But if you are trying to say what I think you are trying to say then here is my answer.
Dump her as a friend.
When you see her in person take her to the side and tell her what she has been doing to get on your nerves and say that's not what you are looking for in a friend.
VainTaraLynn answered Monday February 27 2006, 6:37 am: Well, first off. She might have just changed in general and maybe she isnt posing, maybe she actually likes new things. Talk to her about it and see if shes doing it because she wants to fit in or because she actually likes whatever shes posing to me, whether its clothes, music, personality, whatever. Just talk to her about it and if she says that shes trying to be cool then say that you dont like how she is acting and you dont undertand why she is doing it. See what her response is and just go from there. Maybe tell her that you liked the way she used to be.. and you didnt think it was necessary for a change and she was fine the way she was. Most girls between the ages of 12&16 struggle to find who they are and often make alot of drastic changes because they think who they are isnt good enough, or dont have anyone telling them that. So basically just assure her that she was fine the way she used to be and you liked it better that way but if she isnt posing and really does enjoy the new things that she is doing, your going to have to accept that because that might just be who she really is. =D Good luck. [ VainTaraLynn's advice column | Ask VainTaraLynn A Question ]
LoViNu2mOuCh answered Sunday February 26 2006, 10:35 pm: I guess just stop hanging out with her, and hang out with people who dont act like her. You can just tell her how you feel and if she is any kind of friend then she will listen and not get angry by what you say...
Good Luck! [ LoViNu2mOuCh's advice column | Ask LoViNu2mOuCh A Question ]
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