13 f
well alot of these questions have such young girls talking about sex and all that stuff. im 13 and ive never had sex. i finger myself but can only fit in one finger in with out it hurting. i mean i guess im tight and all. but should i be able to do more with myself? and when ever i finger myself i feel this little thing inside my vagina which makes me scared to go in father, what is it?
i no it sounds gross, but i need the help.
thanks
It doesn't sound gross.
Sooner or later you won't be really tight. If you continue to finger yourself, you will most likely stretch yourself out. Since you're only 13.. you still have some growing to do and maybe in a few years.. you could do more.. But until then.. I wouldn't personally try to force fitting more fingers if it hurts.
You are touching your cervix.
[view]
what happens to teenage girls, around their privete spots and vagina stuff beside period
just to give me a head up and so i dont flip
Umm more hair in those areas?
You'll get discharge.
Basically that's it. Just wash yourself properly so you don't get a yeast infection and go to the bathroom when you have to go, so you don't get a bladder infection.
Don't use soap inside your vagina to clean. Because it can clean on it's own (the discharge is.. it's way of cleaning itself) just use water.
And yeah then there's the period.
[view]
i dont see why when we give people advice that they dont want to hear, they rate us low. i think that we deserve better than that because we took time out of our lives to try to help them. why give us 1's for fairly good answers that arnt what you expected? does anyone have an opinion on this?!
-WoahThereBabe ♥
I know. It's bothering me. I know some of my advice is not what they want to hear but it's the truth. And I'm tired of them taking it out on us with low ratings. It's quite rude.
I mean a 1 when i took time to give advice.
I can take it when it's bad advice but when it's the truth and they don't want to face it.. it just irks me.
I gave someone advice a long time ago about how some girl wanted her friend's boyfriend to break up and how to do it.
I told her the usual if she's your friend then you shouldn't do that blah. A guy isn't worth losing friendship
I gave her something to do and I told her she was jealous.
And my rating was a 1 and her comment was "Hell no. I aint jealous you idiot! she's ugly"
UGH.
[view]
I'm sick of my short nails. I wanna try to grow them out. I can not stand seeing the white part of my nails which is why I bight or tear the tip of my nails off. I've tried painting my nails so that i can't see the white part but it just comes off after only a day. I've tried fake nails too, but the white part under them annoys me. How can I get over this and have longish nails?
It's just the white part. Don't look at it.
Get dark nailpolish and do two coats. Color your nails every night if you have to.
But if you don't want short nails.. you're going to have to deal with the white part sooner or later.
What are you planning to do when you get long nails? Are you going to get your nails covered up?
[view]
last night my boyfriend and i had sex he came inside me. i just finished my period the night before and yesterday i started birth control for the first time ... is there a chance i could get pregnant?
Yeah you could possibly be. Go get the day after pill.
You need to use birth control for at least a month for it to work.. even then, there's always a chance..
Did you use a condom?
[view]
I've seen the movie twice now. But I'm really curious at the end of the movie when she sees the killer who is he? is it her father? thanks if you can help.
It was just some random person.
Notice the 'stranger' in the title.
[view]
I'm 13, And I have my myspace there isnt much on it, but I moved away and I like to stay in contact with alot of my old friends.
Well I recently talking a boy who is the brother of one of my new friends.. We will call him Chris. Chris is 18. And he starting getting over flirty with me on AIM so I asked him if he remember my ageand he told me he did then said he had to go. I completly ignored his 'flirts' towards me. Then he started talking to me over myspace and flirted even more.. and i told him I'm to young for him & he's to old for me. I mean he's almost the same age as my older.. thats sick. And he responded to me saying that he believes I enjoy when he flirts with me, and im to "sexy" to not flirt with. I told him him to leave me alone and I blocked him myspace & aim. Then I told my brother.. becase he's an adult who i trust. My brother thinks I did the wrong thing and should have told him right away when the flirts started happening.
And this boy chris still tries to make new aim accounts and i just block him.
Did i do the right thing?
Yes you did.
But you should have told your brother sooner, he seems understanding.. I'm sure he wouldn't want one of his friends hitting on you. With the age difference and all.
Why don't you make a new Aim account? So that way, you don't have him trying to talk to you.
[view]
I need a girl to answer this: ok my parents won't let me get rid of my peach fuzz because it'll grow back really fast (my hair tends to grow back really fast when i shave my legs). But it's really starting to be noticeable at school which disturbs me so I'm going to get rid of it myself but should I wax or shave and why?
Who cares what they think?
Go for ittt haha.
Try waxing first .. shaving causes problems like
-darker/thicker hair
-razorburn
-acne
Your upperlip might be slightly red so if your parents are really against you getting rid of it. Maybe do it and go in your room. Close to the time when you go to bed so you don't have to see them.
You could always buy some Nair. Put some of the cream on it and it should come off in a few minutes.
[view]
my boyfriend of 5 months is rather nosy. ive never been the type of person to share my problems with the world, i just keep that stuff to myself. ive told him this. however if im having a bad night or something he'll keep on and on and on asking me whats wrong until i tell him. i know its just because he cares, but even if i say "id rather not say" or something, he gives me the whole "but you can tell me anything" or "you promised you wouldnt keep stuff from me". same with if i start laughing about something randomly [i do that often cuz i think about funny stuff] or anything like that. basically just anything thats in my head that i dont wanna spill. i realize that its not really a big deal to tell him, but if i dont he gets mad/upset at me for it, and im finally getting to the point where i dont let people walk all over me anymore, but i feel like when i give in and tell him whatever i dont want to, im just letting it happen again. advice please? 16.f
Just tell him you want to keep things to yourself. That it's not a secret but somethings you should deal with yourself. And if you laugh about something, then tell him it's an inside joke and you had to be there to understand it.. maybe he wouldn't bother you about it.
But you should tell him stuff because he doesn't feel like you trust him. You really need to talk to him. If you are having a bad night, just tell him that and if he asks why. Like a friend is mad at you.
Just tell him that and say nothing more. He just wants to know at least something that's wrong with you, he wants to help you- give advice and be there for you. So try to be a little more open.
It would be best to tell him that you are trying to be open if you haven't and that you really don't share problems with people.
If you don't tell him stuff, he might worry and he doesn't want secrets, you know? Even though sometimes it's not a big of a deal and you don't want to say anything. Just let him know something so he doesn't constantly ask.
[view]
okay, i have a question about dry sex. how can you get pleasure from having dry sex? like what do you do to get the pleasure? because i dont see how you can get pleasure when you have your clothes on.
Rubbing yourself against each other. Less clothes would be good. It could work with jeans too. The penis should be rubbing against the clit. I think it works better with the girl on top? That's just my opinion though.
You do get pleasure, you just have to experience it. Especially when you aren't ready to have sex and you get aroused to the point where you start rubbing against each other.
[view]
What is your opinion on blonde hair?Do you think it is ugly?
It's cute on some people. Real blonde hair.
Sometimes bleached hair looks good but really depends on skin tone because sometimes it washes people out.
What's ugly.. is bleached hair and the roots show.
[view]
21:33] me: hiiiiiii
[21:33] me: hahaha
[21:34] me: yeyeyye
[21:34] friend: hii
[21:34] me: oops wrong person
[21:34] me: ahahaha
[21:34] me: ok bye
[21:34] me: XD
[21:35] friend: okayy
[21:35] friend: how meann
[21:35] me: how is it mean
[21:36] me: it was wrong person
[21:36] friend: haha nvm
[21:36] friend: byeeeeeeee
[21:36] me: ok bye
[21:36] friend: where do you have to go
[21:36] friend: ?
[21:36] me: no where
[21:36] friend: us aid
[21:36] friend: youu said ok by
[21:36] me: cause u said bye
[21:36] me: i wasnt supposed to im you
[21:36] me: haha
[21:36] me: so yeah ok byebye
[21:37] friend: haha ok whatever bye
am i mean for this? haha just asking
Yeah.
You shouldn't say nvm or wrong person or how you weren't supposed to IM them
because since you started the conversation (even by accident)
maybe they actually wanted to talk to you
and since you had no where to go (even though they said bye first)
it kinda makes them feel bad.
[view]
should i kill myself everybodys beeen saying im ugly im okay looking but some people think im pretty and i have alot of friends but i hate it read this from bottem to top see 5 people said that
your mom gave me drugs when she was pregnet. yes you are WAY UGLY dont thinkg our not
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ♥Amber
Date: Dec 27 2006 10:00 PM
ya right you need to quit lying okay nand im not ugly and you r and my mom dident do drugs she is perfect okay and look at youu asshole god
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Trent
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:57 PM
ok i eat a shit load and its not my fault my parents aren't fat. thats why you are and thats why your so ugly with a fat nose because your mom did drungs when she was pregnet with your dumbass. i like the fact you think im ugly because i wouldn't want a mistake face like yours
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ♥Amber
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:54 PM
thank you atleast im not anerexic and im not skinny and a fucking ugly asshole
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Trent
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:53 PM
hahaha you make me laugh you are really stupid and need to get an education then talk to me. read the shit you have said to me it makes no sense. your ugly and dumb..
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ♥Amber
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:51 PM
hellllllllllllllll no mostly everybody does thin ku r ugly
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Trent
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:51 PM
shit i know im nt ugly. thats why your stil trying to talk to me because im hot.
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ♥Amber
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:49 PM
you r a ugly skinny freack that loves yourself to much u r a ugly freacking jerk
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Trent
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:48 PM
ok i can put my five inch think penis in your damn nose. That makes you ugly and i hope your friends think im ugly i wouldn't want the rep. of ugly people liking me
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ♥Amber
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:46 PM
omg you know what now there is 2 more peopel that said that you r not hott okay and im not ugly okay and you need to quit being a asshole
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Trent
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:44 PM
because your ugly trying to someone of better class like myself
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ♥Amber
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:36 PM
why?
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Trent
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:35 PM
nothing. your weird...
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ♥Amber
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:32 PM
hey whats up
see what im talking about
UGH. I want to talk to him now.
He's full of himself.
But yeah, next time don't respond, okay?
And don't listen to him, he's stupid.
Nobody even notices about reps anymore.
Because if he's good looking, of course anyone will like him.. even the people.. that others consider plain looking. Weirdos.
But guys like to piss off girls.. so you are not ugly. Nobody is.
And there is no "better classes"
I mean, what did he do to get somewhat popular?
Beat someone up? Play stupid football? Something stupid like that?
Apparently that's what makes you HOTT!1 HAHAH
Block him :]
Don't listen to people who say you are ugly, only listen to the good stuff and believe in it!
People are just trying to hurt you or they are judging you by the girls in magazines (which no one looks like because they photoshop them so much hah)
If you were so ugly.. you wouldn't have a lot of friends because most people are shallow and whatnot.
you aren't ugly. You shouldn't think about killing yourself. :] when you get older, they will regret saying that because you'll grow up to be even more beautiful than you are now.
[view]
i want my hair to grow faster how can i make this happen?
any ways would help..besides-dont say wait,vitamins,or get trimmed. i know all these
Vitamins is the way that's working for me.
You can't really speed up health growth any other way.
Don't trim your hair, obviously it makes your hair shorter.
But take Biotin (vitamins)
I've been on them for a month and my hair that couldn't touch my shoulders, is now past.
[view]
Right on my lipline there is a realy small pimple sort of like a bump. You can't really notice it though. It is not in the corner of my lipline nor the middle but closer to the middle. I get it from time to time and i don't know what it is. I sometimes start to freak out and think its herpes. What can it be?
A clogged pore- cyst, pimple
Blah.
I get those monsters every once and awhile.
Don't worry about it, especially if you aren't sexually active.
[view]
ive been taking a shower once a day washing my face 2wice a day and all that happens is i brake out more and im getting sick of it and i baught face wash and im starting to use proactive but ive been washing my face for a year and its still not working what should i do
You seem to be overwashing.
Just use proactive, okay?
It's the best thing, so since you're breaking out more.
It will take a bit longer to get rid of. Don't stress out though.
Don't wash in the shower unless you are using proactive (use it in the morning & night)
Sometimes soap can make it worse as well as face wash. Some products worsen acne.
Give proactive a month.
I got a major difference.
If that doesn't work, drop a question in my inbox.
[view]
well me and my friends a&b are really close. we always have fun(i'm c if you were wondering) and hang out all the time, but sometimes a treats me and b like were useless and were not worthy to be her friend because her sis is in 8th grade. BIG WHOOP. and she sometimes hangs out with her sis and her sis's friends and she acts all cool around them. i think that they are bad examples.for instance we were in church for christmas eve mass and they were laughing the whole time and being disrespecful. sometimes she is so fun and so nice and other times she acts like she is better than us in everything. I want to say something to her but what do i say that doesn't ruin our friendship 4ever??? please help me i need adice fast me and b are starting to feel really bad?????? how do we fix this please answer as quickly as possible because we need help!!
signed,
confused and hurt
Okay, so A is in a phase when she wants to popular or cool around her sister's friends. If she doesn't knock it off and treat you like the way you both deserve.. Drop her.
You don't need a friend that acts all nice to you alone.. BUT around other people, mean. It's not right. She's trying to look cool in front of them so she acts like she's better than you. But the attention isn't worth it because she will just contiune it.
You try talking to your friend, okay? It may not be pretty because her head is in the clouds. She wants to be noticed by her sister's friends and that means she's hurting you along with it. That may ruin your friendship because she doesn't even know she's hurting you or because she doesn't want to stop hanging out with them. Some people aren't aware of doing awful things unless you speak up.
If that doesn't change a thing... then talk to B and try to work something out, and possibly ditch A.
You don't need a friend that treats you bad.
[view]
13/f
i like this guy, but hes two years older and he has a girlfriend...should i just give up?
Sadly most older guys rarely ever pay attention to younger girls. My friends even told me that, they said they want someone around their age, but older. Since he has a girlfriend, I doubt he's going to break up with her for someone else.
I mean, since he's with her... he obviously likes her.
I'm not saying you can't get with him.. because there could be a chance down the road and all.
but I wouldn't hope for the best. You'll get your hopes up BUT everything works out for him and you'll get upset.
So maybe don't think much of him when he's in a relationship.
.. But don't get too attached to the idea of getting with him.
[view]
Ok i have naturally straight hair. So my way to scrunch it is after i take a shower i towel dry, brush it out, put mouse and gel all over my hair and put it up into 2 tight buns and sleep with them. The next morning i take it out, blow dry a bit and add more mouse and gel and hairspray.
PROBLEM: it only stays curly for like 1 or 2 hours and then it starts getting straight or slighty wavy and it loses that "wet look" .. i want my hair to last for a WHOLE DAY at school. Any advice? Thanks!!
Use a curling iron, it would last longer.
You could always try curlers, they work as well too.
if you really like curly hair, a perm is the way to go. They have different types of curls. So yeah.
If you don't have any money to buy that, then either braid or french braid your hair before bed.
Then spray it with pomade.
[view]
Recently i got my hair cut really short, up to my chin, and i want to get long hair extensions to make it look better. Also, i dyed my hair a light brown and i want to dye it darker and then get extensions to match it. Will that work?
How do i get the extensions to be the same color as my hair?
Which kind of extensions are the best?
I am willing to spend up to $100.
Go to Sally's (http://www.sallybeauty.com/)
find a store somewhere near you.
Go buy the human hair extensions because it lasts longer than the other types. Just look for a darker brown that you want.
(http://www.sallybeauty.com/shop/dept/2430)
hair clips OR glue..
(http://www.sallybeauty.com/shop/dept/2440)
then go buy a dye to match it.
(http://www.sallybeauty.com/shop/dept/1400)
You could always ask for help in the store.
If you don't have a Sallys. Just browse around your town and go into a Beauty store or somewhere in a mall. They would probably have it or you could ask them if they know a place that they know.
edit~
yes you have to buy the clips seperately.
[view]
|
