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The names Julie. i`m 15 years old and love too give advice so just ask me a question and i`ll try to help [:
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me nd this kid *craig* broke up last week.well he broke up with me for no reason. ive tried callin him many times to find out wut happened and he just gets mad and calls me annoying. im still in love with him but he seemed to get over me soo quickly! nd on top of it hes gorgeous. i want to get back together with him cuz i miss him. I DONT WANT TO KEEP callin him tho
help me pleasee i rate 5
if he doesnt like you then you have to let it go and stop calling him
Ok I'm not sure if I should lose weight or not I am 5'2 or 5'3 I'm not exact, and i weigh between 100 and 105, like on and off, but I don't know weather to just stay the way I am or lose weight. help me.
stay the way you are.... your weight is fine
what is a good website to get HTML codes from for your advicenators page ? preferably one with a cute layout or something like that with many different codes like ones that can put popup boxes from you on your page and backwards text -- thanks for the help
i think www.funky-chickens.com
well, Im super scared for my friend. She asked me thia question. "If you're giving a guy a hand job, and he whipes some of the stuff away, and then fingers you, can you get pregnate?"
I have no clue, and i wanna help her and be there for me! Please help me (well, i guess it would be my friend)
If you don't know dont answer, because I only want to tell her the real truth!
thanks!
yepp
Does anyone know a really good pop-up blocker I can download for free? I already have like two on this computer, but I still get pop-ups like crazy! Rawr.
go to www.panicware.com
I was hanging out with a group of my friends the other day after school. We were just hanging out having a good time and one of my friends pulls out a joint and lights it. She started passing it around our group of friends and everyone took a puff of it but me. I basically just stood there confused. These innocent girls that I had known since I was 6 years old had just lit up a joint and smoked it. I am completely disgusted by drugs and drinking and I will never do it because it's the worst thing you can do to yourself. They started making fun of me that I wouldn't smoke it. I wasn't hurt that they were making fun of me, but I was just hurt at their stupidity for smoking it. I don't know what to do. They've been my friends for a very long time and have always been loyal to me, but this is something I can't handle. What should I do? Should I tell them they should stop? I'm so confused! Please help.
if you know their going to smoke then ask them not to do it around you b/c your not gonna change your mind
my friend wrote this in an advice collum ----
I have a friend and she is one of my best friends but lately she has been so concentrated on boys.....boys other than her boyfriend. She wears clothes than aren't meant for her to wear (shorts skirts and waaaaay to low pants) We have known eachother for a reeeeeeeally long time and we are best friends but she seems.....distant and we fight a lot over stupid things. Sometimes she gets annoying because she goes out with a boy and then doesn't like him the next day.....! Some of her other friends agree too. So what do I do to get her to realize hoe she is acting witout her getting mad at me?
what do i do if my friends think of me like that!?!?
thanks
how do u kno shes talking about u?
Some of my friends tell me that I shop at expensive places. I pretty much shop at Abercrombie, American Eagle, and sometimes at Express. But there's more expensive stuff that I could get. And they say that I'm ubsessed with Abercrombie because I have lots of stuff from there. Is this true??
who cares what they think, its hard to say with the info u gave us
Okay, so I started school about 5 months ago, and there are a few girls (I'm not going to say their names) and they've been really mean to me. They were spreading around rumors, and talking about me behind my back. I mean, they keep doing it! I'm so sick of it! I don't know what to do because every time I try to talk to them their always together and i mean 4 against 2... You get the picture. Please help me!
-Bethany
tell a teacher or guidence counsler.
My former best friend and I have been growing apart over the last two years. Now to her I'm just someone she says hi to in the hall. It's been hard to stay in touch over the years because she is so busy and we haven't been in any of the same classes. We still consider oursleves "friends", but I wish things could go back to the way they used to be. Whenever I call her to do something with me, she always has other plans. Ever since we started fading away from being best friends I've really missed her. We had been best friends for over 4 years and we had this dream of becoming famous actresses together, and it really saddens me how apart we've grown now. I'm afraid that in a couple of years or so, we might not be friends at all. I feel like there is nothing I can do to just have us be best friends or even just good friends again, but I need to figure out something. This seems impossible since shes always so busy with her activities and her group of best friends. Can anyone help me on what to do? I rate high!
why dont you join after school activites with her or try to hang out with her friends.
um this is kind of a weird question, but i wake up during the night with really bad hunger pains... is there somthing wrong with me? somtimes i even feel like i'm going to puke or somthing and i wake up all hot... am i eating enough or am i eating wrong or somthing..?
maybe your eating too close to when you go to bed, try to not eat a half hour before you go to bed.
Ok so I have these 2 best friends, they are always soo clingly, they do everything together and i hate it!!! Like one day I came to school we were all cool and everything, the next day they were mad at me for no reason!! Then the next day I went to ask them what was wrong and the "leader" of the two (one of them follows her every move) said they were just kidding! I was so upset. They always talk about me behind my back too. They even tell me they call me abd names behind my back. I'm not even mean to them!!I'm not like jealous or anything it's just i'm the third wheel and i want things to go back to the way they were b4 all this drama... (middle school drama) and I really need help I am stuck and I have no clue what to do!! PLEASE HELP ME!! I need help fast!!!!(i rate high)
Thank you!!!
wow... it sounds like you guys were all friends but then they got closer. theres nothing you can really do, maybe just make new best friends and still stay friends with them
I am not pretty at all ,what so ever, I'm short and skinny. I don't have many friends and am not popular. Also my teeth are all messed up and can't get braces for a while. How can I get friends and be prettier?
people arent friends with your b/c of your looks... its because of your personality. so be yourself and more outgoing and you'lll make more friends which pretty much is popularity
I've got a question about my friend. I think she may have some serious mental problems. This morning in first hour she was writing a note to someone (I didn't know she was). Well, I glanced over in her direction and she flipped the paper, turned to look at me, and said: "Stop reading my fucking note! God, are you ever going to leave me alone?!?!" So, I asked: "...what...note?" She rolled her eyes and moved to another seat. So, naturally, I was in my seat thinking "What the hell did I do?" Anyway, in third hour she sat beside me again. Again, she was writing notes and I didn't know that she was, so I turned around to talk to her. She FREAKED out and starts yelling about how I'm a nosy bitch. I was ...basically speechless. I mean, it's like she's got some mental problem with excessive paranoia. For instance, yesterday in our Study Hall my boyfriend and I were writing notes to each other. My friend wanted to look at them, and because I said no, she automatically assumed that they were about her and proceeded to call me a bitch. They weren't even remotely related to her. If I talk to anyone other than her she automatically thinks that I'm talking about her or telling them secrets about her. She spreads horrible lies about couples at our schools, including me and my boyfriend. Sometimes I wonder if I should get her some counseling to try to help her out. She's excessively paranoid. I think she may be bi-polar as well (either that or she has some SERIOUS mood swings). For example, in P.E. one morning she was on a different team than me and was so mad at ME that she rammed me up into the bleachers. After P.E. she cussed me out in the locker rooms for being a "complete asshole." Then at Lunch two periods later she acted like nothing was wrong, or that nothing had ever happened. In the hallway this afternoon, I was joking about her using her cellphone (which is strictly against the school rules) and she lost it. Is this just normal teenager behavior or does my friend need some serious help? All advice would be appreciated.
it sounds like you're right, why not just avoid her or confront her and say "whats your problem?"
Hi, I'm a 14 year old, girl Freshman. Recently this guy moved to my school. He is a Senior and he rides my bus on the way to school and from school. After a few weeks of being here, he started to talk to me. He got me to write him notes and I only like him as a friend. But quickly after that he began asking personal questions like, "Are you a virgin?", "What have you done with guys?", or "Do you want another guy to do that to you?" He doesn't want me to go out with any other guy. He wants me to go out with him. It is getting really annoying. He is the most perverted guy I have ever met and everytime I wear a skirt he is always peeking up it! I can't stand him! Now he wants me to sit in the back of the bus in the morning so he can do stuff or whatever. I said, "No!" of course and made up an excuse. Then yesterday he told me to skip 3rd and 6th period at school so he can 'do' me ith the bathroom. I am only a virgin and he is 18 I think! I don't know what to do. I tell my guyfriends and they say 'smack him', but I'm not violent.
Please help! This guy is so annoying. I don't like him anyway. He does drugs, smokes, and drinks. He is not my type and he has sex with all these girls! I don't want to have sex until I am WAY older! What should I do? Will this turn into something bad later? Thanks for the help!
thats sexual harassment. tell a professor or something if he continutes not to stop
ok @ lunch there r 5 of us @ the table..today were just 4 of us...i have this lil habit if something says somethinf funny while im drinking it sometimes comes out..well this girl is always a bitch like if i step on her boot or something she says shell smack me or w/e , today we some how got into the subject of how much we weighted n we were guessing n she got mine right and i was taking a drink and she said it n then had this funny face expression and i actidently sprayed it all over her face and bc i was laughing so hard n she ran into the bathroom n washed it off then came back n 1- threw my snapple out on me, 2- smacked me, i smacked back bc of it and she said dont fucking touch me and im like well then dont fucking smack me! 3- she took my friends notebook and smacked me with it..and then 4th she took my friends water bottle n dumped it on me so i was went all next period..and i had 3 ppl laughing at me...shes such an ass...and being of the year she dumped this minted stuff in my snapple and dared me n my friend to drink it...which we did...we always try to get her back and she refuses to do it...wut the hell do i do?
you could always change tables or not talk to her at all OR tell a teacher or something
I want to lose 30 pounds fast!any ideas?(i rate 5's!)
i dont know how many times iv said this and ill probably say it a thousand times more but EXERCISE and eat healthier... thats it
i am sort of stuck in the middle. my mom lives in michigan and i live with my dad in california and now that its getting time to go to college i choose 2 really good schools from both states and applied to them and surprizing enough i got into all four ... no problem right wrong i have friends in both states each wanting me to go to the college in their state and i dont want to make anyone feel bad and say NO im not going but im still a little unsure about what i should say to them beccause i dont want to hurt their feelings ???
ok im telling you this and it might sould mean but im thinking of you since your not. who cares what they want ITS YOUR FUTURE and your worried about peoples feelings!!! go to the college thats better for you
Hey i need some info on teen pregnancy like web sites or hot lines i could call..or even to chat with someone who has been through it !! help me please!
you could try calling the youth crisis hotline at 800-448-4663
ok there is this guy i really like and apparently he likes me too but he wont go out with me because he doesnt like my friends..... i dont know what to do because i cant get over him but at the same time i wouldnt be able to hang out with him and my friends at the together
friends