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I'm new to the site so bear with me on my feedback profile, I know it may seem that I'm a lil young to be giving advice but not all wisdom comes with age or experience. I hope I can help you all out with your problems and really this is something I enjoy doing, my friends have all told me that I give good advice so hopefully I do and you all feel better after talking to me!! :) xx
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Does anyone know of any mom forums that I can talk to other moms online?
There are quite a few of these, I've pasted some links here for you.
Bounty,
http://member.bounty.com/join/cpc/a.asp?WT.term=forums%2520for%2520mums&WT.campaign=Post-natal&WT.source=google&WT.medium=cpc&WT.content=59648&gclid=CJal4aCkkKkCFQEY4QodoHzNiw
Mums Room Forums
http://www.mums-room.co.uk/forum/
Mum's Like You
http://www.mumslikeyou.com/home.php
Ask A Mum
http://www.askamum.co.uk/Community/Mum-forum/
Connected Mums
http://www.connectedmoms.com/
Hope this helps!!xx
Does your mind go blank and you can't think or do u only think about what your doing or what?
For the majority of people their mind is just focusing on what their doing the feelings they're experiencing, where they want their partner to go because they think that'll make them orgasm. For some others they can't help but think during sexual intercourse which really isn't that good. It means their not relaxed enough and aren't really that in the mood but just went along with it. You never know what your going to think during sex, things just happen.
Hope this helps xx
I'm 13 and my names Gracie. I'm not having sex and I don't plan on doing it anytime soon so dnt worry. I'm just curious
For a girl it can be painful the first time, and there can be some blood due to a small piece of tissue called the hymen, when you are penetrated the hymen can be torn slightly or completely torn off which causes the bleeding, this is where the whole name "popping your cherry" came from (this is perfectly normal!). Be sure to use lot's of lube as sometimes there might not be enough lubrication from your vagina and it can chafe and really hurt you down there.
Be safe if you plan on losing your virginity because the last thing you want is to become pregnant at a young age or even worse contract STI's/STD's.
Becoming sexually active attaches you to a person on a higher emotional level, so make sure you like or love this person a lot as you will remember this person as the one you gave your virginity to for the rest of your life.
Hope this helps xx
Do you feel different after you have sex for the first time? Does it change you? What about all the times after that? Ps: my names Gracie and I'm 13
Fist of all it's OK to be inquisitive about sex at your age, however the age of consent for sex is 16. Having sex before that age is illegal and is definitely looked down upon.
When you've had sex for the first time, if it went right then you feel happy, you feel great and satisfied. But then again it all depends on the person. It doesn't really change you all that much but for some it does give them more confidence and self esteem; however that is not the reason to have sex. Generally after the first time you gain more confidence in that department and feel more at ease when you do it again and you learn to explore etc. If you have any more questions please feel free to inbox me.
Hope this helps xx
What's a orgasm? What does it do? Does it help pole get pregnant?
An orgasm is an intense feeling of sexual pleasure that happens during sexual activity. It’s sometimes called coming or climaxing, and both men and women have orgasms.
When you have an orgasm, your heart beats faster and your breathing gets quicker and heavier.
In women, an intense, pleasurable release of sexual tension is accompanied by contractions of the genital muscles. A woman may have more than one orgasm if she continues to be stimulated.
In men, muscle contractions cause semen containing sperm to spurt out of the penis (ejaculation). After this, there’s a period of time when a man cannot have another orgasm. This recovery phase, in which the penis and testicles shrink back to their normal size, can last from a few minutes to a few hours.
It doesn't really effect pregnancy all that much. To get pregnant a man just has to release that tiny bit of semen into your vagina and there is a potential.
Hope this helps xx
is kissing like hugging?
you automatically know what to do?
In a way, once you get the hang of it and aren't so nervous with it then it becomes a lot easier to do and well it does become like hugging.
Everybody gets worried tht theyll mess up kissing but you cnt really go all too wrong with it try practicing on your pillow or on your hand bcus its sumthing you get better at with practice. When you go in for the kiss make sure your head tilts a bit the opposite way to his and have your lips slightly parted and when your lips touch his kiss him then from there you kinda just have to go with the flow but one rule is if you are inexperienced try saving using your tongue till your completely safe and comfortable with just plain old kissing.
If you do wanna kiss with tongues Open your lips slowly and just a little during the kiss so that one of your lips is sandwiched between theirs and one of theirs is between yours. As you are locking and re-locking lips, brush your tongue against your partner's lips ever so slightly. This should make it clear that you want to French kiss.slowly try to open your mouth a little bit more and gently push your tongue a little farther into their mouth. The tongue is very sensitive, and the mere act of touching your partner's tongue with your own will be very pleasant. Do not stick your tongue too far into the mouth, as this can be a big turn-off. Instead, just gently and playfully touch tongues. Start lightly. Usually, if the other person wants more, they will come and get it.Go slow. Passionate kisses are good sometimes, but to really enjoy a French kiss, you must take it slow. Do not hurry and instead, take time to explore each other's mouths.
Hope this helps!!xx
i want to know that is there any injection or tablet for sucide and easy death?
You will not get the answer to that on here. In fact the answer you will get is, don't do it. And that's exactly right. Suicide is most definitely not a good option for anybody's life. When you think your at the bottom, the complete and utter lowest you can ever be, then the only way is up. I think I speak for everybody here when I say that you should probably get some counselling. You can speak about your problems and get the best help you need to move on with your life and deal with the things that are thrown at you. I hope this helps, good luck xx
Dear Readers,
I found my mom's vibrator and also alot of other digusting things in her drawer.....!!! I was just trying to find my car charger for my phone .....she even was the one to send me in there......!!! Was she trying to tell me that way or did she think I was just STUPID!!! Any way I found it ........what should I do?????........PLEASE COMMENT ON THIS........I NEED TO KNOW....!!!
Thanks,
Elizabeth Little
Nothing really. Your mother is old enough now and is entitled to have these things in order to gain pleasure. If you would like you could talk to your mum about it and ask her why does she have these things and tell her what you think of them. But apart from that if you think it's really disgusting then just stay away from them and if you can avoid going into that draw again.
Hope this helps xx
If i'm on birth control can I have sex?
Yes you can have sex but you are never completely safe. If you are planning on having sex with someone who you do not really want a child with or aren't married to etc. then it would be best to make this person wear a condom to help with being safe. He may not like wearing one but it's the best option for trying to maximise your safety along with the birth control so that when he ejaculates his semen isn't inside you.
Hope this helps xx
14/f
Hi I've been riding my bike a lot more often than usual and kinda suddenly,(it's pollen/allergy season) and lately I've been noticing my right eye is ITCHYYYY!!!!! I only noticed today that the lower eyelid is a bit swollen and the sclera is a very light shade of pink. Does this sound like pinkeye? From what I read online I think it is the not-infectious kind but I need an opinion I know is from a person. Thank you
It is very possible that you have pink eye. The best thing to do would be to make an appointment at your doctors because depending on the cause for your pinkeye, they can then allocate you the necessary treatment.
However in the meantime to relieve the symptoms of conjunctivitis:
Protect your eyes from dirt and other irritating substances.
If you wear make up avoid wearing it.
Remove contact lenses, if you wear them.
Non-prescription "artificial tears", a type of eye drops, may help relieve itching and burning from the irritating substances causing your conjunctivitis. However other types of eye drops may irritate the eyes and should not be used. Note: Do not use the same bottle of drops in an uninfected eye.
Traditional home remedies have been fine for soothing pink eye associated with colds, minor infections and allergies. Treatment consists primarily of cleansing the eyes and preventing the condition from spreading
Get to the doctors as soon as possible to avoid spreading. Hope this helps xx
first,i give you a thenkx for giving advice for my previous question...thenkx again,,..now i want your advice that how to be i became a fat...i try all these things such like eat oily,eat something having fat..etc..is there any medecine which help me to do same...or some home made ways are there?
Just eating fatty or oily foods does not make you fat.Healthy weight gain, just like healthy
weight loss, takes time and
requires a conscious effort to apply good habits.
You need to get yourself into a routine.
Try to get up and go to bed at set times.
Have a higher calorie intake so maybe go up to 3000 calories a day.
Eat balanced meals (carbohydrates, lots and lots of protein and the
right kinds of fat such as unsaturated and monounsaturated fats,
olive oil, canola oil, pistachios, almonds and walnuts etc.)
Pack more nutritious calories in each serving. For example, you may
add grated cooked eggs to mashed potatoes, ground chicken to soups and
gravies, cheese in casseroles, eggs, and soups, and nonfat dried milk
in soups, shakes, milk, and mashed potatoes.
If you get too full too fast, try having more high-calorie foods or
slices of foods as opposed to consuming the whole thing (raisins
versus grapes, granola and Grape Nuts versus corn flakes, mango slices
versus the whole mango).
Limit drinking beverages to a half-hour before and after a meal.
Drink mixed juices (apple/berry, peach/orange/banana as opposed to
one juice beverages) for a higher calorie intake.
With moderation, you may add in good fat sources to meals such as
nuts, avocado, olives, and fatty fish (salmon and mackerel).
Snack in between meals. Nuts, dried fruits, and yogurt are good
options, but it's also important to find nutritious foods that you
will enjoy.
Have a nutritious snack before bedtime, such as a peanut butter
sandwich)
Make sure you get some exercise in your routine as well because this is essential. Muscle building workouts will help you to gain the weight.try working out 3-4 times a week. Make sure you are weightlifting correctly! Lift hard and then recover for the next workout. Focus on the big exercises such as squats, deadlifts, bent-over rows, chin-ups, bench press, & military press. These are the exercises that will turn those extra calories into muscle and therefore help you gain weight. You are not going to gain weight by doing lateral raises and step-ups every workout. It’s the multiple-joint lifts that will shock your system and stimulate your body into growth. Gradually add a little amount of weight each time you workout – this will help you strengthen those muscles. If you focus on strength, size will follow. You need to gain muscular strength in order to get bigger.
Weigh yourself at the end of a week. You’ll notice you’re gaining more weight after only one week! However, don’t expect miracles. You won’t have put on 10lb!. Remember that when it comes to weight gain, gaining anymore then 1 or 2 pounds a week is unhealthy and means you’re putting on fat instead of muscle. Patience is a virtue! What you want is to see 1 or 2 pound gains at the end of the week. It may not seem like a lot but add it up. You easily gain weight at the rate of 5-8 pounds a month!
Sooner or later you will stop gaining weight and it is now that you should concentrate on eating even more. So, when you stop gaining for at least 2 weeks, start eating an extra 250 calories a day. Every time you see you haven’t gained weight for at least 2 weeks, add an extra 250 calories.
Avoid trans fats like the plague, and go for the “good fats”. Yes, you want to gain weight, however you don’t want to gain weight that is in fact just fat. So, cut out the cakes, chips and candy. No more visits to McDonalds and steer clear of anything fried. High protein low fat foods like tuna fish (and other seafood), chicken breast, turkey, lean meats, fruits and vegetables etc, are the good clean foods to eat.
Drink around a half gallon of water a day and even more if you can. Sure, that’s a lot of water, but believe it or not, it’s that water you need for the energy you need to gain weight! Dehydration can lead to all sorts of health problems, including less stamina at the gym.
Hope this helps! Good luck!!xx
what does snm mean
If you mean 's & m' then its sadomasochism which is basically kinky sex without going in to too much detail. However if its 'snm' and you see this on a conversation or comment or something like, 'you're stupid snm', it means say no more.
Hope this helps!xx
I took a pregnancy test and it said no, but I still haven't gotten my period.
Here are the details to my previous question:
I got my period last month on the 17th, it is now almost the 24th of this month and it still hasn't come. I took an early detection pregnancy test on the 19th and it was negative, and I took another early detection last night on the 22/23rd and it was also negative. My period has kind of been all over the place the past few months too. For example, in March I got it on the 8th but last month I got it on the 17th and back in January I had it twice in the month.
The chances that I am pregnant are very slim, so what other reasons could there be for this to be happening? I only just recently started having sex again at the beginning of May. Before that, I hadn't had sex since October.
There are other causes other than pregnancy for a late or missed period. Pregnancy is the first thing that we think of when our period is delayed. But pregnancy isn't the only reason for people to have a late period. Here are the 10 most common reasons that you missed your period:
Stress
Stress can affect many things in our lives, including our periods. Sometimes we're so stressed out that our body decreases the amount of a hormone (GnRH), which causes us to not ovulate or menstruate. Working with your doctor or midwife can help you figure out what you need to do to relax and get back on schedule.
Illness
A sudden, short illness or even a longer illness can cause your periods to be delayed. This is usually temporary.
Change in Schedules
Changing schedules can really throw off your body clock. This is particularly true if you go from days to nights at work or vice versa.
Change in Medications
Perhaps you're trying a new medication and a delayed or absent period is the cause. Be sure to talk to your doctor or midwife about this side effect. It is very common with some methods of birth control.
Being Overweight
Carrying around too much weight can hormonally shift your cycles and even stop them. Most women will see a return to normal cycles and fertility with the loss of some weight.
Being Underweight
If you do not have enough body fat you will not have regular periods, sometimes you can eve cause your periods to stop all together. This is called amenorrhea. Typically a weight gain will help you have your periods return. This is a frequent cause of a missed period in women who work out to an extreme or are professional athletes.
Miscalculation
The menstrual cycle varies from woman to woman. While we say that the average menstrual cycle is 28 days long, that is not true for everyone. Sometimes our period is believed to be late when in all actuality we have simply miscalculated. If you have irregular menstrual cycles, but know when you ovulate, look for your period about two weeks after you ovulate. That may help you keep an easier track of your periods.
Peri-Menopause
Peri-menopause is the period of time where you are transitioning from reproductive age to a non-reproductive age. Your periods may be lighter, heavier, more frequent or less frequent - but mostly just not normal. If you do not wish to get pregnant, be sure to continue to use birth control because you are likely to still be fertile at least some of the time.
Menopause
Menopause is when you have reached the point in your life where you will no longer ovulate or menstruate. Menopause can be a natural life event or may happen surgically through hysterectomy or through chemical such as chemotherapies.
Pregnancy.
Obviously in your case you have now had two negative home pregnancy tests. The best thing to do if you still suspect that you're pregnant is to make an appointment to see the doctor to get examined and figure this out once and for all.
Hope this helps and good luck!xx
Hey guys i'm a 20 yr old female and i have really dry skin on my face. I recently started to try using a moisturizer and I've used the clean and clear advanced acne control moisturizer. I dont feel like it's working i feel like it's gotten worse to be honest. I felt like it worked somewhat at first then just stopped. Do you have any suggestions on what i should try next? I'm looking to spend less than $15 Anyways thanks for the advice you're help is very much appreciated!!!! I rate :)
Palmers Cocoa Butter is great for people with dry skin and its definately below $15.
Luxurious yet affordable, this iconic beauty classic has been a cult favourite world-wide for generations. An everyday essential, Palmer’s Cocoa Butter Formula Lotion bathes the skin in moisture. Pure Cocoa Butter is a rich emollient moisturiser which leaves skin soft and silky smooth, transforming even the roughest, driest areas into buttery soft skin.
Vitamin E is a powerful antioxidant which helps to improve the appearance of scars, stretch marks and imperfections on the skin, giving a more even and toned appearance.
Hope this helps, Good Luck!!xx
Im 12, and my boyfriend is 14, hes has sex before, and for a while ive been thinkin about it.! everyone says its worth it, just to get it over with, But im not sure, I mean ive done things, but im not sure about sex ive done everything other than sex, but i dont wanna upset my boyfriend..what shood i do?x ]
Firstly, you guys are way too young to be having sex. You guys are still going through puberty believe it or not.
Secondly, sex isn't something you just do at a young age to get it "over with." In fact that's the worst thing to do. When you lose your virginity you lose it to someone whom you trust and you feel comfortable with.
Thirdly, you said your not sure. So don't do it. You say no to your boyfriend when he wants sex from you and if he gets upset you just say that your not ready. If he starts to get defensive then just don't bother with him any more because he'll only be looking for that one thing; sex. And he'll go find it somewhere else. But don't just give up your virginity to make your boyfriend happy. You have to be happy too.
Hope this helps, good luck xx
Well, I should start by saying I'm an 18 white British girl who grew up in a very middle class background.
Anyway, I have never had a boyfriend before and have been seeing this guy for about 5 months, I only see him on weekends because he lives in the rougher city area and I am in the country side (I should also point out in England countryside is 95% white while inner cities are more 40-50%). He's from the Caribbean originally and came to England a few years ago, so obviously, he is black. He loves me and his family love me too but my family is against whites and blacks being together, my Nana said people see a slut when they see me now.
Is it honestly so bad to see white and black people together?
No it's not bad to see white and black people together. Racism is very much still alive in the world and its very hard to fight against this kind of discrimination. In parts of England, the majority of the population is white and in other parts its quite multicultural. Where I live, which is the city of London, you see quite a lot of interracial couples and its considered perfectly normal. However it could be that your family was brought up this way, so they were brought up to be against black people as some people believe that they "tainted" our world. As for your Nana saying your a slut when people see you now is quite rude and degrading to you. I think your family believes that you being with a black person will bring you down and turn you "bad". I would suggest you try and change their views on black people. Bring it up in your family and ask them what exactly it is that they find so wrong about your relationship. But otherwise good luck to you and your boyfriend xx
Will it be awkward if my vagina is all hairy when i have sex? What if his isnt? What do i dooo!
Some men don't mind it however the vast majority very much dislike women with pubic hair. But no need to worry as there are a few options on how to remove the hair:
Shaving your pubic hair is a pretty simple process that takes a while to get used to. If you’ve never shaved ‘down there’ before then it’s almost guaranteed that you will experience some irritation. Your skin is not used to coming into direct contact with anything due to the hair that acts as a buffer between you and your clothes. On top of that, a close shave will irritate the skin until it has been conditioned to the practice. In most cases it only takes a month or so to get your skin used to shaving, but depending on your particular physiology it could be less time or more time. Listen to your body and don’t rush – this isn’t a race. You will need: A new razor, hair conditioner or shaving cream / gel, a bowl of steaming hot water, and an unscented moisturizing lotion. Not needed but nice to have: A freestanding or hand mirror for those hard-to-see areas.
Take a Long, Hot Bath - Soaking in hot water will soften up both your skin and hair. Gently exfoliate the area you are about to shave using a loofah or exfoliating pad to remove dead skin.
Trim - Using either scissors or a trimmer, cut your pubic hair as short as you can. This will make shaving easier, shaving long hair will cause your razor to become clogged in no time flat.
Lubricate - Using hair conditioner (shaving creams and gels work, but conditioner works better), lather up the area to be shaved. (Want alternatives for shaving creams, see Top 10 alternatives to shaving cream)
Shave - With one hand pull the skin tight, with the other slowly and deliberately shave off your pubic hair moving in the direction of hair growth, not against. Always use a new razor each and every time you do this. Pubic hair is thick and will dull a blade after just one shave, and using a dull blade is a pathway to painville. Clean the razor after every stroke by repeatedly tapping it against the side or bottom of the bowl and then visually inspect it to make sure it's clean before continuing. If you need to go back over an area, first apply a fresh layer of lubricant.
Post-Shave - After you’ve finished shaving, lightly rub an ice cube over the skin you shaved to close up your pores and then pat the area dry with a clean towel. Apply a unscented moisturizer to the area to help soothe the freshly shaved skin.
When you are first getting used to shaving you should shave only once every few days – wait for the irritation from the last shave to heal before you shave again. With every successive shave, the irritation should lessen until it stops altogether. After shaving, wear a long shirt or boxer shorts to let the area breathe – only wear loose, breathable fabrics. You will find that a close shave will last anywhere from 1-3 days and will begin to itch as it grows back if you don’t shave it regularly. Not everyone has the skin for shaving, if you find that you have a real problem with irritation or ingrown hairs then you should consider a close trim instead. It will still look and feel clean but without all of the pain.
Waxing Pubic Hair
Many people prefer waxing over shaving because it lasts much longer. Waxed pubic hair can take anywhere from two to four weeks before it starts re-growing, meaning there’s much less time spent maintaining it. The trade off is pain. Waxing hurts, but the pain can be controlled by pulling more or less hair out at one time. Continued waxing will also cause hair growth to diminish over time. You can perform this at home, or go to a professional to have it done. Professionals are fast and have the best tools but can be expensive and embarrassing. The ultimate choice is really up to you. If you choose to perform the waxing yourself, supplies can be purchased at any drug store, or even made at home. Below is a simple recipe for a sugar solution that can be used instead of wax along with instructions for its use.
Ingredients:
2 cups white sugar
¼ cup water
¼ cup lemon juice
1 tbsp sesame oil
Instructions:
Prepare a one square foot area on a clean counter top or large glass cutting board by coating its surface with olive oil (For other uses of olive oil, see 13 practical uses for olive oil).
Mix all ingredients in a pot and bring to a boil.
Simmer until the sugar solution reaches approximately 250F (the mixture will take on a light, caramel color, approx 10 minutes - do not overcook).
Immediately turn off the stove and pour the solution onto the oiled surface. Be careful not to get any on yourself or you will get burned!
Once it’s cooled enough to handle and before it hardens, work it into a ball with a spatula or spoon and place it into an airtight container inside the fridge for storage.
When it’s time for use, break off about a tablespoon sized chunk and heat it up in the microwave until it’s warm and soft, then work it in your hands until it’s nice and pliable. Be careful not to burn yourself, it only needs about 20-30 seconds to warm up.
Instructions for use:
Spread a small quantity over the hair to be removed (start small!).
Press a strip of porous fabric firmly over it (cotton, muslin, whatever you’ve got).
Yank the strip off in the exact opposite direction of hair growth (pull it back, not up).
Continue using the same cloth strip and sugar until it fails to pick up more hair.
Start again at step 1 until all you’ve completed the job.
After you’ve removed all the unwanted hair, apply an unscented moisturizing lotion. There are many people who swear by sugaring as an easier and cheaper alternative to waxing. If smooth is your thing, give it a try!
Hair Removal Cream
Usually some sort of liquid or cream that are applied directly to the skin over unwanted hair, allowed to sit for a specified time during which they dissolve the hair, and then are washed off along with the unwanted hair. These products work by dissolving the keratin in each hair so it can easily be wiped away, the drawback is that your skin also contains keratin so it’s imperative to keep it on only long enough to remove the hair and not damage the skin. There’s no exact science to these, they work fantastically for some people, while they irritate the heck out of others. If you choose this route – try it out on a less sensitive area and wait 48 hours to make sure you don’t have any adverse reactions to it. When using to remove pubic hair, make sure the product states that it is safe for the bikini area and never apply it directly to your genitals. These are best used to neaten up the area around your goods, folks.
Considering you obviously haven't tried any of these options before I would suggest you get yourself some hair removal cream, and make sure it can be used on your genital area. This is not painful at all and is quickly done. Follow all instructions and make sure you put it directly onto your vagina and not inside! Remember some of these creams smell so once used just remember to wash that area but not inside as that part is self cleaning!
Hope this helps!! Good luck xx
16/male i am gay my boyfriend is also 16 we have been together for 6 months we love each other a lot and recently we were in his bedroom we were making out and he put his hand down my pants and started touching my penis it felt good and then the other day we gave each other a blow job i liked it he is starting to get very sexual im a little nervous i love him a lot but uptil now we have only made out all of a sudden he wants to get sexual does that mean he wants to have sex?
what do you think?
It may not necessarily mean that he wants to have sex but he wants to move your relationship onto the next level by doing sexual acts, like a blow job or a hand job. If your not comfortable with it then talk to him I'm sure he'll understand. However to actually find out for sure if he does want to have sex with you, you could start talking to him about sex and seeing where he stands on that with you and if he says he wants to then you tell him where you stand on it and move on from there. Remember that you don't have to rush into it and you should only have sex when you are ready and comfortable too. I wish you and your boyfriend the best of luck, hope this helps, good luck xx
Well, i had a sleepover at mine once, and as girls do, as a joke we played dares, but not normal dares, you know, the kissing sort, and i had to kiss my friend (Lauren) and i really enjoyed it? then when everyone went to sleep, i decided to tell Lauren thati strangley enjoyed it, and she said 'yeah, me too' it was silent for a little bit, then i accidently tounch her genitals (Vagina to be exact) and i went to let go, then she touched mine, she slipped her hands down my pants and started rubbing my vagina. i really enjoyed it :S the we starting kissing. we went upstairs and we started having lesbian sex. we both really liked it. but we havnt told anyone. am i a lesbian or bisexual? (Sorry its very long)
Considering you really enjoyed kissing her and having sex with her, and you never felt uncomfortable at all throughout this or after this then it is likely that you do like girls. However there's one simple way to actually figure this out. It's what I did, you look at guys bodies on the internet or look for hot guys just go on google images and you decide whether or not you personally find them attractive. And you do the same with girls. If you find that you think both the women and men are attractive then you could be Bisexual. However if you only find men attractive then, Lauren, is just an exception, somebody whom you really enjoy doing sexual things with. And if you find only girls attractive then you could be Lesbian. But you have plenty of time to be figuring these things out so relax. Its perfectly natural to explore your sexuality and so long as you do it safely which I hope you are and nobody gets hurt then its fine. Hope this helps, good luck xx
okay i was over my friends house and we were watching t.v..... then she asked meh to kiss her so i did......so as we were making out she started sucking my boobs and then i went down and ate her out for like 20 secs. then she fingered me and i did it back....i felt nasty after i came..nd i never wanted to do it again...but she want to do it again should i do it.? ugh this is soooooooo immbarrasing.!
You said you never wanted to do it again so I think you answered your own question there. If you feel uncomfortable doing this again then this is obviously not for you and you definitely shouldn't do it again just to please this girl as it would lead her on. Don't let somebody force you to do something that you don't want to do especially if it's something sexual. If she tries to pester you to do it again try to let her down gently. Say that you don't want to do it again and it was just a one time thing and it wasn't for you. And if you still want to be friends with the girl then say that this isn't going to affect your friendship with her because that's all you want to stay, Friends. It's a perfectly normal thing to explore your sexuality to see what you like and what you don't like. And from what you wrote you didn't really enjoy the experience all too much. Let her down gently.
Hope this helps, good luck xx