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why does m stand for slope? my teacher said we would learn when we get to high school. But i want to know now. who can tell me? i rate all answers

I never really questioned that.

I just.. thought it was a variable for slope.. and I always looked at M as if it meant Slope.


Here's a link:

http://www.math.duke.edu/education/webfeats/Slope/Slopederiv.html

Slope is derived from the Latin root slupan for slip. Like.. a line graph, going downward or something.

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im the person who asked about the english class. this is a completely different question, but its more serious than the other.

well..today was the first day back to school. my math class on the schedule is algebra 3. when i went to algebra 3 today, i showed my teacher my transcript because thats what we have to do. she saw my previous algebra grades and they were 97's. she asked me why i wasnt in Honors Analysis instead (which is a more advanced class than algebra 3), and i said its cuz i wanted to be in algebra 3. well, she somehow got someone to call my mom to arrange a schedule change from algebra 3 to honors analysis. my mom agreed.

so when i got home from school, my mom told me and i started crying. its because last semester i took an AP class and i was completely overstressed to the point of depression, and i wanted to take a lighter load of classes this semester.

my mom wont change her mind. i dont know what to do..im very upset and emotional because i dont want to go through another long, very difficult semester.

please help. :[

Talk to your previous teacher and tell her why you wanted that class.

Go to a conselour and talk to them. It's not right for someone to call in and arrange a schedule change without talking to you first! It's NOT their decision.

You could always ask for a schedule change because someone put you in a class you didn't ask for. Just because you have good marks doesn't mean it could be a breeze. Say it stresses you out to the point of depression and you should be able to go back to the class you wanted.

You wanted a lighter load so you should be able to get it.

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Im a 15 year old female and I think Im bisexual. I like guys but I think I like girls. Like, I think about making out with them and stuff like that. I know a couple bi people but anyway. Should I experience stuff with a girl and see if I like it before I make up my mind about being bisexual? Im attractive to them, I think.

-Confused.

Experimenting is good.

But you must make sure that the girl knows that so you don't hurt her feelings.

Lots of girls think the same sex is attractive but it's more of... can you be in a relationship with them?

Can you picture yourself being with a girl and could you kiss them?

Personally, I think girls kiss a lot better than guys. So it might be hard to judge on that.

So yes, experiment first and just say you're bi-curious. :]

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What are all the possible ways to form Smiley faces? Such as =] & so on..

=D
:D
:]
8]
=)
(:
C:
^__^
^-^
n__n


Do they all have to be Smiley?

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for the most part, i straighten my hair everyday. in the morning before i go to school it looks fine, but then by like 2nd period[which is like 9:15][i do my hair by 8] its starting to get wavy. it wont stay straight for a few hours. is there any way i can fix this? thanks in advance!

yeah, i heard ceramic straighteners work well. Hmm. 'Chi' seems popular. Look for a better straightener online and look at reviews. People usually post 'before/after' pictures and if they did that, you know their hair stayed that way all day..

Do you spray after you straighted it?

Do you use aquanet or pomade as spray?

Those are the best hairsprays to use.

And if that doesn't work, a perm would be good. (Chemically straightened)

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why did they cancel shows like hamtaro (on Cartoonnetwork), just for kicks (on Nick), and Made (on MTV)? I liked all three, and I dont get why they cancelled them... if they still show it... well thats weird, cuz I havent seen them in the TV guide thingy recently. except for made, but they havent made (no pun intended) new episodes.

Because it's no longer popular and it's not getting enough views. They want these new shows to take over.

It sucks because I liked all these shows then they replace them with lame ones!

I miss watching hamtaro but I guess that's what they have On Demand and Movie rentals for?


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well its the same as the title lol. My question is If you have masturbated in the past does that mean that your hymen is no longer intact?

Yeah sometimes that happens.
Especially if you are using a 'toy'


But you most likely broke before.. like by riding a bike.

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I want to get my haircut this weekend. I've been looking around, and I can't find a good site with good haircuts. All the sites on google are like oldschool haircuts that look weird. I kind of want side bangs, my hairs a few inches past my shoulders. I was thinking of thinning it out because it's thick. I've been looking around for celebrity hairstyles, but since I don't really have a specific celeb in mind, it's of hard to know what I'm searching for, lol. If anyone has a good site with good haircut ideas with pictures so that I could show her an example, it'd be GREAT

So if you have a livejournal or if you don't, sign up!

http://community.livejournal.com/madradhair/

This community has people with amazing hair and they will help you give pictures.


You could also browse around here

http://photobucket.com/albums/b56/celebhair/

http://photobucket.com/albums/a324/teasedhairfiles/

http://s82.photobucket.com/albums/j274/blondeh4ir/platinum/

http://photobucket.com/albums/a368/bangshairfiles/

http://photobucket.com/albums/v665/hairfiles6/

http://photobucket.com/albums/v486/ohdoct0rdoct0r/



I have a lot more links if you need it!

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waht does fingered me?

Stucking fingers up the vagina? Hmm yeah.
Pretty much it.

WELL, this is from a dictionary

Slang term for stimulation of a woman’s genitals with the fingers.

hah.

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Its a song fromt he 80's i think. It is called something like 99 red love balloons or something. I could be totally off. It was in an episode of Gilmore Girls, the one where there was flashbacks of Lorelei having Rory, and when she was in the waiting room she was listening to this song. I think it was also in the Wedding Singer, Drew Barrymore was singing it. I looked at the song titles for both soundtracks and I couldnt find it. If you know what it is please tell me!

Yes, it's 99 red balloons.

I like the NENA & Blondie verison though.


You should listen to the german verison haha. It is good too.

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im 14 i lost my fist born over the summer and im pregnant again it broke my heart when my daughter died i refuse to get an abortion what can i do

Just be strong and believe your baby will fine.

Did you know most women lose their first borns?
It's really sad.. but you usually have a miscarriage for your first.

You'll be okay. Just be careful and don't do anything that would hurt your baby.

You could always ask for a C-section?

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Ok...I'm 15/F and I was wondering if it would be a good idea to tell my mom that I want to go on birth control just in case something happens between me and my boyfriend. Or should I go on it when I am positive that something is going to happen? And do you think it's ok for a 15 year old girl to lose her virginity or do you think I am too young? Thank you.

I think it's too young if you can't handle it. Because there's so many problems attached with having sex and getting pregnant. Just be prepared for the worst.
I guess you can ask to go on birth control but i dont know if your mom will take you there to get it.

You should be prepared before it happens. But being 15, is a bit young I suppose.

Just be sure what you are doing and have a backup plan. There's also things to think about.

Protection.
STDS
Getting pregnant
Your parents possibly disowning you?
Your boyfriend possibly leaving you?
How you really feel about your boyfriend. It shouldn't be like.. a teen love thing, were I love you is thrown around everywhere. I've been through that and it wasn't good.

And if you happen to get pregnant, I doubt your parents will want to pay for an abortion or take care of your kid. I'm sure they wouldn't want to worry about their daughter getting possible STDs.

But, just go birthcontrol if you can. You can always go for the sex reason OR that your cramps hurt so much.

Do what you want though but only if you are ready to! Just because you're in the "heat of the moment" doesn't mean you really HAVE to have sex.

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after i got my braces off i had little white spots on my teeth, there not too bad, but i wanted to know if there was a way to get rid of them or something?
thanks =]

Get a teeth bleaching kit and it should help a little.

Brush, brush a lot.

I had braces for almost 4 years and the spots took a while to get rid of.

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Okay, so I just asked a question and someone gave me an answer...as soon as I read that I read the exact replica of it and it's from two DIFFERENT users. The user on the top (obviously) copy and pasted the answer another person posted before her. Is there anything done about that?

I've had that happen to me. It was lameee.

Rate low and file an abuse report.

I don't think it would be taken care of quickly if you leave it on it's own.. Sometimes it may go unnoticed.

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My friend Mimi (size 6, but looks like a 4) went to a flea market and a woman was trying to sell her jeans. The vendor says to Mimi in a sheepish voice “I have jeans I am selling. You are a size 10, my daughter is a size 10.” That night when Mimi went home she told her friends what the vendor said and her friends said to her: “The vendor just wants to sell her jeans, she would say the same thing to a size 2.” My question: Do you agree with Mimis friends?

Yes and no.


Vendors do want to sell anything so they try making you think you'll look good in it or that you are a certain size when you aren't. They just want money.

And No.

If Mimi was slightly chubby then yes, a vendor could be rude (without realizing it) and say she's a size she isn't.

But if a size 2 went up there.. She wouldn't look anywhere like a size 10 and probably wouldn't say the same thing because of weight/size differences.

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I NEED A CHANGE!! I have somewhat long hair...probably 4 or 5 inches past my shoulders which is a somewhat mousy/golden brown. I have brown eyes and pale skin. What should I do?! (NO haircut..something different)

Dye jobs-

Blonde streaks/highlights
Darker brown streaks
A brown-red


You could always get layers, it spices up hairstyles!

I'm not really sure what you are asking for since you don't want a cut.

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Im going to get my eyebrows waxed for the first time today...does it hurt?

If you haven't plucked or done anything to your eyebrows, it will kind of burn when they pull off the strips.

After a few seconds.. it shouldn't sting as much.

Well it depends on where you are getting it waxed. Under the eyebrow is very sensitive

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what does "(sp?)" means :S sorry i just don't seem to get it lol

Pretty much means = (spell ?)

i dont know who came up with it haha.

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hey! where can i get bare minerales or that thing ?

In a store called Sephora or Bare Escentuals.



Its kinda pricey though.

For the whole kit it's $60

But I think you'll just need the foundation thingies

(http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P61003&categoryId=B70)


If you find the store Bare Escentuals.. I think you can get someone to do your makeup for you and see how it works!

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hey im not the best with covering up zits
is there anyway to do it to make it look like its not even there?
any advice will make me happy:)

I had bad experience with putting concealer ON or AROUND my zits. It made it worse.

But if you have the money-- Bare Minerals (powder) covers it up really well. You could buy the set or 2 shades of "foundation powder" and a brush to apply it on. It works really well.

It comes off easily with water.


You could always experiment with the make up you have.
But I'm sure you cover your zits .. it's just that you want them to go away and you know it's there.

Just use your foundation. Dab it on with a sponge and spread it around. You could go over twice on your zits. Spread it around evenly, so it's not all cakey. Then apply powder for extra coverage.

But.. Bare Minerals works good!

Here's meee->

No makeup- http://i12.tinypic.com/2j5nm9c.jpg

Bare Minerals- (close up!) http://i13.tinypic.com/4ck94s9.jpg

This is just... liquid foundation and powder-
http://i12.tinypic.com/2e24fis.jpg

Not that great for covering zits!

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