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Ok.. im goin to be a godmother... and... i have no clue what to wear!! its in the middle of may and the baptisim is gonna be in Atlanta Georgia! i am 13 years old.. almost 14.
Thanks!

Jeans and a nice long sleeved top! A walm coat! and some flat shoes. Which will look nice.

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Hey, I'm 13/F and I just got my period in January. I had it for 6 days. I haven't gotten it since!! It's the end of March now which means I skipped two months?? I know I'm not pregnant (I have no idea how to spell it)
Is something wrong with me???

Nothing is wrong with you! most girls miss mouths out and its nothing serious! If you miss anymore than two go see a woman doctor about it or tell your mum (i no its imbarrasing but hey!)

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One of my best friends just told me that she liked me today. She asked me if i had any feelings about it and i said not yet. The problem is that i don't really know if i like her as more than a friend. I used to like her like about a month ago, but i stopped. This may not make any sense but i want to like her as more than a friend because she is one of the nicest people i know, but i just don't think i see her that way. Is that possible? I don't want to hurt her and tell her that i'm not interested but i don't want to go out with her either. What should i do?

Tell her that you feel like your friendship is better than a relationship, Tell her that mabe she should find someone else and tell her that of course you want her to be your friend because your close to her.

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ok well i have this friend call her leah shes 15 and im 14 and the guy joe is 16. ok well leah had a boyfriend who was her age hit her forced her into sex and he did drug her parents found out and she has alot of regrets. well she met this guy named joe hes really cute and nice. he was supposed to come over but never did. leahs really upset thnking hes going to be like her ex she should give joe a second chance he was at the mall instead of coming over what should she do.

signed stuck in the middle

She should give he a second change not all guys are idiots! He might have had a really good explaination why he didnt come or show up. Just tell her that your there for her and what ever she wants to do then your happy for her.

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ok i have a friend and her boyfriend keeps flirting with a new girl in skool.and hes not always affectionat to her but when he is he sometimes changes.....she dosent know what to do....he also acts like other things are more important that her and they have been together 1 year and 4 months...what should she do

Talk to you friend! if hes like that towards you and other girls and not your friend! Then thats no right, Just be honest and tell her the truth if she falls out with you. Tell her that you was only been truthful and that you care about your friend and dont want to see you get hurt.

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I really like this boy, Derek. I think he likes me also. But i also like this other guy. What should i do??????????

Go for derek, If you think he likes you then your away! good on you. But you could always change your mind, But id stick with derek.

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there is this kid in my grade that likes me, the only problem is that he is a total geek and i don't even like him as a friend (not because he is a geek though, because he is annoying)
Now he told everyone that he IS stalking me and that he likes me!
what should i do without hurting his feelings?

Just, tell him that your not interested in a relationship right now and that hes not your type. If hes stalking you then why shouldnt you hurt his feelings! That would scare me to death.

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I like I'm a lesbedisan because I'm attracted to girls but I try and hide it by saying I like guys. Help me!

There is nothing wrong with been a lesbain! If your ashamed then you dont have to tell people because its none of there buisness.

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im not sure if u will answer this but i need help really bad ok ijm 15 yrs ol and i weigh 190 lbs. im fat!!!!!!!!! i wana be down to at least 130 by this summer wat are some good workouts and diets i could do that oesnt cost any money? plz help

No your not fat just a bit over weight! do something you enjoy doing, go swimming, running or fast walking! If you have any parks around go for a long run. Healthy eating can help, Just stick to your veg and fruit! You should be happy in your own skin! feel comfortable. Aerobics! helps which can help on your tummy and legs!
Good luck. you need any more help write me a letter.

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im 13 and im male. can anyone tell me some makingout tips. highly rated.

When you first kiss a girl dont stick your tongue down her throwt! she wont like it, Just be smooth and gental with her.

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I think my parents went through my purse! I came home last night and my purse was on my bed and it was opened! I feel violated, and hurt because i dont know why they would feel the need to do that. should i wait it out..because maybe if they went through my purse then they would talk to me about it soon? or should i confront them? if it ends up they didnt look through it they would think im paranoid and think i mmight have something to hide right?

I think you should talk to them, ask them why they went through your purse (but make sure it was them before start talking to them)
Say that someone has been through your purse and its invading your privacey!

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Hey, i have had this girl as my girlfriend for a month and 3 1/2 weeks. But, we have not kissed yet, the main reason is, because we both have braces, i am affraid of all the roumours of linked braces that are going around. I get my braces off in June or July, and i am having her over tonight with a few friends for a movie night, should i got ahead and kiss her, or should i wait til i get my braces off and play it safe?

You can kiss if you both have braces, But just dont stick your tongue down her throwt!

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I have a ferret. He is so cute and I love him to bits. He's about 10 months old now, but all he likes to eat is his ferret food! He won't eat chicken or anything else! Should he be eating a more varied diet, other than his ferret food? If so, how do I get him to accept new foods?

No dont! the food he eats is good for him, and if you start giving him to much he might get fat! ferret food is packet with vitamins and minnerals and a good source of food.

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I like this guy, and a lot of people are saying he likes me but I'm not sure, and if its true I want to go out with him, but I don't know if he will ask me. Cuz I'm not asking. (way too nervous!)

When you see him see what he does if he stares back and when hes walking looks back he defo likes you, When you talk to him if hes all shy then thats another sign if not he will show of for you.

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I feel bad about myself sometimes because I'm skinny yet I don't look all that great. I want to feel better about myself and also look better. How is it possible?

Look around not everyone i perfect! everyone has some faults. And you just have to accept you for who you are.

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Okay wll i got out of a 9 month relationship that had been going on off an on for 3 years before the 9 months .. Me an the guy were engaged and everything. We broke up because i felt like i was too young and not ready to be that serious. Now its been a couple months and i have dated a couple times. And now i am feeling like i should have more - Am I really ready for this ? Or should i just chill for a little longer. If so how long? Thx guys your help is HIGHLY RATED !

I think that you'll know when your ready so if you feel your ready go for it! it depends how old are you?

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Does anyone think it is absolutley gross for a grade 7 to go out with a grade 8?

and why?

No i dont think its gross its alright, if people have a problem with it then thats there fault not yours.

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What's the best way to ask your parents if you can go out on a date- I'm not talking about "boyfriends" that you have in like 7th grade, I mean HS bfs .. and how to tell your parents that you have a bf without feeling-weird and uncomfortable! Thanks

Just be honest and tell them that you have am bf, and he would like to take you out on a date. They should understand and let you go out.

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Do I have the right to be offended..this girl considers me her BEST FRIEND [we are good friends but not BEST BEST friends]. When we leave a class, she never waits for me, unless her little other friend is absent. When that girl isn't around, she waits for me and she talks to me. I mean, I have other friends I walk with, I just find this, weird.. and awkward you know. And at lunch, whatever I say, it's usually the opposite. I don't really care, but am I wrong to be a bit.. you know.. offended?

I think you should be upset, Because its like shes using you! which is not right. Hang out with some other friends! when her friend is away go off and leave her alone then she will see how much it hurts you. And if your going to a new school then thats alright.

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Any good ideas for a hairstyle with long bangs- yes I've clipped them back and pulled them back- I just need some more ideas =] They come up to about.. my chin! ♥

Curl it that would look great, Just do different types of curles not all curly.

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