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my names alex, i'm 13, i know about anything from relationships to sports(x-specially soccer)...i love helping people out so leave some questions and ill do my best to answer them! if you dont like my advice- tell me and i have some other awesome ppl you can ask...muchh lovve...

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Hey everyone. Well over the summer I started wearing makeup everyday, but my mom said that once I go back to school she doesnt want me to be wearing makeup everyday. Does anyone have any ideas to make myself look prettier besides wearing makeup. And for the guys out there, if im 13/f and wore makeup everyday..what would be your opinions on that? Thanks! I'll rate!

um try more natural shades or less makeup- try just eyeliner and maybe a clear lipgloss...i sometimes dont even wear lipgloss- also chapstick give your lips a really smooth, feminine look...i just wear eyeliner and maybe a touch of eyeshadow(not a lot or very often though)

hold back on lip-stick, foundation, blush, glitter....


think natural- also try a tanish gold eyeshadow...it just brings out eyes...


muchh lovve ♥

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Hey
I was wondering..today i ran the mile in 8:47 minutes today. Do u think that is goos, bad or average? just wonderin because our coach didnt tell us. thanks! xoxo

omg now this is my speciaity!!!

a very well trained runner- someone who is focused on nothing but running would run around a 5.30 to a 6.00- but for shorter distances, for longer they might take it to 7.00 or 7.30...so i would say that that is a very good time- im assuming your training for another sport than track or x.c...but if you are going to run x.c i would suggest picking up the pase a little bit- u know just that little bit more energy!

my mom has been running for 34 years- she has run so many miles (i think around 40,000)- thats like twice around the earth...she coaches track and field, x.c, winter track, anything to do with running so if theres one thing i know- its running

if you need more advice comment me back and i can ask my mom more about it...


muchh lovve

ps- when im training for soccer i normally run around a 8.03...;)

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how do i delete songs & photo's from my ipod?

go on itunes and select the song and press the delete button- then say yes if its like- are you sure you want to delete this item...and i would imagine its the same for a pic...

muchh lovve

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so i've been tanning in a lay down bed for about 2 years now, and i always stop during the summer.. and now it is time to start up again. my sister and i were talking and she said i should go to a stand up bed. So my question is: what one is better, a lay down or stand up? i'll rate

well i would think they both produce the same priduct- but i think that the laying down would be more comfortable..

ask someone at the tanning salon which one they perfer- most likly they have tried both at least once...

muchh lovve

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Hey Everyone..k i have a really weird problem..i can not do a push up. any tips? maybe im not doing it correctly or something? ive tried but like just one pushup takes so much effort, and i can barely do one! please help! thanks!

your arms are porbably just not used to supporting any weight- go to the gym and do some weight training focus on triceps...or try just getting into the "plank" pushup position- holding it for 10 seconds then go as far down as you can w/o falling then come up and hold for 8 seconds...continue counting down in 2s...this should really help...also try getting a medicine ball and fake throwing it over your head( basicly put your elbos tucked in and let the ball hang back and then throw it- without straing any muscles tho- not too hard...oh and DONT LET GO OF THE BALL- that could seriously hurt someone...and be careful about picking it up- most people dont know how heavy it is and pull a muscle...start out with a 4 lb one and SLOWLY work your way up to an 8 lb one)

hope i helped

muchh lovve

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hey whats the best workout to tone your lower stomach? thanx xxx

crunches and sit-ups

go to the gym- they also have lots of machines that specialize in abs...they might seem hard but they work

muchh lovve

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i know this sounds weird but here it goes...
i got these new sneakers a few months ago and they squeak whenever i walk in them. actually its weird because they don't squeak when i play basketball in them (or maybe they do and i didn't notice). anyway, does anyone know a way to stop my sneakers from squeaking?

i rate high if it works

it might be bacause your sneaks are damp- like if your feet sweat in them(which i imagine they do because most people sweat when playing sports) try using foot powder or spray to stop your feet from sweating- and try not to get your sneaks wet either- like from stepping in a puddle or getting splashed...ect- once they're wet- it usually takes a while for them to stop squeaking...;)

muchh lovve

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Does anyone know how to get chapstick stains out because i accidently left my chapstick one of the pairs of pants and it got washed with it. PLEASE HELP! Thanks! I'll rate high if it's not stupid and is actually helpful.!

stain sticks and stain remover- just run it through the wash with some tide or bounty- it will come out- or u know those silly commertials for shout spot remover- it probably really works(haha...) but so yeah just try that- your mom probably knows how to get it out

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I was thinking about joining Drama Club this year and I was wondering if any of you liked it?? I'm kind of shy and I’m hoping this will help me to become more outgoing. In Drama Club you don't have to act at all right?? You can just do "behind the scene" stuff right?? Well tell me what you think about Drama Club. Thanks alot. I rate 5's!
~sarah

drama club and plays are sooo much fun- you meet lots of new people and you have a blast- but if you are nervous- just ask for a smaller part when you put on plays and stuff...be in the chorus or have a small talking role- just pretend like your by yourself- what i do is i just say to myself- you have to do this...and plus one you get out there and you start singing/dancing/acting- it just flows...trust me...and eventually you can work yourself up to STAR OF THE SHOW! also next summer do acting camps and stuff...:)

muchh lovve

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Does anyone know where I can find the lyrics to "I Wish It So" from the musical "Juno" for free? I can't find it ANYWHERE.

www.azlyrics.com
www.letssingit.com
www.lyrics.com

google it- but those sites should work


muchh lovve

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i have had thought of suicide in my mind about 6 times now. i have attempted it, but i dont think i have really tried hard enough to kill myself. do you think i would be concidered suicidal?

yes and you should consult a parent or doctor- not to get all dr phil on you- but there is NEVER ANY REASON you should have toughts or even actions about suicide- think about all the people you know- how devestated they would be if you killed yourself....someone in my schools mom commited suicide- it was terrible- the girl was in highschool- with a younger sister and a dad and their family was like everyother family- until one day...well you know...it ruined their family...it was horrible....

please consider this- you are very important in the world- trust me...just talk to someone about your problems...dont keep emotions bottled up...

muchh lovve...plz feel free to IM me if you need support or have any ?s

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ok im in high school and i was wondering what's more useful? 1-2 inch binders or folders?

thanks!

ps - and why one is better than the other

binders- cuz they have pockets for stuff- but it also has the handy 3 rings just in case- and pluss- you can find stuff a lot easier in binders- in folders you have to take all the papers out but in binders you can flip through your stuff like a book...hope i helped- but um if your planning to put like blank paper to write on(kinda like a copy book) you might want to go a lil bigger than 1-2 inches- you will have A LOT of papers- some high schoolers at my school have 4 and 5 inch binders...

hope i helped...

muchh lovve

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My mom makes me wear the dumbest clothes! It's so annoying. She's Chinese, and she grew up in a society you get one pair of pants a year. I'm 13, but the kind of clothes I have to wear are like for a ten-year-old! I hate it! Stuff like pink and white striped T shirts and rose-printed shorts and stuff she thinks that are "cute" and "what kids should wear." I H-A-T-E pastels!

Stuff like this:
http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=sc_pgc_r_6_0_13142261/601-1335553-9076132?%5Fencoding=UTF8&frombrowse=1&asin=B0007KQZ3Y

http://store.nordstrom.com/product/product_brandboutique.asp?styleid=2866100&boutique=roxy&category=2379292~2380331~2379796~2384475&NextStyleID=2866090&PrevStyleID=2866103
(COPY and PASTE)

Ive tried talking to her, but she never changes her mind. When I show her my kind of stuff, she wrinkles her nose.
On the other hand, I like stuff like Converse shoes, torn jeans, tyedye stuff like that. People never take me seriously! What should I do and where can I get some good jeans?

num 1-gap jeans are awesome

num 2- go shoping with your friends- then you can pick out clothes you like- or if you mom buys you something new dont wear it- then she'll ask why and you explain( once again...lol...)

also try talking to your dad so he can tlk to her... or you can be like- mom i like this shirt- and if she wrinkles her nose just be like- well i really really like it- it would be great for the dance or something- if she still says no just be like- mom- im not 10 anymore- i can pick my own clothes out..she might be a little hurt- but she will eventually see it your way...

im me for more advice- roxmyworld456

muchh lovve

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I don't really like talkin to my mom and or dad about boys or if have a boyfriend i get sord of embarressed that they will make a big deal out of it and i dont really want them too. Any tips on not to be embarressed or nervous???

well- not to rain on your parade- but no matter what its gonna be embarrassing- but once you break the ice- its smooth sailing(wow- too many metaphores...lol)..but my advice is to go for your mom 1st- dads are more prone to freak and moms are also girls(believe it or not) so they know a thing or two about what your going through...

Im me for more advice- roxmyworld456

muchh lovve

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All of a sudden last night my eyes started to sting and get wicked watery... Theyve been like that all day since last night... Ive tried eye drops and they dont work.. Its irritating me because my eyes rarely water and now i cant even wear my eyeliner because my eyes keep frigin watering.... I just wanted to know what this could mean if anything??...

u might be alergic to your eye makeup- try rinsing your eyes out with cold water- im assuming you dont wear contacts- cuz that would be a major factor...

ask your mom to contact a doctor if the watering persists


muchh lovve

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Even though I am currently dating my boyfriend, would it still be right for him to properly ask me to Home Comming? Or is it just an obligation and we both know it so there for he doesn't need to ask.

well- he technally dosnt HAVE to- but most people think its romantic to ask..if you want him to ask you- just be like- whats the deal for homecoming or ask one of your friends or 1 of his friends to just be like- " soo have you asked [ YOUR NAME HERE ] to homecoming yet?"


Im me for more info

muchh lovve

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help me plzz i cant stop crying. my face just keeps getting worst and worst. PImples are everywhere. i mean it! I try everything. i have very ovily skin. can someone please tell me what i need to do. dont tell me to buy something from clean and clear that shit doenst work. does ayone know any pills that help?? if so tell me what its called. please i cant even go outside
i hid all summer long becuase i feel so ugly!!

PROACTIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

it takes about 2 weeks for all the pimples to clear up- but if you do all the steps properly- then it will start working right away- and wash your face after you workout or any time you sweat- oh and a big tip- those pore strip things work on your nose- but they make all the rest of yur face break-out, dont ask- but its something like your skin is in shock and it messes up your skin...also- ask your mom to consult a dermatoligist....

muchh lovve- im me for more info

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I have long, thin, straight hair and it gets frizzy even if i step outside for 2 seconds. I use Frizeez hair serum, mousse, I blow dry it, and I straighten it. Yet it STILL gets frizzy SOO easily!! How do i prevent it from getting frizzy?? anymore tips?? thanks

try garnier fructis products- some shampoos and conditioners specialize in keeping hair no- frizzy..also it might be everything you do to your hair- if its naturally straight then you dont need to straighten it-sometimes hair gets fried from the iron and try letting your hair air dry- but ALWAYS BRUSH after getting out of the shower...when you get your hair cut- also ask your hair stylist- they always have good tips for hair...haha...they'll probably reccomend something....

hope i helped

roxmyworld456- im me for more advice

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Im starting High School in 10 days. Im excited/nervous but whatever. Does anybody know any school supplies that will be needed? Or could anybody recommend school supplies i should have? Except for pens,notebooks and a backpack because i already have those things?

um- index cards, highlighters, post-its, probably like a protractor or compas for math, a pencil case...probably a binder or 2- i see high schoolers with big binders all the time...your teachers will probably tell you if you need anything spesific for the class...and i think at staples they give you a list of reccomended school supplies...hope i helped....

muchh lovve

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School pictures are coming up, and I don't know what I should wear. Does anyone have any ideas?

um- some color options would be

dark hair and dark skin- blue or green or purple and brown looks awesome on any color hair- well not red really.....;)

light hair and light skin- pink or green

blondes- no yellow
brunettes- no baby pink

your best bet would be a polo and jeans or jeans and a cute vintage tee

hope i helped

muchh lovve

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