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Do you feel different after you have sex?
Do you feel different after you have sex for the first time? Does it change you? What about all the times after that? Ps: my names Gracie and I'm 13
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it makes you see other people as meat and you will always crave sex. its not good to have it young honey trust me. i had sex at 14 and it messed me up.
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I agree with the other person- its illegal to have sex if you're younger than 16 and it gives you a really bad reputation too..
Yes you do feel different after you have sex though. Some people feel happy and pleasant. Others feel sad and guilty. I waited until I was 18 to have sex for the first time and I was extremely happy and satisfied because I knew it was with the right guy at the right time :) I knew that it wasn't just some guy I slept with.. it actually mean't something to me and i'll never forget it. I know that sounds really cheesy but trust me, when you're older you'll understand. Sex isn't just something you do... its about making love, and sharing something special with someone. You're only 13. yeah you can be interested in it and be curious and ask questions. But you're WAY too young to be doing it, especially since you don't fully understand the concept of making love with your significant other. Besides, there's always consequences like what if you're pregnant and then you gotta have abortion and its just way too complicated at your age. Take my advice and wait until you're older, and you know its with the right person.
On the contrary, some people feel bad and guilty after they have sex. It could be for many reasons- like not doing it with the right person, feeling guilty that you didn't wait until you're older, feeling sad because it wasn't what you expected etc. etc. The feelings you get after you have sex is different for everyone. You can even predict what feelings you would get. For example- I can predict that if you already had sex at this age, you'd feel guilty and unhappy. Because you didn't wait until you're older and more mature to understand what making love actually is, and that you didn't wait until it was with the right person (not some random person you wont speak to in a few years..) As for me- I knew I would feel happy afterwards because I knew it was the right time for me, the right guy, and I understood what having sex meant.
Oh and after your first time, its different for everyone. Say your first time was really horrible, well then your other times might be horrible too because you still feel guilty about not waiting.. or the other times could be great because you forgave yourself and learned your lesson, and then you waited until you were older and with the right person.
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Fist of all it's OK to be inquisitive about sex at your age, however the age of consent for sex is 16. Having sex before that age is illegal and is definitely looked down upon.
When you've had sex for the first time, if it went right then you feel happy, you feel great and satisfied. But then again it all depends on the person. It doesn't really change you all that much but for some it does give them more confidence and self esteem; however that is not the reason to have sex. Generally after the first time you gain more confidence in that department and feel more at ease when you do it again and you learn to explore etc. If you have any more questions please feel free to inbox me.
Hope this helps xx
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