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say you've dated someone for 1 year and 6 months...can love just fade? (link)
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Sometimes it happens...sometimes the feelings that you've had for someone are not the way they felt before. And thats okay its better to be honest about it and not hide it. You have to be truthful to the other person when this comes up. Yes sometimes love can fade for one person which can come to a shock to the other. Hope I helped.
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My girlfriend just broke up with me because im starting to act like her. The truth is i just do the same things she does. Ive been like this for a long time. But she says its creepy and that its over. And yeah i want to cry but then again I'm wondering if that's a justified reason to break up with me, She told me not even 6 hours ago that she loves me and I'm her world and she wants to live by me. I find now that she lied to me or at least that's how i feel :\
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She just sounds confused and very immature. You're better off without here because clearly that is not a valid reason to break off a relationship with someone. The truth is, if she really cared she would have been up front with you and wanted to fix the problem. Let her go she's not worth your time nor the trouble! I hope you feel better and don't let it get you down! Happy Holidays!
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I really like this guy. Problem is, I barely know him, plus he does drugs. Bad thing, I know. Have you ever felt that like when you see someone you feel like something is there and sometimes you just want to help him? I don't know if I should go for it and not even try so I don't end up hurt in the end. (link)
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Stay far away from him!
He's bad news your best bet is to stay away from him. He has got to want to help himself and clearly he can't at this moment. You don't want to hurt yourself so therefore go for a guy who is less complicated. I know it sounds mean and that he is a cute guy but that doesn't mean he won't bring you down with him. Good Luck! Happy Holidays! :)
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hey so i'm just wondering what you guys think of my situation and if you thought i was really in love or if i was just too nice to see the bad in someone.
ok so me and my bf are 17. we dated for 15 months then he broke up with me, then got back together. then he broke up with me again, this time its over for good because i'm not going to keep going through this (even though i secretly hope someday when he grows up a bit we'll get back together)...he was amazing to me...like the perfect boyfriend..he would text me cute notes in the morning, give me his coat when i was cold, all the adorable things you do to someone when you really care about them.(we broke up because he said he didn't like doing these things anymore cause he felt like he had to) but he lied, even after i confessed that i trusted only 2 people in my life and one of them was him...i know, @$$hole right? (now its obviously only one person). they weren't really bad lies...like he would say he had to do something when i wanted to hang out instead of just telling me the truth like "oh i'm really tired i had a tough day let's hang out some other time" he would say "i have so much chores my mom is making me do so i can't go out" ..he's a lazy peice of crap but i knew he loved me...its hard to explain but i just knew it...and i kept forgiving him because, sad to say, i love him too....
this is the weird thing...we broke up about a month ago and i'm already getting over him...the first time we broke up it took 3 months and i still was crying over him. is this normal? i swear i loved him but can love that strong just fade? (link)
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I understand.
I think the way he treated you at times made you realize that he wasn't worth it. I think the more times we get hurt the more we realize that if its meant to be its meant to be. He's not worth your time nor you tears you are so young you need to get out there or maybe just take care of you for awhile. You're right he isn't mature enough right now most guys aren't until they're 30 and wondering why they're still single.
This is going on with me right now as well...I feel as though I'm getting over him to quickly but he's the burning the bridge with me. Its his loss not mine and I feel as though I shouldn't waste my precious time on him nor my energy... I'm still young and theres a lot of opportunity still out there. Hang in there things will get better! Happy Holidays! :)
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I'm 18/f. I'm a senior in High School. I'm ususally a fairly stable person, emotionally. But, lately (last month or so) I have been having really dramatic mood swings. One minute I'll be fine, then the next I'm ready to punch someone in the face, and the next I feel like I'm going to cry. My boyfriend and I did have unprotected sex...a few times, actually, but he pulled out. I've also been kinda stressed out b/c of H.S., I mean I'm really tired of H.S kids! The only thing making me think that these mood swings aren't because I'm pregnant is that I'm still getting my period...and I'm not gaining ANY kind of weight.
Anyway, I guess my question is: Do you think I'm pregnant or do you know any other reason for my mood swings?
Thanks to all answers! (link)
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Well it could be that you're just stressed about everything thats going on around you. High school can be difficult and it can cause major stress at times because of school work or even the people. You could possibly be pregnant but you're still having a period and you aren't gaining weight so I would see a doctor about that. Maybe for right now go talk to your primary care doctor about it. Maybe even talk to a guidance counselor on how you've been feeling. There is a possibly it could be maybe seasonal depression or bipolar disorder...but I'm not a doctor so talk to your doctor as soon as possible.
Good Luck! Happy Holidays!
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I am 17/f and i have been dating my b/f for almost a year and well i am still in school and he has already graduated. It is really hard for us to see each other bc of his working and me having school, anyways these couple of weeks it has seemed when i text him that he is distant and we have such a hard time trying to figure out what to talk about. Any suggestions? I want the distance to go away. like yesturday he told me he had to get off the phone and i asked him why and he said it doesn't matter and i told him that wasn't right why won't he tell me and he said never mind about it. Then he texted me a sarcastic remark and said shouldn't i be doing school work, what is that all about? We were completely fine talking about nothing and everything before he had to leave, what was his deal? (link)
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Unfortunately people change because of the situations in their lives. They act different because they are in a different setting or hanging out with different people. Some do it to even fit in and may act differently towards people who have been there for them all along. You should talk to him let him know how you feel and tell him you don't appreciate his sarcastic remarks. Good Luck! Happy Holidays!
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Okay 15/f here might be long but okay. Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 months now and my mom doesnt like him at all. Well the other day me and her was talking and she told me that she didnt want me seeing him now that i really like him i just want him to know that i love him and everything she told me that if i am seeing him when im not allowed to then i am grounded but i really like him and i want to stay with him but i want to break up with him to just for a couple of days and then i want to get back together with him so should i end it or should i just stay with him and just say to my mom we are broken up? (link)
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Okay you're 15 years old...its not your mother's decision for who you should and should not date. Talk to your mom and say you understand that she is just protecting but that you aren't a little girl. She can't have control of who you date thats just silly. If you love him then be with him unless he isn't treating you right which is something you concern yourself with. You can't break up with the kid to satisfy your mom and then get back together with him. What if he doesn't go for it? The only reason you're breaking up with him is because of your mom. Don't let your mom control your personal life. Do what YOU want to do! Good Luck! Happy Holidays!
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I was with this guy for 2 months. I thought he cared at first he was so charming and now well I don't even know. He claims I'm cheating on him what should I do? (link)
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Dump Him!
If he doesn't trust you this early in the relationship then whats the point? Sorry if I'm blunt but TRUST is a HUGE part of a relationship and if he doesn't have that then clearly he is insecure with himself. You want a man not a a little boy and if he's going to claim your cheating on him then dump him because he's just no good! He has issues he needs to resolve and by projecting them on you its not helping either one of you. Good luck and Happy Holidays!
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I'm 15. I'm pregnant. What should I do? (link)
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Well First things first...
You need to tell your parents or guardians that you're pregnant. You also need to tell whoever the father is that you are pregnant.
Next you need to decide whether or not you're keeping the baby...
1.) Abortion
2.) Adoption
3.) Keeping the baby
Abortion and adoption are said to be very hards things to do especially eomtionally I would talk to a counselor about that and at the end of the day you need to decide what you want to do.
Keeping the baby would be a lot of responsibilty though that right there is a job and its full-time until the child can take care of themselves.
Good luck and Happy Holidays!
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My boyfriend drinks...I want him to stop. How can I make him stop? (link)
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I know you want to but you can't. You can't make him stop if he doesn't want it may not be what you want him to dobut he's going to do it. If he's going out drinking instead of hanging out with you then hun you need to leave. If he's choosing the booze over you you need to let him go. He's not worth it and obviously he's got too much baggage that he needs to drink in order to forget it. Get a guy whose going to choose you instead of drinking thats the type of man you want. I'm sorry I was so blunt but I have been in a couple of situations where drinking was infront of me and it drinking should never be more important then a person. Hope I helped and Happy Holidays!
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My cat passed away just the other day. My sister told me to get over it, that its just a cat. Am I weird for feeling the way I do? (link)
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I'm sorry for your loss.
Of course its okay to feel the way you're feeling. Obviously you had a closer relationship with the cat than your sister did. As long as your not building a shrine made out of gum than I don't see the problem. Its natural to feel sad after any loss that cat was a part of your life of course you're going to feel sad. Again I'm so sorry for your loss. Happy Holidays!
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My friend likes me but I don't like my friend like that. I'm 15/ F and I don't look at him that way...it creeps me out that he cares about me like that. Any advice? (link)
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Ouch!
Yeah I've been there done that where my guy friends end up having a crush on me and then later on I know I have to crush them because I'm just not interested. It happens. Well I would tell him how you feel about the situation and about how you don't like him like that. If it really creeps you out then take a break from your friend for awhile...seperate from him for a bit until you feel a bit more comfortable. Just be honest with him and so much better than lying to his face. Good luck! Happy Holidays!
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My Boyfriend hit the other day. This is the second time he's done it. I just moved in with him recently to our new apartment. What should I do? (link)
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I think you need to move out! Move back in with your family right NOW! You NEVER ever let someone hit you ever and if he is going to continue this behavior he needs help. The fact that you are staying with him is enabling to let him behave the way he does. Maybe if you leavehe can go get some help and learn a very big lesson about how he lost someone he really cared about because of his actions. You need to get out call a find or a hotline but do it for yourself and get some help. I know you want to help him but unfortunately you can't this is out of your control. He needs to seek professional help and you need to be safe. Call your parents/ guardians/ or family and please get out of there. Happy Holidays!
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Is there a way I could talk to someone on a phone for advice? (link)
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There is. Its called the Hope Line and the phone number is 1-800-394-HOPE. Where you can talk to a hope coach about a problem you might be having trouble with. They are however NOT trained professionals...if you need a trained professional go to your guidance counselor or maybe start seeing a therapist.
Happy Holidays!
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What do you do for a workout? (link)
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Well for years I've tried to lose weight...but what I find to help me lose weight is what I do in my daily activites. First I walk a lot or even dance alot..excercise and staying actively is a huge part of losing weight. Next I watch my portions of food I try not to eat too much and drink plenty of water. Ever since I gave up soda and junk food I have lost a ton of weight. I feel very active and have lost a significant amount of weight. Finally don't go crazy with losing weight it will happen just workout everyday and eat healthy and you should be fine!
Hope I helped and Happy Holidays! :)
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You're beautiful. (link)
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Thank you! :) Happy Holidays!
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so basicly i wanna go to a taylor swift concert really badly! iv been spending a lota time looking for tickets and for almost a most been trying to organize for some of my friends to go together. and there are 4 people who were going. one of them keeps telling me she really wants to go and is willnig to pay however much it is, but then i fo0und tickets and she says there too expensive. then the other friend i am not so close with, and said she wanted to go. but then shes like "llemmmee see with my dad" and then her dad said yes and shes like " i dont think i want to go becuase i heard shes not so good live" is that just an excuse becuase she doesnt want to go with me? should i keep pushing or just for get about it and assume that they dont want to go?
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It seems that these "friends" of yours aren't dependable. They seem to want to go with the idea because they think its awesome but later back out of it with a very unclear reason. I would say take a friend who actually wants to go with you drop these other two "friends". What if you were sick could you depend on these two to be there for you? Or say you got your heartbroken would they be there then? If they can't be there for you now whose to say they'll be there for you when you need them the most. Hope I helped and Happy Holidays!
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I'm trying to decide if I should read 'Out of Africa' or 'Lord of the Flies' for a school assignment. I was wondering which one would be a better pick for a school assignment (with typical things such as theme, plot, literary elements, character, setting, etc.) and which was a more interesting read. I started 'Out of Africa', and it seems pretty good so far, although there have been a few boring moments, but most books have a few those. I was just wondering, overall, which is more interesting.
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I read "Lord of the Flies" in my Freshmen year of high school. I found it to be an interesting book but I found it to have a lot of themes in the book as well. I was able to finish writing assignments and even a lot of pages for papers that were assigned. At times the book has its boring moments and times where the book seems to be yet another sequel to "The Hatchet" (which in my opinion was a horrible book).
Hope I helped! Happy Holidays!
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18/female. a little background info you should probably know: me and joe have known each other for about 4 years now and i've always had the biggest crush on him but haven't straight out told him, and he's felt me up before but nothing serious. so last night we were talking and this was the last part of our convo:
me: thanks ... you hurt my feelings (kidding around)
joe: sorry. i can pay ya back
me: yes you will ... what are you gonna give me??
joe: what do you want
me: hmmm whatever you want
joe: lol like?
me: oh please you know what i like
joe: sex
me: haha well...yea but i dont think i like it as much as you do
joe: why
me: well i guess i really dont know that do i. but since you just think im a TEASE guess you'll never find out will ya;)
and he never texted back:( the last thing i said i was trying to be flirty. me and joe are both attractive to each other and obviously i'd have sex with him in a second, he's absolutely adorable, hes the only guy i trust, we're actually really close friends but he just didn't seem as into it as he usually is. sometimes when we're talking about things like sexual he will be like wanna have sex? haha and sooo like i thought he would be all into it. maybe he didn't know what to say back? maybe he fell asleep because it was like 2:30 in the morning? but he never texted back today. did the last thing i say make it sound like i didn't want him?? i'm freaking out...
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I agree with the other advice- giver: Chill Out! :)
It'll blow over don't worry you like him and thats fine it tends to make people think about what they have done. Did I say something? What should I do? Relax if he's your friend then you should have no problem just sitting down and talking with him. The other thing is don't play as the "tease" I've heard from some guys I knwo that its not really a turn on or anything. Just play it cool hang out a little and see where it goes. Good Luck! Happy Holidays!
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I was on Facebook and I saw different people posting to a site dedicated to seeking revenge on a teenage girl because she broke up with her boyfriend.
Her ex-boyfriend feels that it is his duty to get revenge on her and post all of her private pictures. The more referrals a person offers, the more pictures that the people can see (even naked pictures).
Can I report this online somewhere anonymously... ? I don't want to call the police. I just feel really bad for this girl... (link)
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There should be a link on Facebook that says "Report this Picture" or "Report this Album". Perhaps if there is a way to report the ex boyfriend try that as well. I would try to get in contact with the girl if she is not aware of what is going on. And maybe if its too much you might have to call the police that can be categorized as cyber-bullying.
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