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I'm 18 and about to enter my sophomore year of college. Feel free to ask me questions about anything- I'll try to help in the best way possible! :)

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Ok guys, if you were going to use a girl for sex what would you do exactly?
Because I want to know if I was used, Id just like to know opinions
Thanks !

16/f

Maybe if he acted like he liked you a lot, and then he had sex with you. And right after he'd stop talking to you, ignoring you, stop calling you, passing you in the halls without looking at you. He might get a new girlfriend afterwards and try to avoid you. Those might be some things he might do. I'm sorry if he did use you, kick his assss =] haha, jk. But forreal, have a little talk with him.

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What's a good energy fixer-upper besides coffee and things like that??

[[ thanks ]]

Red bull, Monster, and other energy drinks help. (There's a TON of different kinds) My dad also had these kind of coffee-energy pill things when we went on vacation and he had to drive. =]

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13/f. I'm not really scared of the dark or anything, but here latley i've been getting really scared. see, since it's been christmas break i've been staying up until around 3:00a.m. because i don't have school the next day (yeah, you all probably new that, but oh well, hehe! jk). so, when i'm about to go to bed, i put my dog up, and turn off all of the lights. but i practacly (sp?) run to my bed because i'm really scared. and before i go to bed and i'm on the computer and stuff, every little sound i hear i get soooo scared. for example, i was in the tonight brushing my teeth and i swear i heard loud foot steps going by the door. i don't think it was my parents because they never get up in the middle of the night, but it could have been one of them. but when i heard "footsteps" i got sooooooooooooo freaking scared. should i like stop watching scary movies? or go to bed eariler when my parents do so i don't have to stay up by myself? i don't know what to do, but i'm getting really tired of getting scared all of the time. i really need some help! thanks ppl!

Don't worry, this happens to me too =] It happened to me the other night because I stay up until like, 3:30. I'll stay in my family room and watch tv and randomly hear sounds. I just go to my room really quick and try to fall asleep. If you have a tv in your room then watch tv or listen to the radio or if you have an ipod. You really don't realize how tired you are unitl you lay down. I would fall asleep at 12 but I get distracted b/c i stay on the computer so late. haha, but yea try not to worry about the sounds because it's probably just your imagination & you're not the only one that goes through this. =]

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my house is usually pretty cool, which isnt good for my parakeet. he shivers a lot whenever hes out of his cage. i keep the top of his cage covered with a towel to keep him warm, but what else can i do to keep him warm?

thanks

I don't know much about birds, but maybe a heat lamp? Haha =]Hope I helped.

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At what age should you first go to a gynecologist or what age did you first go? and for those of you who only live with a dad how do you tell him you need to go there?

You should go once you're 18 and if you've never gone before, or before if you're sexually active or if you have some kind of problem in that area. If you need to tell your dad, you can just say that you need to go to the gyno. He probably won't even care, and he probably won't want to know details either, haha.

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how do i make a picture my caption on myspace??

1) go to www.tinypic.com

2) upload the picture you want

3) copy the code that says.. URL Link: for email and instant messenger

4) go to your caption on your myspace and use this code in it;

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My little sister has bubble gum in her hair! How do I get it out? Help...soap and water doesn't work...

You could try peanut butter or put ice on it until it gets hard.

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i am 5'5 and a half and i weigh 132 lbs. is this overweight, what is normal/average weight for 14 yr olds of this age?

5'5"
small frame- 117-130
medium frame- 127-141
large frame- 137-155

5'6"
small frame- 120-133
medium frame- 130-144
large frame- 140-159

those measurements are based on women ages 25-59, so i'm not sure if that's what you should be at age 14, but even then it should be around the same weight.



I typed in your measurements on a BMI calculator, and it says that you're average weight.
http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/

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21:33] me: hiiiiiii
[21:33] me: hahaha
[21:34] me: yeyeyye
[21:34] friend: hii
[21:34] me: oops wrong person
[21:34] me: ahahaha
[21:34] me: ok bye
[21:34] me: XD
[21:35] friend: okayy
[21:35] friend: how meann
[21:35] me: how is it mean
[21:36] me: it was wrong person
[21:36] friend: haha nvm
[21:36] friend: byeeeeeeee
[21:36] me: ok bye
[21:36] friend: where do you have to go
[21:36] friend: ?
[21:36] me: no where
[21:36] friend: us aid
[21:36] friend: youu said ok by
[21:36] me: cause u said bye
[21:36] me: i wasnt supposed to im you
[21:36] me: haha
[21:36] me: so yeah ok byebye
[21:37] friend: haha ok whatever bye


am i mean for this? haha just asking

Yeeea it is kinda mean. You should have just kept the convo going or atleast said you were just kidding.

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is it odd to be turned on by girls wetting themselfs>?

Personally, I think it's odd. But overall, no it's not odd at all. People have different weird fetishes. Some people love feet and other people love hairy backs, etc.etc.. Yeah it's weird but it's true. haha

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should i kill myself everybodys beeen saying im ugly im okay looking but some people think im pretty and i have alot of friends but i hate it read this from bottem to top see 5 people said that



your mom gave me drugs when she was pregnet. yes you are WAY UGLY dont thinkg our not

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ♥Amber
Date: Dec 27 2006 10:00 PM


ya right you need to quit lying okay nand im not ugly and you r and my mom dident do drugs she is perfect okay and look at youu asshole god

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Trent
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:57 PM


ok i eat a shit load and its not my fault my parents aren't fat. thats why you are and thats why your so ugly with a fat nose because your mom did drungs when she was pregnet with your dumbass. i like the fact you think im ugly because i wouldn't want a mistake face like yours

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ♥Amber
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:54 PM


thank you atleast im not anerexic and im not skinny and a fucking ugly asshole

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Trent
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:53 PM


hahaha you make me laugh you are really stupid and need to get an education then talk to me. read the shit you have said to me it makes no sense. your ugly and dumb..

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ♥Amber
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:51 PM


hellllllllllllllll no mostly everybody does thin ku r ugly

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Trent
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:51 PM


shit i know im nt ugly. thats why your stil trying to talk to me because im hot.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ♥Amber
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:49 PM


you r a ugly skinny freack that loves yourself to much u r a ugly freacking jerk

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Trent
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:48 PM


ok i can put my five inch think penis in your damn nose. That makes you ugly and i hope your friends think im ugly i wouldn't want the rep. of ugly people liking me

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ♥Amber
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:46 PM


omg you know what now there is 2 more peopel that said that you r not hott okay and im not ugly okay and you need to quit being a asshole

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Trent
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:44 PM


because your ugly trying to someone of better class like myself

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ♥Amber
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:36 PM



why?
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Trent
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:35 PM


nothing. your weird...

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ♥Amber
Date: Dec 27 2006 9:32 PM


hey whats up






see what im talking about

First off, this "Trent" is telling you to get an education before you talk to him, when he can't even spell pregnant right. Ignore him. Don't listen to anything he says. I bet you you're gorgeous, and he's just saying all this shit because he's an asshole. You should've just ignored him to begin with because if you kept saying stuff back he's getting amusement out of it because he know's he's pissing you off. Just tell him to fuck off or to shut the hell up next time, and he'll probably leave you alone haha. Just let it go and don't kill yourself over some stuff an ignorant asshole said to you. He's probably hideous. =] HOPE I HELPED BEAUTIFUL!

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What is your opinion on blonde hair?Do you think it is ugly?

I don't think it's ugly. It really depends on what the person looks like, if they look better with blonde hair than any other color. There's some people who have blonde hair and it looks rediculous because it's obvious that they have practically black hair naturally, haha. But then again there's some people where blonde hair look's really pretty on them. And it also depends on what shade. Some people like to have dirty blonde hair, strawberry blonde, or some people like the platinum blonde hair...etc. To sum it all up, blonde hair could be really pretty or hideous, but it really depends on what the person looks like. Hope I helped!

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how do u add a picture as a caption on myspace ?

1) Go to www.tinypic.com

2) Upload the picture you want.

3) Use the code that says
URL Link: for email and instant messenger

4)

THERE YOU GO!
=]

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this summer, i smoked alot of weed. i know, bad. but i recently stoped a month ago. i have this friend, well no. hes not my friend at all he used to be, his name is dan. dan is straight edge. we never stop fighting, cause hes so immature. when he walks by me hes like ew, bitch, or just gives me dirty looks. but recently in our classes we have together he tells the hole class im a stoner. he even says it infront of my teachers. but now hes gone too far. he told almost my hole grade. i tryed ingoring it for the first week. but now i just don't know what to do. when i walk by people i hear them saying she smokes pot. its embarasing. i dont want this label. what can i do to stop this?

Go right up to him and tell him to get over himself. Just tell him that he's immature and to deal with it. What you do is none of his business and if he doesn't like you anymore then to move on with his life because you really don't care about his little immature comments he has to say about you. It's none of his business and he should have kept his mouth shut. haha Hope I helped.

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I really like this guy ((im 13/f/7th grade)) I dated him at the beginging of the school year but I broke up with him after he asked out another girl ((while we were STILL dating!))
I was so mad!! >=O
he totally stopped talking to me and everything. so one day after class i plled him aside and told him it as over ((I wasnt rude i was just like well "I cant do this, i mean come one mann that was disrespectful, i cant pretend to smile anmore about this")) And it was done.
Well then a few days later at our school dance a slow song came on,
well i didnt have a boyfriend so i went to sit with my best friend LISALISIOUS!! ((inside Joke))
and Dakota (( thats the guys name )) told my other bff ((megan)) that the next slow song he was going to dance with me
=D I was soo happy cause i still liked him and we looked soo cute together!
But there wasnt another slow song and the more the night went on the closer my "bff" ((megan)) got to him. She was totally trying to steal him from me!
>=O I was so pissed at her!
Then he totally forgot about me! he started likeing her and now he is like obseced!
I mean i tryed telling him i felt i left comments on his page, blog comments, notes, messages, everything!
So like 2 nights ago i went off on him cause he was like "so who should I go out with I really like MEGAN! and she likes me but she wont go out with me"
i was like dakota I like you! wat dot you want me to do! write it in the stars!
and he was like well youre attractive but i cant replace the way i feel about Megan!
I WANT HIM TO WANT ME!! I WANT HIM BACK!!
WHAT DO I DO!
HELP!
thanks in advanced
Katie!

He's not worth your time if he's ditched you twice. You should get over him and find someone new. Trust me, there will be PLENTY more boys and he's definately not worth it. Just try to forget about him and try to find someone new. I'm in 10th grade now, and when I thought my heart was broken in 7th grade I realized that it wasn't worth worrying over, and I like new people that are completely different from who I liked back then. It'll be fine, just forget about him! =]

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help im 10 and my bf wants to have sex with me!

i dont want to but he does he says we're ready

weve been going out for a year and he says its times

hes 11

HELP

You shouldn't be on here. And plus, that's just wrong. I know that it's your own decision to decide when you're ready to have sex, but 10 is way too young. I didn't even have my first kiss until I was like, 12. Dump him, or just say no. He probably doesn't even know what the hell he's doing. It's gross because my brothers like 10 and ugh I just can't picture it. haha sorry

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well i've jsut recently found out that im pregant, i took a test after i missed my last period. but me my boyfriend have had sex since then and really still want to have sex but will it harm the baby? we have a very active sex life and i dont know what to do. how can we keep our attraction to each other without sex?

it's fine to have sex when you're pregnant. if you're worried about it, i know that if you google it it will give you specific posititions that you could use when you're pregnant. i'd look it up but it'd be kind of weird considering my dad's 2 feet away from me. hope i helped. =]

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f/16.. ok i have stretch marks on my upper arms and on my sides.. why? i mean i used to lift weights and then i stopped.. ok that doesn't make sense i guess im just wondering why i have them and how to get rid of them. ahh!

you could have gotten stretch marks because of going through puberty, or lifting weights, or even because you stopped. if you used to lift weights, your muscle mass could have increased fast and you could have gotten stretch marks because of that. a lot of body builders have stretch marks. and if you stopped, you might have gained weight and that could have been the reason. and as for puberty, it could have done the trick. i have stretch marks, and so do a lot of other people. it's totally natural and you're not the only one, trust me! they suck, but after awhile they probably will start to fade a little & they're not totally that horrible. there's a lot of things that could be a lot worseeee. but as for getting rid of them, you can't really get rid of them, but you can use creams such as cocoa butter to make them fade a little bit. hope i helped. =]

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whats athletic tape for? and pre-wraps? and whats it for? i saw it for something with lacrosse.

13/f

pre-wrap goes under the athletic tape, so that it doesn't stick to your skin. as for the athletic tape, people use it if something's bothering them, i'm not reallyy sure. but once my wrist hurt, so the athletic director taped it before my lax game. and a lot of girls use pre-wrap as a headband. it keeps their bangs out of their face and helps to keep their hair up. it also helps beucase a lot of those thin-stretchy headband things that people wear have metal on them and during some sports like soccer you aren't allowed to wear metal onto a field. k hope i helped! =]

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why do guys think lesbian action is so hot? why do they get turned on when girls touch each other and stuff? yet im a girl and i think its gross when guys touch each other/makeout.. i dont get it

it's basically just an opinion.. i was just talking to my bf about this today. he said it's because guys don't really like watching another guy like, making out with a girl, because i guess it's weird. but two girls together, which he likes girls, and not guys, i guess turns most guys on. hahah. as for girls, i have no idea why two guys like going at it doesn't turn a majority of us on, because i know it doesn't turn me on. haha.

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