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I joined this site when I was very young (hence the ridiculous username) but now I feel I'mn old enough to give out advice.Ask me anytime. I have had my fair shares of family issues, as well as good at solving relationship problems.
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Hey, i know this is kind of weird but... one day i was at my gf's house and she wanted to give me a handjob but i was to nervous because i thought my penis was to small. What would the normal size be for someone my age? right now mines 5 1/2 inches.
Thanks for helping me.
It dosnt matter your fine but do you think you should be doing that kinda stuff and 13 years of age, don't rush, go steady
I love the song "My man" by Beyonce. I once listened to it on myspace and now I tried searching for it to listen to it up there again but I couldn't find it. I don't have an mp3 player. But I really want to listen to this song. If anyone had anyplaces that I could go online to listen to it for free please let me know.
youtube.com or www.videocodezone.com or www.musicjesus.com
ok so this guy that i REALLY like likes me back, and at partys and dances and such i will look for him (discreetly) then i will start dancin, my friends see him and they can tell that he watches and wants to dance with me, but he never does and keeps his distance...whats goin on and wut do i do?!
and its not that im not a good dancer, cuz im pretty much known 4 takin over the dance floor, and i dont think hes scared of not "measuring up" to me, because when i c him i try to dance a little simpler and more i guess u could say easy to dance with
He is just shy.Just go over to him and ask if you want to dance!!If he won't make the move - you'll certantantily have to!!What can go wrong??
He likes you - he won't sya no.Throw a party and invite him.In doing this he knows that you do notice him and you consider him as a friend anyway.
Three different people called me emo because I was scratching myself with a tac. No I am NOT trying to be emo because I am way to terified that I will die if I even come close to any razor, or knife, or whatever. But I was just bored I wasn't like trying to be emo or anything. So now those three people are spreading rumors that I am emo. At my school if you are called emo then you suddenly are part of a group of people who die their hair jet black and cut their wrists. I saw that group and I don't want to be apart of that even though I am gonna die my hair black. (i've been trying to get my dad to let me die my hair since I was 7!) also i listen to all the same stuff the emos listen to just because i like it i cant help it if we like the same stuff. what can i do to stop the rumors?
I know that rumours can hurt but Don't get wrapped up in their stupid games and rumours - its what they want.As long as you know who are you are there is nothing to worry about, Just don't care what they think of you.
If its gets worse, please write back.
Am I the only one alive who thinks it's terrible that kids (13-16) are having sex? I'm only 18, but when I was 13, I was riding my bike and doing karate, not giving blowjobs on the school bus. But thats the norm now, and if you haven't had sex by the time you're 17, you must be ugly or way religeous. What on earth!? Am I the only one disgusted by this trend?
I am 13 and though people of my age today are doing it - i feel disugsted by it also.I like to just go to some clubs and chill not have sex and give heads!
(14, Female)
I've been having very sharp, shooting pains in my chest latley. They come and go, but they bring alot of pain with them. I told my parents, and they said its probably from stress and because I drink several sodas a day.
I'm taking Gavistron and its helping. My dad said its most likley reflux, and to try to not worry about grades and friends so much for a bit to see if it helps.
But how do I stop worrying? How do I calm down? How do I get rid of stress! HELP!
.. and my hairs falling out ALOT latley, which the doctor said is due to stress.
Thanks!
take some time off school or whatever else your doing.Get some extra sleep, go bed early and talk it out or right whatever your feeling in a journel/diary - it helps and get a stress ball too.Don't get stressed at being stressed.You need some quiet alone time
i wanna do my hair like how miley cyrus has it sometimes and amanda bynes had it in what i like about you. i couldnt find a picture for amanda's but heres one like mileys:
http://www.celebopedia.com/miley-cyrus/images/miley-cyrus.jpg
anyone know how to do this?? thanksssss!
You can put your hair in rollers or by carmen angel curlers - you can get any curl with those only £20 now a tenner NOT SECOND HAND,
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Carmengirls-11509-40-Ceramic-Angel-Curls/dp/B000AXWFRS
there's this boy i have liked since the beginning of the year. i am starting to wonder if he likes me back because i always catch him staring or w/e. i want him to know how i really feel but i am scared. he actually walks with me down the hallway sometimes and stuff....but still idk. (im a really shy person.....) what should i do....just stay where i am at and just go with the flow or should i make a move? can you also tell me what that rate stuff means?
(im a 13/f)
I think you should just ask him "Do you want to go out sometime" istead of saying do you wanna be a couple or something because if he likes you or dosnt going out to the the cinema may make him realise that you really are nice and stuff.Going out somewhere helps build a relationship too.Just ask him!
I would really like to make more friends people I can talk to. So how should I start making new friends?
WhiteDestiney has really said it all just find a great club to join - even at school or join a youth a club too!Your're bound to make new mates!
Hey Guys!
I really need a homecomeing fress under 75 dollars.
If you could answer before tamrrow night that would be great.
I really eith want a cute black dress that goes past my knees or one that fairly light colored like light pink or blue. What do you guys think any suggestions.
I'm going shopping tomarrow night.
Here a picture of me if it helps:http://i11.tinypic.com/33o45g3.jpg
Also, i kind of a large tummy and thighs so anything that covers that would be best.
Thanks so much!
Hi,
I am your fairygodmother finding dresses for you.
The ones are resonably priced though one isnt.
Pink gorge dress (in sale)http://store.illuna-fashion.com/illuna-33-111.html
Or go here to find ALL of these in the sale
http://www.metrofashion.com/dresses_promdresses.html
This is a quite over your budget - its in the sale!IT IS RUBY RED!
http://store.illuna-fashion.com/illuna-31-008.html
Why do many non-Christians celebrate Christmas? Christmas is a celebration of the birth of Jesus, so I just don't understand how anyone who doesn't believe in Jesus could celebrate his birth just for presents. And why do nonreligious people have to celebrate Christmas? Why not Hannukah or Kwanza?
Also, why do people who only celebrate Christmas and Easter consider themselves Christian? (people who don't pray or go to church, but still celebrate Christian holidays)
Non christains celebrate it because it still seems like a traddition of being thankful towards everyone and stuff.Non chritains dont celebrate hannukag oe kwanza because they arent familiar with it.Plus theyd rather celebrate xmas that hannukah or whatever because xmas is where a lot of people celebrate it, its more popular
My friend, Rachel, who just happens to be my boyfriend, Dane's, ex girlfriend is always trying things with him! I catch her gazing at him during band all the time and she always laughs when he says something funny, and she's always talking to him and trying to make him laugh. She even told him, "Dane, you know you still love me..." And she said it to him when I was right next to her! I can't believe her!
I didn't do anything, I just pretended like I didn't care. It's impossible for me to tell her to back off, but she needs to learn that he's with me now. I don't know what to do. I think I'm just going to ask Dane if he still likes her, and if he says no, (which he better! lol) I'll tell Rach that I asked him that and that he said no.
Ah the female rivelary.She still hasnt got over him yet or at least she has and dosn't want anyone near him.This is where you gotta be strong tell her he's with you and tell her you don't like the games and tell her you are not gonna stand for this and your gonna tell her to back off!!!!!!!!!Do it for you and for dane before he gets sucked into her evil ways!! (laugh out loud)Tell dane to speak to her and make sure he says something to rachel when shes in the wrong
Okay so heres the thing my best-friend is going to the movies with me and her boyfriend is bringing a friend who happens to be my biggest crush...its only going to be us four and he already knows I like him and stuff and we talk all the time n always hangout but I have no idea what to say to him....should i just start talking to him or should there be sometimg specific i should say to him because i dont want to embarrass myself or make him think anything bad of me...
Just relax and be yourself.Ask him how he thought the film went and stuff to start out a conversation or something sbout school whilst your going to the cinema.He knows that you like him - trying to be different will make him no that your trying too hard.If you are yourself he can see how much you are trying.Tip; dont go to the toilet more than 1 time during the film - it can annoy a guy why?I have no idea why it annoys males!
ok...i had a big pimple but now it's like down but there is a kinda/like scab on it. Is there anyway to make this go down??? or make it look decent?
Try savlon to lose the colour and make it go down.
savlon:
http://www.pharmacy2u.co.uk/details.asp?source=ProductRedirect&kwd=SAAC100&productid=SAAC100&affiliateid=
Use concealer to cover it up.
concealer:
http://www.pharmacy2u.co.uk/details.asp?source=ProductRedirect&kwd=SAAC100&productid=SAAC100&affiliateid=
hay please tell me that sucking the anus hole is safe or not .. please answer me and if you wanna do me a faver then mail me the answer at hanan.ahmed@gmail.com .. waiting for your answer
I'm not sure.But nothing will happen to the persons botty.But the other person could get a diseas on around their mouths and in thier mouths.And if you have threadworms they are sure to have them too!
Glad I could help!
theres this kid and well i really like him like a wicked lot and well thing is my bfff and my sister think hes a bad kid cuz hes on house arrest but i cant just not like him and he like sme too and if he asks me out i wanna say yes but i cant have them both be madd at mee plzz helppp ive been going crazyyyyy for liike a week
I'm not telling you what to do but maybe it's not so good to be with someone who is on house arrest.You could end up getting involved without realising it.He is on house arrest.It's bad.Think what he could end up doing to YOU.
so i met this guy ryan and we started talking and he asked me a bunch of questions and he was like do you have any questions for me? but i couldnt think of any so i was like ummm who do you like and he goes i like you and i go i like you too and he asked me out and i said yes but the problem is it doesnt seem like he likes me like we dont talk alot and he just doesnt seem interested at all whats up with him? does he like me or not?
It really isnt nice when he can't show what he is thinking/feeling but just ask him do you still like me or do you wanna cool the relationship off, - because noone should be together if they can't express thier feelingsJust set him straight.Don't be upset if its the wrong answer.
I'm taking medication that makes my lips extremely dry. As a result, they are constantly chapped, and a few days ago, they started to crack and bleed on the sides. It is painful and not attractive AT ALL. Chapstick helps a little..I reapply chapstick about every 15 minutes.
How do I make the pain go away and help my lips get better? =[ Don't tell me to stop the medication. I need it, and the lip thing isn't a HUGE deal...
To take away pain and to REALLY get it to go quicker use these sites
If you're in the usa:
http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=15784&catid=49461&aid=335972&aparam=blistex_medicated_lip_oin
In the uk:
http://www.mypharmacy.co.uk/medicines/medicines/b/blistex/blistex_relief_cream.htm
I'm not sure that advice is EXACTLY what I'm looking for, but I'd like to understand something. Love seems to have a different impact on everyone who feels it. (This is about romantic love.) Why do you think love is important? What does it do for people? What is the point? Fulfillment? I have heard that no two people can ever fully understand each other, but we all spend years trying to find that one person who can understand us. Why ?
Love is important - it makes you happy and others happy and makes us all feel cared for.What it does for us it gives us corage and beleif and though we may never understand someone fully we spend all those years with that 1 person because they make us feel special and things noone you've ever met has made you feel.We may spend years trying to find "the one" because they sre the ones that are gonna make us most happy and enjoy life!
well i have this so-called best friend.SHe can be lovely but she see's everything as a competition
Whenever I get my hair cut or get something new, she comes in with something to try and outdo me? I really dont see the point.Its like everything is a competition! And then she copies me with stuff and then claims its her own idea and try's to turn people against me.I know for a fact shes been bitching about me aswell but then when i confront her she just try's to suck up to me.
I would also confront her about all the competition but she just try's to turn it all back on me and its so frustrating.My mum thinks shes just jealous of me.But I have no idea what to do.
Someone help please..
muchloveamiixxxxxxxxxx
It is obvious that she is jealous of you .Your better than her and dont let her get the better of you.Ignore the stupid things she does she isn't worth it even if she is supposed to be your friends.Confront again if she is ignoring you - just continue telling her how you feel because she really is listening to you - just dosnt want to accept that you are right.Maybe help her to hang round with others as she may just be inscure about herself and being with a group of friends helps you accept yourself.