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hey i an from Limpopo.im in a new relationship.me n my bf we a naw datin for 1month n 3days.i love my bf so much n i try to make him happy but dat doesnt hide de fact dat my bf is still inlove wth his ex who has died.wen he need me i go n be wth him.on saturday it was his bdae n i made a suprise party for him n i invited his friends n ada gals.he was very happy n i was happy to see him happy.but dat dae at nyt he said i shuld not leave i shuld sleep ova n i did so.he started talking abt his ex who died n his ex was buried on saturday on his bdae.he told me dat he is over her n he dnt luv her anymore but his actions was telling me another story.he evn cried for his ex infront of me n didnt wt tu du or wat to say.my heart was heavy wen he was kissing me he suddenly stopped n he said he cant.yesterdae he removed de status on watsap he wrote abt me n write dat he love his ex n he change a profile pic n put his ex.i cried alone n my hurt was heavy realising dat im truly,madly n deeply inlove wth him.what do i have to do? (link)
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He id bereaved. He mourns. So offer what comfort you can in his grief, and no more, and without expectations or obligation. That is your best strategy.
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hey i an from Limpopo.im in a new relationship.me n my bf we a naw datin for 1month n 3days.i love my bf so much n i try to make him happy but dat doesnt hide de fact dat my bf is still inlove wth his ex who has died.wen he need me i go n be wth him.on saturday it was his bdae n i made a suprise party for him n i invited his friends n ada gals.he was very happy n i was happy to see him happy.but dat dae at nyt he said i shuld not leave i shuld sleep ova n i did so.he started talking abt his ex who died n his ex was buried on saturday on his bdae.he told me dat he is over her n he dnt luv her anymore but his actions was telling me another story.he evn cried for his ex infront of me n didnt wt tu du or wat to say.my heart was heavy wen he was kissing me he suddenly stopped n he said he cant.yesterdae he removed de status on watsap he wrote abt me n write dat he love his ex n he change a profile pic n put his ex.i cried alone n my hurt was heavy realising dat im truly,madly n deeply inlove wth him.what do i have to do? (link)
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He id bereaved. He mourns. So offer what comfort you can in his grief, and no more, and without expectations or obligation. That is your best strategy.
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Im 13 and I just can't wait for sex any more I don't know why but I just wanna loose my virginity. I promised the lord and my parents ill wait till25 but i can't wait and I'm tired of jerking off.( even though it is satisfying). (link)
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Everyone must determine for themselves what is right for them, and when.
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Hi...I am a 15 year old brown -skinned girl. I have serious skin problems. Large pimples, tiny ones and blackheads since i was 9. I tried many skin products recommended by my mother's doctor but nothing works. The pimples are causing my pores to enlargen and it is really fustrating . I cry everyday and do not socialize at all or rarely do. Snacks, chocolate and many other food products have been cut out of my diet to improve my appearance but it is still horrible. I think the chemicals from my skin products worsen my skin so i have tried only home made remedies. Please!!!!Anyone!!!!Help!!! (link)
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The wonder drug for Cover Girl skin, is Accutane, if still available. Ask your doctor or dermatologist. Be advised that there is just enough risk to require close supervision while taking the drug, because it is stressful on the liver. It tightens skin by killing skin cells at random, causing all blackheads to erupt, until they are all gone. So it gets worse before getting better.
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So im a 13 year old girl and my best friend is a girl. She is bi. She has a huge crush on me but she is also always pointing out really cute girls. Lately I have been getting really jealous every time she does and I think I might have feelings for her but I also think I like this guy. So am I bi or am i just confusing friendship with love? What should I do? (link)
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I am convinced that it is urgent that you will have a hot, got three way and tell us all about it! Honestly, are you asking me what you want?
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Hi,
I'd like to buy online some toys for my two little kids on www.snapdeal.com using simpleshoppinglink.com because their conditions are good for me since I live in Germany.
But I dunno if this company isn't a scam.
Has anybody tried this one? (link)
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Can you use a credit or debit card that will allow you to cancel the purchase and refund your money, in case anything goes wrong? Some even delay payment until after receipt of the goods.
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I am scared to report c porn because i am afraid they will blame me. i don't know why. please report these sites for me?
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please help me and report sites above!
all i searched for 2was teen! OMG! i m a girl! (link)
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Report what to whom? Me thinks thou art a SPAMMER!
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i am trying to get braces i am 22 i might need them i heard about these behind the braces thing and invisalign i am trying to find out how much they cost and how long will it take i heard just 6 months with behind the teeth (link)
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Ways to save money include dental schools and medical tourism or perhaps even a combination of the two: a third world dental school.
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hi hope you can help me i'm a 15 year old male i'm a devout christian i love god with all my heart and i wanna be a better christian and devote my life to god i want to help people to get closer to god i wantto start to spread god's word i'm a bit nervous not sure where to start but i want to start talkinhg to people about god maybe start with people that i know not sure how do i go about it? (link)
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I find your question challenging, because as an Atheist, I am completely unable to relate! I don't know what you are burning to say, but I know what I might ask you. And if there is anything worthwhile and Christ like, it would be entirely to put away robotic regurgitation of litany, and instead to ferret out and understand what others are concerned with. -Not even to speak from ones heart, but to speak to the hearts of others whom God crosses your path. Forget about egotistically pronouncing the word of God. Listening is the art. In the words of Simone Wiel: "Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity." But that demands engagement with them, for in the words of Agnes Repplier: “A man who listens because he has nothing to say can hardly be a source of inspiration.”
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My ex has been troubling me....he is threatening me that he would upload my nude pics on social media..I don't know how he got those pics...I'm really scared....can I do anything if he uploads those pics??is it punishable??will he be punished by law??I am from india (link)
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Turn the tables on him: Every time he threatens you, secretly record it! If there is anything that he wants from you, then you've got him on blackmail.
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14/f Hi :) Basicall, a few weeks before I was supposed to go on holiday, I checked my shared bank account to take out the money I had saved to pay for my share of the holiday. Dad sometimes puts bits in and says its to pay for things that I need. Keywords: Things I need. I checked it and it said I had 43 cents. I thought it was odd and got my mom to check what had happened on this booklet thing (mom's a bit old fashioned). What had happened was that someone had taken out little bits through out the course of two years to pay for odd stuff. I'm not allowed to go in it by myself so I have to have mom or dad around when I check it.
Big chunks came out around Valentines Day and around the time he got married to his new gf (or should I say wife). He got married without telling me; I wasn't invited but I got over it. It still hurt though. But anyway, I confronted him about it and he said he had to pay for car repairs, bills etc.
I knew he was lying. I stopped talking to him for a while and was finally ready to forgive him after about a month (we had to cancel the holiday because I couldn't go) and I asked him why he did it. He replied with, "charity at work." Why did he lie before? And did he really need over $1500?!?!
So after arguing, I didn't speak to him for about 3 months. I looked in my account again to find that he was still taking it. Not only that, he was saying that I couldn't make it to family outings because my mom was being difficult and turning my into a brat. So I told them the truth but they all took dad's side. "He's still your dad, you should talk things out."
"At least you have a dad!"
"He took some money, big deal. You could have a dad that abuses you."
And it sucks! I don't know what to do anymore. The only person on my side is my mom. It's really starting to make me feel depressed. I don't smile anymore because of all the pressure that's put on me to sort everything out and keep my grades high AND still be the perfect girl my family thinks I am. What should I do? Sorry to bore you with this. (link)
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For that matter, with online banking, you can keep watch on the account, and even see images of the withdrawal checks to see if you recognize the handwriting.
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okay, so i am 16 years old and i AM sexually active but haven't had sex in about a month. A few days ago, my vaginal area has been quite itchy and it's really bothering me. I examined myself, and seen little white small bump like things on the "inside" of my vaginal wall. Also my clitorious is very red and swollen. Someone please help, ASAP.
Also, know someone is going to say I need to see a doctor but there are no gynecologists around my area (link)
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Either make do with any general practitioner, or go out of your way for a gynecologist. Or take your question to Planned Parenthood. They'll steer you right and take good care of you. Or else if the real problem is money or personal documentation, you might even be able to search out free care.
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I was wondering.. Is it ok for a 22 year old male to date a 17 year old girl as long as both are alright with it and everything is concentual? (link)
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http://web.archive.org/web/20080306004035/http://www.ageofconsent.com
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So there's some girls who say when you lose your virginity it hurts is it true? (link)
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A woman eager to demonstrate her virginity to her intended, not only inserts colored dye, but gun powder for good measure. Worse, she uses the wrong color of ink: green! As they consummate their union, there is a blast! "Now do you believe that I was a virgin?" she demands. "Oh my God!" replies he, beholding the green splatter "You've burst my gall bladder!!"
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Here's some background info. Growing up, I've witnessed all kinds of displays of ignorance, confusion, and a lack of understanding about who we are as people and the different perspectives and ideas we have on things like life, love,
religion, etc. So I thought, why not find a way to get to know each other, one on one? I want to start a group where people can meet up one on one, and share with one another their stories, ideas, or whatever important thing they've wanted to tell somebody but maybe never got the chance to. People would meet up, and talk about these things to help them grow and understand each other without the fear of rejection for what they have to say. The rules are simple: No fighting or arguing, you can disagree, but violence is prohibited. What do you think? Would this work as a club, or has somebody already started a club similar to this? I'm sorry for it being so long, and thank you for reading. (link)
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I think that you want to permit argument, but to discourage quarrelling. Right?
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Ok so many pastors have told me that God has a distinct job for me here on earth as well as in Heaven. So I got to thinking if my astrology signs would help me discover more about myself that I don't already know. What exactly do they mean? Please no hate. Advice is much appreciated.
Sun Sign- Aries
Moon Sign- Taurus
Rising Sign- Libra
Mid heaven- Leo (link)
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“The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, but in ourselves.”
― William Shakespeare, Julius Caesar
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ive been pretty depressed for a while... i got my first bf in feb. 2014 and we broke up last week. also my frinds started fighting and hating eachother. i lost my only 5 frinds that i had made since 1rst grade. i started getting bad grades on my report cards and im getting made fun of for it. im just 10 years old but i cut myself and hav suicidal thoughts... please give me advice. (link)
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You have every right to be angry ay assholes who bully you, and at the society that virtually imprisons you together with them in school that only fails to meet your real individual education needs. And you have every right to be dissatisfied with circumstances that quite simply fail to gratify you. Grading, what a scam!
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I have a question about Christianity my religion or how people react.
I'm Christian and I always will be, a lot of people say gay is a sin. I believe otherwise. I try to explain that is isn't or even if it was God can forgive you. But it just hasn't helped they don't accept gays, some call me gay which I'm not because
I acaccept them. Which I put it aside if they hate them and move on. Some people say I'm not christian because I support homosexuals. Or becuase our beliefs differ.
Ok ivde heard that the bible says homosexuals are sins.
What verse is this supposedly in. I know it doesn't say its wrong just wanna see where people think it says it. So maybe I can retranslate it to what it was supposed to be interpreted (link)
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The sins of homosexuality and of eating shellfish are notoriously expounded in Leviticus. It ain't necessarily so! The Bible, after all, also espouses slavery! How much more wrong can one get it than that??! What it means to be a Christian in the modern world, is just something for you yourself to pray upon. There are two approaches to religion: One is Fundamentalism, which means obedience to every commandment, leaving reconciliation with higher moral values and principle to God only, and beyond mere human understanding. The other approach might be described as more constitutional, wherein if not picking and choosing, the prioritization of principle over often conflicting details is inevitable. As for homosexuality, if that is contingent from being fruitful and multiplying, which given over population, may be deemed as already having been accomplished, then pursuant thereto, injunction against homosexuality may be deemed as by that token likewise expired.
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I woke up Saturday morning after a night of drinking with a friend and i blacked out. and when i woke up i was in my friend's daughter's bed and my friends 11 year old daughter was sleeping right next to me completely naked. and I was too. i knew that she had a crush on me because her dad said that he read it in her diary but i never knew it would go this far. and here is the ****** part about it I'm 25 year old guy so i don't even know what too do i was able too wake her up and we were able to get dressed before her dad woke up and other than me taking the virginity of my best friends daughter i didn't wear a condom so she may get pregnant and I'm that case i guess I'm completely ******. i feel like a complete asshole knowing that i did this with her. and then about a day later she asked me if i wanted to do it again. i don't really know what to say. i don't know if we should do it again. or just tell her that we cant ever again but she might tell her dad that this happened if i don't and if we do i know that we could get away with it because i do watch her sometimes for my friend when he has to work late at night. i don't know what to do should i break it off with and getting pissed at me and telling her dad or should i have some sort of strange relationship with her Because i dont want to hurt her feelings. (link)
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If it comes to it, that she asked you again, can be helpful in arguing consent. The very expression: "jail bait" signifies the normalcy of the impulses, in that anyone might act upon them. As the saying goes, "the heart wants what the heart wants." Drunkenness is only a way to circumvent inhibition. There is unfinished business between the two of you. There always has been. There is some good reason why you are interested in one another. By good reason, I mean in terms of human dramatic motivation. You do not say much about her. You are in danger and afraid. Is she a good person? Is she rational? Do you trust her? You say you fear that she might turn on you if she feels rejected. Does she understand your position? Would it be a good thing if she did? How would she feel about your guilt? Would she be sympathetic or insulted? The two of you are increasingly alienated from one another by a looming sense of the classic Prisoner's Dilemma. And this is by design in society, to undermine collusion between social dissidents, indeed the deepest sense of collusion between all good lovers, especially in forbidden love. Make no mistake, you are partners in crime! Things don't just happen. Perhaps a good way to open conversation might be to ask her how she feels about her dad snooping on her diary. Let her ponder the value of privacy for herself. Then ask her if she thinks that you are a good person. I am hoping that behind all of the panic, you actually do care what she feels, and that she in turn, is not after all too callow to reciprocate. Then maybe you can both figure things out.
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