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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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ok so im 5'4 and weigh a 112-115 punds ... is this normal or should be around 108 and maybe 110...but just to let you no .. i got some junk in the trunk (like alot) and i have a good size chest (34B)i no im not fat because you can see a six pack on me .. but am i wrong?? help please!

omg no!! i am 5'0 and i weigh 110 and i am not fat.. so i can't see how you can be over weight i actually think where you at is a healthy weight limit.. hope i helped :-)

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if i call a suicide hotline, can they get my number nd like call the cops or sumthing?

they will prob. have your number but it is EXTREMEMLY confidentual and they won't report it to the cops unless if you call them and say "im killing myself right now" if they feel that you are in danger then they will call the cops but it is extrememly confidentual so as long as you don't call them and say stuff that would put your life in danger they won't give out your number.. ohh yeahh and if you wanted to block your number hit *67 before you call and then they won't get to see your number.. hope i helped..a nd if you need anything else just let me no

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when is the easiest time to get pregnant? okay i know this is going to sound really wrong but i really really really want a baby and my boyfriend have sex frequently without a condom but he pulls out because he hates kids, is there any way to make it easier to get pregnant? and i kno alot of people are going to think what im saying is really messed up so plase only comment back with advice not ridicule, im not expecting him to marry me or even take part in this i just am wondering...thanks

when you have your period and have sex it is the easiest way to have sex and get pregnant.. hope i helped :-)

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i have a female problem my period is always unpredictable and i have been getting it more than once a month what should i do?

it is normal.. for periods to be irregular/ unpredictable.. so don't worry about it unless if you have had your period for at least 3 or 4 years.. then you might want to consult a doctor.. hope i helped =)

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my friend is very down..i really want to help her but i dont know what advice to give her. Her old next door neighbour died following her great uncle following her cousin who was 24 following her grandmother..please help me so i can help her

hmm.. this is gonna be hard for you.. the only think you can really do is let her know that you are there with her every step of the way.. it's not gonna be easy for you or her.. just comfort her and maybe take her out and stuff so it kinda gets her mind off of things... and let her know that you are there if she ever wants to talk about it with you and you have a shoulder for her to cry on if she needs one :-) hope i helped and if you need anything else just let me no

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Me and my boyfriend were talking and he told me he doesnt want me to hang out with Derrick even though ill have my best friend Ann with me.. My bf will be at the lakes. So he thinks i dont know what he thinks. He's asking me if i'd be wierded out if he and Scott hung out with Julie and i said no.. cuz theres 2 guys and 1 girl. its just a group of friends its a 1 on 1 type of thing. Am i wrong in this.. i mean im allowed to have friends.. arent I?

Of course your allowed to have friends!!i guess he thinks that derrick and you would start to get close and you would eventually like him you kno? and he doesn't want to loose you.. so what you have to do is confront him and say "i know why your doing this" or just talk everything out wtih him.. i'm sure he will be understanding etc. hope i helped and if you need anyting else leave me another inbox :-)

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If I finger myself, could I get pregnat? Or could I bleed or anything. I've never fingered myself in my vigina so I'd like to know the main side affects.

I rat high for accurate answers ;)

no.. in order for you to get preganant you need a sperm.. and your fingers don't have sperms ... you could bleed tho.. but it is a little rare.. hope i helped and if you need anyting else just let me no

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hey is there any way to delete feedback thats really rude so it doesnt show up on advice collum? or do you just have to wait until they become old? thanks!!
~*jaimee*~

well you can delete the question and it will take out the feedback and it will take it out of your rating.. but i did it and it still shows up on my column.. so not really that's the only thing you can do...

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does anyone kno any good background websites for my column page? thank u and i rate VERRRRRYY high hahah

http://www.nuthinbutnet.net/resources/backgrounds.aspx
or
http://www.lalaalyssa.com

i like lalaalyssa better.. but i hope you like some there :-)

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ok about what age/grade do boys start to get attracted to girls and start to think more about going out or being boyfriend and girlfriend?

around 5-6th grade usually start going out in middle school .. hope i helped =) if you need anything else just ask!

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I'm making a CD.Does anyone know of any good rock songs that I may have forgotten to add to my list? I don't mind if the songs are a little old.

i could give you a couple of good ones..
but it all depends on what kinda of rock you like.. so let me know what kind of rock you like and i'll give you a couple of songs.. =)

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Okay..sorry in advance if this is long but i really need some advice. Alrite, well a few days ago me n my boyfriend were talking on the phone and he said what would happen if we broke up and i went out with one of your friends and that right that pissed me off and hes like sorry i was just thinking about something to talk about..since we are both very shy! But then i was talking to my boyfriends brother today and he said he told your friend *stacy that he liked her on the phone last night and i was like WHAT THE HELL! and then i talked to my boyfriend and he was like oh my god shes ugly and 2 years younger than me and all this stuff and he was like i only like and love one person and thats you. But i dont know if I should believe his borther..when i was talking to *stacy she said he said he was gonna tell me all this stuff because stacy wouldnt go out with him (my boyfriends lil brother)so im freaking bawling right now because im so stressed out and i dont know who exactly to believe..also his lil brother told me (about 3 months ago) that my bf was cheating on me and that proved to be true but it seems lately that me and my boyfriend have had the "perfect relationship" i love him so much..also stacy talks to my boyfriend on the phone for like 3 hours but she says they talk about me the whole time? So please help me! Sorry its so long!

well trust is the first part of a relationship.. do you trust him? if you do you should take what he said into consideration and rip the other explainations out of your mind.. and if you want to really know the truth the next time you SEE him look him in the eyes and say "I want to know one thing TRUTHFULLY" then ask him the question... tell him to look you in the eye and tell you what he's gonna say .. because it would be hard for him to lie while looking you straight in the eye.. to sum it all up just ask yourself if you trust him.. and if it's a yes then go with his explainion and if not.. go with the others... hope i helped.. =) if you need antying else just let me no

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me and my b/f have been going out for a month and i never see him...he is always working. he said he will make time for me but he never does....i really like him and dont want to dump him but idont see how we can go on like this!!!

you need to let him no how your feeling.. that's the only choice to let him know that your NOT okay with not ever getting to see him.. if he really likes you i'm sure he will understand.. and make time for you.. or else it wasn't meant to be you know?.. hope i helped and if you need anyting else just let me know!

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why thank you! you made my day :-D

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I'm 13 years old. I recently became pen pals with a guy my age who lives in England, I live in the US. I really like him, but I don't know how to tell him, or if I even should. If he doesn't feel the same way, I don't want to chance our friendship. What do I do?

tell him.. if he doesn't feel the same way then it wasn't meant to be you know?.. if he is a true friend you telling him your feelings should devour your friendship.. so tell him and hopefully he will feel the same way too =) if you need anything else leave me an inbox.. hope i helped and best of luck!

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hii i have many a problems!! plzzz help mwa!

-problem CHild

leave me an inbox to discuss your problems in more detail and i would be glad to help =)

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My mommy says I'm special. YEAH!!!

my mommy said i was special too =) we should have a club or something =)

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well i get with a few guys but sometimes like i am scared too and i dont no how to get over it and there is this guys who i like and i thnink he likes me and i want to get with him but i am scared which i hate!! so what ahould i do i realy need hlep

i have the exact same problem.. and i'll tell you what hunny you got some guts!! i don't even go out with them.. even if i do like them a tremndous amount.. there isn't much you can do but get his reasurence that he won't hurt you.. you have to ask yourself some questions.. why am i scared? will he hurt me? how much do i actually like him? and all that.. that's pretty much all i can tell you :-/ sorry i couldn't give you more ... hope i helped and good luck!

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ok.. i share a room with my sister.. i have limited space but i have the bigger half of the room. my bed takes up most of the room. it is a daybed so it looks like a couch. it also pulls out inot a double bed. bu i only pull it out if someone is staying overnite. what i want is like a new desk, curtains, and a comforters. i am very girly. my room is going to be painted hot pink and brite green. i want stuff like ith those little pom pom fuzz ball thingys and butterflys. everything i want has to be not too pricey like not over 100 bucks each. and not that large well for the desks sake. i need to know like what stores. but like not stores like kmart, target, sears, bed bath and beyond.. different stores. with all the stores in this world. there has to be a good one. and also i know about pbteen and that is too pricey. so please help.

Rissa

p.s. i hate things being so crowded so not that big of stuff

did you try linnen's n things.. it's like a craft store.. it has all kinds of curtains comforters.. but it doesn't have desks.. idk if you would put that store in the department store catagories.. but i hope that's a store that you weren't thinking of? hope i helped.. and if you need nayting else let me know

ps. you could also search online for what you want and order it off line if your mom would let you..

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hi im 13 and there is this kid i like that is 15 i keep sending him messages that i like him but i dont know if he understands them. I also think he keeps sending me messages that he likes me but im not sure is there anyway i can find out if he likes me or if he doesnt how can i get him to like me.
Ps. we both are ino the same things and we always talk on the phone ad online

okay if you guys talk on the phone i'm pretty sure he likes you! why would you two talk on the phone if he didn't like you? and if he doesn't you can't really "make" him like you you know? on the phone be like soo.. who do you like? or if your too shy to ask him on the phone on the computer say "lets play the question game" and then say "you go first" then wehn he asks answer his question and then ask him if he likes you.. hope i helped.. and best of luck.. if you need anyting else let me no

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what are symptoms of diabetes?

here are some:

-Frequent urination
-Excessive thirst
-Extreme hunger
-Unusual weight loss
-Increased fatigue
-Irritability
-Blurry vision

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