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What are your views on change?

Do you think change is neccessary?

If it's needed..


It's like the Magna Carta. It was written because King John was abusing his powers with his military campaigns and heavy taxes. The people weren't happy so change would be made.

So an army of barons forced him to sign it. He had to obey the law on which he signed- which limited the king's power.

So everyone was happy.

It is neccessary.

Like in the Magna Carta.. there's a council of people with high rank to meet at a certain time. They havelike a 40 days notice to get there and keep the laws going.

So if they didn't get the whole "40 days notice" .. King John could have tried to get more power and would have decided things with himself. Made people's lifes hard like before with taxes.

Some change is good and sometimes it's bad.
It just depends on how you use it/look at it.

For criminals back then,
it would have been bad because they could not just imprison/hurt someone they disliked.

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someone said somethin about putting toothpaste on their pimple and it clears the pimple up is that true

Yes it can work. It dries out acne.

But sometimes.. it just dries it up too much and gives you a flaky pimple/ skin.


It's best to use moisturizer right after using it.

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I am lately itchy down there and it is really annoying. why am i itchy and what is wrong with me? Thanks in advance.
*Christie*

yeah it could be a yeast infection. You can go to the store and get a cream for it to soothe the discomfort it.


symptons:
itching/burning
clumpy white stuff
smells bad


the causes?
tight/dirty clothing can trap the bacteria.

bad use of soap [the vagina already cleans itself /discharge/ so no soap is needed.]

hormones.

there's other causes
but these seem to be the most common.



It could be because of razor burn [if you shave]
or any lotions/body wash that you use.

If it's not, then go see a doctor and find out what's wrong.

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ok, first of all, why the heck would anyone want to shave "downstairs"?!? are you suppost to? do guy's like it that way or something?

i'm just unsure, you see a lot of questions on here about shaving down there! any advice would be apreaciated,

p.s. i'm 15/f

thanks

Yeah. Apparently guys like it that way.

You don't have to. It's just some people feel more clean when they shave there. It's like being all natural and some people don't like being uber hairy.

Some people feel better with it trimmed or just shaving the bikini line.

...usually, girls just shave because of what guys think. Even though half of the guys don't mind hair [when it's trimmed]

And when they get fingered.. the thought of bunches of hair there will be awkward.

I don't know. I never really like body hair to begin with.

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Okay...so this weekend my boyfriend nd his friends came over. My boyriend and his two friends had spent the night but his two frieds were terribly bored...so they made a deal that my boyfriend had to stay at carrie's house this weekend...i know this sounds conusing but my boyfriend in the past has been know as a "john tucker" ((aka a player)) and im scared hes going to cheat on me...this weekend at her house..what do I do?

Why are they making him go over to some other chick's house? Why is he .. actually doing it?

Well, what is the whole deal? What does he get out of it? Is it just to prove he's not "john tucker" ?

Because really, that's lame. Nobody's going to be there except for this Carrie girl. Who can possibly lie. I don't know. This is confusing.

Just talk to him about it. Tell him you really don't want him to go over at some chick's house.

Are you close with Carrie? You could have a talk with her or something.

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my hair is about 3 or 4 inches past my shoulder, and i've let my layers grow out, and i have side bangs that when wet and combed straight stop at about my lips. And I'm getting my hair cut the 23rd and I want something new and fun cause I've had this hair style for ever. I just want two things though it to still be pretty long, and be able to pull all of it up and out of my face for soccer.

So if you could show me some pictures of some cute hairstyles that'd be GREAT!

http://community.livejournal.com/madradhair/profile

That online community could be a better help

If not,
photobucket albums:

http://s82.photobucket.com/albums/j274/blondeh4ir/platinum/longer%20then%20shoulders/

http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v651/hairfiles5/BROWN/LONGER%20than%20shoulder/

http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v651/hairfiles5/BURGUNDY%20and%20NATURAL%20RED/

http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v515/hairfiles4/BLACK%20and%20BLONDE/LONGER%20than%20shoulder/


http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v509/hairfiles3/BLACK/LONGER%20than%20shoulder/


If you need anymore pictures.. then ask :]

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im having my 15th birthday party this saturday and well its my first time having boys over for a b-day party and what are some things i can do to keep the party interesting?

Umm.
Watch some movies.

Play some games [not the one that swettnose mentioned]
unless you're playing it for a kiss haha.

Play video games? Do you have DDR?

Play some music. Dance?

You could all try making a yummy cake or cupcakes. It could be fun.

A water balloon fight. Attack the boys haha!

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some guys in class today were saying like you want dom or something? i'm pretty sure it was something sexually because they started talking about it after a guy said hand job.

but i have no clue what dom or domb? is if i'm spelling it correctly or not either.

Dom = dominant

So he's asking /you want a dominant girl?/
kinda thing.

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hello fello advicers! what font is the cross out font that i can use on myspace? could someone give me the code? thanks :]

I've never heard of a cross out font.

o.o
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when you no your in love with someone but you know behind you back he is flriting with other girls but when yyou ask he if he's doing it he say he loves me

Did he say NO?

Because if his response was just.. i love you or something

Then don't trust him. People throw around those words a lot and if you know he's flirting with other chicks.. Then move on.

You don't need someone who lies to you!

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Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years...we're 16. We used to be so great and happy, until this past year. He seems to be changing faster than I am. I haven't noticed until him and some of my friends pointed out that I'm way too clingy, I call him too much and want to hang out too much with him. I can't control it, I've tried to but it ends up being the same. He's frustraited with me lately and it's hard to leave him alone. I want it to work I'm sick of this.

You really need to try to control it.

I had that problem. I didn't realize it. When I did.. I couldn't really stop it because he was my ... only good friend? It lead to a break up.

Just do something else and limit your calls to 1-2 times a day.

HANG OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS.

Rent some movies and kill some time that way. You could work harder on homework to distract you?
Go to the mall or a park?

Give your friends more attention but don't ignore your boyfriend.

Start a new hobby :]

What .. caused you to be "clingy" ?
Everything was great until.. what?

What happened? Something must have happened to make you get closer to him.

He just needs some space.

Smile, say hi and give him a hug/kiss or something and tell him you're going to hang out with your friends.

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what does circle circle dot dot mean?

It was a game...with cooties.

You make a circle & another circle and you poke [as in a dot]

"You've got your cootie shot"

It's also a song.

Urban Dictionary pretty much covers it all :]

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i have heard this song i like once before it goes someting like this i only know like 1 line

fuck me in the backseat..push her maybe push her not

whats the song? its kinda upbeat ad rock its not pop or rap! its like a mix between rock and dance and electronic

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=142285581

It's called Fer sure.

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okay so your making out with a guy and what not.. how do you let him know you want him to go under your shirt.. without actually saying it? cuz i mean come on that'd sound kind of stupid. the more answers the better!

thanks much.

You could always grab his hand and put it up under your shirt.

Just let him wander.

That's pretty much the only way unless you lift up your shirt..

I don't know.. make him feel comfortable so he would do that? he seems pretty nice if he didn't just to reach up without permission.

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ok, the other day i was speaking to my cousins mate online (him and my cousin are 13 im 14) and my cousin's mate (alex) he gave me some boys email address and said that he was in his class at school so i added him and he came online and said who is this blah blah blah...
anyway we got to talking and i said who i was nd that nd he said i think i know you send me a pic of you so we swapped pics etc. and i thought he was cute, but then i thought and i remembered he's like a year younger than me but i keep lookin at his pic and i just keep thinking "he is sooo cute" and it was right after he had seen my picture he was acting really nice.
But, he's a year younger than me, i dont really "know" him and im never guna meet him (he lives like half an hour away) but i think he's like really nice but all we'll ever do is talk on msn!!!
so, do i just keep on talking to him blah blah blah...or should i not talk 2 him as much bcoz i think that he more i talk 2 him, the more i might like him :S...i really dont know!!!

thanks for ANY answers
xxxx

Well.. do you want to like him?

You can talk to him all you want but feelings could easily develop that way.

And if you stop talking to him... you might lose a really good friend.

By the way it's going on.. it seems like you might have a crush and if that's what you want.. then go for it?

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does anyone know a website that teaches you show to do things. like it shows how to do ur makeup and hair and cooking and lots more... thanx

http://www.videojug.com/

Under Beauty and Food.

There's a lot of other stuff too. It's funny :]

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I am a 16-year old female, 118llbs, 5'3. I want to know how old I will be before I stop growing. I've had my period for about 3 years now. I've only grown an inch in those years and my breast seem to be getting smaller. Please leave me with some knowlegedable(SP) answers

I'm not sure but it's different for everyone. Sometimes it's 18 or 20.

You're not getting smaller unless you are losing weight.

There might be a chance to grow a bit more but try to be happy with what you have.

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ok so i have a lot of zits lately
and i barely EVER got them!!!
and i got this really ad one on my nose
and the type where its under the skin and its hurts REALLY bad
i dont wanna get pro active cause i dont want to have to spend that kind of money when it only works on some people
and i have this clean and clear fighting pimples all day stuff- that doesnt work
and i have this neutroguena rapid clear 8 hour thing and it doesnt work either
i dont know what to use!!!
but i want it to go away
anyone have good stuff that i can use??
that like you can buy at walgreens or jewel
something like that!!
not that you have to order and all the trouble =]

Clearasil Ultra
Tinted Acne Treatment Cream

[10% Benzoyl Peroxide]


The one under the skin seems to be a cyst so use that treatment. You could see a difference in a day. Sometimes not. Usually it takes 3-4 days and it's gone.

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Whats the treatment bottle look like? What clearasil ultra products do you use?


THANKS

http://www.kostbutikken.dk/images/Clearasil%20Ultra%20Acne%20Treatment%20Cream,%20Vanishing.jpg

I only use that.

I'm going to try the cleansing pads soon.
I could let you know how that goes?

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I'm thinking of getting my belly button pierced and my ear pierced in the middle like in this pic:

http://www.thepiercingshop.co.uk/images/ear.jpg

So i'm just wondering how painful will it be?

Getting your tragus pierced?

I've had people tell me it hurts like hell because of thicker cartilage.

But if you really want it, go for it!

A little stud would look cute.

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