Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
Answers: 1503
Last Update: August 9, 2008
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how do i get two pictures into one picture slot on Myspace???
i rate generously. (link)
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Okay, all you have to do is save your picture somewhere you'll remember so when you go to look for it, you can find it easily.
Then just go to Photobucket, Tiny Pic ( that may be the best choice since some photo URL's can be pretty long on other sites ), or anywhere else you upload pictures.
Then just copy the image URL and go to your myspace and find the picture you want to put this picture under, and put this code in the caption area ( ) and then replace the URL HERE part with the url to your picture.
Then it should show up, I hope I helped!
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i have a cell phone but the texting cost 10 cents each message and i was wonderin if anybody has a phone that has free texting and wat company u have and how much it cost u a month (link)
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I have Cricket and I have unlimited texting for only 5 bucks a month. I hope I helped.
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I'm about to be 16, but I don't have any ideas for my birthday party. My birthday is this winter, but I don't want my party to have anything to do with snow. So I'm not sure if I should have an indoors party or wait until the Spring and have an outdoors party. I think that would be more fun, but I'd have to wait a while. Any suggestions on what kind of party I should have and when it should be? (link)
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Having a sweet sixteen party about 3 or 4 months or so AFTER you've already turned sixteen seems a little weird since you've already turned it, but a winter party might be alot of fun, you never know!
Because of the fact it's winter, alot of people don't have that many parties because obviously, the cold weather and the snow and everything, so it'd give everybody something to look forward to this winter! And plus, during the spring there's spring break, and everybody's going on vacations and other places, to it might be a little harder to get everybody to come to your party. ( Believe me, I know. My birthday's in July! )
You could always just have the indoor party like you said and play music and have good food and then maybe make a little fire place and everyone can have nice warm hot chocolate or something good to drink and you guys can relax and dance and just have a lot of fun! For a decoration idea, you could buy a snow machine thing and then make it look like it's snowing inside, which I think would look really cool.
I just went to a sweet sixteen party last weekend, and we just all hung around downstairs, laughed, joked around and ate and danced to music so it was alot of fun. Trust me, people'll start to just find entertainment of their own so I don't think you have to worry THAT much about if you guys have to go ice skating or not.
I also went on Google for you, and I tried researching Sweet Sixteen Parties in the winter, and I found a site that I hope'll help you out:
http://ths.gardenweb.com/forums/load/entertain/msg1222040019634.html?4
I also found another place where this one girl whose party'll be in the winter is going to do a sort of beachy, hawaiian theme, you know so it's like the opposite of winter which might make people happy since winter's so freezing. So you could just get a bunch of tropical drinks and depending where you're throwing it ( in your basment or wherever ) maybe you could even buy a bag of sand and just spread it around on the ground and then vaccum it all back up later. And buy leis of course and just cool lights and decorations. I hope I helped!
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ok well i have a huge problem and its that me and my gurl have been dateing for about 5 months now and we are really close i love her more than anything and we are 15 i know i know people say that you cant fall in love when your as younge as us but personally i think thats a bunch of bull shi* but the problem is we are thinking about a kid and we are both really wanting to like BAD so what do you think i should do PLEASE HELP ::..Thanx..:: (link)
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That's really great that you two are in love and want to have a kid together, but I highly suggest waiting for a bunch of reasons.
First of all, you two are only 15. This is the time BEFORE you have to get a job and make a family, etc. To just enjoy life and do the things you might not be able to do whenever you're older. I always hear of teenage mother's never getting to hang out with their friends, not go to school, not do anything they want because they always have to sit at home and take care of the baby, and work a job all day too. So just enjoy the young life you're living right now, go places, have a great time.
Also, that's the other thing. A baby is alot of responsibility and alot of money. There's the diapers, the food, the clothes, the furniture, the possible babysitter, everything. And you two just working at the local food store probably isn't going to help you pay for everything at once. And you guys also need to think of where you guys would live, with your parents? Because they may not let you live with them or if they do, they might not help you out as much because teh babies your responsiblity ; not theirs.
I would also suggest you two going off to college and getting a good degree, because if you really want to provide good support and care for your child, because just having a high school diploma isn't going to give you two a very good future, it's very difficult to get a good paying job without a college diploma. My mother didn't go to college, and now she works two different jobs one in the morning and one later and whenever she's not working, she's taking care of me and my brother and cooking and everything. Not much time for a life for herself there, huh?
So I suggest you and your girlfriend wait a good while before you guys start having any children. Have fun now, have a good life and go to college so then you can really ensure your child's going to have good support and a good life later in their future. I hope I helped.
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I had a dream that this guy that goes to my school was riding in a car with my for some reason and then one of his friends kissed me and i said "ew what the hell" then the guy that goes to my school kissed me and then asked me out and said "is that better" what does that mean?? (link)
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Well, a dream can mean many things. I want to Dreammoods.com, and they said this about kissing:
"Kiss
To dream of a kiss, denotes love, affection, tranquility, harmony, and contentment. To see others kissing in your dream, suggests that you are too involved in their personal lives and relationship. You need to give them some space. If the dream ends just about you are about to kiss someone, indicates that you are unsure of how he or she really feels about you. You are looking for some sort of relationship with this person but you are not sure about how to go about achieving it. If you are heterosexual and you dream that you are kissing someone of the same sex, then it represents self-acceptance. You are acknowledging the feminine or masculine side.
To dream that you are kissing someone's hand, signifies respect.
To dream that you are kissing someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend, indicates your wish to be in a relationship and to experience the energy of love. You may be sexually acting out and desire to awaken your passion. Alternatively, it indicates a lack of integrity on your part.
If you are kissing a close friend, then it represents your respect and adoration for your friend. You are seeking some intimate closeness that is lacking in some waking relationship. It may or may not signify a romantic interest for him or her.
To dream of kissing an enemy, signifies betrayal, hostility, or reconciliation with an angry friend. Consider also the saying "this kiss of death". If you are kissed by a stranger, then your dream is one of self-discovery. You need to get more acquainted with some aspect of yourself."
So you may be just wanting someone to give you affection and you might be wanting a boyfriend or just someone to compliment you and give you the love and affection you deserve. It might not eve have anything to do with those guys specifically. People always think if you dream about some guy, that automatically means you must like them, even though you might be disgusted by them.
It COULD possibly mean that, but if you know you don't already and haven't had a crush on them, that I doubt that's it.
Also, some dreams mean absolutely nothing at all. They're not always our subconcious telling us something, I believe. I mean I've had weird dreams myself ; one where I was a witch and I had to fly over the ocean and kill Evil Barbie. I so totally beat her, haha. Anyways. But I don't think there's some deep hidden meaning that I have a hatred towards barbie dolls or anything. It could be anything on the television you're possibly hearing in your sleep or something that happened that day, or jsut the fact you might've seen them that day in school.
So it might mean nothing at all. A dream can sometimes be, just a dream.
I hope I helped.
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I have known this girl, Melanie, for almost my whole life. We have been best friends since we were three. A few years ago, I moved and I had to switch schools because of it. So, we didn't talk to each other for four years! I do not have any classes with her this year, but her locker is only about two lockers away from mine. We also live in the same neighborhood, we ride the same bus, and we have each other's phone number. Every now and then, we sit together on the bus and talk for a minute or so, but that's about it. I honestly think she is the kindest person I know, even though her father died when she was four years old. Is there a way that I can become best friends with her again or even just friends? (link)
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Haha, that's my name!
Anyways.
The next time you're sitting next to her on the bus, engage in more conversation than you usually do, about classes, whatever. And just be like," You know, it's been so long since we've really gotten to hang out and talk and I miss that. Do you think you'd wanna hang out sometime this weekend and catch up?" And just go somewhere the mall, the movies, somewhere where you guys can be comfortable and having fun and also able to talk.
I think the mall might be best cause you guys can check out clothes, and show eachother what you like on eachother and plus, shopping puts a girl in a chatty comfortable mood so it might not be as awkward.
And just takl to her and find out what's been up with her the past 4 years, any boyfriends anything going on at all? And just find out what her current interests are and everything so you guys can find some commmon ground and start anew and then maybe the next hang out place can be her choice, or somewhere where she likes to go! Also, maybe even bring up some old memories you guys had together, share some laughs and make her realize again why it was you guys were friends in the first place, and why you guys should become friends again.
And then hopefully after the hangout, just suggest to her you'll talk to her tommorrow and you hope you guys can hang out again really soon, and I'm sure that'll make her happy you're making such an effort to become her friend again, and then maybe she'll start to do so.
I hope I helped.
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hey, I'm 14 my name is jackie.. and I need help..
I'm not sure who to like. On one hand there is this one guy (tony)who is 16, and I've known him for a few weeks. He's shy but his friends say he likes me and wants to take me to homecomming. He is really cute but sometimes he can be a little rude to everyone.. Also we hung out last weekend and we kidna flirted but didnt really pay attention to me
and on the other hand tony's friends little brother (14 years old) named ryan is so hott! he has the most amazing eyes and he is really sweet. he let me use his sweatshirt when i was cold, and he talked to me when noone else was. he said i should comeover his house again. he knows how to treat a girl.
I'm really confused on which to like? please help (link)
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Well, I can't exactly tell you who you're supposed to like, because I'm only telling you of MY opinion, as are the other advicenators. You have to decide that on your own.
Go hang out with both of them one-on-one some night before homecoming happens and then just have fun, get to know eachother, see how the ones treat you, adn reasses your feelings at the end of the night, and just think of who might've had more positive qualities and treated you better, cause that's the better date. But mainly go off feeling.
But you did ask for my opinion ( sort of ), so this Ryan kid seems like a very good and fun date for you. If he's attractive, sweet, and caring he sounds perfect!
But like I said, give each a chance and "listen to your heart" and just think of who you might have the stronger feelings for, and who you can picture yourself hanging out with more and having a great time.
I hope I helped.
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everyone always says that you should be totally comfortable before you have sex, and that if youre nervous youre not ready.. but then people always say youre gonna be nervous your first time. so how can you tell? (link)
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You're totally right, there is both different ways to be nervous, though.
If you're nervous and you're uncomfortable with doing it, you're probably thinking my head,"Do I really want this?" "I'm not ready" "What if I get pregnant" "I'm not 100% sure", etc. Then you're the kind of IM NOT READY nervous. Which of course, I wouldn't suggest you continuing any further until like you said before, you're fully comfortable and ready mentally and pyshically.
There's also the just plain nervous. You are right, everybody is nervous their first time. They're just worried that it won't be good, how's it going to feel, etc. But even though they're having all these thoughts, they're still thinking "I really want this person to be my first no matter what", and they're fully ready to handle it. They just have a ltitle case of the "heeber jeebers", if that's what you want to call it, lol.
So trust me ; if you're heads saying no and thinking of all the horrible possibilities, you're "not ready" nervous.
But if no matter what happens, like I said, you want this person to be your first, you're just wondering maybe how bad it's going to hurt and everything and how it's going to feel, and you're totally ready, go for it.
I hope I helped.
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A year ago I moved to a condo and i met this girl, for now i will call her C. And C was a nice girl, she was like my best friend for a while and then i met her friend, K. Shit happened, and then I got into a fight with K and then i got intoa fight with C. But then, i made up with C and K. Then C moved and it was just me and K. Me and K have become the best of friends, we're blood sisters, but K is a total slut, and C has changed into a little ho. She dresses like a slut and calls herself 'the playboy master' cause she loves playboy to death. Now me and C always get into fights and then im always the one that goes back to her and wants to become her friend again. Me and K get into fights too and stop talking, but we end up being friends again after a day. Now K is telling me to be the bigger person and be friends with C again cause shes 'so much fun'and shit. I really dont want to be C's friend again cause we're just gonna end up fighting again. So, should i listen to K and make up with C or should I just forget about C? I really need some advice on this. (link)
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Well, I know K's just trying to help and be a good friend to you, but if you don't like the girl, you shouldn't MAKE yourself hang out with her and become her friend and go through this pointless fighting over and over again.
I'm not saying break off all contact with her, you guys can hang out and everything and just be "every now and then" friends who talk and stuff and hang out maybe every once and awhile ( only if you really want to though ) ; just keep the friendship casual.
So no real feelings are hurt, and you're keeping the peace, and hopefully there'll be no more continuous drama around you.
I hope I helped.
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What is up with these 13 yr olds and getting pregnant/asking for advice about fingering and sexual things like that. wtf is our world coming too.When I was 13 I was still playing coodies with the guys next door or riding my bike around the neighborhood. Gahsh by the time I turn 30, 5 yr olds will be worried about sex. WTH (link)
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I know, kids each year are getting more and more worse it seems to me. I was the same way as you, staying out of the way of the older kids, playing barbies and such doing whatever and being good.
But then just today I was walking down the hall at the Jr.High ( I'm a highschooler I have a class over there, though ) and these girls were like ,"MOVE OUT OF MY WAY!" and cussing and being jerks and dressed like they were a hooker, I swear. And I see all these 8 year olds with cellphones, who do they seriously need to call?
But it's just the society we live in now is changing so much and there's all those movies out there and tv shows showing kids a whole nother world of drugs and sex and bad stuff and sometimes the parents just don't do anything about it and let them do whatever. I'm not saying it's the parents fault, sometimes they don't even know what they're kids watching. And if the kid has an older brother or sister, they'll sit there behind them while they don't know it, listening to them talk, catching words they say and learning about things like sex and all certain types of things.
I also think that it's because whenever you're young, older people don't listen to you much, do they? They do, but not REALLY what you have to say. And you can't drive, you can't date, you're basically not allowed very much stuff, so I think that kids think if they're sitting there acting older than they seem, they'll get more and get to do more and kids nowadays just want to grow up way too fast. I'm only 15 and I don't want to get any older. ( well, 16'd be nice so i can drive haha ).
That's also where the sex and drugs come in. They think it's cool and you're more older than you seem if you're already having sex and making out with guys and doing drugs and smoking because it makes you seem older and cooler and makes everyone like you and want to be like you.
Kids nowadays just need to calm down, have safe fun and enjoy their youth.
People don't realize that they've only got one life, and they need to make the most of it.
I hope I helped.
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is it fair for a girl to have to do stuff with her partner while she is on her period even when shes not in the mood? (link)
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It's totally not fair at all. Nobody should ever be pressured into doing something they don't want to do anyways, just because the other person wants to do something. If their partner really cared, they'd wait a freaking week and keep it in their pants, lol. But your partner should respect your decision and wait until you're fully ready to do it, not when they are. I hope I helped.
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what should i wear and how should i do my hair tomorrow for my boyfriend to at least take a second look, and maybe comment about how i look ? show i wear my hair up or down, curly, straight, wavy?long sleeved/short sleeved/tank top +sweatshirt/polo/v-cut? HELLP. (link)
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Whatever you normally wear like if you normally have straight hair and normal colored tank tops or something, then do the opposite! Maybe wear something brightish ( not like NEON color, but you know what I mean haha ) so it catches his attention a little, and then wear your hair curly and just wear some nice lip gloss and put on some pretty perfume. And when you give him a hug, he'll smell you and hopefully comment on how good you look and pretty you smell. :) But trust me, if he doesn't notice after that, don't take it personally. Guys hardly ever notice whenever a girl does something new to herself unless it's like, a majorly drastic change which I doubt you want to do. Because he's your boyfriend, you already got him and all the attention you want! :] I hope I helped.
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Me and my best guy friend talk all the time on AIM. Mainly every night before school. But I have 2 classes with him, and he RARELY talks to me in class. Is there a reason for this? It kind of makes me upset. (link)
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This is sort of me and how of my friends are too. I think it's because you two are better friends just over the internet that in person.
Whenever you talk on the internet you're more comfortable with talking to people and more open with yourself and are allowed to be silly because nobody's looking at you and nobody's making weird faces at you or anything. Also because you don't have to be talking every 4 seconds, either. So you're allowed to have your silent moments and everything, but still have an awseome normal conversation whereas on the phone or in person if you're quiet you're sort of just sitting there staring at eachother and all awkward.
So, don't take it personally, he just might be worried about how to talk to you in person, so make more conversation. Ask him how his day's been so far, anything cool happen, did he see any fights, haha whatever you guys want to talk about. And just show him it's comfortable talking to you too in person and there's alot to talk about. :]
I hope I helped.
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for almost everything my mom makes, she adds onions. i tell her all the time that i hate onions, and she says, "oh there won't be onions". sure enough, there are onions. she says "well they add flavor". and then i refuse to eat it because onions are gross. i used to pick them out but that gets too tedious.
what should i do? (link)
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I have this same exact situation. Whenever my mother goes to make dinner or I talk to her before dinner time, I ask her if she's adding onions, and she'll say yes, so then I just go in the kitchen and add an extra pan on the stove so she can put my meat or whatever she's making in a seperate pan. So now whenever she makes me stuff she knows just to make a seperate plate and not give me any onions in it cause she knows I'll get mad if she does. I hope I helped.
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I dont know what to do! But it doesn't matter how much I eat, it all goes to my stomach, butt, and thighs! My arms are soo skinny and it looks terrible! What can i do to gain a little weight on them. To make them look bigger, fatter. haha thanks for the adivce? (link)
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Start doing some pushups and some other arm exercises a couple of times every day and so you can gain some muscle on them, but don't over-do the exercise unless you REALLY want muscles, just do it enough so they'll get slightly bigger. I hope I helped.
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when you're at a dance, how do you get guys to come up and dance with you? (link)
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Well there's really no way to get a guy to come over and dance with you, he either has to ask you, or you just go over and ask him.
Just dance around and look like you're having a lot of fun, and maybe some guys'll notice you and want to dance with you too, or like I said, just go over to a few guys and ask them if you can snag a dance with them in a little bit.
I hope I helped.
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ok i lied to my teacher! we were supposed to give in a homework, and i was like "my printer cashed so i sent it to your email!" and she was like "stephany, i checked my email this morning there was nothing from you!" so i panicked and said "ehh.. well i sent it to you just right now, during lunch, from the library!" (i knoww, wrong! but i got scared!) and then during the lesson she was like "everyone who forgot the homework will have to send it to me through email at by the latest tonight..otherwise it will be marked late!" now its been two days since that.. so obviously im not gonna get a full grade for it, because it was late.. but i still need an excuse to avoid being embarressed when she tells me "howcome it wasn't in my inbox when you prmoised me you had sent it?" (she'll probably ask infront of the whole class, that will be so embarrising!) so what do i say? do i just lie? say "but i sent it to you!" ?
heelp me please! (link)
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Well here is a lesson learned, first of all. Don't lie to your teachers! Especially if it's something that can really catch you for!
But sometimes whenever I try to email people, it either didn't send properlly or the internet's not working very good so just tell her it must've not sent all the way and maybe your interent wasn't working whenever you sent it in.
Then just type it up to her and send it to her with the date of two days ago so it looked like you had just opened up a word document and copied and pasted it in there or something, possbily.
So whenever she asks you, just be like,"I'm not sure, maybe my internet was acting up again. Sometimes the page doesn't fully load and it won't tell me if it sent or not. But I did send it to you, I know I won't get full credit, but can I send it again?"
And trust me, it shouldn't be THAT embarassing. Kids try to lie their way out of doing homework all teh time, so if you get caught in the act I'm sure they'll understand. I mean a few kids might chuckle, but most'll forget about it the next period.
I hope I helped.
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"becca puts my panties in a bunch" mean.
well obviously my name is becca but like the rest of it, what does it mean? (link)
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Have you ever heard the term,"alright, alright, don't get your panties in a bunch" if you're waiting for someone to finish something? It basically just means you're rushing them and they're getting mad. Or there's the saying "hold your horses", get it? So if someone's saying that to you, you just might be getting them a little mad or rushing them or something. I hope I helped.
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My best friend and I are going to be a fish and a fish bowl for Halloween. Does anybody have any tips or experience with making costumes like these? (link)
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Well, I'm not totally sure as to how to MAKE a fish costume, but I'm sure there's places where you can buy them. I googled up fish costumes and got some pictures:
http://www.costumes4less.com/prodimages/previews/5/previewAA229.jpg
http://scumby.com/~wes/Bman98/Two/DSC00017.JPG
http://coolest-homemade-costumes.shippony.com/images/theme/under-the-sea/fish/fish-costumes-01.jpg
http://stevenson.cs.brevard.k12.fl.us/images/dance-drama/fishhead.jpg
But as for the fish bowl, you could try finding an inflatable clear ball and just decorating the inside of it like taping fish to the inside of it and everything and then after you put it on, you just blow air into it so it stays round.
I hope I helped.
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i wanted to make one of those myspaces where they have those contest i understand how to make it and stuff but how do i get all those friends, like all the other ones have? Anything is apreciated (link)
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Well first of all, after you make the account, do Friendstorm.net over and over again and it'll allow a up to possbily 500 people a day to add you. Once people start adding you, just message them and ask them if they can whore you to get you more friends. Also, talk to other contest sites. Contest sites whore eachother all the time to try and get eachother more friends. And what some people do is after a few are added, go through their friends list and maybe pick out a few people to add there, and you just keep repeating all those processes over and over. I hope I helped.
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