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help! i need advice!
uhm, hi. my name is penelope and i live in florida. i have many friends that are boys (hehe like boyfriends, but not boyboyfriends if you get what i mean :) *chuckle*) but there are three gentelmen that particularly stand out in my head. which one do i choose? they are all very terrific homosapiens with such brilliant personalities and attitudes. i will describe each boy to you and how my friendship is with them. i'm sorry that this letter i am adressing to you is getting to be so lengthy, but i need another solution instead of liking all three of them just because i don't want to have a horrid name such as slut, whore, or skank ruin my reputation of the most intelligent gal in the class. enough of my babbling, let's continue...
boy number one:
this boy is one of my best friends in the world. that is a very bad thing in a way because what we have between us is just oh so very sacred and i would not want to sacrifice that. he is tall, and when i look into his eyes they just draw me into him more and more. we have a similar taste in music, which is our main topic during most conversations. he is athletic, he is an incredible soccer, basketball, and baseball player. we are constantly fighting, and constantly missing each other and ending making everything alright. his friends are groovy ; i like to be with them and him. this boy is utterly stunning.
boy number two:
boy number two. hehe he is a really cute boy, very sensitive, and always focuses on what is most important in life. he is a little bit shorter than me, but that doesnt matter anymore. he can be a mommas boy and he doesn't have too many friend. oh, yes, he is one AMAZING dancer. its quite attractive. he is a star football player (perfect to go along with the star cheerleader!) and we always have fun together.
boy number three:
this boy and i were very close throughout our elementary school years. he had left the public school to attend a catholic school for the most enhanced learners. he was about my height the last time i saw him, and i miss him terribly. on the day of our departure, we hugged and we were the first two people of our class to do that. i know i have moved on, but in a way i miss him and i wonder if there is really anything still left between us?
so, yes. i need you to select one and explain your choice. thankyou.
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i know you dont wanna ruin your friendship with numero uno, but he sounds like a really great guy. i mean, i was in your position a few months ago. and everyone told me i should go for my guyfriend. he was the closest person to me at that point, and now hes the only reason im still here. we've been dating for three months now and we're totally in love. i know we're soulmates.
try it with him. and make it abundantly clear that if things dont work out, that you two can go back to being friends. you wont know until you try. i WOULD say number two, but (i dont know why) ive always had an issue with dating guys that are shorter. its not really very fun. cuz you can never look up into their eyes and tell them you love them. you always have to look down. :(
and number 3 moved away, correct? well long distance relationships are no fun, either. i gave you my opinion. if you dont want it, then ignore it. im just a lovesick girl that misses her boyfriend deeply so im answering dating questions. good luck. :)
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I think you should keep boy #1 as just your friend because if you go out with him it might ruin the wonderful relationship you already have. Boy #3 seems like he may have moved on just as you have so I think you should go with boy #2 he sounds like a wonderful guy even if he is a momma's boy i think you should give him a first try!!!!!
Hope I helped!!!!!!!
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I just have to say it was rather fun to read this. I completely admire your vocabulary =]
So I would say you should steer clear of number one, because you said you wouldn't like to ruin your friendship, and dating him might.
So I guess it's between the last two. You said you've always had a thing with number three, so why don't you try it out? Then again, he seems to have moved? That may be a problem.
I would say go for number two. He sounds like a genuine person and he could be a lot of fun ;]
--Jack
(16/m)
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