xocareox's advice column

Well I've known this girl for about a year now and we're really good friends, but I'm starting to like her more than a friend (if you know what I mean.) The only problem is I don't know if I should ask her out or not. If I do and she says "yes", then great, but if she said "no", that would just be really awkward and it would be wierd every time I see her again. So...what should I do?

just like talk to her friends and have them ask her stuff like whould you EVER go out w/.. your name. don't act different around her though because you have to think which would be betterr.. a girlfriend orr a good friend ! ♥ care

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thanks for coming back ♥. don't you DARE listen to that loser whos said you only did because other people. and you're a coppycatter cause you're not. yu came back cause i wanted yu too. thanks. thanks 4 not listening to them! ♥ yoo.

aww thhanks. im not listening to that loserr. ;) AT ALLLL. i did come back cause yuu wanted me too. :) love yahh ♥--care bearr

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woww. this is 4 advice. if you don't have a ? or a GOOD comment 4 my giirrliee CARE, than don't say anythinggg. if you wanna get through care yur gonna get throo mee. ♥ YOO SOO MUCHES CARES BEARS :]! --kAceY♥--

KACEY ♥ KACEY ♥ KACEEEEY ♥ !! i love youu sooo muchh cuttiee. THiS iS FOR ADViCE / GOOD COMMENTS OnLy. kacey is absolutley posotiveley RiGHHTTt. thannkss giirrl. bff! :p -- ♥-- cares bearrs

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I've known my bestfriend since 7th grade (we're now both juniors) and we're the closest two friends can get and I love her to death.

Our freshman year, we'd always hear about this girl Meagan and how slutty and bitchy she is. Meagan is a grade ahead of us. Well, 2nd semester of freshman year my bestfriend had a class with her but only for about a week because she got switched out.

Last year, my sophomore year, I was in a class with her for the whole year and at fisrt I didn't like her because of the things I've heard but we started talking and she wasn't that bad. Yeah, some of the rumors were true but she was still a good, fun friend. Now we're really good friends. Not as good as my bestfriend and I, but nevertheless, friends.

So whenever I'm with my bestfriend, and I talk about Meagan, she gives me this disgusted look and talks smack about her. I tell her to shut up and not talk about people she doesn't know and then that's the end of it.

Meagan and I are going to a concert in July and I asked my bestfriend if she wanted to come with us because I know she likes that band. Well, she told me that if Meagan is going, she isn't.

How can I get her to stop being so judgmental and at least try to actually meet her?

tell her to give Meagan a chance. if people would stop listening to every freaking rumor that goes aroundd! tell her some stuff that made you and Meagan friends, and tell her that she'll NEvER be replaced cause you love your best friend to death! sounds like you gave meagan a chance, and you became friends. your best friend hmmm.. do the stuff she's doing. but not in a mean way. she'll notice it. if she asks you to stop judging people than say well _____, its sort of what you're doing w/ Meagan! good luuckk.
ask your bff why she's judgemeantal. there may be a reason behind it all. and just ask meagan totally be nice to ____

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since its summer & all, i wanted to keep my stomach fit. i've tried crunches & sit ups & they don't work that well. does anyone know any good ab exercises that you can do on your own??

thanks!!

umm try running alot. and do push ups before you go to sleep. swim laps at the pool because its summerr! eat healthy and try to lift weighttss a little biit. but ruunn!
♥--carre

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hey! my name is ashley williams. iam in 6th grade and my younger brotherr is always getting sick-then i get sick right after him form being around him so much. how do i stay away from my brother so i don't get sickk??
thanks for all ur helpp!!
-asleyy-

for one thing i think this is a effing joke. you umm spelled your name wrong ASLEY. ;) haha. just get away from him its not THAT hard. and wash your hands - that works. byeeee asley.!. hahh. nice trrryy! --♥care♥--

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hey caree!! ♥ !!
iam reALLy nervous about trying out for all these teams for soccer!! any ideas on how to overcome all of my nervousness?!!
lovv yaa susan jeblouskyy/sea urchin/pigeon!!

LAUREN LAUREN LAURRENN ♥ ♥ ♥ !!!! don't be nervous at all. tell yourself that you're gonna make it. then just basically show off your stuff. don't be afraid to do something wrong, and if you do make a mistake then learn from it. see what the coaches want then try to do it. DON'T BE NERVOUUUUUUSS! ♥ youu soo muchh! --CaRe

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kaaay.
theres this wierdo thats been hanging around my neighborhood pool a lot. at first he would just glance at me--now hes like staring at me. i am getting a little nervous. the only place i see him is by our neighborhood pool. i don't want to stop going to our neighborhood pool but im afraid iam gonna see that guy again. what should i do to make him leave??
thankkss!!!

try avoiding him - and just DON'T pay attention to him at allll. like dont glance at him or look at him and tell your friends not to eitherr. then if he sees that no ones paying attention to him he may leave.

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wow care! i l--ohh-vee-eee ur advice!! its so awesome! ilu too gIrll!!
call me!!

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my 'rents dont want me on the computer becausee its "summer" they sayy. they want me to be outside-its not that i hate going outside but i really like talking on the computer and using it. what can i do to make them stop saying that i should ALWAYS be outside and that i should A LEAST have some time on the computerr??
thankyouu xocareox !
&heartss; ♥ ♥

let them know that you won't be on it ALL the time. you just want a little time to like do stuff on the internet. then tell them you'll go outside and play whateverrrr! ask before you get on. my 'rents are like that. and i always say, can i get on for a few minutes then go out and shoot hoops. and it always workks. ;) ♥ care

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call me wierd but it really bugs me whenever there are too little flowers in peoples yard.i think that people should try to make there yard BeAuTiFuL and bright w/ flowers instead of just trees and green plants. how can i convince people to do that.
thanks

okay i'm calling you weirrd ;) thats a liiiitle weirrdd SORRRRY! & i know this is probably a JoKe. ♥ carre

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thers this girl we will call her M
M likes to wear purple plaid skirts to school. it relly relly bugss the heckk outta me! how(in a nice wayy)can i tell her to stop wearing those kinda clothes????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!???

thx!!

hahhhhha. just let her be weirrd ;)
♥ carre

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wow care! i l--ohh-vee-eee ur advice!! its so awesome! ilu too gIrll!!
call me!!

laurens awesome ♥ herr.
♥ CARE

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You give really horrible advice. You just came back because other people started getting them again and your a copycatter.

umm hi loserrr. ;) if you look on my advice column -- scrolling down, you can see someone telling me to come back - thats ACTUALLY why. and no i have to say im not a copycater. and actually some realllly weird person got my password or something. the last one i ACTUALLY ANSWERED WAS THE ONE ABOUT BRAS. but if you wanna waste your time doing this go aheead. i know its not truee. thhhaankkss. and all the ones that don't say care that the bottom i ddidn't answer.
♥ carrre

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there's a book called Homecoming by Cynthia Voigt. I read the second and third books. (i think i read the third). I need to know the rest of the names of the series. the library closes at 9, so i need to know in the next few minutes. PLEASE. ILL RATE 5's !!!

go on the internet and type in the folowing
www.indiancreeklibrary.com/voigt,cynthia/tyt/5467.net

then press enter ♥

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Hey, I let my baseball glove sit around for about 3 years. Now it has mold on it. It was a really exspensive glove, so I don't want to throw it away, but I do not know how to get the mold off of it. PLASE!!! How can I get the mold off the glove without destroying the glove, and dont give me ne sarcastic answers

thanks
14/m

run the glove under hot water. then with a sharp knife, try to 'saw' the mold off. once youve done that try running hot water over it again to get all the germs off of it. then let it dry!
hope that works!

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okay so im usually the one that is giving the advice, and i REALLY need help. but bare with me because im warning you this is long and if you answer me with a decent answer i will rate you a 5 if you read it all.

OKAY so lets begin...FYI: 16/f

so i have a BESTFRIEND thats a guy...and in our past we went out in 7th grade and 9th grade. In 9th grade we got pretty intimate(not any kind of sex though) and before we went out it took me forever to get him to admit that he liked me, like we would ALWAYS be talking on the phone and going to the movies with our friends and he would hold my hand. soooo we went out or whatever then broke up because he liked another girl. well its a new summer and just recently we have been talking on the phone a lot, and if i dont call him he calls me, which has been the past 3 times and hes like so you werent going to call me? and i go yeah i was just i was waiting a little longer. then the other night i kinda got upset and sad and he could tell when we were talking online and he was all like tell me, tell me. and i was like no i dont want to talk about it, what does it matter to you? and he was like because i care about you. that right there was like a slap in the face( a good one lol) because he has never really said that to me like that before. and i know he does care about me, because we are SO comfortable with eachother and everything. so last nigth he was trying to get me to tell him what was wrong and i wouldnt. so i was like i love you though and he goes no you cant say you love me unless you mean it, and i was like but i DO in a friends only kind of way, and he goes no you cant tell me you love me unless its more.

i know this is really confusing, believe me he confuses me. does it seem like he likes me? and i really dont know what to do, because we always argue about the stupidest things, and last nigth he even told me he LOVES getting me mad because im so cute when i get mad and the faces i make. but yeah anyways my bestfirend (thats a girl) just thinks its all a bad idea, i kinda do too but i dunno when we went out last time he was the only person i even considered losing it to (of course waiting for at least a year or so) and what is REALLY confusing was, okay well he wants to comeover to make out with me and and stuff, and like im all up for it, but he was telling me how he pictured it and he was all yeah we would be making out then i would look deep into your eyes and i would ask you out again and you would say yes and we would go out for forever,

lol you guys i bet you are SO confused to, but anything will help!!! i need your opinion on the whole thing!!!
THANKS SO MUCH!!!
♥♥♥

wow okay. im confuuused but thats okayy ! i think he loves you & he means it. he means it a lot, but he doesn't want maybe to go out. it seems like he doesn't want to commit to it. he just wants to love you and have you love him & leave it at that. i think maybe he got hurt by one of your past break-ups, and he doesn't wanna get hurt again. he likes you. but i think i'd be a bad idea to go farther than thaat! ♥. sorry if what my earlier answer said upset you. because that wasn't me! it was some WEiRDO PERSON! i sweearrrr. i came to my friends house screaming because someone had done that. cause i don't want to be a bad coulumnistt! ask another ? if you need help! ♥ good luuuuck with this guyy!
--♥ACTUALLY ANSWERED BY- C a R e-♥

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guys only - should i wear a bra to sleeeppp?

uhh, probably not. but its your choice - up to you.
♥care

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kayy
i babysit a ToN!! i love it too!! its so much fun being around little kids.!! =)
anyway-i wanted to askk youu how to get paid without asking for money-cause i wanna get paid but i don't wanna sound like the only reason i babysat kids was for money.
how do i ask to get paid without sounding greedyy??
thx a BuNcH!

just don't ask the fiirst time - and see how much they give youu. :) than see how many hours you've babysat and figure it ouuut. than you can see whats reasonable for them.
♥ yahh JR//JP!! ♥ care bearrrrr

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