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the girl of my dreams
i feel like i have met the girl of my dreams and like it truly was love at first sight. the only problem is that we are such good friends and she doesn't know how i feel. i think that itwuld make things very awkward between us if i told her how i felt and she didnt feel th ame way back. however if i dont say something and she feels the same way, i could be letting the girl of my dreams slip away. what should i do?
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I myself would try the hypothetical approach. So one day when you are conversating with her and you are talking about relationships or something similar just say, "If I ever liked you, would you be weirded out by it?" and then she will say something like:
"No, it wouldn't matter, we'd still be good friends."
or
"Why are you asking?"
or
"It might be kind of weird."
So based on her answer you can kind of decide right away whether she likes you or not. Pay attention to her facial expression when you ask her the hypothetical question. If she blushes, seems excited, her eyes widen, or any other noticeable action then this is good. Now this is the part where you say...
"Well, I do like you."
And then she likes you back and yay everyones happy. But this is of course only a suggestion. It's what I would do. I wish you the best of luck!
-Sam
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this happened between me and my best guyfriend. he liked me, but i didnt like him at first. he laid off for a while. but eventually as i started thinking about it, i realized i liked him too. now i know hes my soulmate. the least you could do is let her know. dont pass it up. just simply tell her "hey, i like you. a lot. and i just wanna make sure things wouldnt be awkward if you dont feel the same way." simple as that. and if she doesnt like you that way, you'll at least know you tried. just dont try wearing her down with gifts and compliments. just keep hanging down as usual. you never know, she may be your soulmate.
i hope it works out for you! good luck! :)
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Listen, I had the same thing. I was best friends with this boy forever and I took a chance. I put a note in his locker because i was afraid if he said no then i would just cry right infront of him. He came up to me next period and whispered in my ear "What took you so long." I was so excited! But then i thought what if he said no. I think that because we were such great friends that nothing would change. Its up to you, but if she meens that much then ya i would ask her out. :D
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