex, so I would like to do this. The thing is, I am kind of scared. I know how to do it, I think I just need some reassurance from a few girls or something like that. Was anybody else in a situation like this that could help me maybe? Thanks. I'll rate high.

I think that's a better solution then having sex. Good for u ;] Haha. But yeah you have every right to be scared, don't worry. Just don't think to much of it or stress over it. If you feel that it's right time or moment, then it'll just happen. I was scared my first time too - but it was just the right mood and timing and it just felt right. Don't feel pressured into doing it or anything like that. I think your boyfriend would appreciate it, and you might even feel so much better after you do it. Good luck :]

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i'm going to buy a chi straigtener soon but does it seriously work well? i don't want to spend all that money on nothing. i have pretty thick wavy hair...how long will it probably take me to straighten it all? i have conair 200 watts..but it doesn't work on me for some reason. 15 minutes using it IT DIDN'T WORK! what is wrong with me!!!

Well I've never heard of or used a Chi straightner, but I suggest using a Vidal Sasoon straightner. That's what I use and I have thick wavy hair. I'll just say that I'm not a big fan of Conair. But you should look into the Vidal Sasoon - it's known to work magic ;)

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Hi, I know this is really random question, but I need to find a certain LJ icon. When I was in school, I had a computer class, and we had to make a presentation using powerpoint, and I used the icon that says, "Back off, it's my raspberry" with the cute little hampster? Well I love that icon, it's so cute, but now I can't find it, and I forget where I got it! So does anyone know where to find it? Thanks so much.

I actually think I have that icon. My internet on my other computer is down right now, but I'm getting it fixed tonight and I'll get back to you

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ok. this might be long and if it is im sorry. anyway. first of all, im 14/f. i said i would always be straight, but there is this one girl. shes 17/f. i dont no. just every time i no im goin to see her i get VERY happy. when i dont see her i kind of get depressed. we play softball together in the fall. she only talks to me then. whenever softball is over, we barely talk. when i see her and she doesnt say anything to me, it kills me. when she looks at me and smiles, i go crazy. i want to be like her and have everything she has. it kills me. she is also graduating next year and i will prolly rarely ever see her after that. and that thought CRUSHES me. sometimes i cry myself to sleep because i can barely talk to her. i want to get to no her and maybe (?) start a special bond with her. also, she is bi (i think, that is what everyone says). whatever she asks me to do for her, i will do it in a heartbeat. is this really a crush, love, or jealousy? im tellin you, i CANNOT live without this girl!

My best friend went through something similar, infact almost exact. That was about two years ago, and we talked about it often and we came to figure this: It wasn't exactly love. She just admired her so much to the point that she was obsessed and wanted to actually BE her. My friend just looked up to the girl so much, and there WAS a little bit of jealousy. For years she thought she had a crush on her, but she realized it was a little bit of jealousy and admiration. Maybe your just so fond of her and her company and love being around her. Although, their may be some chemistry between you and her. Maybe you do love her? It's not strange. I am 100% gay. You may want to look into that, and finding yourself. Do you have feelings for other girls have you noticed, or just her? Can you see yourself and a relationship with this girl, or do you think your just so obsessed with her company, and love being with her because you wish you could be just like her? I think it wouldnt hurt to sit down and just think one day about all this. I know that I don't have the answers, but hopefully you can look into and maybe you'll find the answer within your heart

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