Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
Gender: Female
Location: Nashville
Occupation: Chimney sweep
Age: 17
AIM: laynemayhem15
Member Since: November 19, 2007
Answers: 744
Last Update: August 15, 2020
Visitors: 44399
Main Categories:
General Sex Questions
Friendship
Love Life
View All
|
| |
okayyyy so when me and my boyfriend make out its really wet. (as in spit) the actual kiss is good but it always seems like its abnormally wet compared to like movies and stuff. is this normal? or do we need to change how we kiss?
(link)
|
thats pretty normal. especially if you include tongue. my boyfriend and i make out and it gets really wet, too. just make sure to swallow often.
:)
|
for a girl is being 'wet' the same thing as cumming?
and is it supposed to be clear? (link)
|
this "wetness" is called discharge. this happens when a girl is "turned on" or "aroused" so that sex will be easier. it adds to the lubrication during intercourse.
and its sometimes clear, other times its white and chunky. sometimes its clear and watery.
"cum" or "ejaculate" happens with the penis when it reaches its orgasm.
completely different.
hope i helped. :)
|
So I'm not sure this is in the right category but what ever.
14/f
So ever since I was in 5th grade weird things have happened. I fell like in a way I am what you could call "phycic" (how ever you spell it)
For example: In 5th grade one day, I was in school. During class I was thinking about there being a school fire or bomb threat or something and the cops would come etc. About 10 minutes after that class, there was a bomb threat in the 5th grade girls bathroom. The whole school was evacuated and the cops came etc.
When I was in 6th grade I was in the car with my mom and my brother, I was think about car accidents. About 5 minutes later we got into the biggest car accident in the history of the town. I got hurt and almost had to go to the hospital. I was the only one who was injured.
About 2 weeks ago, I was in the kitchen, but was busy doing something so never looked up. It was my cousins wedding day and she was having the wedding at my house. I was thinking about something tragic happening. When I looked up I started coughing because my kitchen was covered with black smoke. My mother came out and forgot there was pizza boxes in the oven and earlier turned it on. When we opened the over the boxes were on fire and our kitchen went up in flames.
There isn't really any more of the story needed.
I am really freaked out because weirder things and scarier things have happpend to me.
I don't know what to do.
Is there something wrong with me or is it all just in my head? (link)
| |
according to the Bible, no one is psychic. maybe God is just giving you little hints to prevent something like this ever happening. next time you feel a strong feeling like that, tell someone immidiately. you may actually save someone's life.
|
Ok, I think i might be bi. i am 14/f and i know i like guys, but i think i kind of have a crush on my best freind. I have had some dreams about making out with girls, and stuff, and i kind of like it. But i havent ever kissed a girl (but i wanna try it) But i know most of you will say because of my age im just curious, well if thats the truth, then the curiousness is getting worse! And also im used to seeing gay/lesbian couples, because my aunts are lesbians. So im around that alot, and that might be affecting the way i think, I am a big supporter of gay rightts becuase of them, and well im just not sure if i am bi or not. So, im just confused, and at the moment im also confused because im in the process of breaking up with my boyfriend, because i've lost the spark of us being together (after a year and 8 months)
SO anyways, what do you think? (link)
|
it sounds like you are kinda curious, but its not weird to you because your allegedly used to seeing that kind of thing.
but about your crush on your friend? what i would recommend is DO NOT tell her. my friend told me she had a crush on me and it totally ruined the whole thing because i didnt feel the same way. but you never know, she may feel the same way. im just saying that might not be a risk to take. but good luck and i hope you get this all figured out!
|
I tend to give quite a lot of advice on this site, but I often find myself skimming the questions, and if there's one that I've had a question about, I read the answers.
So yeah, is it weird that even though I answer a lot of questions, I still have my own about some things?
Shouldn't the advice givers know most of the things they are answering about?
Sometimes I find myself looking up more information about a topic when answering a question...
Thank you. (link)
|
this isnt phoney. its just called wanting to help, but not being sure where to begin or what to say. everyone on here has to admit they do that sometimes. or sometimes they dont know how to say something in a nice way, so they find the highest rated answer and give it their own personal touch to it. like a smiley, or extra words here and there, plus a little advice of their own. or some people just do it so they'll have a lot of rating points. ^.^
whatever the reason, its no biggie. your just trying to do your job, and we all thank you.
take care. :)
|
|
hey im 17/F my boyfriend is 20. well i kind of always had this question in my mind. before i started going out with my boyfriend this other girl shes also 17/F was also flirting with him, and so was i. time passed and he picked her. i stoped talking to him because i was mad that he did that to me. not even a month later he broke up with her an started flirting with me again and we started going out. I have always felt like mad inside ive told him why did he pick her but all he says is dat well his aunt had basically hoocked them up and he was basically already going out with her when he was talking to me. That he never really liked her. Do you guys think thats the reasoning or he just liked her better? We have been together for 2 years now and i just cant let that go. YOu guys understand rite? He made me feel like seconds. How do i let this go?? she is his aunts by marriages niece. so i will have to see her forever shes part of the family. (link)
|
i dont know, someone doesnt stay with someone for two years if it didnt mean anything. sounds like hes crazy about you. he may have liked girlie in the beginning, but now its all about you.
maybe since girlie is part of the family, you could ask her where things went wrong with she and he. if she says that she dumped him, you may have been a backup plan(which is simply awful) but if he dumped her, maybe he really did like you more(which is obviously a GOOD THING)
it sounds as if you have asked dude about this before, so you cant get much more out of that. as soon as you ask girlie, this should be off your mind. if it isnt, just spend time with him and just keep in mind. she doesnt matter anymore. its all you.
take care! :)
|
I work in retail and I feel like my coworker has been flirting with me..and I may have been subconsciously doing it also.
He's an overall friendly/funny guy so he's nice to everyone but I feel like he approaches me and makes an effort to talk to me more.
He approached me today to tell me the DUMBEST joke...and I can't believe I started cracking up. He always seems to tease me and makes fun of me esp when I do something wrong (but he smiles while he says he...and it's not harsh; it actually makes me laugh). He doesnt tease anyone else as much. I didn't want to think that he was flirting with me but I started being observant to see if he was treating my other cute coworker females that way...and he doesn't..It seems like he puts more of an effort with me than with others. Also, whenever I'm talking and I think that he's not listening...He catches what I'm saying and may even interrupt or question me about it or bring it up at a later time. ---IS HE JUST HAVING FUN or is he flirting with me? I mean, am I WAY over my head or does he like me? It's driving me nuts because I can't figure out how he feels about me. Help me please. Any other signs that I should notice? Thanks for all your time! (link)
|
it sounds like he does, but as you said. guys are confusing. i dont know, he may just be trying to be friendly. ask him to have some coffee with you sometime or maybe just even start flirting back. compliment his shirt or something. and if he backs off a little, then he doesnt. but if he starts doing the same thing again. he does. :)
i hope it all works out. but breathe easy. dont get crazy flirty around him, just play it off cool as you have been.
good luck :)
|
|
ok well as usal guy problems.the guy gthat i asked a question to in my last thing broke up with my friend for me and she nos it she isnt mad because she wants me to be happy do i go out with him or make sure they go back out? (link)
|
she may act happy, but she might be dying on the inside. just talk to the guy and just say that you care about your friendship with girlie more than you do about him, unless that isnt true. cuz if it isnt, theres no question about it.
maybe she does really wanna be happy! but just let her know that you can be happy without a guy in your life. and tell her that she can always be open and honest with you. for instance, if she really doesnt want you to date dude, then she should tell you. not lead you to believe that it wouldnt bother her one bit, because honestly, i think it would.
good luck!
|
|
I use wax that you warm up in the microwave for my bikini line. For the first few days it looks fine but by the next week i already have a little hair growing back and the red bumps come back really really bad. How do I avoid these unsightly bumps? driving me nuts!!!! (link)
|
right after your done waxing, take a shower and use a loofah glove or just a regular loofah to get the excess skin off. that should avoid things a bit. also, there is something cream-like lubricant you can buy at any drugstore just for that. i dont know any good brands, though. sorry.
take care! :)
|
okay i need help . Im 13 years old and im a girl.
my mom has been drinking alot latley....
and its been makeing me angry because she
acts stupid and like an asswhole when she
does drink ... and she says stupid things
and i so i get mad and then she dosent remember
the next morning and she dosent talk to the family so i cant ethier. and i really dont know
how to deal with her when she is drunk ....
please help im so scared i was crying .
its affected my whole life and my dad
died from it so just please give me adivce on
what to do .... (link)
|
you arent the only one. you have an alcoholic parent and there are these places where kids like you can go and talk to other people about it. obviously, you cant sit your mom down and talk about it because she wont admit she has a problem. alcoholics never do. just go to your local church or whatever and ask about youth groups or search up "kids with alcoholic parents youth groups" or something along those lines. or just go talk to a counselor.
sorry i couldnt be of any more help, but i have no clue where you live and i dont know your lifestyle or anything. im really sorry you have to deal with that. my friend goes through the same exact thing and i never know what to say to her. :(
take care.
|
So there is this girl who i have been flirting with since last year. We don't really like each other enough to start dating, but she says she is open to being friends with benefits. The things the she says she would do with me are inappropriate for this page cuz i wanna keep it G rated. We don't always talk though and right now i feel like she is once again sending me mixed signals. I am not sure if i should end it with her because she changes her mind so often about me or whether i should wait it out.
what do you think? (link)
|
friends with benefits is just stupid. you're going to have sex with a [friend]?? tell her you either wanna go out for real, or just stay friends. JUST friends. nothing above "G-rated". unless, you just wanna keep doing what your doing. but if i were you, id just end it. waiting takes too long, and the signals are too mixed. she sounds like a slut and a bitch. you deserve someone a lot better, and you know it. try to find someone else. you'll be happy you did.
good luck. :)
|
im not used to be single but my x bf just broke up with me for his neice and lost his virginity to her and then he broke up with me im not used to being single im in 8th grade now and ever sience 4th grade ive never been single more than 3 days and now its been like 2 weeks and im really depressed and ive been doing stupid things like cutting myself and idk what to do anymore what should i do i need advice super bad and dont say shes over dramatising and shes lucky shes had a boyfriend for that long cause you reallydont no how it feels if you were to go threw it you would understand
thanks,
kenzie:| (link)
|
first of all, suck it up. its only been two weeks. i had to wait over 5 years for my soulmate. some girls go there whole lives without having a boyfriend.
two, DONT CUT YOURSELF OVER SOMETHING THAT DUMB. do you realize how seriously vain you sound?? if that douche is gonna dump you for his niece, he was never worth it in the first place.
three, you gotta get back on your feet. try to find someone else. just dating around is no fun. that way, your always getting hurt, your always with someone, and your always hung back. being single is hardly the end of the world. its actually really fun. id know. now stop complaining and keep yourself busy with a job or something until you find someone else.
good luck. :)
|
uhm, hi. my name is penelope and i live in florida. i have many friends that are boys (hehe like boyfriends, but not boyboyfriends if you get what i mean :) *chuckle*) but there are three gentelmen that particularly stand out in my head. which one do i choose? they are all very terrific homosapiens with such brilliant personalities and attitudes. i will describe each boy to you and how my friendship is with them. i'm sorry that this letter i am adressing to you is getting to be so lengthy, but i need another solution instead of liking all three of them just because i don't want to have a horrid name such as slut, whore, or skank ruin my reputation of the most intelligent gal in the class. enough of my babbling, let's continue...
boy number one:
this boy is one of my best friends in the world. that is a very bad thing in a way because what we have between us is just oh so very sacred and i would not want to sacrifice that. he is tall, and when i look into his eyes they just draw me into him more and more. we have a similar taste in music, which is our main topic during most conversations. he is athletic, he is an incredible soccer, basketball, and baseball player. we are constantly fighting, and constantly missing each other and ending making everything alright. his friends are groovy ; i like to be with them and him. this boy is utterly stunning.
boy number two:
boy number two. hehe he is a really cute boy, very sensitive, and always focuses on what is most important in life. he is a little bit shorter than me, but that doesnt matter anymore. he can be a mommas boy and he doesn't have too many friend. oh, yes, he is one AMAZING dancer. its quite attractive. he is a star football player (perfect to go along with the star cheerleader!) and we always have fun together.
boy number three:
this boy and i were very close throughout our elementary school years. he had left the public school to attend a catholic school for the most enhanced learners. he was about my height the last time i saw him, and i miss him terribly. on the day of our departure, we hugged and we were the first two people of our class to do that. i know i have moved on, but in a way i miss him and i wonder if there is really anything still left between us?
so, yes. i need you to select one and explain your choice. thankyou. (link)
|
i know you dont wanna ruin your friendship with numero uno, but he sounds like a really great guy. i mean, i was in your position a few months ago. and everyone told me i should go for my guyfriend. he was the closest person to me at that point, and now hes the only reason im still here. we've been dating for three months now and we're totally in love. i know we're soulmates.
try it with him. and make it abundantly clear that if things dont work out, that you two can go back to being friends. you wont know until you try. i WOULD say number two, but (i dont know why) ive always had an issue with dating guys that are shorter. its not really very fun. cuz you can never look up into their eyes and tell them you love them. you always have to look down. :(
and number 3 moved away, correct? well long distance relationships are no fun, either. i gave you my opinion. if you dont want it, then ignore it. im just a lovesick girl that misses her boyfriend deeply so im answering dating questions. good luck. :)
|
|
i feel like i have met the girl of my dreams and like it truly was love at first sight. the only problem is that we are such good friends and she doesn't know how i feel. i think that itwuld make things very awkward between us if i told her how i felt and she didnt feel th ame way back. however if i dont say something and she feels the same way, i could be letting the girl of my dreams slip away. what should i do? (link)
|
this happened between me and my best guyfriend. he liked me, but i didnt like him at first. he laid off for a while. but eventually as i started thinking about it, i realized i liked him too. now i know hes my soulmate. the least you could do is let her know. dont pass it up. just simply tell her "hey, i like you. a lot. and i just wanna make sure things wouldnt be awkward if you dont feel the same way." simple as that. and if she doesnt like you that way, you'll at least know you tried. just dont try wearing her down with gifts and compliments. just keep hanging down as usual. you never know, she may be your soulmate.
i hope it works out for you! good luck! :)
|
its not relly adivce but i was just wondering about some of our advice columists and if they can answer me on this.
what do you like to do for fun? other then hanging out hehe.
what are you interest?
who would you like to meet?
describe yourself in a paragraph.
I know its dumb but i was just curious and its a really easy question that id love to just get input on. (link)
|
i like drawing and listening you music. rock, mostly. hanging with my boyfriend and his friends is always fun. i also smoke (shhh).
drawing, singing, music, playing guitar (but i dont have enough patience to learn. damn) i kinda wanna try weed, (again SSHHH)
id really like to meet ben burnley. ^.^ also miley cyrus. so i can kick her.
its not a dumb question, its just really random. and i cant really describe myself, considering i just did up there. bye.
|
Im currently in Dubai and met someone through one dating site. He lives in Qatar. We write to each other everyday and he would call me every other day. The relationship is in an 'infancy' stage.
I am new to this thing and really want to know if long distance relationships really work.
Just need a little advise.
(link)
|
i hate to be a downer. but every long distance relationship ive ever been in has never worked. everyone i know who has had one says it never worked.
you can keep trying to make it go on, but if you never see eachother, theres really no point in it. doesnt mean you still cant be friends. :) good luck and i wish the best for you.
|
|
my dad is ALL about god and i am not really into god and stuff. Sense i am just a kid and my parents are divorced and i am forced to go w/ him even though i don't like it and he always takes me to church which i hate. he is also pulling my sis into it (who isn't even his kid)! nobody's w/ me except my mom who dosen't do the whole god thing and i'm scared to talk to him what should i do?>>>> (link)
| |
if you're not really into that, i think you may be an atheist, which means you dont believe in anything. now, i dont know you in real life, but i do know that religion can be pretty annoying at times. im a christian, but im not ALL about God. just tell your mom you wanna come live with her, and that its not really working with your dad. set them both down and explain to them your feelings about God and religion and such. just say it may be too difficult for you to understand and that you want to be able to take this road your own way. your dad may not understand you and may even still make you go to church with him, but at least he'll know how you feel about it. maybe just see if you could go stay with your mom on weekends or something. good luck. :)
|
|
This is mmy 2nd year in Marching band. I am in a different section and I know everybody in it. Most of my friends are in it and I loved it last year. But this year, I sort of feel like I don't fit in anymore or just going to band practice does not seem that great anymore. I just don't feel right being there anymore but a part of me wants to continue. What should I do?? (link)
|
your probably getting bored with it. i did marching band from 5th grade to middle of 8th, and then quit.
i still wanted to continue, because playing was really fun! but it had just gotten old since i started, so i just quit. also, i was the only trumpet and everyone depended on me. and i dont do well under pressure.
why dont you try to focus on the music for a while more. wait it out a few weeks. and if you still feel this way, just ask your conductor if you can take a few days to yourself. make up an excuse like you're getting a cold. and if you STILL feel like this, then just quit. theres no reason you should still be in it if your not enjoying it like you used to.
i hope it all works out! :)
|
|
I know this guy who I have been friends with for almost a year. I heard he liked me but I kinda laught at the fact he liked me. Now I feel bad for laughing at him and actually start to like him. I don't know if he still likes me but how do I get him to like me again without feeling like an idiot? (link)
|
you cant MAKE anyone like you. it just doesnt work like that. just go up to him sometime and be like "hey, im sorry i laughed at you the other day. but if you still like me, do you wanna give it a try or something?" just be casual. ask if he wants to hang out or something. except not as friends. like on a date. :)
have fun!
|
|
f/18 so im thinking about waxing down there lol. anyway i just wanted to know does it hurt really bad? does it hurt less the next time you wax? is your skin really irritated the first time you wax? what are some good waxing kits? (link)
|
it does hurt. my mom's cousin did it once at home and she said it actually drew blood and it hurt like hell.
also, it depends on what waxing thing you get. like, if you get the brazil, then yeah it'll hurt a lot more. i dont know of any good waxing kits, but to answer your first question, yeah it does hurt a lot but its worth it. :)
|
|