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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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well I have been on discharge for like what, since September and I still have not started my period. My mom started in 9th and my two older sisters started when they were in 7th grade. I am going into eighth and still have not. Do you think maybe I am not healthy down there or like something is wrong with me? Please help!!!!!

noo.. your body just isn't machore enough for you to develop your period.. if your mom started in 9th maybe you are going to too.. i don't think you have anything to worry about at all.. if you don't get it by 16 i advise you to consult a doctor.. but since you are only in 8th it is normal.. a lot of my friends in eighth didn't get theres yet either.. so dont' worry.. hope i helped.. if i can help with anythign else just let me no

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I'm thinking about getting side swept bangs. All of you that have them, are there disadvantages? Does it get in your face, and will it take quite a long time to grow out? I also do track, so will it annoy me when I'm running? THanks

i have them.. theres not many disadvantages.. you will get used to them.. and then they will learn to stay where you put them.. you know? they get in your way only for like 2 weeks until they learn where to go.. they don't really take long to grow out.. they will prob take about 2-6 months planning on how quickly your hair grows.. most likely they will be okay in track because you could like clip them back if they get in your way etc. hope i helped! if you need antying else let me no

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where do u get animated backgrounds at?

www.lalaalyssa.com is a really good site.. hope i helped!

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how can you put diffrent pointers your advice coulum and music?
i rate high!

there's websites like - http://www.starlightmks.com/main.html
http://www.diamondrains.com/music.php

^^ music
http://ticklishdesigns.com/
^ cursor (pointers)

hope i helped!

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Hello!
I would like to know where to get music to put like in my picturetrail or in my MySace coloumn or stuff like that...I would like to have real music with lyrics and everything, I was just wondering if anybody knew where I could get that at. Thankyou!

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=14636

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me and my bf were messing around..i gave him a handjob and when he was ready to come he turned to his side and cummed in the grass...about 5-10 minutes later he fingered me..i know the chances are slim...but have any of you heard of a story where a girl got pregnent from a guy jacking off, getting some on his hands, and fingering the girl?
how long can the sperm live for...and its not like he jizzed all over his hands (i didnt see if he did but he probably didnt ..correct?) so i shouldnt be worrying right?
thanks to all who help!!!

yeahh hunny don't worry about it .. the possiblity is problemby slim - none.. so i wouldn't even have that in his mind.. i doubt that he did.. and it's hardly possible.. but never say never... just keep your eye on your period .. but i seriously doubt it :-) hope i helped and if you need anythign else just let me no

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I still dont understand eating a girl out. How do you "eat a girls' vagina"? Can someone please tell me how a guy goes about doing it and what he actually does? Like how does he start to do it nd what does the girl do?

sry it jus doesnt make sense.

lol your absolutly right! it doesn't make sense!! i find it actually pretty weird but what they do is like lick your virgina what you can do is there is something called a 69 and while they are eating you out .. you can give him a blow job.. yeahh i know kinda disturbing.. i hope that's what you wanted to know.. and if you need anyting else just let me know :-)

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okay i always seem to be the friend never THE girl. i mean its always this way. i'm really funny and i make jokes alot, but i cant seem to stop. i am also really sarcastic some of the time. i'm the girl who is playing football with the guys at parties or shooting hoops or playing some video game with them or seeing who can chug their drink the fastest..i just have more fun hanging out with guys and i can talk to them more than i can girls because there isnt as much *drama* with them. i really want to be THE GIRL for this kid named matt. hes a great soccer player, amazing football player, smart, funny, hott, helpful. just all around what i want, and i want to know how i can change some of the ways i am so he'll like me, or atleast notice i am a girl and i've got the potentional to be a girlfriend. hes never made out with anyone and neither have i but i know i want to be the first person he ever makes out with! can anyone and everyone PLEASE help me?! thanks so much. 5's help!

i think he's gonna like you just the way you are.. just act like you would around anyother guy.. just try to tone down on like burping or farting (if you do that in front of guys) because some guys think it's unattractive .. i agree with you.. girls are very dramaful... and it's okay if you hang out with the guys... because then you know like what they want.. so you could put that into play when your hanging out with matt you know? but of course i think you will have to make the first move to show him that your intrested in talking with him.. or getting to know him.. maybe ask him to go to the park and shoot some hoops or soemthign you know? well if you need ANYTHING just let me no :-) hope i helped

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I really enjoy swimming so I don't want to have to not go just because I'm on my period. I know that pads don't work, but I usually use tampons when I'm swimming and I find them uncomfortable. Has anyone got any other suggestions? Do i even need to wear anything because I heard somewhere that you don't bleed when you're in water? Thanx

yes.. you deffidently need to wear something.. even if it's on your last day.. i didn't use anyting on my last day and i got blood in my swim suit (yuck)... even when your in the water it doesn't take your blood.. yeahh pad's don't work because the water soaks up in the pad and it feels like a diaper (not that it doesn't in the first place) tampons are the only thing that will work in this situation.. i am wondering if you used juniors? tampax juniors makes it not feel uncomfortable.. i dont' know what you use.. but if you don't use them i think you should try them out and see how they work.. hope i helped :-)

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OK, so today I start a volunteer job at a senior center. I'm excited, becus i get to play games with them and stuff like that. But I'm also nervous. What if they start talking to me, but I can't understand what they are saying? Some of them tend to make fun of newer people, so what if I'm bad at a game, and they make fun of me? I know they dont really mean it, but what do i say? 3 of my grandparents have died, and my gramma is still in her 60's. please help me, i'll rate 5's for anything, even if its just encouragement!

okay.. don't worry abot it hunny! seniors are harmless!! if they make fun of you just play it off like you don't care... because if you show that it hurts they might just keep doing it.. so just laugh it off like you could care less.. or be like "omg i know!" and then start laughing or soemthing be like "well maybe you could teach me some tricks or soemthing" you might be supprized how well they are understanding etc. hope i helped and if you need to talk to me about ANYTHING just let me no :-)

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the guy i like on myspace posted this :

If you're a girl, title this "boyfriend application" and if you're a guy title it "girlfriend application". Repost this and see who's eligibe to be your special someone. Have fun!
Send it back if you think you could get the job... :)

BASICS:
Name:
Age:
Location:
Height:
Hair (color):
Eyes:
Piercings/tattoos:

OTHER:
1. Where would we go on dates?
2. Who are three (or more) of your favorite bands/artists?
3. Do you drink/smoke??
4. Do you like the rain?
5. If so...would you play in it with me?
6. Do you like movies?
7. If so would you stay up and watch them with me all night?
8. Could we cuddle and just fall asleep together?
9. Would you kiss my forhead
10. Do you play an instrument?
11. If so...what?
12. Would you call me right after we saw eachother to make sure i made it home alright?
13. How would you rate your hugs from 1-10?
14. Favorite body part on a girl?
15. What would you say is the best thing about yourself?
16. Do you have any reps (ie: heartbreaker, slut)?
17. Would you give me kisses just because?


What Would You do if...
I cried:
I said I liked you:
I kissed you:
I was hospitalized:
I ran away from home:
We got in a fight:
I got dumped:
I pissed you off:

What Do You Think Of My...
Personality:
Eyes:
Face:
Hair:
Clothes:
Voice:
Humor:
Choice of music:
Manners:
Friends:
Decisions:



Would You...
Be my friend:
Tell me the truth no matter what:
Buy me a birthday gift:
Lie to make me feel better:
Spread rumors about me:
Go out at 4am to get me chocolate:
Keep a secret if I told you one:
Loan me some cash:
Hold my hand:
Keep in touch:
Make me a snack:
Try and solve my problems:
Love me:
Makeout with me:
Hold me in times of need:
Ditch me:
Use me:
ask me out:
Date me:
kiss with me whenever you had the chance:
Hold me and make my problems go away:

im not sure if i should answer it or not.. he just got out of a relationship and i dont kno if i should answer it or see if he answers mine. if it helps im 14/F

if you like him do it.. i mean the awkardness will go away eventually you know? you just got to be yourself around him... i mean yeah if you like him do it.. it's the only way you can let him know your intrested unless if you tell him yourself! hope i helped and if you need anyting else let me no

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so lets destroy eachother beacuse were too cool
for l0VE liNES && soft kisses over cheap wine
this is romance..

what song is that from.. i rate 5's!

i looked and all i could find was these lyrics on this website that is the same as the ones you posted... but im not sure if it's the same.. here is the website http://66.102.7.104/search?q=cache:C9DqlAQa5h8J:www.blurty.com/users/emolyrics/day/2005/04/24+so+lets+destroy+each+other+because+were+too+cool+for+loVE+liNES+and+soft+kisses+over+cheap+wine+this+is+romance+lyrics&hl=en

I THINK
it's by an emo band called: Something Corporate
and the song is called: Cavanaugh Park

hope that's what you wanted :-)

and if it's not that i think it's just a quote .. here's the rest if you wanna check it out

let’s destroy eachother.
we're too cool for love lines.
soft kisses over cheap wine. -
smoke me baby
like your last cigarette.
whisper to me_& say
you'll never forget.
could you break my heart a little bit more?
shove my body up against yours
_& kiss me like you mean it.

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i was wondering while kissing someone should you have your eyes open or closed? or does it matter?

it doesn't really matter.. i mean with your eyes closed it's kinda more passinate.. but it really doesn't matter.. hope i helped!! if you need anyting else just let me know

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ok how come guys like never call girls?like i dont get it ..its not that hard ..but they allways say they will and never do it..dont say its becuase they dont like you b/c ik cases where guys are liek in love with girls but still dont call..please no stupid answers! 5 to anyone who answers unless its a smart or stupid answer

okay well sometimes it's because they like to play hard to get.. they want you to chase them and call them... but what i do is i play with them .. you gotta be like call me tonight.. of course us girls have to do it all! and make all the moves so first you should call him and then be like are you going to be around tonight and then if he says yes be like "call me" sometimes they are shy too! and don't have antying that they could talk about so they don't call.. if you need anyting further just let me know .. hope i helped!

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okay so heres the deal .. im 13/f nd ive never made out. the farthest ive done was grind while dancing (i dance really dirty and sexual), kiss, and ive been felt up once but we werent doing anything while he did it. And i dont even no how 2 make out. and i realllly need to now cuz im goin into a new school and i dont want to be known as a prude. thanks muchhos.. xox

ps no stupid answers or makeing fun of me

dont' worry about it hunny i got you all covered ;-) what you do is like tongue wrestle like hold there tongue down and then they will try and get it around yours and stuff.. then if you want to be playful you could like take your tongue and tickle the top of his mouth and such.. i will give you a website to look on if you want it to go into it further like the does and don'ts http://www.howtokiss.info/kissing_faqs.htm and explore around that website it's really cute and explains it very well! hope i helped and if you need anything (ANYTHING) just let me know

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Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either..

in that case you might be bisexual.. it means you like both guys and girls.. you are not a lesbian because you like guys too.. if it felt right then you are prob. bi.. don't force youself to just like guys because it isn't going to help so ask yourself... am i attracted to girls? and if your answer is yes then you are.. but if it's not then you are straight.. but either way your not a lesbian.. hope i helped and if you need anything further let me know

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how come like in the middle of a kiss guys like to bite your lip a lil?..sorry if its a weird question. but please answer.thanks

it's supposed to be something like cute and playful.. only some guys do it.. it's just like a style to try and have fun with you and that lol hope i helped and if you need anything further or anything else just let me know!

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ok well this is the same person as the one when i wrote about my friend telling me my boyfriend doesnt like me anymore cuz he otl dher and its tru and i dont kno if i should dump him or wait for him and that might take a while cause my friend wasnt suppose ot say anything and id ont wanna get her introuble. please help and dont tell me to just talk to him cause hes nto the kinda person i can. hes a jerk and i should of never went out with him in the first place

Dump him.. don't even say anyting about your friend when you dump him.. just be like hey.. um.. i think we should see other people because im not really feeling the connection anymore or something like that... don't wait for him.. because you could be meeting another boy that you like and then what do you do? tell him "ohh well, im still going out with my boyfriend but i WILL dump him eventually" i just say get it over with and dump him before he hurts you any further :-) hope everything works out and if you need anything else just let me know!

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does anyone know where i can get HTMl codes? i need some like makin the writing bold, italic, make the writing move up and down, stuff like that!!

the moving up and down i think you are talking about is called a "marquees" i think thats what there called ... and they are given in the website x0 hOlLiSteR baBe gave you which is http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?u=HtmL+fOr+YoU hope i helped and if you need anything else further just let me know

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does anyone know any websites or anything where you can get backgrounds for your myspace??..thanks ill rate high!

http://www.starlightmks.com/main.html has good ones... just click on backgrounds on the side.. hope i helped! if you need anything else further just let me know

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