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Ciao sono Jenn. This is my advice column. I'm always here to talk, and listen. Feel free to give a shout, and I'll try my best to help you. Always here to lend an ear. Always here to share a thought.
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Ok, lets say one of your best friends just broke up with his gf, who you have kind of liked for awhile? Should you ask her out right away or give her some time? It wasn't a very serious relationship, but I don't know how she would feel going out with me, after being with my friend?
Well if it was a serious relationship I would give it sometime, but then again it wasn't. Maybe you should give it time anyways, and talk to her more and then let her know you got the hotts for her. Good luck
Ok i dont no what to do i have this guy friend that has been my friend for over 2 years and i really like him alot more then just a friend but i no if i ever told him i like dhim then just a friend he would freak out and i dunno what he would do but i still want our friendship to be there and i feel if i tell him that i like him he wont talk to me or something
That happened to me too. I think maybe you should just let him know, but tell him if anything were to happen you will always be friends. Good Luck!
haha ok, i like my brothers friend.. and they are pretty good friends not best. I think he likes me cus hes all flirty and stuff and ahh...idk what to do. bleh, plus hes like 2 yrs older than me or more... idk... my brother mentioned something about his friends liking me or something.. idk.. and he said his name i was like WOW but idk.. what can i do?!?!?! bleh thank you very much for listening to me
Weird.. I dont mean like thats weird but its a coincidence i used to like my brothers friend also. Well I personally think you should tell him you like him and see what happens. Sure you could make a fool of yourself but if you like him that much I would let him know before you just explode from holding it in too long. Well good luck!
dumb question... tomorrow is the first day of skool and i dont no what to wear lol. im going into 9th grade. should i wear a skirt, should i wear capris, should i wear jeans? uh help! srry its so dumb but going into high skool ive been stressing out soooooo much. just give me ur opinion
Maybe if you like the urban outfitters look, so flare jeans with a fitting vintage t shirt. Possibly flip flops and dangly earings? If you have a pair of aviators that would be cool too! if you dont like this idea im sorry, its just a thought.
Hey Hey You guyZ- well i have a really high metabolism- and after every meal i eat even if its a big meal i feel hungry again- i eat alot even all my friends say i do- im 5"5 and weight 103- any suggestions on gaining weight? or will i gain weight as i get older and my metabolism slows down. Ive tried protein shakes but they didnt work-:/
You will gain weight as you get older because my mom had really high metabolism when she was my age then her metabolism slowed down and then she had my sister and gained a bit of weight, ever since she has gained weight. Shes not even close to obeisety though, dont worry.
hey im going to the movies with this guy i really like and he likes me too...we hold hands, make out n kiss n stuff like that all the time but we dont go out because we dont see eachother enough to be bf/gf...so we are kinda friends with benefits but we act like we go out...heres the problem...its so boring just kissing and holding hands all the time..i like him sososos much but i wanna do this to turn him on..im scared to kiss his neck bc hes taller then me and i dont wanna mess up n slober on him! ew!..so in the movies i want to do something with him but not handjobs or nothing because i dont wanna seem slutty or easy...wat can i do to get him horny and turn him on n posibly give him a boner?
Well.. sounds like your determined. lol. Hmm.. Maybe you should lightly kiss him on the neck and then play a little footsie? I dont think it will turn him on but he'll probably think its somewhat cute.
ok, ive had the samw bf for a year and things are kinda gettin old. We make out alot and i blow him and such...he does return the favor, luckly. But i wanna know how to spice things up..u no so its not so borring...i rate well so plz answer!
Well i think you should leave sweet notes in his locker. sounds corny but i bet he will like them, and then go up behind him cover his eyes and say guess who, then kiss him! That also sounds corny, but its really cute and the guys usually like it! Good luck!
I've decided that I want to give my EX another chance.. But whenever I talk about him.. everyone in my family starts sayin that I don't need him and that he's not worth it..I haven't changed my mind on giving kevin another chance.. I just wanted to know if anyone new how i could get my family to forget about the things that kevin has did to me and how i could get my family to like him...
*~Needing help~*
Personally I wouldn't listen to your family if he makes you happy and you have really thought about it and made sure your happy with your desicion.
Well if you tell your parents all the sweet things he does for you and maybe they will reconsider. Im not sure, but dont lie to your parents if he hasnt done things but if he has tell them. Well good luck
Well there is this guy in my dance class ( I swear he's not gay) and I like him a lot and all my dance friends say he likes me and I like him too, and I've told my best friend about him and she said make a move but i don't know if it's right for a girl to make a move on a guy( I don't really think I'll be good at it), plus i think he has a girlfriend and another girl likes him in class(she's my friend too) what should i do...
Its perfectly fine to have girls make the first move. But I wouldn't be too forward, you should tell him you like him then ask if he likes you, then go from there.
i hate my body .. like.. im 5'0'' nd i wiegh like.. 140.. but im muscular nd all .. but like.. i could lose wieght.. nd i needa find ways to lose weight.. what kinda excersises work.. FAST.. and like.. to top it off i have like the slowest motablisim lol.. so that sucks.. but im in alot of sports.. but it seems like them never lose any thing
grr so i just need a lil help here lol.. thanks!
Well hun, I can certainly help you with this. I do running sports so naturally I need to stay slim and fit.
ADVICE : DONT DO ANYTING that can harm your body such as becoming belimic or anorexic. But if your that worried I would just eat more healthy instead of just eating Candy and chips and all that junky stuff. What I do is eat salad 2 or 3 times a week for a snack. Then I make sure I eat what I need of each food group everyday. But definetly you should always bring healthy lunch to school, and eat a good breakfast. I always bring A turkey,cheese,lettuce and mustard sandwhich with a juicy juice and a banana and yogurt. That usually lasts me the rest of the day till i get home! In that lunch it incorperates almost all food groups!
EXTRA TIP: Even if you excerise all the time you still need to eat healthy. Cut down on junk food and eat more healthy this can also help!
I hope I helped you! If you need more advice just ask me. P.S. All this really does work, I excersise and eat right and I am in real good shape and it feels good to be healthy. But then again I also love to run so..
Ok - I recently got a petsitting job about 3 weeks ago. It's great and I love it!!! But my boss is hitting on me. He's a older guy around his late 40 - 50`s (I am not good with age) And his wife owns it. She is the sweetest lady. Well me and him went on a client interview and somehow he brushed aganist my butt with his hand, I was thinking hmm ok whatever. Then just at different times it seem ackward, he was like after you and wanted me to go first and different things like that. Well when I first meet him I sorta did have this weird feeling in my stomach, but just thought it was nervousness. Well then I had to go over his house to pick up invoices for the clients. And I walked up and he was on the pourch and before we went in the house we were talking and he reached towards my lips and I backed away I am like what what he's like you had a hair .. and reached again well I took my hand and like rubed it across my face I am like oh ok. And that was weird. Well I told my mom about it and she said that that is very weird and everything and it's up to me if I want to quit my job or not. I mean I love it so much, it's just that freaks me out. My mom said whenever I was going someplace and we knew he would be there, she would go with me. But I'm just afraid since he knows my schedule what if I go to a clients house and go inside and he's in there .. or what if he's stalking me watching me walk around the dogs. Whats really weird too is that he always wears sunglasses and smokes cigars. I don`t know what to do tho. Also their was a misunderstanding about one day I was suppose to work and he like curked out on me. Then when I had to go to his house (my mom came with me) he was like calm. It's really weird. What would you do?? :-/
Ok, well I understand it must be really creepy and awkward. Sounds like a cool job, but if you are really suspicious and these things keep on happening you should definetly quit your job because it's sexual harassment. You dont have to listen to me, but I am just saying you should quit for safety. Good Luck with this, send me an IM if you want to ask more.