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my name is Mary Elizabeth Hearn but im called(beth) by everybody. i have brown hair and hazel eyes. i am 5'5. i love to talk on the phone, ride four wheelers, go mud ridin, sleep, internet, hang out in town, go fishin, shop, be with my boyfriend, make people laugh, and just hang out with friends. if ya wanna know more, get in contact with me. i have a beautiful boyfriend that i love very much named Brett Austin! (i love you)i love to give advice and i love to get advice from others. i am a really understanding person. ask me questions! luv always!

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Ok, I'm 14 and I have this friend. She truly is a nice person, but she flirts with EVERY GUY in sight. No joke. It really gets on my nerves, and plus she has a boyfriend anyway. And it's not just normal, friendly flirting--she hangs all over them and is always hugging all over them and stuff. Her boyfriend goes to another school, which happens to be convenient for her. Anywho, it gets on my nerves soo bad. How should I tell her that its not right? Or should I just lay low and hope she stops?

i think i would tell her to stop. if she dont stop, i would tell her that either she had to tell her boyfriend that she does it, or that i would. i think her boyfriend would much more hear it from her than somebody else! keep me updated! *Bethers*

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ok my little problem is...that I've had many gurlz ask me to Homecoming...I mean I got gurlz from 6 different schools asking me...and like 2/3 or 4 from each school..c im very flattered..but if I go with 1 of them the others will get really pissed..if you got any idea on what I should do or/and who I should choose..tell me

Kev

just pick the one that you want to go with and tell all the other gurls that you have a date to it already..tell them that they shouldve asked earlier and you wouldve went with them. but the girl you are going with was the fist to ask. they wont never know the difference. good luck. tell me what you do! *Bethers*

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everyday we go to lunch and me and a few friends play truth or dare.. well like im never dared to do anything so im usually happy. i was dared the other day to kiss this boy jake.. and i did. because him and i have kissed before.. yeh sure its no harm done and we acted like it never happened. but my friends made a BIG deal over it for nothing.. what do i do to tell them to chill!?

just say hey i never turn down a dare. i mean what can they say? they dared you, you did it..thats the rules of the game right? *Bethers*

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This year at My new Middle School* I met this really Cute boy .. + He's in like all my Classes and we became really good friends.. well about a couple days ago He asked me out and i said yeah! But Then i found out that he only had one gurlfriend but they went out for awhile but they never did anything so his friend told me he thinks he never kissed! Well I dont JuSs wanna be a couple that talks i wanna kiss and hold hands and that lil Stuff! So should i JuSs make the move or should i tell his friend to get him to do it ?! Oh but he does hug* lol!! Alright.. Please Help Me Out

aww how sweet. when me and my boyfriend got together, i made the first move to kiss him just because i felt like it was right. if you feel like doing something, do it! you can also tell his friends to tell him to do it, but they might say "well, she told me to tell you to make the first move" and then he will be all awquard around you and stuff. so if i was you gurl i would make the first move and see how he takes it. if he kisses back, it shouldnt be hard for him to make the first move next time. i bet you would release a lot of stress and worry offa him. good luck. keep me updated! *Bethers*

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ok im having trouble attracting boys, i have brown hair brown eyes and glasses, my skin is a light tan, im not sure what kind of makup and hair styles to use but what im doing now is not working. do anyof you have ideas on attracting guys? please help thanks a lot
**hailey**
oh ya im 14/f

for a question like this, im your girl! ok, if you want to get rid of those glasses (its up to you)..i would start off by going to the eye doctor to see if you could get contacts. next, i would go to the tanning bed everyday for a while. then, i would go buy some makeup that fitted my personality/skin tone. if your hair is straight, always play with it like twist it around your finger or curl it. shake yo @$$ and talk to guys! (smile A LOT) flirt with them and hang out with them. youll get one..go gurl! keep me updated! *Bethers*

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well everyone in my school has a bf! even my ugly bff has one and hes hott! i dont no what to do b/c it seems like no guys like me. i wouldnt say im ugly but im not exactly pretty. what could i do to attracted guys???? thx

ok. im sure some guy likes you, hes just too shy to talk to you. even guys with girlfriends may like you. just make guys notice you..like go buy your fav perfume and wear it. (Lucky and Love Spell are GREAT!) wear make up that brings your eyes out and shake yo @$$, and when you wear your hair down, always play with it a lot (like twist it around your finger or flip it back)make sure you smile a lot!! talk to all of the guys! and start hangin out with them! ull have a guy before you know it! go gurl. keep me updated! *Bethers*

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Well... last night I was at a football game with my best friends. We ran into one of their ex-boyfriends. She has been trying to set me up with him.. but I had never met him before that.
Him and I really hit it off. One of my best friends went to watch the game (his ex) so I walked around with my other friend.
The guy and I were first talking.. and then he gave me a hug and we were walking around with our arms around each other. My best friend left with some other girls to talk to someone.. and left me alone with this guy. While she was gone, he kissed me... Well.. we were kissing when she came back.. and she got mad. I went to find out why she was mad... she said i could do better than a guy like him.

Before I left the game.. I asked him if he wanted to go to our school's homecoming dance with me. He said yes to me.
During the car ride home.. my friend told me I shouldnt go with him because he is white trash. She probably knows him better than I do.. but I really like him. Should I listen to her and tell him I dont want to go to the dance. or go with him and get to know him better?

ok..first of all she is jeleous. that is obvious! second of all..u dont need to let her tell you that you could do better than anybody..u may be able to do better then him, but if you like him, go for it, because nobody said you were gonna be with him forever. it may turn out to love, just to be as friends, or yall may never talk again. so either way..dont listen to her! keep me updated! *Bethers*

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Ok. Have you guys ever heard of those ' Self piercing earrings ' ? Do they still have those? Or do you know anyone whos ever had them and do they work? I dont know much about them But i rather do that then get my ears perced with a gun. So if you know where I could get them or whatever please answer this! Thanks

if you go to sally's, you can go buy one and do it yourself. i did that too..its this little white thing that comes with 2 earrings that you push together and little plastic pieces come out...exept i never heard of a earring that pierces u. hmm..lemme know what you do. *Bethers*

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ok i was thinking about taking up fast pitchpitcing. ive been practicing amost everyday for a couple of weeks... i play 15&under how do u think i could ever be good enought to be in a game? what could i work on to make me good?

i also play fast pitch for a travelin team. i play for the elite in bells tennessee. to be really good..pitch at a really small target..A LOT! and practice flickin your wrist and sliding your foot makin sure not to crow hop! thats just about it. keep practicing. good luck!

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