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hey this week have been very longgg week because i've know alot of people who are commenting suicide or died of suicide its so depressing for me right now because i've known this girl who just died of suicide this monday and it was hard for me to get through because i've known her since 1st grade and some reason my life have been in a total shock and it keep staying in that way its making me want to do something and i don't know what it is. its hard i can't help it its just like somebody have tooked my life away. what is really suicide? i know what it is but i don't know everything about suicide tho can you give me facts about it please!!. This past month i've known 2 suicides right now its sooo depressing for me right now its making me want to cry my eyes out for a year. i need some help. thanks
Lauren (link)
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Suicide is the acting of taking your own life, mainly because you are depressed and feel like you can't handle life. It is not a smart desicion as you hurt all the people that truly cared about you.
I suggest seeing the school counselor to talk about your feelings. School counselors often see students traumatized by student suicides or deaths.
I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through, take care!
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i am 13 and i really like this guy anthony
1.what are some was i can make him want me??
Like today at school i wore a shirt that showed off my chest. You can see my bra and the sides of my boobs. Well today in class since my friend sits next ot anthony i leaned over on her desk so he can see my chest and he was looking!!! for now on i am wearing more revealing shirts!!
2.i mean i just want him to ask me out so i can hug him and kiss him and hold his hand. I want to do this as soon as possible,especially the kissing and the hand holding. But i never kissed a guy before. but i want this kiss to not just be a peck on the lips i want it to last over 1 minute and i want it to be as described:
first we are walking at school all alone with no one around hand in hand. We walk very slowly. We go behind the handball courts, we stare into each others eyes do a half smile. And then ill say o its cold outside and hell give me his sweater and get closer and grabs me and we kiss. It will be lasting over 1 minute with openmouths and if he wants to put his tongue in my mouth i will slowly let him and make my tongue touch his. And while we are doing this ill will have my hands on his hips constantly moving and his hands will either be on my waist or starting at the waist and moving up slightly touching my breasts. By then my shirt would be half way open. And after we are finally do we slowly break of lips apart and ill say i love you and give him a quick kiss on the lips.it will be the best time of my life so far i am only 13 but that is how i would like my first kiss to be and i would like it to be with anthony or with alex but i really wish it was with anthony, well does that sound like a good first kiss.
love always anthony b.
Julie (link)
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1. You're thirteen.
2. This guy is going to think you are easy.
3. You're thirteen.
4. First kisses hardly ever turn out as planned.
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I'm writing my friend a letter about why she should not smoke weed. She wants to try it because her best friend at another school got high. What should my letter say?
NOTE: I want to avoid the following things...
1. Sounding like a parent
2. Sounding like a Hallmark card
3. iF YoU TyPE LyKe ThIs then don't answer my question or give me advice
4. I want to make her THINK sincerely
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You have my permission to show her this:
Hey, I'm Christina. I'm 15 years old and I have been with my current boyfriend for close to 8 months steadily and a year and a half on and off. I love him with all of my heart and even going a day without seeing him kills me.
He's a big druggie though, or he used to be. Weed was one of the things he loved to get high on. One day he got caught with it and they locked him up in the juvinelle detention center for a few weeks. That was so hard on me. Letters were all I could get from him, and it tore apart his whole family not being able to see him. I cried myself to sleep every night thinking of him. He was torn apart too. And he told me he was done with weed for good.
But the same day he got out he smoked again. It's addicting. And tomorrow, he's checking himself into inpatient rehab for 60 days because of it. Because he can't stop. But he needs to, he HAS to. That's 60 days I can't talk to him. 60 days without seeing him. All I have is letters. Just letters keeping us in contact. And what if the mail messes up? What if the letters don't get to me? How am I going to get through this?
Now I won't lie to you, I've smoked weed a few times. It's nothing special really. My boyfriend just happened to be one of the unlucky few who fall in love with the high and can't stop for anything, anyone. But now he realizes it isn't doing anything for him except screwing up his life. It'll be hard for him to give it up but he knows he has to. If you want something that will make you dizzy and lightheaded and hungry trying not eating breakfast and spinning around a room. It's NOT worth screwing up your life. What is weed gonna do for you in the long run? Will you end up in the same position as my boyfriend, checking yourself into rehab or laying in juvi, while everyone that knows you misses you to death?
Think about it, please. This is a true story, it's what I'm dealing with in my life right now and you really don't want it to happen to you. I know you're probably thinking, "Just one time. Only one time." But it will turn into more. Trust me. Please...don't do it.
blondstbrunete34@aim.com if you have any questions or wanna reply to this.
Hope I helped.
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okay well for english i have to write a research paper on the book Of Mice and Men and im a little confused on what/how to right it
my too promps are
1. was George justified in killing lennie
2. Do ior dont i suport either mercy killing or capital punishment
we have been given 5 days in class to write not cards and get quotes from unrelated sources and im so confused
i believe we have to have 3 "suports" for each topic and atleast 10 quotes total in the paper
(both promps are each a paragraph plus 2 other paragraphs atleast)
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Well, if you want my opinion, George's actions were justified. He put Lennie out of a world where he could not comprehend anything and into a world where he could relax and be himself. If he hadn't killed Lennie, both of the men would have to continue running from the police for the rest of their lives. And with a guy as big as Lennie, it wouldn't be hard to spot them. Plus, George promised his Aunt Clara he would keep Lennie safe. And he is doing that by killing Lennie, as horrible and cruel as that sounds. But keeping him alive in a world where everyone is going to be searching to kill him would not be upholding his promise to his Aunt Clara.
The second prompt would be totally up to you.
I'm just trying to help. I'm in Honors English and we also read this book and wrote an essay analyzing the characteristics of one of the chatacters. I chose George and analyzed his protectveness for his companion. Also I justified him killing Lennie. I got a 158/160 so I figured I could help. If you need anything else just go to my Inbox! Hope I helped.
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About 3 weeks ago i had sex with this kid hes 16. Well While we had sex he didnt use a condum untill i asked him to. (i know i should have asked a head of time)(but its to late for that now)well im having the feeling im pregnant (scary thought) i was going to wait a couple more weeks and take a test. And Suggestions? and if the test is positive what should i do? please help im almost 15 and really scared at this moment (link)
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I understand your emotions right now, I have been in quite the same situation before.
One, you could just be playing mind tricks. Just RELAX, as hard as that is, because stressing will delay your period more. One of the months I had sex I also didn't use a condom (he pulled out...not a smart move but I'm not up for a lecture) and I was late by 5 days, probably related to stress. So just relax and, if you do turn out to be late, take a pregnancy test. If it's positive, you're gonna have to talk to your mom. If not, be smart next time. =) Any more questions, message me!
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Ok so i'm going out with this guy, and now my ex has showed up and i have minor feelings for him but when he talks about another girl or something i get jelous and want him back what should i do? please help i'll rate 5 for any advice thanks! (link)
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Is giving up what you have now worth leaving him for your ex? I don't know what kind of terms you and your ex ended it on so I can't really help there. Ask another question if you want.
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Do you think Iam ready to have sex? Tell after reading this.
Well Im 13 female, I live in Pensacola, Florida. My b/f's name is Stephen. I really like him. I get really "exited" around him. He's so hott. He really likes me. He wants to screw me. I dont know if Im ready. Im a virgin. I want to but Im so nervous, Im afraid I'll screw up! Do you think Im ready? If so,,, any hints on how to do it and preferences from you guys, would be fine. please do a good answer. ill rate 5's to all answers that help. (link)
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I'm not gonna sit here and tell you not to do it. But here's some things you should think about before you do.
* If you have to ask if you are ready, you're really not ready are you? When you go to have sex, you shouldn't have to ask for reassurance from others about if you are making the right desicion. It's YOUR virginity, not theirs.
* You like him, but do you love him? Could you live with yourself knowing that he has taken something from you that no one else is ever gonna be able to take again? Can you see yourself in a serious relationship with Stephen? And no, sex does not make a relationship serious. Emotional and mental connections do, neither of which you can aquire just from sex alone.
* Do you feel comfortable talking to him about birth control and what happens if you do get pregnant? If not, you are definitley not ready to have sex. You have to be comfortable with him to the point where you can talk about anything with him, or sex will just put a strain on the relationship even more.
* Yeah, so what? You get "excited" around him. He turns you on. That doesn't mean you have to lose the big V to him. You'll meet lots of guys who "excite" you, but is this the right one to lose it to?
* Would you be his first? What's his sexual history? Does he have STD's, HIV/AIDS? Haven't asked? Hmm...
Listen, I really wanna help you out. You might think I don't know jack shit about what you're talking about or that I'm just trying to stop you from doing it. I'm not. I'm trying to educate you. My screenname is blondstbrunete34. I really want you to IM me and ask me anything you want about this, because I can offer my opinions and maybe help you out a bit. This is coming from a girl who lost her virginity a little bit before she turned 15. So please, IM me and we can chat about this. I won't be a bitch, promise!
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Is there any possible way to get pregnant from swallowing a guy's cum? I know it sounds stupid, I'm just making absolutely certain that there's like no way it could leak into any body cavity. So no smart ass answers. Thanks. (link)
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Nope! Babies are made in the uterus not the stomach! Don't worry I used to think the same thing you asked. ;)
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16/F.
My 2 best friends have been going out since the summer (don't worry, it's a guy/girl....) I'm really happy for them & all, but sometimes it gets annoying, because whenever I do get to spend time with either one of them (since they're constantly with each other), we always end up discussing the person's bf / gf. They are always asking, "So what does he/she say about me??" & I always end up having to spill the juicy, mushy details of all the "oh she/he's so hot" & all that. I feel less like their friend & more like their spy now! It really makes me feel used. So, my question is... is it wrong for me to want them / encourage them to break up (I know that seems kind of selfish, but....) or what am I supposed to do about this? I rate 5's for non-crap answers. ;) (link)
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Yeah, it's selfish for you to want to try and break them up. Plus if you do and they find out about your little plot, there goes your two best friends as well.
If you're friends like you say you are, or used to be, TALK TO THEM. The next time they bring each other up in conversation with you, explain to them that it bothers you to have to be their in-between person. It's normal for couples to want to find out what their signifigant other is saying about them, so put yourself in their shoes. But explain to them how you feel and things should get better.
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i want to gage[?] my ear hole to a 14 or 16..but i wanted to know how bad it hurts,from when you stated out[i think a 21 gage]to a 14 or 16..thanks (link)
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Hmm, I thought alot of people started out with a 14 gauge for their ear but anyways...it will hurt pretty bad. I'd go with the most gradual gauge you can do, because from what I've heard from friends it hurts like hell.
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alright for this i dont want anyone telling me " that i should just let them be" or anything ..alright so this boy and girl...there going out...i lke the boy and the girl is my friend..they have been going out for like a week and they dont talk on the phone and barely see eachother...and i feel like i talk to the boy more than she does and so i want them to break up..want are some good ways to get them too?
ILL rate 5 for anyways..just not like " thats mean" (link)
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I don't even care if I get rated low for this, it has to be said.
Trying to break people up is about as low as it can get. In the first stages of a relationship people are often nervous around each other so it's understandable if they don't talk or see each other much. Does that mean you need to intervene? Just think of how you would feel. You just start dating this guy and your so called "friend" tries to break you two up.
Pathetic.
TO YOUR FEEDBACK:
That doesn't give you any excuse to act like a bitch and try and break them up. She can't help who she likes. And how the heck am I supposed to know the whole story if you don't give it? Hmm?
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Brown Gauchos & Brown cowboy boots.
^yes or no?
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If the brown gaunchos matches the brown boots it might be a little too much. It all depends on the tone of brown though.
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Okay i need advice, i dont know if i should stay on this site or not??!?! everybody keeps asking questions like the questions "shower" and "18+" and this isnt very good to perants! so this is to YOU PEOPLE!!! the sick perverts in this world who are too pethetic that they have to ask things online!!! should i stay on the site? i need advice on this one. (link)
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Just go away. Leave. Go find a kiddy site. People are on here because they want other peoples opinions or are to embarassed to ask those close to them. If you can't handle that, leave.
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To your feedback:
And you're a bitch. "the sick perverts in this world who are too pethetic that they have to ask things online!!!"
And you're not gone yet...
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ive been dating my boyfriend off and on for 5 years. were together and doing very good right now... but christmas is just around the corner and i cant think of anything!! every one says get im cologne or clothes but he wouldnt like that. were 16 and i know one of the things he got me and its a bracelet..i want to get him something special. maybe something i make and something to buy. im willing to spend 35-40$ any ideas?? thanks! (link)
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Um, well for Christmas I bought by boyfriend two DVD's of a country singer he really likes, a Chevy racing beanie, and a 300-watt Jensen amp for his truck. It totaled around $100. But if you have been together for a long time think of things he likes and get him little things to go along with that. A scrapbook would also be cute!
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I've been trying to figure this out since I've been with my boyfriend for the past 2 months. It's a new relationship but we feel like we've known each other all our lives. He is the greatest guy I've ever met - handsome, funny, smart, sweet, loving, sexy, treats me like queen. But the thing, before we got together, I NEVER would have thought I was his type. I'm a regular girl, take care of myself, care about people, not a hot babe or anything but I'm alright. So anyhow, I feel insecure to be with him because with how hot and great he is, he's bound to find a hot and great girl. Therefore, I find myself very very skeptical about this relationship lasting. I've talked to him and believe me, he reassures me like crazy that he wants to be with me and feels like he can love me forever. He really does have a good head on his shoulders. But what does add to it, is that he has a lot of female friends as well - all are just long time friends, but these girls are great as well, and I feel like he's bound to fall for one of them soon. It's so frustrating to be with such a great guy and not feel like you're the centre of his world (even when he treats you like it). What can I do? (link)
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Just realize that once you get over your self loathing and thinking you're not good enough you will be able to enjoy this relationship to the fullest. Plus, guys love self confident (NOT COCKY) girls.
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okay so my head itches and i have this weird bump inside and like i havent found any "Bugs" or "eggs,larva" but i cant help but itch my scalp..please help I DO NOT HAVE LICE!!!!!!!!! (link)
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When I got lice I thought it was just dry scalp too. And often times, it's hard to find the lice because they can move quickly from searching fingers. Have someone, like your mom or dad, go through and look for the nits. If you don't have any then I suggest a dandruff shampoo.
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so i skipped school and there was weed and alcohol im 13 female by the way..
and anyways.
i was good i didnt smoke because its disgusting.
and it was only 33% alcohol..
anyways my freinds turned out to not be freinds.
and so i was like.. im tired. then this guy goes oh here ill take you upstairs.. and show you where you can sleep.
so we went into the room yes we.. and he locked the door we were on his parents bed.
and he started making out with me.
hes 15.
and im like EWWWWWWWWWWW because he was so fugly.
and yeah he was on top of me..
then i stopped thinking omg what do i do.
then he took of his pants..
and started making out again..
and then he put my hand yeah you know.
and made me give him a handjob while makingout.
then he took of my pants.
And got on top of me.
and i pushed him of
and was like no!
im not going to have sex with you.
im a virgin.
and im afraid to have sex..
i didnt say that but yeah
and then hes like i love you.
suck my dick.
I KNOW ISNT THAT SO DUMB!
and im like no.
and hes like.
yes then you wont have to do anymore.
and im like NO.
i was thinking if i dont want to do anymore i wont do anymore.
and then he tried to have sex with me again.
i pushed him of.
and left to go get my twin brother and pretend i was at school.
what is this??
rape??
peer presure
im freaked out.
PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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Drinking at 13 and cutting class does not make you good.
If it's not rape it would be sexual assault. But if you tried that in a court they might bring up the fact that you were drinking and you cut class.
Guess you learned your lesson, huh?
Personally, if he was being that forward, I wouldn't have just pushed him off but hit him and ran.
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Hello There!
My name is Lauren. My birthday and Christmas are coming up really soon. I'm turning 14 years old. My only problem is, I dont know what I want! Can I have some ideas?!?
I like:
- body sprays and lotions
- jeans
- make up (only mascara, eye liner, and eyeshadow.)
- picture frames
anyone know any good things along those lines? Im looking for specific things. 5's for prices and store. 1's for sarcasm. 3's for trying but basically repeating what everyone else said.
thank you!
-lauren =) (link)
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Bath and Body works has some amazing body sprays, last term in gym everyone was using Sweet Pea or Warm Vanilla Sugar. They seem to be really popular at my school, and it's just enough scent that it's not overwhelming. They typically range from $6-12.
I found a pair of Seven jeans and American Eagle jeans at (yess...) TJMaxx for like, $15. Normally ranging from $38-120, you can find alot of brand name and designer jeans at TJMaxx for really cheap prices.
For the makeup and picture frames, I love Target! They have cute picture frames (prices would vary, but they're not too expensive) and I love their makeup section. Plus they have really cute makeup cases. Specifically in makeup, I like Revlon creme eyeshadow, the one that comes in the four pack. It's about $8-9 and it looks amazing. Mascara? Maybelline Full 'n' Soft. $6. Awesome mascara. You might also want to invest in a eyelash curler (Sonia Kasuk makes a good one) for extra pop. They are about $5-9, depending on the brand.
Hope I helped! Happy Early Birthday!
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there is this girl that acts like she likes me and askes me over to her house all the time. anyway when ppl make fun of me she will laugh right along with them. Is she a true friend? (link)
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If you have to ask, the answer is probably no.
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what is a orgasm? and sometimes i rub down there really fast and it feels really good. but i don't wanna finger myself but what do i do??
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It's one of the greatest feelings there is. No two are alike but it will just be a feeling that takes over your entire body. Trust me, you'll KNOW when you have one. If you continue to rub yourself down there and it feels really good you may be close to having one.
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