hey my name is melanie :]
so my life has it's problems, and i rarely know how to fix them. but when it comes to other people's problems, i have great advice. idk what's up with that, but take advantage of it!
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ok there is this guy and we went out befor but he cheeted on me and broke my heart but now he is saying he is sorry and that he still has feelings for me and i dont kno what to do cuz i also still like him but i dont want to get hurt......and i am also a cutter and last time we went out i cut alot cuz of what i was hearing about him and stuff...... but i think he has changed and he tells me how soory he was and that he owes me for what he put me though....what should i do? should i trust him again> or should we just be friends? (link)
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i think you should trust him again. he has to like you if he's got enough nerve to come up and say that he's sorry and stuff like that.
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I really like this guy but don't know if he's into me? he's always flirting and looking at me. when we were in the car he kept rubbing his leg against mine. should I ask him out on a date with a group or just me and him? I am so confused.
help me!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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yeah you should go on a group date to like the movies or something! And then for your second date you guys should go alone.
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this is really stupid.. but i met this guy online and i started to like him ALOT. well anyway i met up with him yesterday he is the sweetest/cutest guy EVER. I mean we had such a GREAT time! Well anyway he asked me if I wanted to go out another time.. and I said yes.. but see he's never done ANYTHING with a girl except for hug.. and yesterday we didnt do anything! If we go out again will he have the nerve to hold my hand?? and if he doesnt do i just grab his HELP ME PLEASE! (link)
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yeah, you should definently just grab his hand. You need to be the girl that he has his first kiss with. Show him a good time. It may feel weird being the more experienced one, but he'll learn lol. have fun with it.
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okay my ex boyfriend (my first love) broke up with me about a month ago! supposably he doesnt like me any more. But every time i dont see him for about a day or two he is always flirting with me like grabbing my butt, asking me to sit on his lap, hugging me, and/or cuddling with me. Every one says to give him time he likes you he just wants to see if your the one so let him date other people and he WILL come back to you. i dont know if he is trying to get me back by this or what he tells everyone that he dont like me but everyone tells me that by the way he acts around me and the way he gives me special treatment! i dont know please help me (link)
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Talk to him. Ask him what the hell he's doing. If he wants you then he should be with you, rather than just grabbing your ass. So talk to him.
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ok. ive been goin out with this girl for 2 months and i wanna kiss her bu ti dont know what to do to get to that point. we hang out everyday at this place that alot of our friends go to. should i kiss her there?. or there but somewhere private. what should i doo?? (link)
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Yeah, you should kiss her at that place you go to. hold her hand first and then look into her eyes, and then make the move. it sounds good to me. hope i helped.
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ok well here is the thing. I have a xanga and everyone always leaves me coments saying that im so hott and all this stuff. i dont no any of these people at all but i love the comments. when it comes to school and stuff not one boy would ever look at me. I look the same in real like as i do in these pictures and all these boys what me there but i havent had one boy since ive been in hs. im a sophmore now and i really what the boys to notice me. i dont have to many guy friends and i dont want to just go up and talk to these guys i want them to come up to me. what do i do? (link)
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Get people to notice you. Throw a party.
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so the guy i like, likes someone else. he asks me advice like how to ask her out and stuff like that. he obiously doesn't realize i like him. so yep, he likes this girl( who has bigger boobs than me and is probably 8 pound lighter than me, but diefidentally not as pretty)
how do i get him to forget about her and focus on me. in other owrds how do i get him to like me?
i rate hight! (link)
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Tell him you like him. Maybe once he realizes that you like him, he'll forget about that other girl. Maybe he likes you too. It's better if you speak up rather than never know. hope i helped.
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why can't you fold a paper in half more than seven times?? (link)
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woah, you got to seven? i could only get to six!!
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i want to measure my breasts. like to see what my size is. so how do you figure it out ?
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i think you like put a tape measurer around your bust area and like however many inches it is, is what size you are or something like that.
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im gonna be a junior in high school and my boyfriends gonna be a freshman in college.. everyone breaks up before college because its supposed to be some big party n all that bs..i really love him and i really trust him. he says he would never cheat on me and he wants to be serious about school instead of partying all the time.. i wanna believe him, because if i dont we'll break up and i could lose him forever..any ideas or advice? :/ thanks (link)
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Just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel about all the crap that college kids do, and that you don't want him to cheat on you. But if he's telling the truth that he doesn't wanna be partying alot then you have nothing to worry about. i hope that helped a little.
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Today I accidently deleted an Intel PROset driver on my Dell computer. It was a complete accident and now I have no idea how to fix it. Can anyone possibly help me? If you need my AIM sn to further talk to me, just ask. (link)
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maybe it's in the "Recycle Bin"?
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there is a girl. she doesnt know how i feel about her, i think. she's been helping me boost my self confidence. i want to show her i appreciate it. i just dont know what to do.
help. (link)
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take her somewhere....the mall or the movies, or just out to lunch and tell her how you feel. if she's sticking around and helping you boost your confidence then she obviously has SOME kind of feelings for you. just try to talk to her. talking always does something. hope i helped ya
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i have old books and i was wondering instead of donating them can i bring to the library to sell them? or should i bring to a bookstore to sell them? (link)
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have a garage sale.......
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i dont know what i'm suppose to call my sister in laws parents.. i mean i dont if i call them be mrs and mr.... or by first name? (link)
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probably mr and mrs
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my birthday is coming up soon.
i want to rent a limo.
but the only problem is . .
i dont know where it would take us!
does anyone have any ideas of places to go? thanks! (link)
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yeah, let it take you to cruise around downtown and get it to drop you and your friends off at an icecream place. my friend did the same thing for her birthday and everybody loved it. I mean, you could get it to take you other places too, but that's just a few of the places i'd wanna go. And make sure you've got some good food, candy, or drinks in the limo. that's always a big hit. lol
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Hi my name is jess my sister was going out with this kid named rob and they just broke. Well until after they broke she found out he was one of those stalker people. Today he broke into my house and my sister and i locked ourselves in my moms room and he kept banging on the door so my sis called the police. Well they came and caught hijm and we didnt press charges but they said if he steps one foot on this property again he will be arrested. i was crying when this happened cause i was afraid he had a weapon. Im really afarid he will do this agin. How can i get over this really scary moment im scared ut of my pants right now?
plz hurry love jess (link)
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Those stalker ppl can be really dangerous. You and your sister just have to stick together. and try to trust God to take care of everything. This stalker dude obviously has issues, so maybe he needs to get some help. But hopefully, the cops scared him off for good.
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theres this guy troy. i really like him and he likes me i think. we hung out today and he took me out to lunch and i donno we get along really good. and we were totally flirting. the only problem is..its my best friends ex boyfriend. their still friends a little..but she broke up with him...its notl ike he broke her heart...she treated him like shit. she doesnt know how lucky she was to have to boy like that! he drove to see her all the time, doesnt cheat, always called, and never canceled on her. hes soo hott too.and he met my mom today. and she likes him to. and were hanging out friday...and when he walked me back to my door today he gave me like the longest hug EVER...but hes my friends ex!! err idk what to do..help?
ps..when they broke up i told her shes going to regret it cause hes such a great guy...and she was like then you can have him..but she said it sarcastically...omgg i dont know.. :( (link)
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She did break up with him didn't she? it was totally her decision. if she still wanted him, she would be with him right now. But she's not. he's totally open. and i'm sure that she's well aware that he's single, and ANY girl could get to him if they wanted to. So i think you should go for it. If you like him, then you should say something to him. It's pretty obvious he likes you too. Don't let your friend's past get in the way of your future. If you guys are truly friends, then she'll love you no matter what.
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Does tooth paste really work on zits?? And if so how do you apply it? Thanks! (link)
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yeah! it totally works! i tried it. what it does is it like dries it up work something like that, and then it like....flakes away. my mom told me about it. you should try it!
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hi im 17/f--i liked this boy that i work wit, but i didnt wannna make da first move. s0o he made the first move, we started ho0kin up, then wen then that got borin we did otha things nd now we have sex... but idk if he likes me or juss wants to b fuck buddies, wut should i do?? (link)
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Talk to him and ask him about it. you might be nervous to ask him about it but just do it. honestly i'd rather know, then just be wondering.
hope i helped ya a bit.
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my dad moved out of my house but my parents are still married. my dad has a girlfriend. he dosent think we know but we do. he always promised me he would move back home but he hasnt and a few days ago he called me saying that hs not moving backhome. he told me and my sister it was bc of my mom and how shes changed. he has gone to a divorce lawyer of whatever theyre called. my dog has a brin problem like he was born that way so he does stupid things and he cant help it. he chases his shadow and pases 24/7, literally. my dads a vet and said he mat need brain surgerey or be put to sleep so i hae been asking for a pug for like 3 months straight and my dad keeps saying no. right after he called and told me hes not moving home he said "you know, i was thinking that we should get another dog to keep him (my dog) occupied and so he has a friend. were gonna get a pug. " he is like trying to beibe me so im not mad at him !!!!!!!!! also my mom cries a lot and is so upset. my sister dosent cry when she s upset, she just holds it all in and flips out and goes to her friends houses anddosent come home for a couple of days. what should i do? my family is falling apart. omg and i forgot to say something. i went far away last week with camp from tues to fri and my mom went to the spa with her friends from tues to thurs. while we were gone my dad stayed at out house with our dog and my sister. people told me mom that my dad ahd another woman in my house. what shuold i do?! its his girlfriend. please gimme advice,..PLEASE! (link)
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i know this advice may suck, but it's all i can say. Your dad is going to do what he wants to do. it sucks, i know, but i don't think there's anything you can do to stop him from having this girlfriend. And about your sister, maybe you should just talk to her about how you feel about the whole family thing, and maybe you and your sister can face this whole thing together. in my toughest times, sometimes it just helps to have a shoulder to cry on. So talk to your sister. And pray. I'm not sure if you're a Christian or not, but all that i can say is if i hadn't had God in my life this past year, i would have never made it. Even if you don't believe in God, just try to trust him while you're going through this. Trust me, everything will work out. Good luck, and i hope i helped!
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