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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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ohk well im sick of people hating me because im a "slut, hoe, whore, or skank" the thing is dat im really not any of that ... how can i make people see who i really am, or just get da image of being a hoe out of my life?

i rate high so please help

It is most likely the way you dress or something they take things... tell them that your not... and that you want them to stop... they need to not judge you by what you did in the past or how you dress... try to avoid those people! they are just trying to make yoru life myserable... they are prob. just saying that to hurt your feels, get you mad... or both! so let them know how you feel... etc. hope i helped!!! and good luck!

i like this guy, all my friends think we make a good couple....few weeks later my other friend likes him and now everyone is saying they make a good couple

wat should i do

depends.. what do you think you should do? i think you should keep on liking him because YOU SAW HIM FIRST!! lol but anywayy... i think that they might be just saying that to your other friend to make her feel good you know? but in my eyes i think you should get him and keep on likeing him if you like him go for it hunny! nothing is holding you back.. if your friend gets mad just tell her that you liked him a lot and that she should be happy for you! best of luck hun!

What do you do when you lost something you cherished so much? And you know you'll never get it back again? And it can't be replaced? How do you get over losing something that important?

you can get over it but it will take time.. just tell yourself that you dont' have it anymore and try and take something else to cherish that maybe will be just as much in value... you kinda gotta get over it .. it will take time... but i think you will be alright.. just stay strong and find something else that can sorta push you off of what you lost... i hope i helped.... it is goign to be hard but you will get over it eventually.. just stay strong!

could someone give me a screen name for aim that has to do with summer?

ohh gosh there are lots! ill name a few

- summerbabe05
- beachchick03
- beachbum101
- summer05
- X summerlovin X
- beachbabe90
- xsunnyxdayx80
- summerchick08
- babybeach x3

there are a few... the numbers are interchangeable... hope i helped... Good luck!!

there is this girl named liz. she is a p** head. once she called me up when she was high. nd other time she told me it was really fun being high. now i wanna get high, but none of my friends will do it with me. all my friends hate liz (b/c she is a pot head). but i dont want them to get mad at me if i sm**e p*t with her. should i, or should i not?

please dont comment saying dont do drugs.

Deffidently do Not!! they are your true friends.. and getting high is not fun at all.. pretty much you are out of it and you act like a retart... some one that i know is in big trouble now for smoking pot... he might even go to juivie!! pot causes throat cancer... it is not good at all! you can get seriously hurt, plus it makes you vulnerable to other drug or even sex. You just gotta say to yourself... drugs are bad... i hate them.. don't get near them.. this could turn into a habbit and you could get into big BIG trouble... i hope you take this into concereration

ps. POT IS NOT SOMETHING YOU WANT TO DO TO KILL A FRIENDSHIP!!

My friend lies a lot! I can't stand it! And it's not the little stuff either! She would tell you she's dieing and then let you believe that for like 5 months! And then she'd lie to cover it up. It drives all of her friends crazy! And when I talk to her about it, she just yells at me! How could I talk to her without her yelling at me?

well.. talk to her in a group... tell her that she can get her self into deep trouble lying.. if your in a big group hopefully she will listen because of all the people that are concerned... talk nicely to her... you have to tell her (if she yells) to bring it down that you are only trying to help and it is for HER own good! hopefully it will help.. if not maybe you need to get a guidance councler involved... believe it or not she can get in deep trouble lying like she does... one day.. one day.. she will learn her lesson!

I really love to sing and my friends think i'm really good at it....but i refuse to sign in front of crowds or even my parents....wat could i do 2 get rid of my stage fright?

once you get used to it... it really isnt' that bad.. but what you could do is image everyone in there underpants so you don't feel like a fool! but that is kinda hard here is what i would do

start by singing in front of a family member etc. then go up like neightbors, friends etc. hopefully you will get used to singing in front of people that you will only get a little.. but this is very hard to get rid of!.. hope i helped ...

xxgoood luck!!

I don't usually cut myself, but something really bad happened, and I did it again. I know it's wrong, but I was going through a rough time, and I don't plan on doing it again, but anyways, I have to attend a pool party, but how do I cover up the marks, from my wrist up to high up the arm. theres a few of them. please help me cover them up. I don't wanna hear you should tell someone, because I go to a therepist. PLEASE HELP ME. rating high.
xoxo.

alrightyy!! try and use some cover up... that should get them to be kinda like bleand in (you need to use water resistant) ... maybe even put a bandade over it and just tell anyone who asks that you feel on your bike or some little white lie like that... but remember... cutting isn't a problem it is a disease.. so there isn't much you can do about it exept talk to your therepist to get it all out of your system... i hope i helped!!! hope everything works out sweetie!

Ok, so i have a boyfriend, pico and i like him and he likes me but it just seems like hes gettin kinda like too obsessive and i want to break up with him but i don't want to break up with him and i don't know what do do....please help me!

Notes:
- he's "flirted" wit my friend but it was just a joke (as he says)
- tons of other girls have asked him out but hes said no becuz he loves me sooo much
- he says that i'm the best thing a guy can have

aww! it sounds like he really likes you! i think you should keep on going out with him until he does something that you really dont' like... talk about everything that you don't like to him.. because if he likes you just the way that it seems to me then i bet he will be willing to listen and take evetyhng into concideration...!! if all else fails make a list (pro's con's) and if you have more con's then he's just not right for you!

ps. Pro's means good things and Con's are bad things... (just in case you didn't know!)

-Good luck!!

I really miss my ex boyfriend and he has a new girlfriend.. but lately he's been talking to me like he used to and it's making me confused. What should I say to him, should I tell him I miss him and I still love him and would do anything to be with him again? If not, what should I do? It's killing me to just let the days go by without him.. I feel like there's an empty space in me.

Thanks,

yes! you need to tell him...! maybe he feels the same way about you that you do him! if theres an empty space it deffidently needs to be filled!... maybe he will break up with his girlfriend .. if he is talking to you the way he used to he prob. does still like you! so tell him and see what happens from there! good luck! hope i helped!

HELP!....i am a skinny girl(not anorexic) but tons of people think i am, what should i do? PLease help me!

there isn't much you can do ... but there are some ways

-make sure you eat at lunch.. that will get rid of there suspision...
-make sure you tell them your not!
-tell them that it runs in your family (if it does(skinniness i mean))

there are only a few but hopefully i can help!

hi i dont know if you can help but me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex but i am on the pill injection and never miss it, i just wondered what the chances would be of getting pregnant?

Of course i can help you!

there still is a chance... but it is slight since you never missed a day so most likely you will be okay and not get pregnant but there is still a chance that you will... so what i would do is not worry about it ... buy a test when you are close to your period and test yourself.. then you will find out for sure... i mean if you never missed a day you should be find ... but next time try to use protection because there are still STD's and all that bad stuff out there! best of luck!

Today my BEST friend and I got into a fight. Well, sorta. At lunch me and two others were talking and we heard her talking to another friend. So we thought whatever untill we heard our names. So we got a bit suspicous and starting asking each other why we think they were talking about us and, yes, dropped there names in a few times. So, this afternoon I walk on the bus and my so called best friend calls me a name and then says that she knows we were talking about her. Apparently, one of the people I was talking to told the friend my best friend was talking to that we were mad at them. We may have been slightly pissed but we thought it woul blow over. Next, I go on AIM and ask another friend (so confussoing but bare with me) her side of the story. My best friendthinks we were saying bad stuff about her. We weren't. We were just wondering why they were talking about us. So now my best friend won't talk to me. I'm really sad and I don't want our friendship to end (so don't say that). What should I do? I'm sorry this is long but help is needed.

talk it out with her im sure she is going to be happy that you are bringing it up with her... im sure she doens't want the friendship to end just as you don't ... your best friend!! tell her.. i dont' know what got into me but lets not fight over something so stupid! tell her that you and her should forget it even happening and pretend that is that day all over again!... tell her your don't want your friendship to end because of it and that you are willing to forget it if she can forget it too!... hope i helped!

i went out with this guy before, but then we broke up after one day because we didn't really feel comfortable around each other. but now i like him, and everyone's telling me he likes me too and that he might ask me out, but that's been going around for days and he's barely said a word to me. we don't really talk that much because we barely have any classes together and we just never get the chance. he likes someone else, but he sais that he likes me better than the other . how should i let him know i like him? i can't tell him online because he doesn't have a screen name, but i just can't tell him in person. Please help!

try to have one of your friends tell him... that will be easy with you.. (i always let my friends tell them because they always are nagging me to tell him) so i think they would be more then happy to tell him! also what about the phone! the phone is always fun! you could like call him up and talk to him and then just ask him who he likes and then he will prob. ask you who you like ad then you can say "I like you!" :-D but if you don't want to tell him over the phone because that's kinda scary! have your friends let him know... hope i helped!

does anyone know a good foundation/coverup that helps control oily skin? like covers it up or prevents it from being oily?? and a powder that does the same? because i have oily skin and its embarrassing when all my make up is over taken by oil yuck! thanks!!

im not sure that there is an oil taking out coverup i know there are coverup with no oil added.. but what i would do is get like clearasil like the cleansing pad and use them because that is what will take out the oil (usually $6 at drug stores) and then useing a no oil added coverup from like mabeline or covergirl etc. try to get the name brands because with them you know that they work..! hope i helped!

I'm an 18 year old female, hoping someone can give me a little advice. I met a girl at a local youth prom last weekend. We both found eachother attractive, and ended up dancing, talking, and kissing. I really liked her, and I'm single, but I just broke up with an old boyfriend and want to be alone. I was already getting closer to another boy at the same time, although he knows me well and knows that I don't intend on being with anyone for a while, as my last relationship was over two years long and I feel like I shouldn't jump into another relationship.

The girl I met has started to contact me by email, and I feel like she really liked me - but a relationship is not what I want right now. I shouldn't have kissed her, that being the case, but I'm not sure what to say. At the moment, I answered her email in a friendly way, but if the subject comes up with her asking me out, what should I say? I hate to hurt her, so is there a more sensitive way to tell her, if she intends on trying to take this further, that I'm not interested?

I appreciate anyone who tries to help me with this.
(Also -hopefully no one is going to lecture me on my sexuality - but any homophobic advice will be kindly disregarded.)
Thanks for any help.

tell her that your just not ready yet... tell her your not ready that you want to stay single for a while... let her know that you are still attracted to her and tell her to give you a little time! hope everything works out!

My boyfriend and I had sex a few weeks ago and I was due to get my period today. I still haven't gotten it. We didn't use a condom, but we didn't finish either. He was only in me for a few seconds, not even a minute. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant? I'm showing all my regular signs of PMS, but still no period.

there is always a chance if you didn't use protection and he ejaculated inside of you... but if it was due today it could be off.. it always doesn't come on time!

I have:
Blue eyes,
Puffy lips,
Tropical yet slightly tanned skin,
And multi coloured hair with colours of: ginger, blonde, black and light brown my hair is feathered.
Help me and give me some clothes and make- up tips.
13/f

Chloe

i think you would look good in pink!! i think you could be cute in a pink skirt... maybe purple/black eyeliner with pink eyeshadow!... i think you would look nice in pretty much anything but try and stay away from dark colors like black.. it will drownd out your face etc. but the eyeliner would be alright

Does any1 no of any good websites to go becuase im bored (not bored.com)Thanx!!

funnyjunk.com (random stuff)
miniclips.com (game site)
albinoblacksheep.com (funny stuff)
ebumsworld.com (funny stuff)

any of them are really cool! expecially miniclips... that one rocks!! hope i helped!

My 2 best friends have been leaving me out a lot lately. This may not seem like a big deal to you, but let me explain. 2 years ago, my best friend (lets call her Rose) was an outcast. everyone hated her and i was the only one willing to take her in. Last year, we were inseperable, and had an amazing friendship. My other friend, (call her Marie) is the most popular girl in school. she wasnt at the beginning of the school year, and she and i did everything together. all of a sudden theyve become best friends and are leaving me out of everything. it makes me feel so bad, and its gotten so bad that i cry myself to sleep at night. any advice?

You need to talk to them about it and let them know how you feel if you don't sit down and talk to them they are never goign to know how they truly feel and nothing is goign going to change.. you need to take action ... im sure they will be thankful that you told them the truth.. and once you do they can change it and make it all better for you!

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