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Q: Hey. What's up?
I Have an amazing boyfriend. I love him. We have been together since Feb. 2nd, 2004 (for the people trying to figure that out, its been 1 year,6months and 9 days) I Love Him, like I said. However, sometimes I think that I may like other guys. Where I work there are 2 guys who I
"like" but I wouldn't go out with them if they asked me. I want to stay with my boyfriend. I think about these other guys sometimes tho.
Any ways or tips to stop these thoughts?
I am more then sure that I am going to stay with my boyfriend. I wouldn't ever date these other guys.
How can I deal with the thoughts?
Is this normal?
(Sophmore, Female)
-Kels-
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Its perfectly normal. Thats what tests your love for your boyfriend. If you really love him and your meant to be with each other, all it will ever be is like. Just because you like them, doesnt mean you have to date them, and most likely it will subside. You dont even have to tell your boyfriend about these thoughts, because theres no sense getting things all stirred up when you know your heart is with him.
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Q: Is it safe to wear a tampon to sleep in? I'll probably sleep around 9 hours tonight .. I'm just not sure if that's safe (TSS). If I wear a pad, it usually leaks and gets on my shorts im wearing to bed. What should I do?
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Its totally safe, thats why they make them. If your concerned about it leaking though, you should wear a tampon & a pad to prevent any leakage. Make sure yopu get the super absorbant tampons though, because they work well for overnight.
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Q: my best friend is like fading away from me. she just never calls me anymore. she used to call me every day. now whenever she calls she asks for my sister. i dont know why shes mad at me but i thnk it may be because im not a vegetarian. as stupid as it sounds i think so. any way she is a vegetarian and she believes in it very strongly and i told her that i wasnt a vegetarian any more and she was like "WHAT!" and hasnt really called me and actually talked to me since. and in her profile it used to say my name is Sarah (not real name) but my best friend Anna (me, not real name) calls me spanky. but now it says my name is Sarah but my friends call me Ess. she doesnt talk to me when my sister invites her over. i dont know what happened shes just mad at me all of the sudden. what an i do to get her back
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I think whenever she comes over, you need to ask her what you did to make her stop talking to you. Ask her nicely what you have done, if anything at all. If she doesnt tell you than there is really nothing else you can do. Dont go asking other people though because it could be fake interpretations of the truth. & you dont want that.
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Q: Okay, I'm ususally the one giving the advice, not asking for it, but here goes...
School's going to be starting up again soon which means that the Homecoming activities will be coming up before too long. I was thinking about getting my nails done before the dance. I've never had my nails done before, so this is all new to me. What I want are those arcrylic nails that they don't paint on. I don't know if you know what I'm talking about or not... but they look like real nails, but they're fake. And I don't want the people at the nail salon to paint them either, because the dress I'm going to wear is black and white. I just need to know what this is called so I don't waste my money on something that isn't the right thing.
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Alright. Their called acrylic overlays. It goes on the edge of your nail, then they put pink poweder down which turns into a hard nail, which looks totally natural. If your wearing a black and white dress I really think you should acyrlic overlays, with a french manicure. Just call your local salon, and ask questions about it, and they should be able to help you.
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Q: whats the difference between going out with someone and hooking up with someone?
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Going out with someone is like a steady relationship with commitment. Hooking up is generally just a one night thing.
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Q: OK so for some reason, my xanga wont show my entries. Like after i put in the layout, the entries were gone, and i cannot get them bac. This isnt the first time it has happened, so i dont need to change the layout. Can anyone help me? pleeees help me, i rate 5's
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There might be something wrong with the code that you are getting from wherever your getting them. Also, your entries might be sent to private.
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Q: I am thinking of making a website. I know HTML and that stuff. I was just wondering if anyone knew of any Good but Free Web Host?
~Thanx alot
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www.freewebs.com www.geocities.com www.tripod.com
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Q: 13/f
My best friends friend who i meet on AIM, is now my boyfriend...i havent met him yet but we say i love you and stuff. I'm not sure if i really want to break up with him but i dont want to have my first kiss with him. I mean he's nice but not cute, and i dont know if i should tell him i dont want to kiss him becuase he said he really wanted to,can anyone help me?
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I think you should be honest with him. If you really dont think that things are going to work out with him then just start a conversaton with him and be like "I really like you, but I feel awkward about this relationship thing and I really dont think that its going to work out".
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Q: I've been invited to a party by a girl I don't know that well and I can't decide whether to go. One one hand, I know some people who are going, and it should be fun b/c theres no parents or anything.
On the other hand, she knows some kind of... rough people, and it could turn nasty. She is always going on about how many people they beat up etc. Also she is telling everyone to bring someone, and in our neighbourhood if the local chavs (hooligans, yobs, call them what you want) might well gatecrash and beat people up.
So what do you think?
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Regardless whether it will be fun or not, I honestly dont think you should go. Because if something serious happens and the police get called, you could be guilty by association, even if you didnt do anything, and it isnt really worth that risk. Awesome party or not.
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Q: so there is some one im guessing from my school that made up a screen name and she goes on it and doesnt tell people who she is but she has like everyone's screen name from my grade and she just AIM's us telling us like you whore slut bitch ...blah blah blah, i dont pay attention to it cause i know its just some low life hater messing arround, but yesterday she made up a screen-name pretending to be another girl and her profile was like i like guys w/ big dicks if you wanna have sex call ..... and she aimed me and was like you slut blah blah so it got me really mad & i told the real girl about it and she got super upset.... so anyway how we can find out who this person is? thanks lotz
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Theres no way to really find out who this person is, unless they tell you. Just ask around and see if anyone else has been getting this same message. Dont let it bother you though, their just trying to get some laughs in and you shouldnt let it get you or your friends down.
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Q: well i got into a fight with a friend of mine, something she did really hurt me, but it isnt something so horrible that i want to end the friendship over it, basically this would all be solved with an appology but im not sure how to go about this. its been two days and i havent talked to her since then, so should i need help on what to do, should i wait until she IMs/calls me and appoligizes or should i do something else? 18/m if that matters at all
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It doesnt matter how old you are, actually. If she is a good friend of yours and it hurts you as much as it does, I think you should call her and tell her how you feel and that you would like an apology for what she has done. Maybe she is scared to call you because of what she did. Basically, it could be both ways, she could not know what to do either, so I really think you should start the communication, and see what happens. good luck doll.
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Q: oh of my best guy friends likes me, and he has for a while. at first i didnt like him but now im starting to. but im afraid if we go out, then break up,that i'll lose one of my best friends. but im also afraid if i dont tell him i'll regret it. so my question is shold i tell him i like him or not?
plus i dont know if i really like him, or if im just really flattered that he likes me
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I think you need to sit back and think about your feelings. I mean really think. My best friend Brian, Ive known him for 12 years. [ since i was 4 ] and we've went out multiple times, and it didnt change our friendship at all. Point being, if your extremely close and he really cares about you, going out and it ending, wont end the friendship, Because if you really honestly care about a person so much, nothing will be able to stop you from being their friend still. Also, If your having doubts, then dont go through with it, or talk to him about it and see how he feels.
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Q: I like wearing sportbras because they are comfy ..can someone just wear a camisole with a built in bra ? when i wear bras with straps why do the straps pop off? i am always afraid it will snap off is there anything i can do to make sure they wont?? .. thanks
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If you afraid of the straps falling down or off, you can just wear a strapless bra, or continue to wear sports bras, or camis with built in ones, theres nothing wrong with that. If you seem to have a problem with the straps, you may need a bigger or smaller size, also the straps are adjustable.
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Q: Ok so Ive known this guy about a month in a half and we just started dating like a week ago. Things sorta went fast, maybe I little too fast for my comfort, but nothing I can do now. Anyways, we recently had sex and he was my first; we did it 3 times. I cried while driving myself home from his house, he lives 30 min away from my house; I had to pull over 2 times because I was crying so hard. I came home and talked to my best guy friend who I love dearly, he was trying his best to calm me down and everything. He kept saying it was normal to feel like this: empty, almost wishing you hadn't, just cold.... like someone just did the most rotten thing to you but worse. My best friend is away for a week and I cant talk to her and I need to talk to someone other than a guy. Is this normal??? HELP ME PLEASE!!
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Yes. Its perfectly normal. Sex is a big step in any relationship, for anyone. Its pefectly normal to be acting that way also. If you really dont want to do this again, you may want to talk to your boyfriend and tell him your really not comfortable with doing these things so early. He cant take back what he did, but maybe he can try and understand, and you guys can do other things that dont involve sex.
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Q: I'm 17, and I have my first job interview ever at ShopKo on Friday. The only problem is that I don't know what appropriate attire for an interview is. What am I supposed to wear?
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I wore black dress pants, and a white button up shirt for my interview. It actually just depends on the place. I really dont know what shopko is, but white dress shirts and black slacks always look good together, and really nice.
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Q: Hey, I was wondering where I could find free keyboard/piano tabs/sheet music for Coldplay songs. Thanks in advance :)
~*~*~Lauren~*~*~
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Search google.com for Coldplay Tabs. It should come up.
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Q: What are some myspace layout websites.
and how do u put them on ur myspace?
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A really good myspace website that I use is www.createblog.com When you get to that site, you browse the layouts and find one that you really want. Once you find it you click either preview or get layout. If you choose get layout something will popup with a code. You open a new window in internet explorer. Go to your myspace, and sign in. Under edit profile, paste that code somewhere in about me, interests, whom id like to meet, or something like that. then click preview and it should show up. once it does, click submit. =)
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Q: What do girls think "BIG" is in penis size? Mypenis is about 5 inches. (im 13) how big is your penis? Is mine small or big? Please answer! i rate high!
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To be honest, it varies with girls. Honestly when having sex with a female, girls can only feel about 5 inches of a guys penis, so size really isnt an object. Also, the average size for a fully grown penis is 5 inches. So you have nothing to be worried about. Your only 13, you still have alot of time to grow. Dont be concerned about it.
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Q: Hi. Iam 15 and i have a lump on my boob. I just noticed it today.. I'm pretty sure it just appeared today. I don't know what it could be. I mean, girls my age don't usually get breast cancer. I know it's possible, but i guess it could also be beningn. My mom told me that she had a benign lump about 12 years ago. Hm, maybe it's that? I haven't told her about it, though.
Please help, what do you think it is? What should i do?
thanks
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Yes. Girls your age usually tend not to get it but my best friend actually just went in for surgery to get a lump removed from her breast. It is a serious thing, and you should tell your mother. My friends, fortunately, wasnt breast cancer, it was a benign tumor. Not cancerous at all. But you should tell her as soon as possible, in case it turns into something else, or in case it is infact cancerous. Its the safest and best thing to do.
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Q: When I was little I was abused by both my sister and my dad. As I got older it stopped and the yelling died down a little but its still there. Lately my dad and my sister have been yelling more and tonight I was sitting in my room and heard things being thrown and everything. Im not sure what was going on but I new my dad and sister were fighting and probly hurting eachother and I was scared out of my mind. I wanted to jump out of my window and run I was so scared. Im sitting here shaking afraid to leave my room and I don`t know what to do. Please help meh!
14/f
Love maddie
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Aw. Sweetie. My dad was the same way towards me, because he is an alcoholic. This is a really tough situation because Im sure you love both your dad & your sister. If you really want it to stop, you have to either try and talk to them & tell them how much it hurts you, or talk to a school counselor, or a friends parent. Sometimes its scary because you want it to stop but still be able to see your parent. Try talking to him first and see what his reaction is on that subject. Ask him why he does it, and why he would want to hurt you like that. Your dad may have an anger problem, and may need to see a counselor, or go to anger management classes too. So if after talking to him, nothing is solved, you may have to go to the 2nd step and tell an adult what is going on in your house, because its not fair that you should be part of th at sort of violence. And another thing, its not your fault. =) If you need anything else, dont hesitate to write back to me.
Always,
Tara
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E-mail: Gender: Female Member Since: August 12, 2005 Answers: 642 Last Update: October 21, 2007 Visitors: 43561
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