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Hey!
Im kalene im 15 years old And i D Love to answer any of your ?`sz ill do the best i can! Ive been threw alot in my life and i bet i could help you through alot..if you got`sz ne more ?`sz feel free to im me or email me or whatveer floats your boat!!
Love ya
--xO KalenE

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Well out of the blue, starting after winter vacation, my old best friend is coming back to my school. We were best friends growing up till third grade when she lefty for a Catholic school well now she's comign to my public school and she was nervous and called me up for the first time in 4 years. NOw that I am the only one she knows it means that sjhe gets to "shadow" me for her first week till she learnes where everything is. I kinda don't want her around anynmore though, she immature and I have outgrown her and made new friends. Yet i feel stuck becuase her mom called my mom and said how excited she was and stuff and i can't just bum her off on someone.... What can i DO?

Well you have to let her shadow you and who knows mabee she matured a lot more..all you have to do is deal wit her for a week then your own your own i bet she ll meet some new friends soo she wont always be by you but i mean be nice to her she mite not be that bad..i mean how would you feel if you were new and you didnt no anyone but one person? think about it like that
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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i have alot of friends and stuff, but iv just started to realize that they might not be as true as i thought. i love them but i hate them, they just seem not to care anymore. i also have people calling me a whore and a slut and stuff like that wenever i walk by because my "friends" tell them stuff thats not true. how do i avoid something like that..and how do i know if my friends are true?

Well obviously they are not tru friends I would talk to them about and ask them why they are calling you a slut and stuff liek that...nd start to hang out wit some new ppl..even if there kinda geeky they ll prob treat u soo much better!!
good luck to ya
(( xo-Kalene-ox))

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ok... there is this guy at school and I called him once and from then we started talking every night and he started to like me and I started to like him too.. so then he asked me out.. and I said no, because with the nights we were talking we talked about not going out with ne body until Highschool.. so then we just keep talking and he asks me out 2 more times after that and I said no to both.. so we were supposed to meet eachother and he ditched me.. the next day he told my friend that it was over between us.. I still like him.. What should I do????? PLEASE HELP???

I say you ask him out because if he asked you out 3 times he does like you still and he has to have feelings for you if u like him try it out wit him if it doesnt work out then it jus doesnt and mabee ask him why he siad that and if he is before you do ask him out..good luck
(( xO-Kalene-Ox ))

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i got invited to two things tonight. my boyfriend wants me to hang out with him and stuff. but a bunch of my friends want me to go to their party. half of the party my friends are going to don't like me and it's a sleepover. i want to stay at home tonight but there's no possible way i could get a ride home from a place 15 mins. away bc my parents will be wasted. but i want to go to both! what do i do! HELP!!

If you can take your bf to the party if not hang wit him ull have much more fun bc if have of the ppl dont like ur bound to not have fun...hope ya have a good new years
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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all my friends are either doing something with their family or are out of town! and i have nothing to do or anyone to do something with! =( i'm from minnesota and moved to texas about 3 years ago and each year for new years we have gone to celebrate new years with our family and friends in Minnesota. so this is my first new years in texas and i dont want to spend it alone. does anyone have any ideas of what i can do?

REnt alot of movies get some ben and jerry icecream and then watch the ball drop at 12 whiel ur on the phoen wit a guy or one of ur close friends hehe!! have fun
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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i always have dark bags underneath my eyes. they used to only be there if i havent had much sleep, but now you can always see them. does anyone know how to make these go away or know of any good makeup or something that would cover it up?

YOu should ge ton a better schedule bc one night if you get alot of sleep and the other you dont but hte rest you do ull stil lhave them so get on a schedule and get about 10 hours a sleep a nite..good luck
(( xO-Kalene-Ox ))

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this isnt a health question but i didnt know what else to put it under. I got my cartilige peirced back in September and its been 3months so i can change the earing. well the lady told me i couldnt wear hoops for a whole year. why is that? i got hoops for the cartilige for christmas and i really wanna wear them but i dont wanna mess up the peircing.

i think that you can i did...they dont no nething lol
good luck
(( xO-Kalene-Ox))

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hey i need your help i just saw the guy that i lost my virginity too and havent seen for 5 months. He started flirting with me again and told me he never meant the stupid shit he said in the past. He then told me that i could call him whenever i wanted and if he ever hurt me again he would let me kick him where it counts. Then he said he loved me dont call me stupid or anything but i really love this guy. do you think he was just telling me that to get down my pants or somthing please help me i really am confused and it actually hurts realyl bad!

JUs try to be friends and see where it goes...if he still feels the same way then mabee go out again..if you still feel the same as him
good luck to ya
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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Since its winter time my face is getting very dry , does anyone know any good daily face moisturizers. Thanks

Um if you have like a bath and body works around you they have rele god dry skin face lotion if not they even have it at the grocery store looka the labels..they all work pretty well!!
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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ok i know this might be weird but what does 1st base 2nd base and 3rd base mean?? not like in baseball!! **PLEASE DO NOT DELETE THIS!*

1st base-makeout
2nd base-Getting feeled up
3rd base-hjs or bjs or fingering
thats what it is at mi school at least..
(( xO-Kalene-Ox ))

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my crush knows i like him and stuff but he always is behind in his studies and stuff! lately he's been running to me for help! is this a good thing and if so how? and if not how?

signed,
Lost-n-Love

you no babe if he hasnt asked you yet hes jus not into you..i no it stinks to hear this but if he likes you he ll ask you out..but help him out wit his studies and mabee he ll start to like you and ask you out.
GoOD lUck to Ya
(( xO-Kalene-Ox ))

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i sometimes feel uncomfortable singing infront of people! how do i over come this fear?!

signed,
Afraid2Sing

Dear Afraid2Sing,
I always you to have this fear i have a rele good voice not to be liek bragging lol nd i was never able to sing in front of ppl but recently i had a play and they jus gave the parts out bc everyone had to try out an di got a part and i was rele afraid but the whole time at the play i did a great job bc i didnt look at anyone i looked at the exit sign at the back of the theatre..so jus stair at something other then the ppl...it works im tellin ya good luck to ya
(( xO-Kalene-Ox ))

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whenever i flirt with other guys my friend Mark seems to be bothered! he looks really sad! what's wrong with him?!

when u flrt wit another guy and u see him sad walk and way nd say is something matter and see what he says good luck to ya!
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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Ok, this isn't exactly a friendship question, but i didn't know what else to put it under.
I'm going to turn 14 in about a month, and I'm in the 8th grade. This year my parents are letting me have a party, and I need some good party ideas for my age. Skating is out of the question because i had one for my 13th birthday party.
Any suggestions?

Well if your allowed too have it at your house for my 13th birhtday i had like a hawian them and mi mom all made us unacholic pina coladas and straberry dackarees and i made these cupcakes that had flowers on um for liek mi birthday cake and ii had all these signs and cool stuff everywhere it was a blast but if u cant..umm roller skating is lots of fun ummu can like rent out like a hotel or something not rele a hotel but there lil dance area its not that expensive and ii dunno how ur friends are but all mi friends like too dance and have lots of fun so have liek a dance kind thing and they have food and dj its aweesome
good luck to ya
(( xO-Kalene-Ox ))

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Im on JV bball..and our coach flipped out on us a couple days ago. I dont mean just yelling..but he started hitting the bleachers behind him...quite scary. He thretened to quit.Hes frustrated because we arent doing things right..we are an ok team but we arent good.
I like him as a coach..he just has his little incidents. Is there anything i can do to make him not quit?

Talk to all your teamates and tell them that we shoudl all step it up next practice and show him that you can do it and i bet he ll stay...
good luck to ya
(( xO-Kalene-Ox ))

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is there anyway to loose weight reallly fast and still see improvement?

There are these tapes you can do and do them all week and i did them and i lost 7 pounds in a week...not that im fat but lol.i jus like too work out it makes you feel rele good about your self!!
Good luck to ya
(( xO-Kalene-Ox))

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i have liked this guy for three years now....he knows i like him..and i want 2 go out with him....really bad! hes also who i got my first kiss from..which made it even worse for me to try and let him go...n hes never answered my question whenever i ask him..will we ever go out..ever...or my question do you like me more than a friend?? what does that mean...he hates me...just wants to be friends????what?? please help me!!

I'll rate u a five if u ask me a question and rate me fairly...

I think he just wants to be friends...I know that sucks but i mean its liek hes ignoring you i say that you go try to get out there find another guy and if he likes you he ll come running to you...
good luck babe
(( xO-Kalene-Ox ))

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okay, my friend, my good good friend is inlove with this kid,he's known her for a long time,and he only likes my friend as a friend.And she wants it to be a relashion ship, not a friend ship. How do i help her get him as her boyfriend instede of friends?

well its kind of hard to get a guy to like a girl when they just dont..its really nice of you to try to help your friend but you know the more that you try to get him to like her the more hes gunna like her less tell her to leave him alone for awile still talk too him and be friends but dont show him tht she hs feelings for him and mabee try too get to know some other guys not to waste her time on a guy that mite not ever feel the same...
good luck to ya babe your a good friend.
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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2 of my friends are starten 2 act like whores it dont exactly turn me on and they think it does becouse they are always wherein whorey clothes and acten like they are prosttutes around me and my friends how do i tell them that the whorely style doesnt turn me and my friends on

Say if your trying to dress like that to turn us on or get attention well your gettin attention but not the kind that you want..be your self dont try to be someone that your not...
good luck
(( xO-Kalene-Ox))

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okay im sorta new at this and i really need help so anyone that can i need to know how farr is too far on a first date?

first date..depends on how the guy is if he trys too kiss you kiss him back but onlee if you feel the same way done go farther then that on ethe first date if he trys to wit u then he jus wants to get in ur pants!
best luck to ya
(( xO-Kalene-Ox))

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