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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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Ok so you know that little arrow u click next to your browser that shows you all the sites you been to recently? ok so i clicked that today, looking for a site a typed in (im lazy), and then i find this site called nextboys.com. i have never heard, nor typed, nor visited that website so i was curious why it was on our computer. i clicked it, and you wouldnt believe what it was. it was a site for gay massaging!! UGH!! im really mad, because the only people who live in my house is my 7 year old sister, and my mom and dad!! my question is: is it most likley my parents did this, or is there another way to get a site in that list. and if my parents did it, what should i say to them????

i wouldn't say anyting to them because they would be afraid to admitt it.. yeahh it is most likely your parents did it... they could have went there on an accident you know? like maybe it was your mom looking for something and she saw that site and thought it was something else... or maybe not.. so i hope i helped.. and best of luck .. if you need anyting else let me no

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my dog is really protective, and shes sleeping and she has a bone and she will literally bite your head off. i need to get passed her to get to the bathroom cuz i really gotta pee! what should i do??? helppp

okay well one time i think you need to take her someplace and leave the bone .. then when you get it .. if you ever do throw the bone out .. i say efore you go to the bathroom call her name so she knows your comming and you have to go to the bathroom.. but i don't know if this will work.. these are suggestions because i have no clue what your dog is like .. so i hope one of the things i gave you will work.. best of luck!

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So I need my teeth to get whitened. What's better - Oral-B/Rembrandt Whitening Strips or Crest Whitestrips? Does it cause sensitivity? And, can I split the box with another person, with still enough strips for each person?

there really not much difference i think crest because it lasts longer and stuff.. i don't know if it causes sensitivity.. no don't split the box with another person because i think they put in there just enough for one person for one whole treatment... hope i helped and if you need anytign else let me no

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my boyfriend and i have been dating for long than a month and couple weeks and he hasnt even kissed me yet. i kissed him once on the cheek but that doesnt matter. what is he doing????

maybe he is shy.. i know i know.. girls ALWAYS have to make the first move... but each tiem you see eachother go farther and farther.. like next time kidd him on the lips and then see what happens if he like backs away or something ask him "whats the matter?" hope i helped.. and if you need anyting else let me no

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Hey! I was just wondering if anyone new what "grinding" means? Is it where you get on a guy n kind of dry hump him? Please answer as soon as possible! thanNks

yeahh .. sorta in a way.. it's like when you dance with him and like rub your body on him and stuff.. if yo know what i mean.. if you ever watched the realworld.. it's how johanna and melinda dance with the guys hope i helped =)if you need anything else let me know

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Over the past year I have felt some changes. I notice that I wasn't interested in guys anymore. And after talking to my family and shrink about it, we came to the conclusion.. I'm a lesbian. After admitting this very tough situation to my friends, I sort of lost them. It seems they don't want to be friends b/c they are afraid of the situation, and they don't want to be friends with me. I thought admitting this to my friends was the right thing to do. What should I do.

if they are going to be like that and not love you for who YOU are they are not friend you want to be associated with.. and if you still want to be associated with them.. you need to talk to them about it .. and let them no that even no you are a lesbian.. it doesn't change anything between you and your friends.. let them know that it's not like your going to be all over them and that stuff because i k now that's what there fearing.. they are fearing that you will start to like them and stuff and they would feel uncomfortable around them ... you know? how i helped and if you need anythign else let me no..

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hey i was wondering how to change the backgrounds and stuff for a myspace? also where is a good site for the backgrounds? thanks! ♥

i like www.lalaalyssa.com it has lots a cute girly/random background.. which all of them are really neat :-) hope i helped and if you need anyting else let me no

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I know there have been alot of kissing questions from other people so I'm sorry if this has been asked multiple times. How do I know when I'm ready to french kiss? Me & my boyfriend haven't been dating long but we've known eachother a while & we makeout alot, just without the tongue. Will it just happen? Will we talk about it?

you have to bring it up.. eventually it will happen.. just one time when your making out i guess with out tongue... put your tongue in his mouth... and if he pulls away then he doesn't want to do it.. but most guys will like it.. girls always have to make the first moves don't they? lol hope i helped and if you need anythign else let me no!

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I know that this question comes up alot, but why don't people give feedback?? I always do and I think it's only fair if someone's taken the time to answer your question. Plus, if you really don't like the answer you got, you can let other people know how badly that person answers! Now who's with me?

wow this is really late but i was looking threw people's advice columns and i came across this question/comment and i would like to let you know that i am 100% with you! i mean we tkae the time to answer your questions.. the least you can do is let us no if were doing our job? =)

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how do u make your font like bigger on myspace and stuff..i know all about the underline bold and italic...oh and how do you strike through the font.

thanx in advance :D

for strike out if im not mistaken this is the code:

Text here

hope i helped

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hey guys i know i am a columnists but i need some help.....ok i need some really really cute back grounds for my myspace! not pimpmywebpage or anything like that! i really want some good ones please. lol thnks i will rate high

try lalaalyssa.com

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is there anyway that you can find out who posts on here? maybe you dont want to tell me b\c then u might think that i wont post, but i dont have a question, i'm just wonderin cuz i mite wuna start a colum

lol sadly no.. because it is an annoynomas advice column unless they post there name there is absolutly no way you could find out.. :-) hope i helped and if you need anything else let me no.. and if you need help on your advice column i'll help you too =)

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I am a Wiccan and so is my boyfriend. I told my mom he was (but not me) now she won't let me see him. My mom's a very conservative Christian who is very judgmental andtakes everything personaly. Should I tell her I'm a Wiccan, my boyfriend says I should..because even though we can sneek and talk we can't sneek and see each other and I'm only 16 so I still have 2 years before I can move out.

PS- I'm worried that if I tell her she will have me on complete lock down

well im not going to tell you to tell her or not to tell her.. because you know your mom better than i do (oviously) and i don't want to tell you to do the wrong thing.. what i can tell you to do is make a list of pros and cons for telling her and not telling her.. and see which one comes out with more pro's and less cons ... so i hope everything works out and she doesn't completly lock you down =/ and if you need anything else let me no!

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im a columnist..im not obsessed over ratings but im just wondering why is it when i get 3 5's as a rating in a row, my rating doesnt always go up? but if i ever get a 4...or a rare 3...my rating always goes down?
anyone else have the same problem?

ughh i have the exact same prob.. i just got 5 5's in a row and it stayed the same.. then i got another one and it went up one point! ughh..it drives me crazy too! but i think it's because once you get like 4 it brings it down and a lot of 5's needs to bring it up or something! hope i helped!

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i was wondering if anyone knew about some web site that could help me w/ my eye makeup. i want to use diff color eyeliner and eyeshadow to get new looks. can anyone help?

http://www.lhj.com/home/Eye-Makeup-Tips.html

try that site. they have a couple of links for ideas :-) hope i helped ad if you need anytign else let me know

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okayy this may not seem like a big problem to some people but for me it is. Well ever since september 3rd i have liked this kid luke and for a little bit he liked me but now he doesnt and i still liek him but now two more boys came in the picture. I can go out with one of the two other boys but i will feel so weird cause i still like luke but i know he will never go out with me again and even if i didnt like luke i wouldnt know who to chose with the other two guys. One guy is really sweet and hes liked me for a while but the other one is the same way only hes kinda.. well lets just say he likes sex but he has also liked me for a while and ive gone out with him twice before.. so im really confused right now if you have any ideas on what i could do please answer me

hmm.. if luke doesn't like you go otu wtih one of the others.. (make a list of pros and cons to figure out which one you think you should go out with ) don't waste all your time on luke you know? because if you do then your not going to get anywhere in life you know?.. plus maybe you going out with someone else might make luke relize that MAYBE he does like you.. hope i helped and if you need anything else just let me no

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ok i have seen the cursor where its the hand and the pointer is the middle finger on someones sight and i want to put it on my site but i cant remember where i saw it to ask them where they got it...does anyone know a site that may have it i already tried that one starlight site if anyones know where it is please tell me if u help me find it ill rate high!
Signed:Ithought it was a cool cursor.

i found it!!! here is the code


body, a:hover{cursor: url(http://xquizit.xangans.com/cursors/nov_finger.cur);}Cursors by Xquizit_442

heres the website if you wanna check it out --> http://xquizit.xangans.com/cursors/index.php

if i can do anythign else let me no!

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On here, I forgot how to delete a question that you had oreviously answered. Any help?

go to Edit Answers then click on the question you would like to delete.. and click on edit answer and it will come up with your answer .. erase all the text and wahlahh.. it's gone :-) hope i helped and if you need anyting else just let me no

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what dose it mean to ''give him a blow job''?

it means putting his penis in your mouth and kinda sucking on it in other words oral sex hope i helped

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ok, I am like in love with babysitting. Like if my mom doesn't tell me someone called for me to babysit them I get upset! I just love kids. So, here is the question, will I forget about babysitting after a while? Because all of my sisters and older people said they thought that they would open a daycare but then they hated it once they turned about 16.

yeahh you will .. don't worry.. soon you'll get another job to cover it and you won't think about it as much you know? and if they hated it at about 16 and they relaly liked it... i'm sure you'll do the same.. :-) hope i helped and if you need anything else just let me no

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